I think a discussion around compassion would help some of the natural rage that springs up in some people when they are at the point of considering a viewpoint of life so radically different than mainstream.

Some people feel rage because they tried alternate methods and feel foolish they were deceived.

Some people feel rage at women who have likewise been deceived.

Either way the rage a person holds burns themselves more than others.

It can be useful for initial motivation, but if you must use it, let it go after you finish.

It is like a boat after you cross the river. Why would you drag it with you if you have no intention of going back?