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Command a Room Like a Man

scottishredpill
November 10, 2013
44 upvotes
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Title Command a Room Like a Man
Author

scottishredpill
Upvotes 44
Comments 11
Date November 10, 2013 4:49 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1qbaa6/command_a_room_like_a_man/
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Comments

[–]HanSwoleOh7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is solid advice. Good find.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Saved for later, thanks.

[–]SystemHalifax2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Expanding on the talking clearly point, does anyone know a good way to get rid of the habit of saying "umm" "like" etc?

[–]TRP Vanguardscottishredpill[S] 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Pause, learn to bite your tongue. I like to glance around the room.

[–]Kombaiya4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I found especially with the word "ummmm..." is not actually because I am thinking of what to say, it's because I'm talking too much and I'm simply saying ummm because I want to think of something else to say without them interrupting me.

ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

I found that if I just allow the conversation to go any which way, I eliminate saying umm and they enjoy the conversation more. Plus it puts me more out of my comfort zone and I have to think on my feet, makes it much more stimulating.

[–]lazypengu1n1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Slow yourself down when you speak. Helped me a lot.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The "toss a marble in a metal bucket" trick works if you're practicing for a presentation with a friend. Basically, have someone make an annoying sound every time you use one of those empty filler words.

[–]Kombaiya0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Great article.

[–]Senior Contributor: "The Court Jester"GayLubeOil-1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

A simple guide to commanding a room.

[–]nillotampoco0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Dead link there Mr. LubeOil.

[–]gg_s0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Worked for me. Imgur mirror.

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