Combining kindness and being genuine with being more dominant?

Opioidus · 2013-10-30T05:51:22+00:00

I agree with RecyclableAnus, it's not possible to stick to your beta ways and still be a good player. But, after studying game theory in the last couple of months, I've came to the realization that there exists four different types of Game that you could choose freely between whichever suits your personality best, or if you're a psychopathic actor you could learn all of them and just shift from one type to another whenever it's necessary to ensure maximum success. They are:

Asshole Game: How to be the jerk women love. This is Roissy's approach. Medium to high difficulty if you're a typical nice guy at the beginning, but after some practice it will become second nature to you. It's like a flower opening to sun for the first time, you find yourself saying things to the girls you've met only a couple of minutes ago that you never thought were possible to share even with your best friend on a drinking night.

Aloof Game: Amused Mastery. Be the godfather figure who's impossible to figure out, the puzzle, the man with the big secret. Way harder to pull than Asshole Game if you're a full on babbling beta that is used to ''dazzle'' women with his knowledge of meaningless things. If you can't shut up, don't go near this one.

Charming Game: The smooth talker, the master seducer, the hopeless flirt and the modern day Casanova. Think in lines of direct approach, sexy voice, fun to be around, very loud and intimidating to other men and ''always'' in the playing mode. You don't need to be an asshole, you don't need to play it cool, you just walk in the bar and the atmosphere changes with you. Every movement and gesture is programmed for you to be the center of female attention. I think this is the type that PUAs call ''Natural Game''.

Tactical Game: When you just go into player mode, do a couple of very easy tricks to maximize your chances and don't change anything in your internal Game. Great way to start playing, not so good if you get too comfortable. Most of mainstream PUA literature falls into this category, best of which is Roosh and his no bullshit attitude towards game. You can triple your chances with women by adopting some very simple methods and easily applicable tactics without any changes to your life or personality.

These are mechanical tricks you employ without any theoretical background or understanding, and whenever they become conflicting with your beta nature you just choose to use the tactic instead of what your gut tells you to do. This is by far the easiest type of game and where we should all start, too much theory is not good, and too much complicated concepts will create a web of knowledge that is not easily applicable. But unfortunately most players never get past this point because they land some hot babe beyond their wildest beta dreams and they invest everything they have on her, eventually they lose both the girl and their trust in game. So this is just good enough to give you faith in both game and yourself, you need to grow out of it after a couple of +7s.

So here you go, these are four different and major approaches to Game, if you don't want to be an asshole and still be accepted by both men and women, work on your charm(storytelling, wit, jokes, flirting abilities, public speaking, manipulation and so on), if you're a charmless, witless bum and have always been an outsider, put a cocky smile and a cockier attitude on top of that antisocial personality and you got yourself an amused master women will die trying to please, if you find yourself feeling alive when you shit all over some pretty little thing and get harder with each tease and neg, well, you're going in with style son, real soon you'll be the funny jerk everyone is talking about. But if don't have any of these things, or you don't know which one is really good for you, start with some easy, fool proof tactics, learn how to pass shit tests, learn to understand and use negs, kino and how to open-escalate-close and so on, soon you'll be aching to outgrow and expand.

ImpKirk · 2013-10-30T13:06:07+00:00

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2013-10-30T03:42:58+00:00

See the side bar under amused mastery.

ImpKirk · 2013-10-30T03:48:28+00:00

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thebigspooner · 2013-10-30T04:12:37+00:00

Tell people to do things. Say no.

Make up a few rules and make sure nobody breaks them. (This is fun to do short term with girls, make up a bullshit game and have fun with it)

vengefully_yours · 2013-10-30T16:15:21+00:00

You dont have to be a selfish dick, but some women like you to act like one. Its not hard to put yourself first and still help others, be the generous guy, and treat people right. Its part of how you win friends and influence people.

Being in a position where people come to you for assistance is dominant, you have the resources they need because you have earned or acquired them somehow. You have abundance in your life, and are willing to share it rather than hoarding it, ok fine.

The thing you need to be aware of is people need to repay you in some way. My best friends get this, and we dont keep score of what we borrow or use from the other, we just ask if they have it, and if they do we share it. Mostly in my group its car parts and time. There needs to be some quid pro quo going on, otherwise you are being used.

Women get you to provide for them and mostly only have sex to offer as repayment. They manipulate you into thinking sex has value beyond what it actually has, and thus you will pay for them, and keep them happy, then they start to feel entitled to what you have while doing nothing to earn it.

Be generous and helpful when you have abundance, but also make sure there is something coming back. If nothing is coming back, then cut ties with that person and give them nothing further, still be cordial, but give them nothing, not even time.

You wont get far completely on your own, you need others with some of the heavy lifting in life. You can use them as subjugates, or you can utilize them as friends and repay them in the future.

Women have a hard time with this because they are very live in the moment creatures, if you didnt want anything right this second, or maybe tomorrow, they feel its paid in full. Men who act like that are not allowed into the group, they have to work together to build, and someone not pulling their weight will get ousted.

You dont have to be a dick to everyone and only think of yourself, but put nobody before you, because you are the most important person in your life. You help others because you can, not because you have to. They come to you with the hand asking, and you make sure they bring something back later.

JohnPeel · 2013-10-31T00:02:04+00:00

It's quite simple, just be selfish, but not cruel. Generally if you're doing something at the expense of yourself to get laid, you're doing it wrong.

MRAfront · 2013-10-30T16:06:16+00:00

Bdsm community can help you with that, the masters are very good at keeping a good balance of dominant Power and caring, search for "after care", also is every woman dream to have a dominant powerful but caring qualities in the same man.

Title	Combining kindness and being genuine with being more dominant?
Author	ImpKirk
Upvotes	26
Comments	18
Date	October 30, 2013 1:56 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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