I used to have no self esteem and was always envious of those naturally confident alpha males. When I tried to find a way to emulate them, people always gave me the "Fake it until you make it" advice about confidence. Fuck you. I wasn't confident because of years of insecurities and feelings of inadequacy weighing me down.

This is no longer me. I work out every day sometimes more than once, I'm a dean's list student, I draw, and I do countless other things that I never used to do. This is the true secret to confidence. You can't just flip a switch and suddenly you are gonna be an alpha male ladies man. Put in the work and build your fucking confidence. If you are fat and have almost no value to women, you shouldn't be fucking confident. Go out and work pussy. I wish someone had told me that years ago when I was blaming the world for my social anxiety.