Confused, angry and depressed

DaddyMonster · 2013-07-16T19:32:42+00:00

It gets better. Your feelings are normal.

Because I had no role models in life

Then choose someone who isn't part of your life. Some fictional character, some famous manly man or whatever. Use that as a crutch until you get your bearings again. Then become your own role model. I'm serious.

I've got... Roughly half a role model in my life. Well, no. He's more of an inspiration than a role model. The man is blue pill, but he is alpha and he has made something of himself. He knows stuff and has competencies in combinations that are exceedingly rare and he gets heaps of respect, and doesn't ever have to worry about money from the looks of it.

...I cannot decide what is right or what is wrong.

Then allow yourself to be selfish. Do what you believe is best for yourself when you figure it out. Make your own principles.

There is no path that you must take. Choose to do what benefits you. Don't feel bad about stepping on toes. Learn to say no. Learn to ask for, nay, demand something in return. Learn to walk away from toxic people.

Also, allow yourself to grieve for lost time and opportunities. It's important. It'll suck ass for some time, but you'll get over it eventually. One day, you'll find that the past doesn't hurt as much as it used to.

In time, you'll develop a sense of freedom, and space. You'll probably surprice yourself with the things you do on pure instinct, like walking down the street and looking pretty women straight in their eyes without as much as a twinge of nervousness. You'll catch yourself after the act, smile to yourself and think "I'm the fucking Boss!".

You'll find yourself unafraid of repurcussions from speaking your mind and doing what you want. And you'll find that the vast majority of people you interact with will accept that, because you've developed this aura of confidence that makes weaker individuals supplicate to you. They'll crave your attention.

This is my experience. The stuff people tell me... I wouldn't have believed I'd ever hear things like the following just a few years ago:

"You're so confident/dominant/cool/exciting/mysterious"
"You're the bravest person I know"
"How can you know so much about everything?"
"DaddyMonster? Is that you? Oh my god, I barely recognized you! You're looking sooo good!"

It. Gets. Better.

NohjEdo · 2013-07-16T18:55:28+00:00

I'm guessing you are 19-23 and at the beginning of your journey in life. Correct me if I'm wrong. Just know that you need time to fully absorb all of the information you've consumed recently.

My advice is for you to take a walk with a little music or just your thoughts just so you can think about what you care about in life. What you value as far as money, love and the future. How you define happiness etc.

I understand that you are aware of the red pill but knowing about it and swallowing it are just the first steps. The red pill is about bettering yourself as a man. Do you want to better your social skills? Then start researching how to work on conversation starters. Do you want to be healthier? Then decide what foods you like that are healthy and start healthy eating habit. Do you want to earn more money, then use existing skills or passions to make money from or find a job. Being a better man is a continual process that starts over every single day. Knowing that start taking little steps daily to make yourself incrementally better over days, months and years.

2013-07-16T19:26:44+00:00

Start lifting today.

sickbanana · 2013-07-16T18:47:21+00:00

I'm going to show you a quote which I have always followed: "You are an educated man when you have the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or self-confidence"

Educate yourself and you will never have to worry about losing your temper, or your self-confidence. These two things will help you think reasonably about the direction you need and want to take in your life. It is when you find this moment that you will be happy with yourself and your life.

favours_of_the_moon · 2013-07-16T20:34:45+00:00

You've processed the information intellectually.

Now you need to process it emotionally.

This is why taking that first step isn't easy. If it was, everybody would do it. In the end, it's worth it, by far.

int3rnetz · 2013-07-17T01:55:11+00:00

Read the power of now. That shit will change your whole perception of the world.

Also, No More Mr.Nice guy followed by Never eat alone. Power of now might be a bit too advanced so start with Mr. Nice guy.

Title	Confused, angry and depressed
Author	sickbanana
Upvotes	1
Comments	24
Date	July 16, 2013 6:16 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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