Hey guys,
I just quickly wanted to share a good solution to a common shit test/fake drama as I've dealt with this test or slight variations tons of times, I'm pretty sure that almost everyone of you has already been there as well.
So I've made the experience that a good prediction on when to expect drama is ironically after you have been too nice to a girl or if you've recently spent a good time together. "If a woman senses she’s gaining ground with you, she will try to anchor her gains by eliciting an emotional reaction from you. She will test your boundaries by starting drama. She doesn’t need a direct reason, if she doesn’t find a specific trigger, she will CREATE one. With the drama she will start making demands, e.g. to see her more often, to spend more time with her, to be monogamous." (Source: http://swooptheworld.com/10-observations-from-banging-100-girls/)
In my case one girl bitched about always being the one to initiate conversations ("if I don't text you, you never text me"). This was of course absolute bullshit, I didn't even have to scroll back more than two days in our chat in order to find me initiating a convo. I then asked her if she was sure about this and that if I found more than two cases in the last week of me initiating a conversation, she'd have to invite me to dinner. This immediately caused her to change her statement into "in the majority of cases it's me texting you first" (notice how a never suddenly becomes a sometimes). As she was already giving in, I considered it done and went on to tease her a bit about her attitude expecting the ratio of conversations initiated from her respectively from me to be exactly 50:50, followed by a little pressure flip stating how unfair it was that I "in the majority of cases" was the one to kiss her and not the other way around. She laughed it off and I changed the subject. Think I handled that one quite well and I hope to have contributed something that's of use to someone on here.
TL;DR. After having spent a delightful evening with a maid, she came at me the next day complaining I never wrote her and how she was always the one initiating conversations. I then asked her if she was sure about this and that if I found more than two cases in the last week of me initiating a conversation, she'd have to invite me to dinner. That pretty much solved the situation.
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