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Dating: A Western Reality

MelbUniBlog
January 27, 2013
14 upvotes
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Title Dating: A Western Reality
Author

MelbUniBlog
Upvotes 14
Comments 9
Date January 27, 2013 11:38 PM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/17e863/dating_a_western_reality/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/dating-a-western-reality.235349
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[–]MelbUniBlog[S] 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Great article I wrote about how it all really is in the western world for women. Dumb deluded sluts won't ever admit to this, neither will feminists but it's quite accurate in my opinion.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Very well written piece, I enjoyed the style ~

You really hit on something that a lot of people miss I think:

She continues to go back to the guys that use her, abuse her then reduce her to shreds. This in-turn converts her from a vulnerable, genuine, feminine young woman to an aloof, self-entitled and bitchy spinster – something no man could ever take seriously. Each pump and dump further masculinises her personality and continues to destroy her femininity.

Thinking back, all of the best girls I ever dated were extremely feminine, and pump and dump is exactly what happens to the bitchy girls I've dated. They have literally 0 chance of ever being taken seriously by me. It's kind of ironic that female "game" is a part of what causes their market value to plummet so drastically.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

It's odd that they haven't realised their game is sick and not working and changed it.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Aye, in their defense, they get fed this behavior their entire lives through the media. Maybe no one has pointed out the incredible fallacy in their logic yet (in a clear, to the point, and easy to understand manner). I've read 100 articles on how to deal with bitch shields in a pickup environment, but not one on why women should abandon that attitude altogether.

[–]MelbUniBlog[S] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I guess if you travel to some different parts of the world, the more traditionalist countries, women aren't like that. They reciprocate it when you are nice to them and show affection, in the western world women end up seeing that as "needy" and you as "desperate" and will probably mock you over that, their attitudes are terrible, where as some girls I've met in other parts of the world would see that affection and respond to it positively.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, my experiences in east Asia were quite positive with respect to women.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I notice this type of woman in Japan, quite abundant here. There are also women that give "nice guys" a chance here, there sure as fuck are plenty of bitches though.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wouldn't that be their version of men's nice guy lie? We're all being deceived and can't really blame these chicks. But we sure as hell can exploit the situation. Knowledge will always be power.

[–]WorkThrow990 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I feel there's way too much anger in that text. I mean, not that it really changes anything on how everything has to be applied to get the results we want, but, these women go thinking like that because they've been feed the Hollywood lie like we did with the whole beta crap. I still don't want someone who's ridden the cock carousel, because I don't like the attitude they develop with them, but, there's no sense at being angry at them like that. I think it's possible to show compassion to them, while just ignoring them for women who are actually desirable. Why all the hate? Don't hate them because they've been following the script they've been handed, hate the script.
Don't hate the players, hate the game.

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