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MetaVigilantRedRooster/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 04:00 PM
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VigilantRedRooster/r/askTRP20/04/19 05:19 AM
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FIELD REPORTVigilantRedRooster/r/RedPillWomen24/06/16 09:10 PM
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ScienceVigilantRedRooster/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 12:20 AM
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VigilantRedRooster/r/askTRP15/04/17 06:15 PM
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If you have to preface a post like this, you're probably correct. This does not make a coherent point, or any sense tbh.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/21 09:35 PM
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male tourists from all corners of the reddit redpillosohere Disrespectful comments are not allowed according to the rules of this sub and would probably get deleted by the moderators. There's no probably, mods will have our members' backs when it comes to male posters not respecting RPW posting guidelines. If you see a problem post, report it to send a bat signal to the mods, and don't engage. A lot of them are just basic internet trolls, not regular TRP posters. They get banned and go away, som…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/21 05:41 AM
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Don't pet the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 05:31 PM
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Send a message to Modmail if you wish to discuss.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 07:03 PM
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This is four times too long and full of non-RP cringe. Removed.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 09:20 PM
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Problematic because this isn't great Red Pill advice and linking to your unvetted blog without consulting the mods isn't allowed. One shouldn't watch thousands of videos then go approach. Learning and growth happens by going out and approaching, failing, and improving through many iterations.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/20 06:15 PM
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You'll need to hire a lawyer with relevant expertise. Feel free to make a top post about the results of the resulting discussion. This question as asked won't yield relevant discussion on our sub so it's been removed.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/20 05:13 PM
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The "new" Reddit upgrade made the sidebar and wiki harder to find. New users should look for the wiki (varies by app/OS) and read through the articles curated for newer RPW members. Here's the first in a 3-part series on Vetting a man.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/20 01:12 AM
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Unlike the previous post, this is a better fit for AskTRP. Also, don't let it sound like a request for financial help, rule 7.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 04:05 PM
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This belongs in AskTRP. Repost there with a little more information about what happens when you are rejected by the women you'd prefer.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/20 07:54 PM
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It had its day in the sun, be glad for that. Try to tie in actionable info for readers. Pure theory posts are an obvious exception, but this is more of a rant than laying out theory.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 06:41 AM
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This post blows its wad with the title and is otherwise a rant stocked from the "Kids these days/Get off my lawn" aisle of the rant general store. No useful or actionable information for our readers to tie it all together.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 06:24 AM
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Another garbage top post like this and we'll consider a ban.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 07:13 PM
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So to be clear, you made an "I don't have advice but listen to this criticism." reply to somebody and are blaming transphobia for the mods banning you in response. There is no actionable advice or universal lesson in this post for the Red Pill community.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 05:52 PM
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This post makes a lot of unsupported claims and conjectures. It lacks any clear point or purpose, leaving it with little defense against claims of "supporting homophobia."
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 02:46 AM
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"I am not an expert and I have not studied everything there is to know about these things, this is just my experience with it from a 2020 perspective." 10000 characters follow Come on, man.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 03:40 PM
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Rule zero, this rambles over a lot of topics.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 09:52 AM
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So you pulled out your dick with your blood and guts hands and got a blowjob..?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 09:46 AM
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Personal questions belong on AskTRP. I suggest you read some of the sidebar articles there, then use that to formulate a better and more focused question than basically, "Please hold my hand and show me everything"
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 09:32 AM
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My Dad was prime draft age during the Cuban Missile Crisis. He said the night it broke his cohorts were all bidding each other farewell like this, as war and conscription seemed imminent. Our situation today isn't anywhere near as dire. Take the reminder to bookmark the off-Reddit replacement against the day they do ban us and we can't remind you ever again. Then, continue about your day without letting SJWs perturb or distract us from our mission.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 08:02 PM
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As long as you know what to do should you decide to stay connected. Reddit has held this Sword of Damocles over our heads for a long time. I know it can get tiresome hearing reminders about TRP.RED, but once they do shut us down we'll have no way to tell Redditors ever again.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 07:19 PM
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How 'bout you tell them. To their faces, not here pls.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 07:09 PM
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We're not revealing current sources, however there is an active brigading campaign of people trying to get "female hate" subs banned, while breaking lots of Reddit site-wide rules with impunity in the process. They'll probably roll those in to a big self-righteous show purge of "racist hate" subs. As for the time Reddit Admin told the mods they were about to ban the sub then quickly apologized because the message was sent to us in error. I can understand healthy skeptics thinking that might have…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 06:55 PM
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Divorce, INC comes to mind, is that what you're looking for?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 06:48 PM
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Your post was removed by the automoderator for linking to a commercial site. If you post another affiliate link under the guise of helping our users you will be banned.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 05:57 PM
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There is a big archive of old TRP posts, and when the new forums launch they will be populated by a large number of past TRP posts, so we won't be starting with a blank slate. Archiving these prevents a challenge, as we strive to avoid republishing archived posts that the user later deleted for personal reasons and security. Therefore, it's not as simple as mass scraping old archive snapshots.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 05:00 PM
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Don't post links to other subreddits. To prevent brigading, comments with these are removed automatically no matter who posts them.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 04:46 PM
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Are you looking for a long term partner or a quantity of short term matches? If the latter, fake blonde is an advantage, but will probably work against the first option. What do you have to offer your target preppier guys aside from hair? How do interactions with target guys go wrong? That will help us diagnose what is happening here. Here in Los Angeles, superficial narcissistic capital of the world, one sees every naturally dark haired ethnicity trying blonde hair. I remember a good laugh with…
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 05:43 PM
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This is a very important concept; wife goggles are a thing. For all the bolding of SMV in the last paragraph, I was expecting mention of how neglecting one's RMV is the surest way to cloud and eventually break wife goggles. A woman can mitigate somewhat but not ultimately control her aging processes. She can control her behavior, and this is one of the biggest factors in her long term relationship market value.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 05:24 PM
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This contains both good and questionable ideas. I'm going to approve it, with the caveat that readers choose carefully. There are some gold nuggets here, but like most mining operations the yield can be less than an oz of gold per ton of ore processed.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 05:13 PM
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Who the heck are Kim and Marie? I don't think we've been introduced?
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 02:57 PM
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Especially for new users: Be sure and browse our Wiki for curated articles about common RPW topics. This is from a three part article on vetting men, a discussion of red and green flags.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/20 04:26 PM
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This post makes several conjectures that are not adequately supported. Don't make another top post here without fully understanding our rules and posting guidelines.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 06:42 AM
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First off, welcome to RPW. Look in the subreddit's Wiki, that's where you'll find guidance and some curated articles and reading lists to help beginners on the RPW learning curve. Once you've done that, feel free to come back with questions that come up about implementing specific RP ideas or clarification of specific points. Questions from this perspective foster interesting and productive discussions. "I'm brand new walk me through everything" does not so we're locking this post.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 05:36 PM
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No, you didn't play this right. Much more RP material to learn and internalize.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 02:50 PM
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Lukewarm was a perfect response in the heat of that moment. Now just let the connection run cold.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/20 01:46 AM
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oompanada
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/20 01:29 AM
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This doesn't add any value to our sub. Try to include actionable information or social analysis. Point and laugh or sneer is low effort and doesn't improve anyone.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 10:54 PM
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Unhelpful response from someone who contributes one liners. Have a 48 hour break from posting and improve the signal to noise ratio in the future.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 03:47 PM
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Garbage advice from mathematical and self improvement perspectives.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 08:38 AM
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Leaving this up because of good comments, but for future reference personal questions belong in AskTRP.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 08:34 AM
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Personal questions belong in AskTRP.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/20 08:32 AM
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Comment unambiguously breaks site-wide rules. Banned.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 08:32 PM
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22 is young for a man to marry. Typically people's adult personality isn't fully baked till around 25. Yes, it's a bit of a gamble waiting that long. However, a 25yo's proposal is much more informed and serious than a 22yo's.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 03:44 PM
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This is how a man treats a low-tier plate, not a girlfriend. Proceed accordingly.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 03:30 PM
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any woman can get sex True, it's like boasting about one's skill at getting a whole lake of ducks to come eat bread A Nobel peace prize, a discovery in modern medicine, finding microorganisms roaming on other planets, that's something to brag about! You're not wrong here, but RP theory predicts that these things will NOT improve a woman's sexual market value. Promiscuity often brings negative consequences to a woman, but don't get it twisted. RPW recommends not to neglect your attractiveness... …
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 03:09 PM
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We don't need posts critiquing the beginner users thanks. Also contact the mods before including a link to your book, blog, or website in a post.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 02:53 PM
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I'd like to add a reminder that problems men cause here can follow them to the rest of the Red Pill network. What this means is you may be banned from the entire RP network, and your identity and behavior brought to the attention of the entire mod and EC team, if you act the fool here. Reputation is one of the pillars of masculinity. Protect yours. Surefire method: Lurk if you want but don't post here.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 02:23 AM
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Leaving this post up for the comments despite the flawed premise. Learned helplessness is a specific psychological phenomenon resulting from a certain range of conditions and experiences. This post describes garden variety laziness and entitlement.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 05:13 PM
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Having moderated both communities I see a serious flaw in the very concept. You're assuming that RP women want to date men from TRP and vice versa. Also, as compatibility factors go, "being Red Pill" is arbitrary, subjective, with very low specificity as to whether a given couple would be compatible as lovers.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 09:37 PM
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I think it's a reference to that Tiger Guy show. I haven't owned a TV since the 90s, but it's so frequently regurgitated in pop culture and casual conversation I feel like I've watched several episodes at this point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/20 05:13 PM
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Questions belong in AskTRP, read the rules before posting again.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 07:16 AM
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There’s nothing else I need to tell you. Literally just START – that’s how you start something. Go. Right now. START. Pull start a diesel engine at -30f and get back to us. While the premise is good and true, the post is a meme worth of basic info puffed to several paragraphs. Add value like specific methods for defeating procrastination, delve into the underlying psychology; anything deeper than insipid quote level writing.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 06:46 PM
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This is an important and bitter Red Pill. Women do not love men the same way men love women. They don't perceive and value struggle and hardship the same way as men. Laying your heart and weaknesses bare to women TURNS THEM OFF. Behave otherwise at your own peril.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 06:31 PM
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Save that type of comment for general Reddit, the conversation here is by, for, and about men and their interests. The comment was recognized as situational, not a pattern of white knighting on out sub, hence the 24h only ban. Take it as helpful feedback moving forward. Good day.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/20 06:20 PM
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Most "thank you" posts are removed as empty time wasters, it's why there's a ThankTRP sub. This one is actually a good read about a Red Pill journey.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 04:11 PM
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Goes without saying. Short ban for white knighting. If your steed shits one more time in here we'll make it permanent.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 01:24 AM
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This post was removed and won't be reinstated as it misses several rules and posting requirements. I suggest you add in info about your rough age (ed. see in title now), your exact relationship goals, and a little about how you've met guys and how dates went. Post this on the RedPillWomen subreddit and you'll get much better advice and discussion. Send a message to the mods right away asking to approve your post, as the automoderator will remove it immediately there too with a new account.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 01:06 AM
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Not sure how this is useful or actionable info. I see what you're getting at but writing needs some work.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/20 04:23 PM
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Recently banged turned both of them into long term fuck buddies. You can't claim to have made a universal discovery about long term plate retention with N=2 and a week or so out.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/20 04:19 PM
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OP, if this is YOUR blog, message the moderators before trying to post another link to it. Post removed.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/20 01:22 AM
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Rule 6 no examples from fiction or media. Can result in a ban for posting and replying to blatant rule breaking posts.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 07:05 PM
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Tons of writing and studies on evo-psych out there. Here's a long article with 185 footnotes and a few dozen references for further reading. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Evolutionary_psychology
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 03:57 PM
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Read up on the WELL DEVELOPED field of evolutionary psychology biology, then write something informative based on that. This post is nothing more than a brain fart.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 03:01 PM
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A book list this wordy should make people excited to read the books mentioned. This manages to sound so dull as to make people reconsider reading altogether.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 09:20 AM
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Does not meet our media link posting guidelines.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 06:36 PM
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Are you asking us or telling us? Post not fit for our main sub.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 06:35 PM
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Please read "There's this one girl..." at the top of the AskTRP sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 05:19 PM
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Sometimes it pays off to give edge case ideas and emerging writers a shot at exposure and feedback. Trust that these decisions are given due consideration, and the outcomes are noted.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 04:13 AM
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Bruh. (>ლ) submitted 11 hours ago by Endorsed Contributor Heathcliff--
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 03:02 AM
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This IS TRP content, you're not following our guidelines for link posts to media. Please read through the rules and posting guidelines and message the moderators if you have any questions before making another post.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 05:11 PM
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Emotional empathy is a feature in women and a flaw in men. Lots of good points and info here but needs some tuning up to be considered "red pill" advice.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 03:32 PM
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Not on topic for our sub, maybe try posting in a relationship sub.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 03:27 PM
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Why many women date losers? They pity them? No, because they pity and/or loathe themselves.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 09:49 PM
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Leaving this up not as an effective guide to date such women, but a warning to young men with few options who would consider picking up a fixer-upper girlfriend at the relationship scratch and dent store
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 02:54 PM
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How about no.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 02:21 PM
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Off topic and does not meet our posting guidelines. OP don't top post anything short of scintillating here in the future or face a ban.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 08:06 PM
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If you have a problem with any particular post, feel free to use the report function and/or message the moderators. Do NOT make top posts complaining about post quality etc, these will be removed and the posters are usually banned. Don't make us do that.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 08:01 PM
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This individual thinking goes for the pill as well. Don't read the side bar and the top posts in the sub and believe everything in it without dilution. I chose to internalise it only after I saw it literally manifesting in my life. The Red Pill isn't a cult as our detractors sometimes claim. We'll bluntly tell you not to take our word as gospel but to consider what we say then go out and test it.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 05:33 PM
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So what? TRP deletes screeds in the second person posted here by feminists and numales all the time. You getting banned from the sub reflects your unclaibrated communication attempt more than feminism bad. Feminists who write attack posts here have the unironic tendency to write exactly the way a misogynist predicts they would. When addressing a community like theirs, in order to reach and influence them, make sure you don't sound to them exactly the way they'd predict a bitter incel or unwanted…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 05:25 PM
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His place is not for you to put. Knock off the ad hominem.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/20 03:35 AM
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Knock off the ad hominem.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/20 02:02 AM
