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Dealing with "I don't hook up anymore."

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April 21, 2014
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Title Dealing with "I don't hook up anymore."
Author

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Upvotes 5
Comments 26
Date April 21, 2014 8:11 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/23m95t/dealing_with_i_dont_hook_up_anymore/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/dealing-with-i-dont-hook-up-anymore.14398
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[–]HighAngleAlpha03318 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I would totally ignore that shit. Watch what she DOES not what she SAYS! Go hang out and try to fuck her. If she declines, then freeze her out.

[–]1FrogTrainer-5 points-4 points-3 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

No, don't try.

Abundance mentality. Act like you are completely satisfied in the hookup dept.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This is part of the game. Its not that she doesnt hook up, its just she doesnt hook with someone who would get deflected by a simple bullshit line like that.

[–]1FrogTrainer0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Which is exactly why you shouldn't try.

Don't give her the satisfaction of brushing you off. You are not needy. Abundance mentality.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sure, youre right. But if you want something, its dumb to give up before you even try. If the end result will be the same, why not try?

[–]purecyse4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Saying how old she is would be helpful, as well. Someone that's been "hooking up" for years, suddenly stops and still hits up guys that she used to hook up with is probably trying to bait you into something more.

[–]thefamiliarsound1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I believe she is 22. We actually stopped talking after the 3rd time we fucked because i wouldn't text her unless I wanted her to come over for sex. After we ran into each other after months of not talking, I texted her twice and she didn't reply.

[–]trpfieldreport0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She still fucks.

I would totally ignore that shit. Watch what she DOES not what she SAYS! Go hang out and try to fuck her. If she declines, then freeze her out.

[–]1KyfhoMyoba0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You just 'told' her that you don't value anything about her except for sex. How would you feel if a woman told (demonstrated to) you that she didn't value you for anything but your wallet?

[–]TRP VanguardJP_Whoregan0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Western women do that shit all the time.

"Aren't you gonna buy me a drink?" It's like damn, bitch, you don't even know my name yet and the first thing you wanna see me do is pull out my Chase card.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'd be like shit me neither and then grab drinks with her and treat her strictly platonic. Maybe invite a buddy along without telling her.

Treat her like one of the guys and she'll be begging for the dick in no time.

[–]Dreamtrain1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Does she have hot friends?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol she just did 3 times with you, total shit test. Start spinning

[–]TRP VanguardJP_Whoregan1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"I don't hook up anymore." = "I've hit the wall and alpha guys don't pay attention to or fuck me anymore, and I'm not gonna fuck you until you earn it like a good little beta provider."

[–]slcjosh1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Shit test. Meet for drinks, run your game well, and you will be knuckle deep by midnight.

[–]enticingasthatmaybe3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You: "K, take care"

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Your response should've been, "Nice to know you still think of me like that. But I'm not interested in you that way anymore."

Cut her out, and then when you hang out, flirt with other girls. Make it so utterly evident, that she has to break her "rule."

After that, kick her out in the morning because she lied to you.

[–]thefamiliarsound1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

That's close to what I said to her. I've noticed some girls will say these things or act like sex is out of the question before you meet up, because the don't want to feel like a slut who's just meeting up for sex. Usually when a girl says the line "you're not getting laid tonight", there is a 95% chance you're getting laid. She is already thinking about it.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I'm fucking sick of women and their bullshit. You need to be someone who calls them out on that shit.

I think for the most part, the reason why I didn't call women out on their shit was because, when they would argue back with me, I wouldn't have been able to defend myself.

I don't know why, but my frame was really weak.

Guess that shit happens when you get bullied.

[–]cascadecombo1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

yes please, call them out so they'll run to and sleep with someone else.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm not saying make them feel bad or humiliate them. Just that if you see bullshit, confront it, and then not let her get her way.

Perhaps its my fault you misinterpreted my words, forgive me. But a lack of cynicism on your part will do us all some good.

[–]cascadecombo0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's quite true. Hard not to be cynical with the quality of posts in here reflecting the common denominator tho.

Thanks for clarifying tho.

[–]cascadecombo0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Basically, she replied, when she messaged you she either thought you wanted or had sex on the mind, so either way she's thinking about that. And it's probably a good girl friend. If you don't mind chancing it it'd be a few hours wasted at worse. That is if you even feel it's with the time for that.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

BASICALLY, act like a sociopath. It's what seems to work on these bitches.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When a girl says "I don't hook up anymore" what she is really saying is "I don't hook up with YOU anymore"

[–]FreetoFire-2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How old is she? Maybe she's pegged you as her beta provider/. She doesn't hook up anymore because she rode the carousel too hard, fell off and broke through the WALL

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