I’ve been with a girl for about 4 years but still spin plates. I was her “first.” After a bad experience living with her, we broke up. A month after,she starts seeing this new guy. They’re smashing. Going on hikes. Ect. Not technically dating though. I get jealous even though I was smashing 3 girls at the time. I missed her(blue pill IK.)

Anyways, I got to her house while he’s there(I didn’t know he was) to give her some money I owe her. I hug her and say I’m sorry about everything. She starts crying and cursing and yelling and acting frantic. I go home and we start texting. Long story short, I got her back. I got her over the next day and we smashed.

Now, in relationships, I will always make the girl give me her phone pass and stuff. If they don’t, I’m out. Anyways, I made her block him on all social media, his number, ect.

6 months later I see he’s following her on Instagram. So he wasn’t blocked, just unfollowed.

I. FLIP.OUT

She texting me multiple times asking what’s wrong I tell her. We’re going back and forth.

I need help. I call up a former FWB and I pick her up. GF calls me and I let former FWB pick up. My FWB has my back. “How dare you have not blocked him. That’s f*cked up to do.”

My former FWB then goes “I sucked his (ME) D once and I’ll do it again!!”

Gf bursts into tears.

I tell her something like this: “you have no idea who you’re f*cking with. I will smash this girl rn and leave your useless self. Try me. I dare you”

She keeps crying and pleading insisting she just forgot about insta and that he was blocked everywhere else.

I drop FWB off. GF comes to my house. I let her have it. We make up. I have full access to her phone whenever I want. And things have been okay since then. Im still spinning plates but like to have a stable GF also.

Did I play this right? Too harsh?

Also: he was following her, she was not following him, just to clearify