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This is a great article. Consider crossposting it on the TRP subreddit under the Finance flair.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/20 05:33 PM
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As a whole the post has much good information but needs a lot of formatting and editing. The line I singled out glares like cholla sharpie eyebrows on the Mona Lisa. Consider formatting your post and doing some minor edits and resubmit it tomorrow.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 12:39 AM
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Low effort post, please read our rules and posting guidelines.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 09:42 PM
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These mortgages were put together into what is called Bonds (bonded together). That's... not the definition of bonds. We'll consider articles that are off the main sexual strategy topic but they can't contain glaring errors like this. Doesn't hurt to tie it back to sexual strategy/building power.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 06:20 PM
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Doesn't meet our media posting guidelines. See rules and posting quality info currently stickied to the top.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 03:16 PM
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I thought non-western cultures were less likely to have "blue pill cucks" 1950s American culture is also cargo cult idealized by many. Believing your own incorrect worldview, carelessly assembled over time from biased sources, is itself a blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/20 05:40 PM
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We do allow direct links into manosphere. We allow links elsewhere IF ACCOMPANIED BY A COMMENT THAT PROVIDES ANALYSIS OF THE LINK. Don’t be lazy. A 50 word TL;RD is not analysis. Tell us what you think about it and what it teaches, not just what it says. Been removing and cleaning up a LOT of low-effort bare link drops and mediocre youtube video posts. This is important: When posting a link, include enough text that the user knows what he is clicking on. Include some analysis of the topic or cla…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/20 04:48 PM
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Like a TRP 101 smoothie, with anchovies pureed in.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/20 04:24 PM
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No moralizing.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 08:21 PM
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Don't feed the trolls, report them and move on.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 01:24 AM
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No actionable information; point-and-laugh links don't add value to our sub. This is great fodder for the "Whereareallthegoodmen" sub.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 06:49 PM
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Come back at me in a form which is masculine and I'll gladly express my ideas. Bro, I mean literally. Nobody will see your comment if it breaks Reddit site-wide rules and trips the automoderator. This is advice freely offered, not an argument or debate.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 02:17 AM
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Your ideas will reach and influence many more minds if you express yourself without ad hominem.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 12:26 AM
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Doesn't meet posting standards for media.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/20 03:11 AM
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Writing needs a lot of work. Not a coherent essay.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/20 01:32 AM
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Please read our posting guidelines regarding links to media.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 05:07 PM
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This doesn't meet our posting requirements for links to media content. Make a top post with a brief description of the content, analysis if appropriate, and an inline link to the content. Empty link drops are considered low effort posting, and we're choosy about what links we do post.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 05:05 PM
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Completely off topic.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 04:57 PM
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Usually we need to tell posters to add paragraph breaks to their posts. This is a rare time when we need to say add paragraphs.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 02:59 AM
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post has been removed now It was the automoderator, our idiot savant bot that protects the sub from material that might break Redddit site-wide rules and worsen our quarantine situation. The mod team watches for false positives and manually restores them. If you notice your post disappears send a message through modmail to give us a quicker heads up.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/20 03:53 PM
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Careful Gents, Low effort posts and replies to same can get OP and all commenters banned. It's a signal to noise ratio thing.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 07:59 PM
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Don't feed the trolls, report them and move on.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 07:41 PM
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Cuck advice plagiarized from elsewhere on the net. Ban.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 07:34 PM
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If mods remove something and you repost it, you get banned. Ed: 7 day timeout
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 05:32 AM
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(Last 3 paragraphs were a word vomit mess but I think I got the point across) Word vomit mess was the ONLY point I got out of reading this. TRP main page isn't a personal journal you are welcome to post a well written essay with actionable information for men.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 05:09 AM
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You might be able to rework the post to be sufficiently unidentifying, while getting your point across. I'm not convinced "my redpill rage" is what protected you here. The "campaign" against you just as likely fizzled on its own due the other parties having insufficient motivation/desire to continue against you. The world is full of examples of people pursuing an issue way further than this on way flimsier evidence. Luck of the draw your antagonist wasn't a bona-fide BPD or something. A willingn…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/20 09:21 PM
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This is like a bad journal entry, not a good post with actionable advice for men in general.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/20 09:09 PM
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Coming from a TRP background (snip) I somehow feel it's 100% my fault That is blue pill conditioning, nothing red about it. Personal advice and questions belong in AskTRP, this post has been removed from the main sub.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/20 06:48 PM
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Wouldn't be Reddit without this kind of forest-for-the-trees spergout appearing in the comments.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 04:42 PM
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Doesn't meet linked content guidelines.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 12:20 AM
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Video game fans, the report button won't resolve your cognitive dissonance.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 12:17 AM
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love Good answer, I LOLd. As for Parkinson's, the underlying mechanism is lack of dopamine production, not receptor-side problems.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 12:16 AM
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Good video so I'm approving it. For future reference, links to video or other content should include a description of the content and/or analysis (when someone else's vid) so the reader knows what they are clicking on. Bare link drops are low effort posting, and spamming one's own vlog isn't welcome.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 05:52 PM
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Does not meet link/media posting standards
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 05:48 PM
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Does not meet our rules and guidelines for linked content. Better to post some description and analysis with an inline link so our readers can see what they're clicking on.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 05:06 PM
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No examples from fiction or lyrics, read the rules.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 08:51 PM
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The last paragraph and "see you" is incongruent with the rest of the writing.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 12:03 AM
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Follow our content guidelines for media links.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 11:56 PM
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Same with men. Rule zero. Not true because biologically eggs are expensive and sperm is cheap.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 11:52 PM
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Speak for yourself, CaptainHorsehsoeTheory.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 06:30 PM
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Agree.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 04:09 PM
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I'm approving this thread not because I agree, but because it is such a great counterpoint to the trope of "Western culture bad, Muslim culture red pilled."
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 04:00 PM
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Cock Carousel, denotes hopping on a series of cocks as a young woman at the peak of her attractiveness. This tends to damage her ability to pair-bond and become good wife material later
/r/TheRedPill08/05/20 03:31 PM
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That's nice, but what's depicted is scripted not natural behavior; therein lies the problem. Special cases of using the author's depiction of society at large may be compliant but these are usually supporting examples within a top post, not the basis for it.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 07:05 PM
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Don't feed the trolls, you'll get caught in a banning spree.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 04:01 PM
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Without women to say no, gay men barely need sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 03:47 PM
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Rule 6. No examples from fiction or lyrics.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 04:48 AM
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Automoderator is like an idiot savant, currently set very sensitively to prevent even the perception of TRP not diligently enforcing Reddit site-wide rules and them banning us outright. A separate matter, Archive.IS has been showing reliability problems, which is a problem for many of our older articles from before the archive service at TRP.RED came online.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 07:10 PM
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We understand the place of venting, but rants without actionable advice or lessons don't really help anyone besides maybe the poster.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 06:46 PM
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Banned the weirdo.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 06:38 PM
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Doesn't meet our posting guidelines. For video links include a brief description and analysis so the user knows what he is clicking on and use an inline link.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/20 04:33 PM
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While this isn't directly about sexual strategy, it is full of gold toward building wealth and therefore power, both of which become sexual strategy at sufficient levels. Also the article is a red pill for moving from a consumer/renter mindset to that of producer/owner/baron.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/20 04:19 PM
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Too generic and basic to be useful to the readership. Be the writer who has something to say, not the one who has to say something.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/20 01:14 AM
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OP remove the link at the end and to products and I'll reapprove your post. It's not quite on topic but timely; young men idled by the quarantine will benefit from adopting healthy systems.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 04:59 AM
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This is a bizarre and cringe way to try to get laid. Read our sidebar and sort by top all time for actual sexual strategies. Ban for posting without reading our rules or being familiar with our community.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 02:19 AM
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Personal questions belong in AskTRP
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 01:32 AM
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Please see our rules regarding content guidelines and video links.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/20 09:50 PM
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Yeah I'll never forget the notes of surprise and disappointment when I found the balls to reject my second GF ever's attempt to run this play on me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/20 07:50 PM
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Address the community properly. Putting a "will delete later" in the title harms its credibility tight at the gate. You're free to craft an essay with actionable advice for men in the SMP that you're confident will stand well to scrutiny and critique.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 06:05 PM
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This is a successful example of "women may share an Alpha rather than have a Beta all to themselves" theory. As for putting a ring on it (and a noose on yourself), the marriage results may vary and the downside potential is a huge risk for most men.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 05:25 PM
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"Felt cute, might delete later" type posts: might ban later.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 05:22 PM
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OP please read the rules before posting. No.6 No examples from fiction or lyrics. Fiction, pop songs, daytime television freakshows, and reality tv do not present useful examples of typical human behaviour, and thus cannot be learned from. Discussion of overarching popular culture themes, however, is on-topic and makes for an interesting analysis of the shifts in cultural thinking. Use of fiction or other controlled narratives (reality tv, etc) should only be used as an example of the author's p…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/20 04:20 AM
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We're not looking for gatekeeping subcontractors. With a few minor edits this might play well to some MGTOW and incel audiences. Also tighten up the grammar and syntax a bit. Your writing shows potential, however this article isn't a great fit here.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 03:02 AM
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More than enough time spent searching for solutions to get women to STFU to know that nothing here will help. Spam a specific product, risk a site-wide ban.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 02:59 PM
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This is a good fit for TheRedPillRight subreddit. Please feel free to repost it there. Ed: Discussion moved to that subreddit. Feel free to copy/paste your posts and continue discussion there.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 10:46 PM
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It's a CSS glitch, nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 07:53 PM
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Off topic for our sub. You might try posting it in TheRedPillRight subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 03:33 PM
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The post was removed by our very sensitive automoderator bot at some point and has since been manually reapproved. We're bending over backwards to make it obvious that our subreddit doesn't break site-wide rules in the face of the unjustified quarantine, kind of like Jesse Owens with his white towel.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/20 06:18 PM
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♫It can on-lyyy be stuuu-piiiiid!♫
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/20 05:26 AM
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I like this field report. Early successes, obstacles, overcoming them; a conversational gaffe that is recovered by maintaining frame. A good read for those early in their Red Pill journey.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/20 09:45 PM
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This is decent writing on quick skim, but posting a link without comment or analysis doesn't meet our posting guidelines, and promoting your own site in this manner is also problematic. Consider reposting as a text post with 1-3 paragraphs of excerpt with a link to the complete article at the end. Also consider setting up a free blog on TRP.RED and crossposting your material there. Links from here to TRP.RED will be less subject to individual approval.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 03:08 AM
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Removed for post quality- basic grammar and syntax are a problem throughout.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 03:14 AM
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There are a few issues, will discuss in modmail.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/20 03:22 AM
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This is like a journal entry, not a TRP post. Check sub rules and posting guidelines.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 11:35 PM
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Link to video without comment or analysis is considered low effort posting.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 11:32 PM
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Do you think it is necessary to be an asshole to be a good leader? What are your ways of dealing with stupid or retarded people? AskTRP is for asking. TRP is for telling. By those qualified to do so.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/20 06:11 PM
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Rule 9, ban
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 10:07 PM
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OP, don't post video links without any comment or analysis. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3a0135/announcement_new_thread_requirements/
/r/TheRedPill11/04/20 10:03 PM
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Low effort post, bannable offense, this is your only warning.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 09:12 PM
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Read it in the sidebar, or community info on mobile. Questions go to AskTRP, bannable offense, this is your only warning.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 09:10 PM
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The automod removed this but it doesn't quite meet quality standards anyhow. Rambling without actionable information, and riddled with errors like lotus of control and a misunderstanding of the Franklin Effect.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 06:53 PM
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Removed for concern trolling. If there's a specific concern take it to modmail, don't make a top post like this.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 06:50 AM
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Let's keep the discussion civil please.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/19 02:41 AM
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Thanks for your report, I had fixed that link once before. Just spot checked it and seems to be working. Here's a direct link in case you're still having trouble. http://archive.is/ZawEU
/r/askTRP20/08/19 01:20 AM
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What do you think? That this belongs in purplepilldebate not here.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 03:49 PM
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Removed for not containing a question and 2 day posting vacation for OP for violating the sub's most fundamental rule.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 03:44 PM
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Shitpost and shitposter removed.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 10:33 PM
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Removed for Rule Zero. If you can expand your question with some context relevant to sexual strategy repost it. Or just study "pressure flip."
/r/askTRP14/07/19 05:15 PM
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Removed for breaking multiple content requirement rules.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 05:09 PM
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If you want to discuss the topic seriously bring better evidence and analysis and post that on the main sub where it belongs. This is a no-effort post that spawned a bunch of no-value justice porn.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 03:33 PM
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Get the fuck up off your couch and fix your own shit. TRP isn't going to take on your sloppy mess for a beer or something. Post removed and ban.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 02:59 AM
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You'll have to log on using a PC not mobile, to bypass the quarantine screen the first time. After that you should be able to navigate there by mobile.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 02:57 AM
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Removed for not including an on-topic question.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 01:44 AM
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Removed and 2 day vacation for not including a question.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 01:41 AM
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Removed for incoherence. Post a legible sensible question or not at all on AskTRP.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 02:12 AM
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Removed for incoherence.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 02:18 AM
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Post removed does not contain a question.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:56 PM
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One may challenge or attack ideas presented by ECs and we welcome this, but attacking them personally is against one of our more important rules. Temp ban for those moralizing to OP about covert Bro Code while violating written TRP code.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 01:42 AM
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This is so on-topic we have a flair for it. Congratulations!
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/19 06:47 PM
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Haha, good question. Probably a function of average word and allowable user name length.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/18 04:41 PM
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Welcome to the machine, Prettybluemushroom! I shall now demand the community offer me daily sacrifices in the form of rule-breakers. Be careful what you wish for! Routine mod work takes up more time than most users can imagine. Adding an extended troll tantrum on top of that tries mods' souls. Thanks for volunteering to help keep the community running smoothly!
