Hi, new to the red pill, but I am of alpha descent if you will.

A girl i've been sleeping with and more importably been really close friends with, has shown me some semi red flags recently.

I haven't been able to fuck her too much lately cos i restarted smoking again about a year ago. I since then quit, and am able to go back to work.

I am a bit concerned about some of these red flags, and want to confront her again, this time sober. I always found it to be a good time to do these things. Pre smoke i was alpha, and dropped down to some low level beta since then.

What are your thoughts?