http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/wonkblog/wp/2014/03/24/what-women-want-on-the-dance-floor-according-to-science/?tid=pm_pop

As a midlife gentleman, the only way a cute little hottie is going to care about me nowadays is if I flat out pay her, through marriage or honest prostitution. But there was a time when my friends and I would jump through just about any hoops of fashion, behavior, and yes, even dance if that's what it took.

tl;dr Be the first avatar, not the second avatar, loser. O.o