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/18 08:26 AM
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Post violates several of our sub's rules. Get this advice from men on AskTRP.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/18 04:00 AM
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Note to users: It is against sub rules to post meet requests, but "How to meet RP minded people in my BP community" is an evergreen topic, so respond accordingly. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 07:44 PM
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Regardless of the reason, attempts to contact other redditors directly is against the sub rules to prevent problems like doxxing and harassment. Please remove the sentence about throw out a line, maybe replace with a general interest question like "How can I meet like minded people in my area?" Thanks. u/luckylittlestar
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 07:40 PM
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This post doesn't meet our posting guidelines and frankly is difficult to understand. We invite you to read our posting guidelines, edit your post to include the requested background/context info, and message the moderators for reapproval.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 01:37 AM
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this is not an invitation for incels to message me crying about how I should’ve “chosen” them. RPW is not a flirting ground. This is strictly against our rules, and can get violators banned from the entire Red Pill network. Quick reminder to our members: report anyone sending you inappropriate PMs to the mods.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/18 09:47 PM
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Removed pending mod review for content guidelines. u/luckylittlestar
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 06:45 PM
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When can we stop going for drinks and just cut straight to the fucking? Set up a mini bar at home and start the party there from now on. Strict discipline to use it only when company is there.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:16 PM
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Meetup groups are a sensitive topic for a community like ours because of the risks of doxxing. Threads on the topic should be discussed with the mods before posting. Paging u/luckylittlestar u/laceandsilks
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 02:05 AM
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frankly I hit the wall mentally in my early 20's, because in my mind it was all over once I hit 25 Age 51 reporting in... LOL The concept of the wall is supposed to be prescriptive; a reminder to youth who specifically want to start a family young. It's not meant to be descriptive, or claiming people already past 30 have no value or life. The sexual marketplace changes a lot later in life, but 30 is by no means the end of romantic life.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 05:59 PM
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Last year I got into obstacle course racing. It's given me new goals to work toward, and I've found it quite enjoyable. My first race a year ago took 4:10. I ran two more races and got my time down to 2:50. Three weeks from now is the first race of the season, and I've entered the midnight-8am endurance race; 5 mile loops with 10 obstacles, changing at 4am to include water obstacles. Working toward this goal has brought my level of fitness way, waaaay farther than the gym alone. There are at lea…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 06:34 PM
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OP deleted body text.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/18 11:13 PM
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Off topic and rambling, removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/18 11:12 PM
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Don't pet the unicorns. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/18 02:52 AM
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Assistant mod here. I found your inquiry down in the queue and brought it back up for discussion. For future reference, if anyone doesn't get a response to modmail after a reasonable time (day or two), don't make a post here, but post again in the same modmail thread and it will bring it back up in the queue. Another note, nobody successfully annoys or demands their way out of a ban.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 06:29 AM
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Though your intentions may be pure, this amounts to asking TRP members to dox themselves, so I'm removing this post. Check r-The_Fraternity
/r/askTRP22/12/17 12:26 AM
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One of the sub rules for women is to remain genderless unless it is absolutely relevant to their contribution. Gratuitious "As a woman..." mentions are not allowed. If you see post that breaks the rules, use the REPORT function rather than engage the OP. There have been examples of legitimate, relevant questions and fruitful discussions started by female posters, but these are the exception rather than the rule. In most cases they are better off posting in Red Pill Women, same as when men post q…
/r/askTRP14/12/17 07:10 AM
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Post appears to have been removed by OP.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/17 03:43 PM
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Reposted to RPW
/r/askTRP22/11/17 03:37 AM
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Some follow up information will help dial in the advice for you. How old are you and SO? How long together? What has he said if/when HE initiated marriage/engagement talk
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/17 03:19 AM
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Removed because this is not a request for advice. Take it to r offmychest.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 01:49 AM
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Which i am sad about it is nice that he is innocent, that's his best trait his purity. He believes in soulmates and first love forever. Sleeping with another man disqualifies you from his ideal of love. It's mind boggling that you frame your cheating as "What's wrong with HIM, why can't HE get over it?" If you want to understand this from a Red Pill perspective, read everything you can find about Hypergamy and Solipsism. Locking this thread because there is nothing Red Pill about your behavior a…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/17 04:25 PM
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I feel the need to point out that he is not her captain That goes without saying. If you can suggest a better path from where she is to where she wants to be using RPW principles, OP might find it helpful. My recommendation uses the "Give them shoes to fill" principle, presupposing he's already the captain of the relationship she's seeking. If he's the right man he'll proceed into this role without her undermining his authority in the process. If not, he'll likely weasel away from the situation …
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 02:22 AM
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how rude she was to my fiancé. You should not have to struggle with the question of whether or not to invite such a person to your wedding. To me, the real question becomes, What right or basis does SHE have to expect to be invited to share ANY time together, ever? This is one of those areas of life that assertiveness skills will help you navigate.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 02:14 AM
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This post won't be approved as it's against RPW rules. Repost in AskTRP, you'll get better answers.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 09:52 PM
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Male participation (good and bad) tends to go through boom and bust cycles. It's a never ending chore trying to maintain a balance of keeping good worthwhile male posters and identifying/removing the borderline cases before they cause problems. A reminder: Don't feed the trolls! If someone posts something out of line, use the REPORT function and resist the temptation to engage them. It worsens the problem and gives the moderators a lot more clean up work.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 09:51 PM
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The basic transaction in the sexual marketplace is, women are the gatekeepers of sex; men are the gatekeepers of commitment. The best time to negotiate positions is during the courtship phase of the relationship, before offering sex without first securing commitment. Now that you're here, your negotiating position is difficult. If you withdraw the sex conditional on a demand for commitment, he may just bounce. I suggest you read Bring your captain your problem, not your solution in the sidebar a…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 08:28 PM
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My meta-observation about this is, the post focuses on you and your problems. There's virtually nothing here about him. Is this the pattern that has emerged in the relationship? What are his life goals and plans? How is he doing working toward these? Is he a capable leader, for the relationship and his life in general? What are your life goals and plans? Are these compatible with his? Are you able and willing to follow your man's lead? Having the answers to these questions at hand will help guid…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/17 03:35 PM
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Not a request for advice, removed. Message the mods if you have questions about the sub or ECs.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 02:55 AM
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It's elementary to the sexual marketplace. Sex is as easy for women to obtain as it is for them to get ducks to take bread. Has she ever been able to secure the commitment of any man she wants? That represents the real RPW question.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/17 08:37 PM
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Was tempted to delete this shit show of a thread; decided some peoples' place in life is as an example of what NOT to do. she was constantly distant, disrespectful, rarely seen, never sexual, and never randomly came to my place. You keep a woman in your life because she brings value to it, in excess of what you have without her. THIS woman isn't bringing you any good, just using you on her terms. It goes against virtually every principle in our sidebars. Unfuck yourself, get her out of your life…
/r/askTRP11/10/17 09:31 PM
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I tend to be friends with, or at least on speaking terms, with most non-shitty exes, so I have lots of experience with this. In most cases, there NEEDS to be a "reset period" of no to minimal contact. This is usually a scale of weeks to months, sometimes a year or so. Afterward, it's easier and not awkward to interact as a non-couple, and to fall into a long-term stable pattern of interaction. Trying to stay in regular contact is much harder and longer in my experience; still doable but much mor…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 12:58 AM
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Hello, this belongs in AskTRP or AskMRP, feel free to repost there. RedPillWomen isn't for men to ask advice of women.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 12:04 AM
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When I try to be positive, nice, and feminine, my friends act completely confused and ask me what's wrong. Sorry to say, but your reputation is entrenched with them, and they've shown they're inflexible to a change of status quo. Start finding different friend groups to be involved with, and transition in an orderly manner, no need to flounce from the old group dramatically. You might find you need better modelling and feedback of a "nice" persona than you can get from this group as well. It's g…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/17 03:51 AM
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RPW mod here. Male and female mating strategies are complementary, not contradictory. Solipsism exists in all humans; it doesn't come naturally to understand and truly empathize with the other gender's strategy. Just as women aren't encouraged to post in the men's subs, men are discouraged from posting in the women's subs. You are welcome to lurk and read, though you're better off fully internalizing your own information, especially when new to Red Pill principles. Respect all of the subs in the…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 11:03 PM
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if a girl sleeps with a guy on the first date, she should sleep with all guys on the first date. A good reason to avoid reading the Men's subs especially before fully understanding RP principles. What you're reading about this on TRP isn't actionable advice for women, but post hoc sour grapes whining by certain guys boxing above their weight.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/17 03:42 PM
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This post is poorly formatted so it won't be published, but to answer your question, TRP men usually mean the object of unrequieted love when they say Oneitis. Like a disease, they get hung up on one woman who doesn't want them, thus ignore opportunities with women who might actually.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/17 06:04 AM
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Reposting a comment a mod removed is against common sense and can result in a ban.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 08:39 PM
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Medically unsound practices removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 01:59 AM
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This is gonna be strange one, and you may need context from the original post I'm referencing. So, Ill link it even though it's locked. I'd like to see your thoughts on this. The OP was operating from flawed premises, particularly that M/F mating strategies are a mirror image. That is why the post was locked.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 09:09 PM
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OP is endorsed in part because he can explain RP principles without sounding pedantic or condescending. Your writing has a way to go to reach this state so I'm deleting this comment.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 10:17 PM
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If this sub were a perfect mirror of TRP There's your flawed premise. Men and women have complementary mating strategies, which isn't the same as a mirror image. Men also experience, process, express, and resolve frustration and anger in different ways than women, so it's not comparing apples to apples. This question has been adequately answered, and belongs in AskTRP not RPW, so locking the thread.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 07:06 AM
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Arrange a city-wide scavenger hunt A clever and fun idea, but immersive activities requiring immediate buy-in and lengthy participation are risky to spring upon a partner when they arrive home from a long work day.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/17 05:29 PM
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This belongs in AskTRP, not RPW. You can copy it from your submission history to repost there. Tip: condense the post 30-50% and/or split into two posts.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 03:59 PM
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Sounds like this ran its course in his mind. Now you go ahead and do the same.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/17 05:19 PM
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The wording of the question ("correcting" omg) has become the dominant part of the discussion. Much has been said about this and I don't entirely disagree, but I'd like to address the topic of showering, which is a perfectly valid and legitimate thing for an intimate couple to work together on. Personally, I work in a greasy blue-collar industry and have dirty sweaty hobbies. Left to my own devices in Monk Mode, I might think nothing of crashing before showering. If I'm sharing my bed on a given…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 05:56 PM
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The song is so old that the lyrics are probably public domain by now, and the melody was derived from Song of India, Beautiful Dreamer, and Love's old sweet song. A modified version was adopted as the official song of the state of Ohio. I wish I could find a video of my favorite piano roll version to share.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 09:40 AM
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Reporting in from my hotel computer... I AM, thanks! Concert's tomorrow, Tough Mudder Saturday! ᕕ( ಠ‿ಠ)ᕗ
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 03:14 AM
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Lovely! One of my hobbies is collecting old player piano rolls, and some of my favorites are old love songs. This reminds me of Beautiful Ohio Waltz: Long long ago Someone I know Had a little red canoe In it room for only two Love found its start There in my heart And like a flower it grew
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 03:11 AM
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This post has been hidden pending review by the mod team.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/17 02:13 AM
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I started my first week long vacation since opening my business... in the year 2000! There's a band touring that I really want to see, and a Tough Mudder race the following weekend, so I went ahead and bought tickets! Flying halfway across the country for a week in the Rocky Mountains, at very high altitude near the Continental Divide. I've always wanted to visit and explore this area. The band is Caravan Palace, an Electro-Swing band on tour from France. It's a culmination of years of hard work…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 07:40 PM
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I suspect your problems begin in the dating funnel/vetting stages. Read through the "Vetting men" series in our sidebar and let us know if this sounds relevant.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 09:18 PM
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OP misunderstood the term "Alpha" and has been corrected in the comments. Please offer helpful, actionable advice or stay out of the discussion. For the record, this clashes with RP theory because Alpha is a male attribute. "Commitment-worthy woman" is probably closer to the mark.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 09:13 PM
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Comments removed. It's okay to disagree, but on RPW, becoming disagreeable is not considered a positive attribute.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 09:08 PM
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I've eaten well over 2 dozen Valentine's dinners at this age, but the homemade Beef Wellington was #1 of two really memorable ones. If a hypothetical "Unicorn Skillset" was being compiled, Beef Wellington belongs on it!
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 07:48 PM
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Hello, Madonna-Whore complex! As a limerence junkie myself I had to join this particular thread. For LTR/spouse, what you want to google is companionate love. Do you find this developing with the current woman, even without finding the artificially inflated limerent thrill level of your plates?
/r/askTRP08/07/17 02:28 AM
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At least get get her a gun and teach her how to use it. Practice Tueller Drills. If you can get your distance under 20 feet, you're better than most; but given that most attacks initiate from a couple of feet, and a weapon will be turned against you at that distance, you owe it to yourself to learn some hand combat skills, or at least quit telling other women not to. I wish you could watch the 85# woman your height fend off repeated attacks from 6'4 me and 6'5 other tallest guy at the dojo durin…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 01:53 AM
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Lead by example always. This teaches her more than all of the words. Talk about relationships and different dynamics. Take advantage of examples as they come up around you. Strive to maintain a healthy facade with your ex in front of her. Parents together, friends forever is a reachable, sustainable model, albeit not with every ex. Some people don't believe in dating at all while raising kids. I don't agree with this, but it DOES require extreme vetting and a long period before even meeting kids…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/17 01:10 AM
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u/MetalDevils had some useful things to say. If your issue is "just" an introvert personality type, in the short term taking alone time to "recharge" between intense encounters helps a lot. In the long term, improving your conversational, banter, and debate skills will improve your duty cycle of being "on" versus recharging.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/17 11:56 PM
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Delicious looking! I make several variations of cold caprese, using fresh basil and heirloom tomatoes from the garden, but this is the first hot caprese dish I've seen and it looks like a winner.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/17 03:21 AM
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Belongs in AskTRP. Repost over there and we'll get you the advice you need brother.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 10:44 PM
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Go to their user page and click the "submitted" tab.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 10:22 PM
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Excellent post, this is also what I was striving toward with my comment in the Gravitas thread last week. Positive, child-like attributes can be perceived as positive and healthy feminine qualities. Childish behavior is almost always perceived as negative, annoying, and dysfunctional in an adult relationship. Amazing how many nowadays conflate childish with Grrl-power or other tactics to spin it into a positive.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/17 09:55 PM
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Thanks for your cooperation, but I was talking to Reddit, not you OP. (✿◠‿◠)
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 08:30 PM
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A friendly reminder to keep the discussion focused on ideological integrity within an individual and/or ideological compatibility/difference within a couple, but not which political "team" is better.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 08:17 PM
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This is not Red Pill advice, removed. Three day time out for arguing. Please remain civil and helpful to the topic at hand.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 07:48 PM
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Low effort, off topic posts will get you banned from here. Only warning.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 02:05 AM
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This is my wheelhouse, so here's the more physical perspective, semi-NSFW. Others have covered the social aspects well. My preference is for LTRs, never same day sex or ONS. Also, I personally savor the teasing and push-pull of courting. Therefore, my dating funnel and escalation rate are calibrated for a longer-than-TRP-average journey to intimacy. Most relationships have become intimate on the third or fourth date, not counting an optional brief zeroth-date which is a noncommittal short meetin…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 07:39 PM
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Please don't ever again mention the Duggar family as role models.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 04:46 PM
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Pedophilia unequivocally does NOT belong in TRP. GTFO!
