Breaking up really is hard to do

LS_D · 2014-09-05T05:52:49+00:00

After internalizing all the information in this subreddit of knowledge, breaking up with a woman is by far the easiest thing I've ever done. Emotional bonds are a one way street from now on.

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LS_D · 2014-09-05T02:54:24+00:00

After getting a pm from a frustrated 'Two XXer' about 'these stupid studies' re: male and female 'attraction' and related behaviors, "which are complete bullshit" ,, . . .

I accidentally stumbled upon this, and just had to share it with my RP bros! (and any 'froes' who might be interested)

haha, suck on this sweetpeas!

Breaking up really is hard to do, and a recent study conducted at Stony Brook University found evidence that it may be partly due to the areas of the brain that are active during this difficult time.

The team of researchers, which included Arthur Aron, Ph.D., professor of social and health psychology in the Department of Psychology at Stony Brook University, and former graduate students Greg Strong and Debra Mashek looked at subjects who had a recent break-up and found that the pain and anguish they were experiencing may be linked to activation of parts of the brain associated with motivation, reward and addiction cravings. The study was published in the July issue of the Journal of Neurophysiology.

"This brain imaging study of individuals who were still 'in love' with their rejecter supplies further evidence that the passion of 'romantic love' is a goal-oriented motivation state, rather than a specific emotion" the researchers concluded, noting that brain imaging showed some similarities between romantic rejection and cocaine craving.

"The findings are consistent with the hypothesis that romantic love is a specific form of addiction."

The study also helps to explain "why feelings and behaviors related to romantic rejection are difficult to control" and "why extreme behaviors associated with romantic rejection such as stalking, homicide, suicide, and clinical depression occur in cultures all over the world", the researchers wrote.

"Romantic rejection is a major cause of suicides and depression. We have known very little about it. Understanding the neural systems involved is extremely important both for advancing our basic knowledge of intense romantic love in general and of response to rejection in particular," said Dr. Aron.

"The specific findings are significant because they tell us that the basic patterns seen in previous studies of happy love share key elements with love under these circumstances; they also tell us that what is unique to romantic rejection includes elements that are very much like craving for cocaine."

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/07/100722142201.htm

Title	Breaking up really is hard to do
Author	LS_D
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	September 5, 2014 2:53 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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