...because women see them as children. They feel obligated to tell Beta men what to do because they watch their behaviour in a social setting and see they aren't behaving like they imagine a dream man would behave. So if a man does something stupid by not observing their social surroundings (ie spilling red wine all over my dress by waving arms around ignorantly and boorishly while talking). As a consequence, because I've invested so much time into my NYE outfit, picking out the sexiest clothes for appeal to the broader audience, and having said outfit ruined, I immediately assumed a mother role and both chastise him and feel pissed off that "this stupid man" ruined her night. There's a difference between grown ass men and stupid little boys! But if he was Alpha, he would have immediately taken care of me by rushing me to bathroom and cleaning me off, and then a little drunken make-out sex...do you know what I mean??? frustrated female