/r/askTRP23/06/17 03:25 PM
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Right, I was off looking for the post about how to see the sidebar on mobile, glad you found it. The comments were getting ugly so I had to do the takedown. Read the definitions we already have. Some of yours were a little loose regarding RP theory or established definitions. This might be OK within a general discussion, but when making a list like this, the definitions will need to tightly align with RP canon. Like I say, mods will be glad to work with you on a revised version of the post. You …
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 10:40 PM
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We already have a canonical list of acronyms and extended glossary of terms in the sidebar. The definitions in this post very widely in quality and integration of RP principles. I'm removing the post for now because it has spawned unproductive discussion. OP, please message the moderators for feedback if you want to revise and repost this. U/GuestQuest, have a time-out from posting to reflect on your demeanor and tone when posting in RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 10:21 PM
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Or as you've now joined the losers of the gender lottery would you just hang yourself? Genuinely curious. A disingenuous presupposition that cannot lead to productive discussion. I think you've gotten enough responses to answer your curiosity so I'm locking this. In the future, you might get better responses by following the rules and remaining genderless when you post.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 05:10 PM
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If you have a problem with a post, use the REPORT link. If you think there's an ongoing issue with a particular user, or have a concern about the sub in general, use the MESSAGE THE MODERATORS link. Do NOT make a top post complaining about a post or the sub. This will get you banned. The main sub is far more ruthless than AskTRP enforcing this. Post locked.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 12:44 AM
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We do appreciate feedback and recommendations for the sidebar, though it's not updated frequently like a blog. As to the point you bring forward, there's a reason "There's this one girl..." is at the top of the curated posts.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 04:40 AM
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I really appreciate this post. The ability to affect a light, carefree demeanor when appropriate is an important element of femininity. It becomes a problem when people behave as if this is the only valid element of femininity, and are unable or unwilling to behave in a focused, goal-oriented manner when necessary. I make my living in an industry traditionally intimidating to women. My company has always gone out of the way to avoid enacting the negative stereotypes; we even have a woman manager…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 08:48 PM
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College move-ins are a special case. They have an implicit life of one semester +/- summer; maybe less, usually renewable. Still different than moving in together as a post-college couple, at which stage of life is a more serious decision with an implicit life of "forever."
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/17 11:15 PM
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Every time I spend the night at his place I get kinda grouchy, and my skin can't handle it, and every time he comes over he complains that my TV is too small, internet too slow, etc. Ouch. Let's see if we can find the common denominator. Spending nights together vs moving in Oof! It sounds like you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. Is this even the correct question?
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/17 06:57 AM
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I see this a lot in women who lose their husband in their 40s-60s after being NOTHING but a kept housewife for decades. Cases where the man made ALL of the decisions and handled ALL of the finances. Then he passes away, and his widow struggles for YEARS to get back near some baseline of normal daily functioning. I've seen women 1,2,3 years out, still struggling day to day with basic finances, zero marketable job skills, and no sense of identity beyond "wife of my now-dead husband." I know of at …
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 07:09 PM
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I know...you saw it in a movie...reality, not so much. I spent almost a decade in a dojo. One of the female students was a cop. As a fan of martial arts and cop videos, I observe that most cops male and female suck at hand combat and basic takedown technique.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/17 04:20 PM
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Is there any interest in me reporting about my journey into krav-maga? Yes, looking forward to hearing about your progress. And is this an appropriate topic here, anyway? Yes!
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/17 05:46 PM
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Yes! I strongly recommend self-defense classes for women, and made sure my niece and stepdaughters learned a few techniques and dirty tricks. Do all women here rely on their SOs in dangerous situations? Great if your attackers have the courtesy not to outnumber or overpower your SO. If anyone comes at me on the street, they'll get a face full of mace. If they invade my home and my husband is not there, I will shoot them myself. Most attacks initiate within a few feet. Practice Tueller Drills if …
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/17 05:02 PM
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Nope out of there immediately! I mean literally run for your life! You're supposed to attach your wagon to a star, not a black hole.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/17 09:25 PM
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The most sensible order of events is dating/vetting -> engaged -> married -> kids. Bluntly, I don't understand the modern trend of casually putting the last out of sequence. Even for hardcore RP men against corrupt Western marriage, a couple should memorialize their pair-bond and commitment to each other before planning kids or making them without forethought. It's one of THE most important and enduring things in life. I'm an entrepreneur; when I started my business I didn't even date for the fi…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/17 10:48 PM
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To be clear: The RPW sub does not advocate starting as a plate if your goal is a committed monogamous relationship. Outcomes like this are vanishingly rare, and OP is still not 100% secure. That said, we can discuss OP's relationship as it stands now, but don't mistake this for tacit acceptance or recommendation of starting a relationship as a plate, hoping for monogamy conversion.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 01:47 AM
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No need to overthink this. Just make sure it doesn't sound like you're declining the date itself, and be careful not to take charge of the planning. "I'd like to go out but I'm not that big of an ice cream eater. How about [smoothies/a walk/other general substitute] or something, instead?" Let him take charge from there.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 01:25 AM
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That, and people who think it's OK to ask for advice, engage a dozen plus people, THEN DELETE THE THREAD so nobody else can benefit from the discussion. Knock that off too pls.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 03:35 PM
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Jeez, that's going to suck the soil out of propagation flats!
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 09:53 AM
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Just did a quick scan of the sub. None of the posts on the top 2 pages have any reports. Did you read the sticky on trolls and post quality?
/r/askTRP19/05/17 12:13 AM
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Good list, a few things I'd like to add. Vi Hart's youtube channel has many engaging videos explaining math concepts. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahXIMUkSXX0 I second the Oliver Sacks recommendation, and suggest Carl Sagan's works too. Isaac Asimov is considered one of the three titans of science fiction (huge fan!) but he also wrote many great nonfiction works. Robert Heinlein is one of the others; many of his female characters are strong women who nonetheless submit to their Captain. His w…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 07:05 PM
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I literally wrote the book on male participation on this sub as part of my mission to help rebuild it after the old mod team tore this place up and trolled at least two new female mods into quitting. I don't pop in very often now, but if the sub wants to go full Briffault's Law on me it shouldn't be a problem.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 02:38 PM
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I'm an introvert so don't adore social interaction in its own right. Two things I've done to make my dating funnel more efficient and cut down on long dates that go nowhere. In business, if you're super busy all the time, RAISE YOUR PRICES AT ONCE! Same applies with dating: if you're overwhelmed with first dates, raise the bar. I write dating site profiles that are longer and more polarizing than average, in order to meet a smaller number of better matches in person. I like to schedule a "Zeroth…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 09:37 PM
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Let's stay on topic. This isn't the place to play McCarthy Commie Hunt.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/17 08:47 PM
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I strongly recommend fleece thermal underwear. These are soft and hug your figure so they can be worn under any clothes to make them cold weather clothes. The head is a major sink of heat loss, so hood or hat can help a lot especially if its windy. The "waffle weave" type thermals are good as a second layer over the fleece for even colder weather. Alone, their thermal performance isn't quite as good, and they're more obvious and less figure flattering. Now is a good time of year to buy them up o…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/17 09:42 PM
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french toast A really good and easy breakfast food is crepes. Warm berries (frozen if out of season) in a saucepan for filling. A favorite but complicated breakfast dish is Eggs Benedict. There are lots of variations (like Eggs Florentine) and once you can make Hollandaise sauce it can be used on things like dinner vegetables. Search the forum for Meal Mondays, a semi-recurring thread discussing cooking.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/17 03:51 PM
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Someone reported this as a violation of the anti-doxxing rule. This post does not violate the rule, because it requires active opt-in and participation in person. Beware of the subversion technique of Risky Shift, or Shift to Risk, wherein agents provocateurs induce members of a group to make riskier decisions and accept riskier actions than they would take or accept on their own.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/17 05:40 PM
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Whether we use it for meeting in person or not, the idea of making an icon that's a pictoral representation of RPW is an interesting idea. One of the Men's RedPill meetup groups uses a logo that is the initials of the group within the Mars symbol, in red/black. /r/VermillionManMarch
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/17 05:35 PM
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It's an RPG-style habit tracker Slip on your diet and exercise? Talk to the rocket-propelled grenade, baby! Cheat days reduced to zero.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 05:14 PM
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The message was not tactfully delivered, and because of a pattern of such, that user won't be commenting here anymore. That said, I believe I understand why he asked the question, and it's not as far out as it looks at first. Cluster B disorders affect ability to pair-bond and often result in unabashed CC riding. Probably doesn't apply in this case so we can just leave it at that.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 07:19 PM
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RPW is a toolbox, not a mold. Even some of our critics see this; shouldn't you?
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 01:03 AM
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I lost my virginity not long ago, and i've met a good amount of guys to fool around with since then. Sex without commitment is incredibly easy for women to obtain; it doesn't even require a strategy, and the Red Pill calls this a Plate relationship, after the circus act of many plates spinning on sticks at the same time. The problems don't become apparent till the ride ends and the plate wobbles, drops... and shatters. What you're describing definitely isn't a Red Pill strategy for women. Edit: …
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 12:36 AM
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"There's this one girl..." on the AskTRP Sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 11:41 PM
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TRP sometimes makes a blood sport of delivering harsh truths harshly. On RPW, we choose to maintain a measure of compassion in our delivery.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 09:28 PM
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Drop it. ಠ_ಠ
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 02:35 AM
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Removed for being completely off topic for our sub.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 02:32 AM
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Such a good dog! He will be missed. Something I did for a friend who lost a long term pet recently, mixed 3 parts soil the dog lived upon to one part portland cement, poured into concrete mold. If the pet is cremated, ashes can be mixed in. One of the most meaningful and enduring things you can do to remember a friend as close as this.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/17 02:38 AM
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If Seinfeld is "the show about nothing," TBP is "the subreddit about nothing, only not funny." It's like a shooting gallery of ridiculously inaccurate strawman targets; caricatures of TRP so ridiculous they have no value to anyone not predisposed to hate TRP no matter what.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 04:47 PM
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This is disappointing and revolting. Women who reject the you-go-grrrl catlady lifescript deserve better than a community that debases them. Yet you embrace the Alt-Right, whose male members tend to strongly believe that woman suffrage should be revoked? Thanks for yet another criticism of our community based upon a superficial (mis)understanding of who we are and what we believe and practice. You don't need to worry about hearing from me again. Sad! Fine, we have binders full of women to deal w…
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 04:36 PM
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If you're trying to post it on the host website, there may be a moderation delay or other issue with that site. Feel free to cut and paste it here, we'd like to read it. Are you trying to post it on Reddit? Because I don't see any posts in the last 7 days on your account, so it's not being deleted or hidden by Reddit that I can see..
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 05:33 AM
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At least the Racked writer spent serious time studying our writing, enough to give balanced examples within an article intended to portray us in a negative light. My lingering question is, why does she say sartorial three times in the same article? That's more instances than I've seen in the last 10 years of reading combined!
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 12:45 AM
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This is EXACTLY why we warn our members to be cautious about accepting interviews from the media. They behave much like concern trolls, pretending to care, when it's only a pretext to gather information to complete what has already been decided to be a slam piece. Here is what she wrote to me when I expressed our skepticism about her intentions. Thank you for your response! I’m sorry it took me a little while to get back to you; I’m new to Reddit and am struggling with the entire format of it al…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 08:42 PM
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What is the RPW approach to being told you should lose weight? The long-game approach would be to lose weight if there is any objective truth to the statement, however insensitively delivered.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 05:38 PM
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The post generated reports, and mansplaining in the comments. It was removed pending mod discussion but OP deleted it making reinstatement a moot point. It's a worthwhile topic to discuss, so I'm glad the topic is back under more auspicious circumstances.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 12:04 AM
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Your advice is usually great. In this case, you could afford to be more... diplomatic in your approach to the topic.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 02:52 AM
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I can't use tampons or submit to pelvic exams due to how much I tense up if I'm not 100% at ease and lubricated. I don't need penetration Read up on Vaginismus and see if it sounds relevant to you. If yes, follow up with your doctor/psychologist as needed; it can become a formidible barrier to proper intimacy once you find a good partner. Plain old inexperience is not a problem or deal breaker to the right man with the right intentions.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 02:26 AM
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Men can be attracted to women with all kinds of unique appearances. What matters is that she puts forth a personality that is warm and inviting, is competent at reading and putting out inviting body language, supportive of and deferring the right amount to a well vetted partner. These and other factors are collectively considered feminine characteristics. What you might watch for in order to diagnose your meeting problems: Off-putting instead of inviting conversation. Responses that end the topi…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 04:19 AM
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Was there some kind of shake up within the sub recently? There was, but not recently, more like a year ago now. The sub has been doing just fine since. You're a smart man to lurk but not post there.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 04:02 AM
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Aw, thanks. My mod name got very carefully chosen; anyone who's ever had pet chickens knows that roosters are super protective of their flock. But, enough about me, off to address OP.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 03:56 AM
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OK thank you for clarifying.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 12:04 AM
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I've never met a Redpiller with a daughter I'm "a Redpiller" under a different username, old enough to have nieces and stepdaughters in their 20s. I also worked as an assistant mod for RedPillWomen when the old team flounced, because I consider the advice worthy of women as important as my own relatives. I don't want my daughter to be apart of PUA culture or slut culture or any of that. I'd personally rather her build an empire for herself if she doesn't want to save herself for marriage. But if…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 11:42 PM
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and I'm good-looking enough to be pursued by men I'm unemployed. But a great baker and cook and conversationalist All that, and you have the cutest flair text we've seen in a while. (☞ﾟヮﾟ)☞
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 11:21 PM
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Clinical depression. Seek professional help. You don't necessarily need meds, but may need a hand up out of the depths. and have lots of sexual experiences. Don't do this from a place of depression or in an effort to feel better. It's most likely to leave you feeling more empty, and will have repercussions far after the bout of depression is a distant memory. Keep us informed how things are going. There's much good in the world!
