There’s are plenty of reasons as to why men of all backgrounds have found their way to this subreddit. The reason typically comes from trying to improve one or many aspects of our lives whether it’s improving access to resources, respect, women, or all of the above. The red pill is often if not always swallowed with an onslaught of bitterness at ourselves, others who are doing better, or women themselves. The strength comes from getting past that bitterness and moving towards application of methods to self improvement.

The comparison comes when you dive more into each sub. Here we have an abundance of men who have a bad taste in their mouth left from their experiences with the opposite sex. That bitterness has turned into caution which makes us refrain from pulling punches when speaking brutal truths about the nature of women. in that sense, FemaleDatingStrategy is no different. Go on that sub and you’ll be greeted with posts that outline a multitude of ways that suggest that women must exercise extreme caution around men. There’s anger. There’s bitterness. But most of all, a community that’s doing what they feel is best given their personal experiences with the opposite sex.

Now this post isn’t meant to tell you that I agree with what they say about us or disagree. It’s meant to outline my thoughts on every group having their space to discuss harsh perceived truths with like minded people. I’m glad they have their sub and I’m glad we have ours. This post is meant to outline the fact that on the surface, that subreddit has a lot of the same issues ours does, and yet we’re the only ones quarantined. It’s a shame that reddit as a whole has a problem not with harsh truths and mean words, but a problem if those words are aimed against women. It’s a major indicator to where the power is socially. Because as the saying goes “to find out who rules over you, simply find out who you are not allowed to criticize.” -Voltaire