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 04:00 PM
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I like this post! Self-awareness and accountability are pillars of the Red Pill mindset.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 06:05 PM
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Let's stick to mainstream ways for women to meet men. Talking about your fetish club is off topic for the sub in general and bad advice for the average woman.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 07:45 PM
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This is off-topic for our sub; removed. Post the first half in AskTRP if you want useful advice and perspective about your situation. RPW isn't for men to lecture women about how to treat them.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 07:28 PM
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the amazing world of Disney and Disney princesses- fairytales, generally The greatest perpetuators of the Blue Pill mindset? And this is a problem why? Beauty and the Beast I don't know about the current version, but the one that came out 10-20 years ago was so wrong on so many levels; I'd not want my daughter watching it. My GF at the time wanted to see it in the theater, my mouth was agape for half the show. forcing girls and boys away from wanting to be saved or wanting to be a mighty saviour…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 07:24 PM
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☜(°O°☜) Oh no you didn't! Somebody Rick Roll this guy.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 03:17 AM
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I've been reading a lot of marriedredpill and askMRP, and I'm basically Dread-ing him. I'd recommend read less of the male subs till you have a better understanding of Red Pill concepts from the female perspective. What you're describing isn't Dread Game. As for the whole BDSM thing, it's not my wheelhouse but it sounds like you lack the prerequisite of both partners being fully bought-in to the idea. I think you expected this to help one problem only to find it didn't but caused numerous others…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 12:13 AM
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This is off-topic for our subreddit. Please rewrite this so it doesn't sound like drunkposting, and put it in AskTRP where you'll get the advice you need.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 12:08 AM
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This does not meet our posting guidelines. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 12:03 AM
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First off, I'm not a fan of podcasts and vlogs, primarily because as an information-gathering method, it's slow as ass. I can read and assimilate information much faster than the fastest talker. Did not find the patience to listen for a solid minute of his rambling and looking off-camera so I skipped through. Personally, I can not relate to the mindset of "women should be barefoot and pregnant" at all. I'm very intelligent and prefer to date educated, intelligent women. My relationships settle i…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 05:12 PM
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I think it's a given that RPW would not enjoy such tropes. This is a low effort post, feel free to repost with examples or further RP analysis.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 02:41 AM
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Is RPW primarily focused on relationships rather than bettering self? That is the current bulk of discussion, but self-improvement, awareness, and accountability are meta aspects of the praxeology that come out again and again during discussions and advice about relationships. Is it not more healthier to treat RPW as a WGTOW movement No. MGTOW aren't highly respected by RP men. While most of the women here are in sharp contrast to contemporary social standards, we're seeking more to live effecti…
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 01:57 AM
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Keep the discussion civil and leave ad hominem out of it. Everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 09:43 PM
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So I think men are the "real" gatekeepers of both sex and commitment. Am I wrong? Your understanding of this axiom is indeed incorrect. This applies mainly in the realm of initial attraction, and the initial matching and negotiation of a new relationship. Once it's off and running, different couples may evolve different practices, and outliers don't negate the general principle. This post is more about your personal relationship, than a good grasp of RP principles, so we're going to lock the dis…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 09:26 PM
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Wait till he contacts you next; I wouldn't make a special call just to tell him this. Also, try to let it flow naturally into the conversation, not come out in a way that sounds like a confrontation or ultimatum. If he's a smart man with good Captain potential, he knows that it's not a good idea to jump right into the next relationship, and may be slightly relieved that you don't want to just segue right in with him.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 07:38 PM
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Don't be the rebound girl! If he's to be a good long-term partner, don't date at all right now, not even partially or incrementally. Wait until HE is ready for a relationship, at which time he can make the initiating move. Don't rule out any other serious prospects in the mean time. This man openly tells you he is not ready to commit, believe him!
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 07:00 PM
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This doesn't meet RPW posting requirements. I recommend you repost on AskTRP, you'll get better fishing advice from fishermen than from fish. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 03:46 PM
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I'll be adding this to the other 3 parts in the AskTRP sidebar. This is the Everclear of distilled Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 10:13 PM
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First off, people have to be ready to swallow the pill, if you try to force it down they'll spit it back into your face! For persuasion and teaching, look into the Socratic method. Instead of telling or lecturing, this has you ask questions to help stimulate critical thinking and lead the person to realize they already understand and agree with the point you're trying to convey. This can do an end run around defense mechanisms that foster resistance to ideas that challenge their current worldvie…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 03:11 PM
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I'm betting he went flaccid not because you're less interesting than tentacle porn, but the conflicted mental state from being discovered with it just then. This is a proven boner-killer, do NOT assume it reflects his attraction to you in this specific context! The REALLY important question is, how is your sex life together overall in the big picture? If you're both having what you feel is enough good sex in the relationship, it's not necessarily a problem. It becomes a problem when it negativel…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 08:33 PM
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This exposes our members to doxxing, so we can't approve this post according to our rules. Paging u/luckylittlestar to review this action. Talk to u/thescarlettwoman about joining the database of RP women who want to meet up IRL. This offers a vetting process and some measure of security, and sharing this among that group once accepted might be a option.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 07:07 AM
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Should I wear clothing which doesn't show my body shape as much? Do I need to go back to my natural hair color? These factors matter much more for initial attraction and approach. Once you're on a date, they've already been tacitly approved of. It is your behavior and personality that becomes salient at this point. How well does conversation flow during dates? How does the ending of dates play out, mutually warm and happy, or the man nervous and hesitant?
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/17 04:58 PM
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Pain at separation/loss is part of being human; pair bonding wouldn't work without this. It takes time to get back to a baseline of normal after a big life disruption like this; sometimes on the order of months. The best you can do is not dwell on the loss, but try to keep busy with normal life. Invest now in self-improvement. Work out rather than indulge in comfort food during low moments. The good news is there are 3,500,000,000 other potential partners in the world once you are ready. ;)
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/17 01:50 AM
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This is concern trolling, not allowed here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 10:30 PM
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Check out "How to vet men Pt 3" in the sidebar ------> A very good discussion of Alpha/leadership versus Beta/provisioning traits. It sounds like this guy's stuck in a beta rut at his young age, and there's no simple trick to flip this switch in him. He'll have to see opportunities like you pass him up to become motivated then invest substantial time and effort toward self-improvement.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 02:21 AM
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PM u/thescarlettwoman to join the confidential database of local RPW contacts.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 08:54 PM
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Join Scarlett's database. I don't doubt most RPW have good share-worthy pinterest collections, but we have to be careful about opening pathways to easily doxxing our subscribers. As the recent troll storm illustrates, there are some crazy #$%&ers out there, who won't let up once they focus on someone/something.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/17 08:02 PM
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We check for legit hung posts periodically; if your post doesn't go live after a few hours, then feel free to message the mods. All removed posts are manually reviewed, sooner or later.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/17 01:05 AM
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How much responsibility do we have if we are drunk out of our minds? All of it! Being intoxicated isn't a defense against a crime, so IMO neither is it an excuse to shirk any of one's responsibility to ourselves and others. The onus of personal safety is on each of us humans as individuals. The above isn't intended to mitigate or excuse a man taking advantage of a woman too intoxicated to legitimately consent. I don't even understand the attraction, but there are a lot of creeps and scumbags out…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 11:35 PM
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It's been over a decade, but I'll never forget the Beef Wellington for my birthday! Homemade mole is great too. (ˆڡˆ) I'm often the breakfast maker in relationships. Eggs Benedict with hollandaise made from just-picked lemons, and crepes are always a hit.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 06:51 PM
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Unicode!
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 04:44 PM
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Sunlight is great, but any broad spectrum bright light should do the trick. There are neural pathways to the "body clock" part of the brain instead of the visual cortex. 10-20min bright light on the retinas near your target wake time is what activates the reset.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 04:40 PM
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Oh dear... this has more red flags than a Mayday parade! 98% sure there was another woman in that bed. I'm sorry! (ಥ﹏ಥ) Men on TRP talk about this a lot. "Plates always leave a calling card! Sock, hair tie, long hairs the wrong color..." Take this kind of sign seriously. I hope you left and didn't look back.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 09:06 AM
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YOU JUST DON'T REDDIT SO PATHETIC SHOULD LEARN TO ACCEPT IT
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 11:25 PM
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Hello, This doesn't meet our posting requirements, so it has been removed. When posting video links, properly title the post and include at least a short paragraph about the content of the video and how it relates to RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 09:11 PM
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For reducing the effects of SAD, Vitamin D may help as some have mentioned. Also try resetting the body clock by exposing your eyes to BRIGHT light for about 20 minutes around your normal wake time. I'd try this for at least a week or two, giving it time to get your natural melatonin cycle operating properly. Some have reported melatonin supplements help but I recommend this as a later resort.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 07:23 PM
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Hi, this is off-topic for our sub; you should post in AskTRP for the help you need from men with good specific advice. "Ask a fisherman, not a fish!"
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 04:20 PM
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Mod note: This is a duplicate post, do not approve as other version is live.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 02:14 AM
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This man has made it overwhelmingly clear that he wants to use you as a plate, not have a serious committed relationship. But since that 6 months he doesn't go out of my mind. What should I do? Get out more, to places where quality men have the opportunity to approach and get to know you. Find a man who wants what YOU want in a relationship, they exist. Time spent pining over someone who doesn't want you the same way is life wasted.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 02:10 AM
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I believe escorts are helpful to get through your scarcity mentality. I understand this works for some men; personally, I consider it akin to satisfying a desire for regular fishing trips by purchasing salmon fillets at the grocery store. Like abundance mentality in business: If you're dead, lower prices to get some work in. If you've got more work than you can handle, raise your prices at once!
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 10:29 PM
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Your post history doesn't scream "troll" first of all. It might help to keep in mind that TRP has a more combative, confrontational nature that is appropriate for testosterone-laden men. RPW value a more nurturing, helpful environment. That's not to say the members here are meek shrinking violets or ignore difficult truths, but it DOES mean that many conversational styles that are normal in TRP will make RPW bristle. One strong marker for trolling is someone speaking harshly more for the benefit…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 10:23 PM
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I agree, but don't feed the troll. We're deleting these as fast as we can, and we'll run him out of seasoned throwaway accounts before long. This is his second run here.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 04:32 PM
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Haha, there are so many versions of the "navy seal" post going around Reddit. One time long ago I saw a version that looked like hardcore Aussie or Welsh, that I've never been able to find again. Somebody did a Chad Thundercock version even.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 04:31 PM
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Good question; how about a look inside the moderating process. Just the act of reporting it is fine; you don't have to worry about the fine granularity of "reason" with such a blatant troll. If you report an edgy, borderline, or ambiguously trollish post, then it may be helpful to choose "other" and write in your reason, if the drop-down menu of choices doesn't offer a good fit and the reason for reporting isn't obvious. Once a post is reported, the mods receive a notification about it, and we r…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 04:26 PM
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Awww, you're welcome. It's been a heck of a busy day in modville. No worries... RedPillWomen aren't going to take this lying down! (ง ͠° ͟ل͜ ͡°)ง
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 08:15 AM
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It's def a he, I wrote the title like that on purpose. Not our first rodeo with this bunch of bull!
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 10:46 PM
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Maybe ;)
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 10:15 PM
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I think your Balanced checkbook of the Relationship post should be crossposted on TRP. That always resonated with me. Women love to do that irregular conjugation thing. "My money/posessions/accomplishments are mine... yours are ours!"
/r/askTRP28/02/17 08:17 PM
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Books and more books. I grew up reading things like The Boy Mechanic and Handyman's Book and always tinkering with things. Youtube videos can be hit or miss; sometimes there's gold from start to finish, other times you waste 10 minutes to get 1min of actual information. This year I hope to build a backyard pizza oven and make some fancy stepping stones with glass aggregate. Sometimes you have to just jump in and start doing a project, have a few "learning experiences" along the way, and before y…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 08:03 PM
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How sweet, and those branches can last a week in the vase if the buds are just opening at the bottom. My most spectacular flowers are poisonous AF and don't make good cut flowers, but I love pausing for a kiss downwind of my brugmansia when it has 200+ blooms open at once in the evening.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 07:45 PM
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13 minutes and 13 reports... haven't seen that many reports about one post in 9mo of modding here! Caught another <1min after posting. Gonna be a long day of whack-a-troll.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 07:40 PM
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Latest instance: 21 minutes, 8 reports, no replies. Good work, RPW!
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 06:53 PM
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Why rule out online dating? It's a great extension to your dating pool, and allows for much pre-screening and vetting. I suggest emphasize the positive (Tall guy it's your lucky day I'm 5'11) rather than negative (I only want to date men taller than me no shorties.) This will work more by matching you with someone looking for you specifically, not so much by managing first impressions. This is the power of online dating: marketing yourself to a much larger pool of candidates than you could meet …
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 05:11 PM
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Mods: Duplicate post by different username, don't approve this version, other is live. Minarette: Answered in other post. New accounts are automatically moderated see sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 04:48 PM
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TRP isn't a museum of Alphas, but mostly a hospital for Betas and broken men. At any given moment, a large percentage of the posters are early in their RP journey and venting their anger and ineptitude freely in a locker room environment. That's why we made this portal from the AskTRP sidebar, to debrief women who manage to land at TRP first. Once you've slid down the learning curve of female RP sexual strategy, you'll be better equipped to sort the gold from the ore at TRP if you choose to vent…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 04:46 PM
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I was gonna say, *What a homo...nym!"
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 04:16 PM
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Generally RPW isn't for polling women, but this raises a discussion-worthy question. I'm pretty sure you'll find the answers as varied as the membership for these reasons: Human attraction varies widely from person to person, even within fairly homogenous cultures and groups Humans vary widely in their self-awareness and level of discrepancy between their self-image and actual behavior; IOW some have a very active hamster and are absolute crap at understanding and verbalizing their inner working…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 10:08 PM
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Tinder has a reputation as a hook-up site, I don't care what people try to say about it. Try another dating site, even POF, with the filters set for the more serious relationship options. Make sure your profile describes yourself well, the type of relationship you seek, and the type of man you're interested in. Try to use mostly positive declarations that sounds inviting to qualified candidates; don't have mostly a long list of things you don't want. In person, how are you with exchanging IOIs? …
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 06:33 PM
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Break up with me once, shame on you. Break up with me twice three times several times, shame on me! "Threatening to break up" is a nuclear option, not a healthy relationship behavior choice. There's obviously lots of lack of leadership and captaining as underlying causes of these events; THAT is the part to scrutinize, not so much the symptom of "keeps breaking up."
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 08:14 PM
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Open relationships are NOT something RPW can really help with. Much of our praxeology and methods presupposes commitment to one partner. Opening to other partners changes the dynamic so fundamentally, and introduces so many of the specific problems that monogamous commitment structurally avoids, that we can't be of much help. I suggest the morethantwo website and post to the (slow) redpillnonmonogamy sub for further information specific to your relationship needs.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 08:01 PM
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Good call, but it's an eclectic American speaking. I love me some colorful idioms from other cultures, and Australia is rich in these.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 07:56 PM
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I'm a generation older and a high earner; it doesn't make sense to nickel and dime a date, and "guy pays" is pretty much de rigueur. In order to avoid a BetaBucks precedent, I schedule an inexpensive, noncommittal first meet like Jamba Juice and pay for this. My dating funnel prior to first meet is ruthlessly polarizing, so I seldom end up at the meeting stage with someone who's a complete dud. If this first meet goes well, it may extend into a dinner date, but if not, no loss or regrets over a …
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 11:34 PM
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I'VE FOUND MY PEOPLE!! Welcome!
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 10:18 PM
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done right, that some serious vavoom! I don't see how any man could resist Can confirm. Not a big make-up fan but when I had a GF that was really good at applying those, they would prompt me to serenade her to the tune of Hungry Eyes. "Zing-zing eyes! I feel the magic between you and I!" add that to the list of modern beauty trends that can go away!!! It makes sense in a middle eastern context, but looks overdone and right out of place by US standards.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 08:22 PM
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Oh no!! I'm sorry for posting then! No worries. We don't publicize it but there is some unfortunate history between the founders and TRP/RPW. My efforts toward unification and diplomacy have not been reciprocated. Is there a reason I should be avoiding that community?? Not necessarily; judge it on its own merits. For now, just don't link it on RPW. Thanks -VRR
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 06:35 AM
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Sorry, we're not accepting links to FNF at this time. We'll review this policy as that sub evolves. You're more than welcome to start a new discussion on the topic here. Regards, -VRR & the mod team
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 06:08 AM
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This relationship dumpster fire is so antithetical to RPW that I don't know where to begin. I've already slept with three guys for him now This is controlling and abusive behavior, even BEFORE the sordid details!
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 01:34 AM
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First I'd recommend reading "There's this one girl..." in the sidebar ----> Thoughts on what I should/could say to her on the phone? When you're living your life for you, conversation will come naturally; you'll talk about your exciting adventures etc which will build attraction organically. There are no magic lines to say to make a bored (thus boring) person appear more attractive than they already aren't.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:55 AM
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sex worker. Since I've found RP, how this one subset of women fits into the theory has really bugged me, because it doesn't seem to fit in to the post-modern world RP sees itself in opposition to. Maybe there's an issue of conceptualizing "red pill" here. It's not an ideology or belief system, but a praxeology or set of observations about how people behave. At its very core, it means seeing the world for how it actually is, not through the lens of unconscious filters built into us collectively k…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 05:38 AM
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In the past 2 months, my SO has started spending 2.5-3 hours at the gym every day. If this is a stable and temporary pattern and you're sure he's actually working out at the gym, then this pattern will probably evolve to a new equilibrium soon. If by "going to the gym" he means "doing reps on the Horizontal Mamba machine" that's another matter! He's trying to make up for it by cuddling me more, and doing some work at my place once in a while. Good! That's a great sign actually. He's not bending …
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 12:41 AM
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Post locked, the question is inherently subjective therefore better suited for PPD. People who dislike TRP will find things to criticize and deem controversial no matter how we write it.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:43 PM
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Check the articles in the sidebar under Finding, getting, keeping your Captain, and the "captain won't lead" article as well. ----> There's a way to "extend an invitation" to lead without disrupting the power balance in the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 05:38 PM
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This absolutely does not meet our posting guidelines; RPW is a woman space, don't pet the unicorns. Go to AskTRP and get the help you need from your fellow men. Ask a fisherman, not a fish, how to fish!
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 05:35 PM
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Face photos aren't allowed on our sub, we don't do rateme here so this post won't be approved but you're welcome to stick around for feminine beauty discussion. I'd say straighen posture, wear glasses that don't slide down nose, long straight clean hair would be 3 high return changes you could consider.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/17 08:11 PM
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Hmmm... I'm not a fan of many "practical" jokes because they have a way of creeping into passive (and active) aggression. There's a youtube channel by a couple that plays ever-escalating pranks on each other. Some of them are hilarious, some cold. Basically, Jackass was a funny movie to watch one time 10 years ago, but I wouldn't want to live my day to day life like that. That said, fun pranks and horseplay can be the bread and butter of long-term domestic felicity. For example, applying gentle …
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/17 03:06 AM
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No worries, some people went off-topic on a tangent; your post was the unintentional start of a big mess.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 10:53 PM
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A woman may think to herself, I've put in seven years on the dating market. I've dated countless creeps and sucked a hundred cocks. I deserve to be happy and married by now. Consequently that's her attitude for each new guy she meets. OK, thanks for clarifying what you mean. Occam's Razor suggests the phenomenon may not involve this transactional thought process, but rather arises simply from becoming jaded or cynical.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 07:57 PM
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Interesting, though I'm not sure how this ties into RP praxeology just yet. Women, the man you are with owes you NOTHING for what you did with/for the men before him. I've never heard anyone, male or female, suggest that a man "owes" a woman anything for past experiences with other men. Perhaps you could clarify this point? A bad or abusive former lover can harm relationship prospects, while a healthy past relationship history can make for a better current relationship. However, each partner's R…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 07:40 PM
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Original post here. Glad this turned around so nicely!
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 06:43 PM
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Please stay on topic, and if you agree give your reasons, don't resort to insults, name calling, and other ad hominem. Don't make the mods have to lock the thread and temporarily ban more users to cool off. Thanks, and carry on... nicely, please!
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 07:42 AM
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A simple misunderstanding about a word spiraled out of control. Don't resort to insults, ad hominem, name calling etc. Many comments removed and 3 users given a 1 day timeout to cool off; don't make the mods have to get all strict. "If I have to stop this subreddit..." For the record, segregate isn't a race specific term in many contexts including sociology.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 07:39 AM
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Stupid idea. Recommend against.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 05:31 AM
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Thanks for including some reasons why you disagree this time. :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 12:16 AM
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The Red Pill is a praxeology, not peer-reviewed science. Rather than pedantically asking only for citations and qualifications, how about discuss or inquire about areas where OP's writing conflicts with your own observations.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 09:38 PM
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It's only controversial to those who don't understand or are hostile to Red Pill praxeology. Women's SMV peaks far earlier in life, so a woman who wants marriage for life and children within a nuclear family, it's important to be goal-oriented in her 20s because prospects for this particular life path go WAY down after the late 20s. Men OTOH usually hit their stride, career and appearance wise, in their 30s, which is why their SMV tends to crest then and drop off more slowly. It's biology; "Fair…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 04:53 PM
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That's about it, and when you're way up the bell curve of intelligence this manifests in many areas of life, not just your specific area of expertise. Read about the Dunning-Kruger effect.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 04:17 PM
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Now one of the facets in RPW is to defer to your captain for all situations. It's a little more nuanced than that actually. RPW presupposes a competent Captain and a healthy, functional relationship. A good Captain knows how and when to delegate. Every human has strengths and weaknesses; some of these split neatly along gender lines, others are variable and successful couples often complement each other's strengths and weaknesses without it becoming a power struggle or other problem. There are g…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 08:09 AM
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how my boobs are small, and my legs fat, that I wear too much makeup, he sudelly don't like my Clothes and shoes , the way I organize things etc. This isn't a list of suggestions for a wife to improve. It sounds like a gunny sack of justifications to loathe an ex, a campaign to destroy your self-esteem, and/or a cowardly passive-aggressive game of "Make her want to break up with me so I don't have to." Red Pill Women is very pro-marriage, but everything presupposes that both husband and wife are…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 07:08 AM
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Use your best judgement there. If you're seriously not feeling it, then politely decline. If you're noticing zero approaches from men you consider qualified across 6 months, there's something wrong so let's talk about that. Are you getting out into the general dating marketplace of your area? Do you look approachable and open? Do you notice the social scene around you and exchange IOIs with people? Maybe a trusted wingwoman could observe you in action and offer feedback.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 07:44 PM
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Learn to say no gracefully. Check out the article on assertiveness in the sidebar --->
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 06:59 PM
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/thread Congrats!
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 06:56 PM
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I have a kind of "Every day is valentine's day" relationship philosophy, so we don't join the unprepared throngs out on the town that night. She got Lomo Saltado, a favorite of ours. I got wood. No, really! Had a quiet and lovely meal together by the fireplace. <3
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 05:31 PM
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I was pseudo-living with him and we had a huge fight - he decided the best course of action would be for us to see each other less, that I would move a bunch of my things out and that we would try to wipe the slate clean. Downgrade to plate. We chatted on the phone Monday (with no plans to see each other until Friday) Plate We were in bed last night reading and watching TV, and after about 15 min I took a picture of us (feeling kind of goofy), and then tried showed it to him. He said "I am tryin…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 04:44 PM
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Thanks for your kind words. Don't try to pet the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 10:37 PM
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since gen z are mostly conservative Aaaah, this might be an important element of understanding what's going on. You seem to have conflated Generation Z is the most conservative since WWII to gen z are mostly conservative
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 07:28 PM
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If all you want is validation that sleeping with many men without commitment won't have negative relationship consequences later in life so just go ahead and do what feels good now, then Red Pill Women isn't the place you're going to find it. Male and female sexual strategy are different and complementary. High N count doesn't affect males the same way; it's not a double standard, it's biology. Convincing females that following a male strategy is good and desirable and without negative consequen…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 07:21 PM
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Anyone, male or female, can easily get a temporarily restraining order filed against someone. The restrained person can appear in court to contest the order, and if there's no case, the order may be dropped, or a short order allowed to expire without reinstatement or a long-term protective order being made. I've been in the courtroom and watched the judge send couples out to the hallway to try to reach a resolution before issuing a long-term protective order, and denying frivolous or unconvincin…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 06:28 PM
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Women who have lots of sexual partners often find it hard to effectively pair-bond later in life, THAT is the main reason why RPW recommends against casual sex with multiple partners. A college age virgin comes closest to a SMV unicorn in the Relationship marketplace. If you want to marry a high quality partner for life, this is one of your greatest bargaining chips. Instead of sleeping with a bunch of guys, why not date to vet for a quality LTR partner and sleep with this one man a bunch of tim…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:06 PM
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Hollywood style liberals get media attention, and a college environment is Peak Liberal because it's a group perennially between supported 100% by parents but not yet exposed to the "real" workaday world that is most of adult life. In the business world, life remains very conservative. This guy in the video starts with several false premises and runs with them as if they're true, resulting in a niche-appeal product serving those who feel that conservatism is an outsider, beseiged minority. The v…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 05:12 PM
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This doesn't meet our posting requirements. When posting video links we ask that you include at least a short paragraph describing the video and (where possible) tying it in to RP theory. Edit your post accordingly then message the mods so we can reapprove it. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 04:19 PM
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In most cases there is no need to post a picture of yourself; this isn't rateme or amIugly. Any pictures you do post should meet the following security checks: Face totally obscured Cropped to remove landmarks No identifying info in frame: House number, license plate, mailpiece, work uniform or badge
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 04:08 AM
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That number is suggested by the director) based on the Buddhist theory regarding how long it takes a soul to evolve to the next level, though in "real time" it may have been as little as 10 years.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 05:34 AM
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Great list! When I was a teen, I got to see Rex Harrison's last acting run as Prof. Henry Higgins in My Fair Lady at the Pantages, a great memory! The Music Man is another favorite, I love the sound of Barbershop Quartets. That sweet "fifth voice"! (ღ˘⌣˘ღ) My only critique is that the classic movie version's production doesn't take good advantage of the medium; it amounts to a stage production before cameras. Don't forget Oklahoma! from this era.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 07:41 PM
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One of my favorite movies is Groundhog Day. The premise is interesting to those of us studying human behavior and relationship dynamics. The main character is stuck in a time loop for up to 10,000 years, reliving the same day under the same initial circumstances with all the same characters, but only he remembers what happened each time the day begins again. He starts out as a pure Alpha raging douchebag; arrogant, cocky, narcissistic; nobody around him likes him. He runs the gamut as the days p…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 03:18 AM
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The sexual relationship between the two main characters in Atlas Shrugged is literally a model for a healthy Red Pill relationship. She's basically a wholly anti-feminist. The sex scenes in her books, while incredibly erotic, really give you a picture into the animalistic side of women. <stifles laughter> Ayn Rand is mindblowing the first time you read through; less so when revisited years later. The relationships in the book were unrealistic caricatures, and check out her IRL messed up relation…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 08:59 PM
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Be sure to read What to do if your Captain won't lead from our sidebar ----> Also follow the links within that article, especially "extend an invitation." Also see The case for a Greater Beta and Part 3 of Vetting Men in the sidebar--->
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 06:46 PM
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a little playful defiance If you play it right, this can be a fun part of a relationship. Be very careful that it doesn't grade into passive-aggression, in his perception! This might happen by accident and backfire if you don't read his mood correctly or are cavalier in your application. Great FR and glad to hear it turned positive!
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 05:15 PM
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I'm 22 and feel like I'm running out of time. It's good that you're aware that time isn't unlimited, but you're not going to expire like milk at 22. He ordered one drink and then said it was nice to meet me Sounds like a proficient RP dater interested in plates and ONS, not a relationship. It's good that your vetting processes stopped things here; improving your dating funnel will help unqualified guys drop out sooner, ideally before they even approach. he proceeded to ask me my religion and I t…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 02:47 AM
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In fact, the balanced version is more attainable sustainable than the "sex God" version. FTFY, otherwise agree with what you say, including the Quality Post part.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 08:58 PM
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This does not meet our posting guidelines or provide any value to our community.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 08:27 AM
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I must ask what basis and reason you have for making this post? Your criticisms don't make sense to one familiar with the RPW community, its daily discourse, and the complementary application of RP principles by women versus men.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 11:26 PM
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To be fair, Reddit is sometimes quirky about displaying user flairs, especially when first assigned.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 06:52 PM
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Easier to prevent than to remove once established. This is a big part of why TRP is so stridently against the CC and texting except for logistics. Operant conditioning principles suggest that if you remove this validation from your life, its importance will diminish unto extinction over time. It will be subjectively better for you in the meantime and beyond if you focus on indulging only healthy attention, and then in healthy doses only.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 12:42 AM
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Reporting him won't make you whole again. It does have the potential to introduce consequences in a legally sanctioned way, which may deter him and others from such cavalier actions. If you're going to seek "revenge" this is the best way to go about it. I don't believe in acting impulsively in response to being wronged, but by the same token allowing others to transgress without consequenses doesn't sit right with me either. You have to decide these things on a case by case basis, and this gener…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:26 PM
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Read or reread "There's this one girl..." in the sidebar ----> This represents the foundation of your problems. Ditching oneitis and internalizing abundance mentality will be game changing for you.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:15 PM
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AskTRP is now "Ask shitty questions by lazy neckbeards" instead of "Ask specific questions about research I've done". We do what we can on our end to improve the structure and content of AskTRP. As with all things humans do though, "Build it, and shitheads will come!" Brings to mind a favorite Heinlein quote: You can lead a horticulture, but you can't make her think!
/r/askTRP07/02/17 05:21 PM
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I've never had or wanted kids of my own, but some of the most fulfilling experiences of my life have been mentoring kids or taking them out of their dull concrete jungle existence to explore the mountains and desert, target shoot, ride quads and gokarts etc. This naturally integrates things I'd normally want to be doing anyway. A few of these have reached out to me in adulthood to say these were some of their best experiences growing up. That's been my way of mutually enriching lives without it …
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 04:46 PM
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I made another, better batch of bacon on the BBQ, so I can follow up on some of the questions, plus I have pictures. BBQ Bacon tips Use thick cut bacon, it won't droop or curl below the grill as easily When it first touches the grill it sticks like superglue, but tears like wet paper towels if you try to reposition it, so try to get it laid flat the first time! Dangling it over the front of the grill, then giving it a flip so it lays stretched and flat in one flick works better than mincingly tr…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 07:35 AM
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There's a section on beginning fitness in the improved AskTRP Sidebar ---->
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:48 AM
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It's the very apotheosis of Blue Pill beliefs and values. Many men want the whole marriage, house, job, kids package. They honestly believe that if they marry and work to provide for their family, they will be rewarded with a wife who readily admires and respects him for being who he is and for what he does. <siiiiiigh!>
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/17 04:43 PM
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This doesn't meet our posting guidelines and rules, removed.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/17 04:32 PM
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This is one of the main reasons RPW recommends against being a plate, if a committed relationship is your true goal. It's difficult for a man to make the mental commitment needed for LTR to a woman once he's been with her as a plate. Even if a guy tries, relationships started this way face unique challenges. If he really was an exceptional match, wouldn't things have gone that direction long ago in your history together?
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/17 02:16 AM
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I have no fucking clue when/if she ever has an orgasm, but I'm not inclined to ask...any advice? Don't ask... observe. You'll know.. Theres still an element of nervousness that I feel, which sometimes leads me to struggle to stay hard inside her Just soldier through, you get used to it and the nervousness stops being a factor. Once you've slid down the learning curve of fucking, you learn to take lack of excitement as incentive to look elsewhere. There is NO erectile dysfunction drug like new pu…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 08:44 AM
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Very funny and illustrative of "The Wall" as described by TRP. Thanks for sharing this. Marked NSFW for language.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 05:54 AM
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Using the REPORT feature helps us delete them faster. There has been a rash of these the last 2 weeks, I notice Reddit seems to be detecting and deleting the accounts about half the time now. Other than that we mods can only play whack-a-mole and share your frustration.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 04:44 AM
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Doxxable pics aren't allowed on our sub in this context. Please follow deadsandsushi's example and obscure your entire face. The Risky Shift or Shift to Risk represents the human tendency to make riskier decisions as a group. Well meaning people can innocently lead others to harm, and agents provocateurs can exploit it for intentional doxxing harm. That's why we must strictly enforce this rule even for those who aren't concerned about being publicly identified.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 04:08 AM
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Other times we will have a conversation with OP in the comments while the post is deleted and invisible except to OP and the mods, making recommendations for it to become compliant with posting requirements. Once it's ready for approval we delete all of these comments, so regular users see a thread appear with no comments but a large comment number.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 05:42 AM
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there's no need for an explanation other than what the title says. If you say so... <changes entire subreddit ruleset to permit this specific case>
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 12:39 AM
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From our posting requirements Posts & Comments Please make sure not to post a wall of text. Familiarize yourself with reddit formatting and use linebreaks properly. Poorly spelled, formatted, or capitalized posts will be removed. No inter-reddit links or promoting other subs. Use Archive.Today If you post a link or video, please elaborate with a discussion on the content. Low effort posts will be removed. No memes or image macros. What this means is, when you want to post a link to a video or ot…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 11:39 PM
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Welcome! We're all about self-improvement here; if you're ready for a turnabout it's a good place to have landed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 03:46 PM
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That escalated quickly! (ง ͠° ͟ل͜ ͡°)ง
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 10:24 PM
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I didn't know The Private Man, but his contributions to the Manosphere are the studs and wiring of TRP. I offer an epitaph, for still-warm ears: A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, di…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 12:30 AM
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Behold TRP being triggered. Kind of a subreddit easter egg.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 11:43 PM
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The beginning word "modern" triggered the automoderator to highlight the post as if it was an official MOD post.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 09:44 PM
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Maintain frame, don't let her see a reaction. Disengage, speak to family law attorney, take the matter to court. Family law judges take a very dim view indeed of parents using the child as a pawn in their own battles.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 09:34 PM
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Ongoing adventures on the barbecue at my shop. I tried cooking bacon, with mixed results. Do not walk away from the grill for any reason or duration, there will be FIRE! Opened the lid to find half of the slices merrily burning away; the good news is, doctor says I need more carbon in my diet! Lesson learned: Bacon can be successfully cooked on the BBQ, just watch it like a hawk, spray bottle in hand! Further experimentation found that starting at high heat to initially sear it, then turning dow…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 08:30 PM
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Hmmm... is "wood for the fire" a metaphor here? (✿´‿`)
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 06:30 PM
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Don't be fit and stylish for the sake of other guys, be fit and stylish for the sake of yourself, and your husband! Also for the sake of your kids, so you are healthy and strong far into their adulthoods. (he also has a low SMV and is unmotivated at the moment to improve it) Take the initiative to start your own self-improvement, but look for ways to let him lead or take some initiative once he's interested (and he will be.)
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 05:59 AM
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We can't really approve this post because it should be obvious through basic understanding of RPW norms and standards. Read the sidebar and lurk a while, then come back with another post.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 11:45 PM
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This thread wandered way off topic and became argumentative. Not the way we do business here at RPW. Temporary ban on posting here, reread Commitment or GTFO in the sidebar before you consider returning.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 08:53 PM
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If you have a concern about a user, use the REPORT function. You're not doing anyone any good questioning peoples' commitment to RPW in their threads. Post removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 10:55 PM
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We'd like to help but there need to be details and context. I removed this for not meeting posting guidelines, but you can make a new post or edit this one with at least a paragraph or two and we'll approve it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 10:51 PM
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Yes... I have what I call "My ugly but effective hat." Wide brim all the way around and a neck extension around the back. Great for gardening, hiking, and other outdoor stuff. I hate sunscreen so this works for me. My arms and hands are quite tan, but my face and neck are well protected. Got to maintain my young cockerel appearance as long as possible!
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 08:23 AM
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I can remember at least a few women who I started off thinking "Ehh, I don't think her face is up to GF material level" at first, but then you know what happens if I actually (gasp) like you? Suddenly that face of yours stops being "rough" and starts to be endearing, unique, unconventional, etc. Can confirm! Further observations upon this: A higher SMV man with a lower SMV and low RMV (bitchy, unreliable, aggressive, no homemaking skills, etc) will make people say, "What is he doing with her???"…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 03:29 AM
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I agree, will be adding this next time I work on it! Much needed article, Sadie.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 11:17 PM
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Heh... I'm old enough to have dated several women who are post-menopause. 19yo about to hit the wall... lol. The concept is primarily a channel marker, for young women seeking a top quality life partner not to waste their youth on the CC. It's not a waterfall off the edge of the world as some make it out to be.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 11:11 PM
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Relationship market value. What you bring to the table besides physical appearance. Attitude, nurturing, home-making, faithfulness are some factors. Sometimes, I look at the total package of a less-pretty woman with a smile, thinking, "She looks like excellent wife material!"
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 10:58 PM
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Mind your manners and use the REPORT function if you think a post has problems. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 10:48 PM
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This doesn't come close to meeting our posting requirements; it's even beneath your usual writing at PPD. Incoherent, rambling, full of false presuppositions. Post removed, and if you post garbage like this here again you will be banned. Good day.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 10:21 PM
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Lots of good advice ITT. Being a Red Pill Woman doesn't mean becoming a selfless Stepford Wife, at all! I'm going to focus on your unfulfilled career aspirations since this seems to be a big source of your current dissatisfaction. You didn't specify what aspects of "media" you are interested in. Is there any way you could do freelance or telecommuting work that is at least tangentially related to your long-term goals and dreams? Copywriting, editing, video editing and post-production and the lik…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 09:39 PM
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This doesn't meet our posting requirements. When you post a video link, there should be at least a paragraph about what the video is, and your analysis of its relevance to RPW. Edit more info in to your post and we can approve it for you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 09:09 PM
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Hi, this doesn't meet our posting guidelines; RPW isn't for men to ask questions of women. You'll get much better responses in AskTRP. Ask a fisherman, not a fish, and all that. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 04:35 PM
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He posted it on Gonewild too. GTFO troll!
/r/askTRP24/01/17 08:15 AM
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Does anyone have favorite recipe for rabbit? Glenn Close does.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 03:51 AM
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This weekend I left my cozy warm house at 76' above sea level to go camping in the mountains DURING a snowstorm! I cooked a steak over a good hot bed of coals, got a nice sear on it and perfect rare middle, despite the fact that the "up" side of the steak was getting SNOWED ON as I cooked it! Adjusting the grill height and time for the conditions wasn't the biggest challenge. It was the spectrum of the white LEDs in my headlight: White LEDs produce relatively little red light, which makes it ver…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 12:48 AM
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Red Pill Knowledge is amoral. Have three days off posting for disobeying the rule against moralizing.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 10:35 PM
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Vandaalen is one of AskTRP's regular contributors, along with Vasiliy, MattyAnon, FjordSnord and a few other ECs. I'm in charge of the long-term rebuilding of the AskTRP sidebar. The effort includes answering Frequently AskTRP'd Questions, and curating beginner material into a Build-A-Man workshop. Feel free to PM me permalink to any article you think would be helpful in the AskTRP sidebar. The idea is to help people get a basic level of reading and study done on their own LIKE MEN, so that when…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 07:52 PM
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I've been working on improving the AskTRP sidebar by curating canonical posts fit for RP newbies by good TRP writers, to cover as many Frequently AskTRP'D Questions as possible. This is an ongoing work, if anyone has a great suggestion for this collection, please PM me the permalink for consideration. Of course, many newbies won't check the sidebar first and shitpost anyhow, but referring them to the sidebar saves time and helps "train" other newbies to check there first. The idea is to bring th…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 11:19 PM
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There was a thread about female friends recently. It's down to selection, and sometimes it has to mean ruthlessly cutting away deadwood to whittle your social circle down to the quality people you find worthy and don't commit social transgressions. Unfortunately there are a lot of crummy people on this round blue pill of a planet.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 07:14 PM
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Check out the list of scheduled screenings. One of the things organized local groups can do (that are difficult for lone internet activists) is organize a Tugg screening of the movie in your own community.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 03:34 AM
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OK, that makes sense. Sounds like your relationship dashboard is all green then. :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 05:31 PM
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Some are trolls, but I appreciate you bringing up this perspective.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 06:36 AM
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If they'll cheat with or branch swing to you, they'll cheat on or branch swing away. This sounds like great sugar game, or mistress/concubine game, or gold digger game. Def not part of the Red Pill Woman game, except perhaps those who practically fetishize Machiavellian and Dark Triad traits.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 06:14 AM
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I try to avoid being crass in RPW, but <writes crassly> ಠ_ಠ
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 06:07 AM
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I do get signals from guys that they're interested (smiling too much or peacocking), but they never make a move. Mind you, I'm in an LTR and I'm not looking Wut? You're in a relationship but guys aren't hitting on you and this is a problem? (>ლ) I'm betting it's down to you're seriously not telegraphing "buying" signals, so only socially inept goofs like you describe are making IOIs toward you. Maybe you're also a little too interested in external validation of your SMV? It might be worth delvin…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 05:53 AM
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Right, but a woman with an N count of 2 has a MUCH higher RMV than your 10! This is something worth maintaining and protecting if her ultimate goal is a marriage to a high value, selective man. This matters a lot for a young woman with a low N like OP. What you're describing applies well to the 30s-40s dating market.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 05:25 AM
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When I made "baby" versions of my characters, the sales tripled Neoteny FTW!
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 05:21 AM
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"Get a FWB" isn't Red Pill advice for a young woman preserving a low N count. I appreciate your effort to qualify what you wrote; I'd add that it might become a viable dating strategy for older, experienced daters and vetters who aren't placing a high priority on marrying one man.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 02:23 AM
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Abundance mentality is a component of male sexual strategy. What you wrote is a misrepresentation of what abundance mentality means in Red Pill canon, so we're not able to approve this post. By all means, read the sidebar and lurk more in our community, it's a steep learning curve. :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 12:46 AM
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If you have a concern about a post, please use the report button to bring it to the attention of the mods. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 11:31 PM
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What Sadie said. Please read the sidebar and if you have specific questions after that we can help you. Post removed for low effort.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 09:35 PM
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You are his plate, which RPW specifically recommends against. By offering casual sex with no commitment, you have given up your value in the basic SMP transaction without collecting the value (commitment) you seek from him. There's little to incentivize him to change this status. If a committed LTR or marriage is your life goal, breaking up with this guy, reading through the sidebar starting with "a note about plates," and starting fresh in the SMP is a better bet than trying to fix what you hav…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 06:55 PM
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Right up there with "Dyslexics Untie!" Clever, OP!
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 04:49 PM
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It doesn't make sense to double down on explaining male strategy, without offering further actionable advice for women.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 04:18 PM
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what do I say? Nothing, or K at the most. He's not pursuing. Sorry. <3
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 04:16 PM
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Have a 1-day vacation from posting for gratuitous insults.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 12:57 AM
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TRP teaches men, "Text only for logistics." Personally, I think it's silly to play games not-talking to someone you're attracted to; just avoid appearing too needy and thirsty, which is the underlying reason for this recommendation. It is the prerogative of the woman to pursue and maintain relationship business. Therefore, I don't see a problem with you texting a question about the date he asked for, especially since he's not texting even for logistics here. I hear that you find him attractive, …
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 11:41 PM
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OP, please follow our posting guidelines and break this wall of text into paragraphs. Then, message the mods for reapproval. Thanks.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 06:23 PM
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Sounds delicious, that's one of my fave Indian dishes. My brother and his wife went on two epic trips to India when young. Now they can walk into an Indian store and buy raw spices to make dishes from scratch. (SIL ended up with giardia and both kinds of dysentery all at once the second time. After going through that together they got engaged, soon to reach 20th anniversary.)
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 05:03 PM
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Made a delicious pork shoulder in the slow cooker. Nothing like large quantities of pork to induce a food coma! It was so filling I couldn't give it away fast enough to my co-workers. One bowl for lunch and you're struggling to keep your eyes open for the next 2 hours.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 04:57 PM
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I second the Dale Carnegie suggestion. How to win friends isn't about sexual strategy, but basic people skills. Another way to transfer wisdom and insight without seeming pedantic is the Socratic Method, wherein instead of telling, you ask the right series of questions so the person realizes they already "know" what you're telling them.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 04:21 PM
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7 day suspension from posting. If you want to play games in the future we can make it permanent.
/r/askTRP17/01/17 07:48 PM
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More like inverse-SAD. Most people affected become depressed because of the effect of shorter days/longer nights. It's a huge problem at higher latitudes.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 04:39 PM
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Abundance Mentality is a big thing in male sexual strategy. It doesn't transfer well into female strategy, however. You seemed to "connect" to 4 of 10 guys you dated, but that's not the same thing as being able to form a quality committed LTR with them! I think your epiphany needs a little reflection and refinement to become actionable advice for women in general.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 03:41 AM
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Paging u/MrsSadieDunham :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 08:16 PM
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For those who missed the fun: This post was a verbal judo response to a troll who kept posting all caps YOU WOMEN ARE ALL BITTER PATHETIC LOSERS WORTHLESS TO MEN posts over and over. We banned him on like 8 accounts in 2 days. He finally stopped after I posted this. I realize the post must seem weird if you happened upon it after the troll shitstorm was over, but that's what this post was for, specifically.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 10:22 PM
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I don't get it myself, though BDSM isn't my fetish, really at all. As I've told people since the book, "I'm like 5 shades of gray." A slap on the buns here, a hold of the arms or crush together against an obstacle there, and that's about it. Loving and affectionate is more my personal style. Some people are really into it, and that's fine for them as long as they're genuinely in touch with their wants and not being abused and exploited. Whatever creams your twinkie, eh? But yeah, the book (and p…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 04:30 AM
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In the past, I've been used and haven't gotten anything out of it. So now I realize I must focus on what I want. Ding ding ding! Now we're getting to root causes. u/-I-Am- asks an important question. What do YOU bring to the table, that a high SMV/RMV man wants? I recommend the Vetting Men series, esp part 1, in the sidebar ----> Yes sex and dating is transactional at its core. In making sure you get what you want, it's important to keep an eye on what you offer in exchange, for THIS is a major …
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 11:31 PM
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Guys with a higher SMV would go dutch or we would take turns (But the first date he would pay). Yeah, this is fair dinkum; and the way a RP man with a healthy mix of leadership/provider traits would probably approach early dating.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 11:24 PM
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OP you might be shadow banned none of your replies are appearing when I look. This is because she has a new, unseasoned account. The mods have to manually approve her posts for now. This helps protect the sub from trolls. More on new accounts being automatically moderated in the sidebar --->
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 11:22 PM
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Maybe he's got a lot of pressure at the moment that he needs to work through and it will get better eventually. I would let him know you support him through his difficult periods, but you're looking at the long term and expect this to be a temporary phase, not the permanent state of the relationship. It's reasonable to expect the Captain to let his invested first mate and passengers be certain of the direction of the life voyage he's leading. Check out "Bring your Captain your problem, not your …
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 11:16 PM
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It's almost time to get serious about propagating plants here. I'm really into succulents. I have a propagation hobby gone wild; almost 1/4 acre of pots and growing! I'm finally planting a majority of them this spring, working on a big landscaping side job now. Just took delivery of a pallet of new nursery pots, specialty containers, and hanging baskets, now to find time and a few cubic yards of potting soil.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 07:49 PM
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I was basically agreeing with you, and expanding on my disagreement with people who view the world through such a narrow point of view that they distort history on a grand scale. In the case of the comments today, I specifically mean attributing Feminism to a small top-down cabal of conspirators, and pretending as if there was no bottom-up pressure from average women genuinely dissatisfied with their lot in the society of their times. Yes, modern feminism has evolved a lot of problems, and count…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 04:32 AM
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If, and only if the shoe fits, wear it. No, it wasn't directed at you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 04:15 AM
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What makes me cringe listening to Millennials talk about the roots of Feminism is when their lack of contextual knowledge about society through history is glaringly lacking, and they're trying to understand it by today's standards and definitions. Before WWII, socialism was conceptualized differently and was downright fashionable in many circles, and necessary for the survival of countless communities and regions during the Great Depression. Same thing when contemporary political wags claim, "Re…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 07:46 PM
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This is explained pretty well in the sidebar. The Red Pill praxeology applies to both sexes, but application is different for each, for men and women have complementary goals. This sub is intended specifically for women. Male posters used to be excluded by fiat; our current management allows some male participation but the bar is high and you're really best off sticking to the male Red Pill subs.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 07:39 PM
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Enough of your condescending attitude. Please head back to altright now.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 07:32 PM
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I second what u/Willow-girl says here. Some people fetishize the 50s as a halcyon era of happy nuclear families with strong masculine husbands and happy feminine women satisfied with the homemaking role. The reality was, there were a LOT of problems, and unhappy men and women pigeonholed into rigid roles subject to systemic pressure to conform. This is a whole post unto itself; I intend to go into it later. For now, I'm calling out the alt-right tendency to explain feminism entirely through a le…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 07:29 PM
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Yeah, for those who missed it, we had to take down a dozen all-caps posts to this effect yesterday. The purpose of this strange thread is to ensmallen him further.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 05:19 PM
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This makes me feel a bit uncomfortable as I'm a naturally reserved person and prefer to hang behind the scenes. As a natural introvert myself I can relate. Getting out and interacting with people consumes a certain amount of psychic energy. Starting small and working your way up in scale of socializing does help; the initial getting out there can be the biggest hump. I'm not sure if this is a "fake it till you make it" thing New things may feel contrived at first, but give it a fair shot and thi…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 05:02 PM
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Well, that's encouraging- thanks! I may actually get into dance before getting really old. As for the singing part, I take the whole "sing like nobody's listening" thing seriously. My shower walls know all about this.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 04:42 PM
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I feel so out of the loop. My SO is getting into crocheting, I see what you did there! (¬‿¬)
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 04:39 PM
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Krav is a very aggressive art, designed to ruthlessly disarm and disable attackers (yes, plural.) One of the key principles is retzev or continuous motion. Once an attack begins, you keep applying techniques too rapidly for them to mount a counterattack, until the attacker is down and/or you can escape. It's amusing to imagine a feminine housewife mommy turning into a tasmanian devil on some junkie thinking she's an easy mark for some crack money. Those who want some inspiration toward learning …
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 04:15 PM
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Never surrender to a beta! It's not surrender, more of a de-escalating technique. Instead of Agree&Amplify, its Agree&Yawn then turn attention elsewhere. It is exciting but scary, going from being a hillbilly to a Manhattan dweller. Wow, that's going to be a culture shock indeed!
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 08:38 AM
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If you don't know where to put a comma, I'm sure you don't know where to put a penis either...
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 06:59 AM
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Don't ask a fish how to catch fish, ask fishermen! Repost this in AskTRP, sorry it's off-topic for RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 04:55 AM
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OP is taking a little vacation for violating posting guidelines and insulting members. Thread locked.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 11:25 PM
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RPW generally isn't for men to ask questions of women. Furthermore, one cannot fix, much less Red Pill a third party. The post doesn't give enough context or detail about the situation for anyone to give meaningful advice, otherwise we might consider discussing it. I suggest you fill in more details and repost to AskTRP. If you did post this there it wasn't with this username. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 11:06 PM
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Here, have a one week vacation from posting privileges, for insulting members.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 09:05 PM
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No prob, it was funny the way that convo played out. One time I saw Redpillschool himself addressing a troll; his kill shot was, "That's a comma splice" which reduced the troll to angry Donald Duck sputtering; I told him, "That's a monitor spray; you may owe me a new lappy!" Looks normal today, yesterday morning I had to remove 40 comments and posts then the guy moved his drama llama to modmail in several RP subs. Internet (sigh) Regards -VRR
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 04:17 PM
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Unequivocally, yes it's worth dressing and feeling feminine in your own skin always, not conditionally upon some future condition. Beating oneself up or self-deprivation isn't the right motivator for whatever changes may be needed. I go into great detail in this response to a woman in a similar situation.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 03:22 AM
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I always make a point to sigh when he comes by me That'll learn him! JK, this is passive-aggressive behavior; hardly the apotheosis of masculinity. Check out the article about becoming more assertive in the sidebar --->
/r/askTRP12/01/17 12:17 AM
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*You're We say report instead of feed the trolls for a reason. That said, I LOL'd at this. Zinnnngggggg!
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 12:07 AM
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no true Scotswoman would fuck you I LOL'd thanks for that in the midst of a troll shitstorm.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 10:56 PM
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Have a three day vacation from posting for insulting people. Good luck on your next date, and don't attack those offering you free advice in the future.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 10:51 PM
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Probably every human contemplates suicide, and ponders our mortality and all which that implies. It's getting stuck in that rut which becomes dangerously problematic. If you can't self-talk your way out of it, reach out to someone. People who survive jumping off the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco almost universally report the same thing: I realized on the way down that nothing in my life was truly unfixable the way this was!
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 10:03 PM
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Rock bottom suicidal posts are not uncommon on AskTRP. This post is a great resource and inspiration for them. I'll definitely curate this in the AskTRP sidebar. Thank you for posting, OP, and may the road ahead of you be clear!
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 09:49 PM
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This isn't a good fit for our sub; we talk about being good homemakers; hiring them, not so much. You might repost on AskTRP if you seek a Red Pill discussion of this. RPW isn't for men to ask questions of women. Regards, -VRR
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 07:09 PM
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Please don't feed the trolls, use the report feature to bring to the mods' attention quickly.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 04:43 PM
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This is the third account this troll has used this week. He will lose site-wide privileges for ban evasion at some point. We remove posters like this as fast as we find them; please use the REPORT button to call the mods' attention to problem posts in order to speed up the process.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 04:42 PM
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RPW isn't for men to ask questions of women. You might try purplepilldebate. Post removed, doesn't meet our posting requirements.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 05:58 AM
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Has anyone ever used Baker's Ammonia as a leavening agent? I remember some holiday cookies using this from 30 years ago, they had a very interesting initial taste as you chewed, which dissipated to normal cookie aftertaste.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 12:33 AM
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The political climate is evolving fast now, so it can be hard to find the right label. Tell me about it. I consider myself closest to "classical liberal" and hate the way left-right labels are used as empty proxies. People claim Obama is both the most communist/fascist dictator and also the weakest most ineffectual president America has ever had, and try to assign it to "the left" when in fact Obama is quite a ways right of Richard Nixon by many metrics. Left-right politics is meaningless and di…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 11:41 PM
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OP has flounced and RPW isn't familiar with the wife he claims. Post removed.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 06:15 PM
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That's a good idea, the idea being to drive more moisture out during the baking process. If it's a really wet fillling, it might have worked against the effect the Vodka has. Also, perhaps her cooking time was a bit shorter than needed for that particular pie.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 05:42 PM
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In a nutshell, RPW advises women to find the highest quality match she can find. In practice, this means being cautious about sleeping with a man of far higher SMV than herself if it is commitment she seeks. This is because men have a very wide hysteresis band between women they'd sleep with, and women they'd commit to. Could it be that the perfect companion can only be so attractive? Pretty much. When vetting a potential partner, it's like The Price Is Right: she wants the best man whose commit…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 10:13 PM
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If you cause problems at RedPillWomen, they will follow you back here. Respect all of the Red Pill Network or go away. Ban evasion will earn you a Reddit-wide ban.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 09:57 PM
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We met on tinder have an incredibly fulfilling (and for me eye opening) sex life. He was honest from the start he wasn't looking for a relationship, and wasn't interested in monogamy. learning to be a red pill woman, any hopes for an LTR when he is against them? Hello and welcome. The man has openly stated that he doesn't want a LTR. Have you discussed ANY kind of commitment before/during the delivery of so many relationship perks from your end? This is what TRP calls a plate, or a sex partner w…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/17 04:26 PM
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Duplicate post removed
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/17 04:12 PM
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Banned for spam.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 03:50 AM
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Healthy, gradual weight loss has less of an impact, but it's still there. The ones I've observed go through "deal with the devil" weight loss (like bariatric surgery or aggressive prep for Basic Training) go through a longer, more intense transition period before settling into a nicer long-term equilibrium.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 08:47 PM
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Good, keep up with maintenance and basic skin care, you WILL look better once your body reaches a new equilibrium. It's good that you're blessed with a fiance that is happy with your natural looks and is against strong alterations. We've seen heartbreaking situations where an unreasonable SO demands unwanted surgery or openly berates his pregnant wife's appearance. Take it from an older person: passing 30 is a challenge for a woman, passing 50 more of one; having a caring SO who loves you the wa…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 12:16 AM
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The curses of rapid weight loss! The boobs are the first to go, and the face takes a temporary hit as well. Give this time! During the latter part of a rapid or extensive weight loss period, the cheeks tend to look sunken and gaunt. When the body settles into its new weight equilibrium, the skin will tighten up, and fat stores will stabilize for the long term. For the skin, where possible avoid sun and harsh wind exposure. I find that taking Omega (fish/krill/flax) oil supplements improves the n…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/17 11:13 PM
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Once you're in and settled, have a chat with the experienced guys about the sheer volume of cheating and "Dear John" letters that happen during basic and deployments. This is a blessing in disguise. Also learn about army camp followers and the way thirst for pussy elevates the SMV of any female around a group of service men. Now YOU have elevated SMV; go slay some when you have times off, don't commit to anyone!
/r/askTRP04/01/17 10:16 PM
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Double post removed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/17 09:05 PM
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Great work, Doctor! I'll definitely curate this in the sidebar of AskTRP. I'll never forget the bitchy GF I had in my mid-20s; one night I reached out to caress her and she went, "Mmm-mmm!" like scolding a child reaching into the cookie jar. Attempting to communicate, negotiate, explain etc clearly consolidated power to her, and one guess as to whether you think young Blue Pill me managed to negotiate it back? Dread game, or in the case of her, letting her walk the next morning, would have saved…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 06:51 PM
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Or at least I'm taking a break. I didn't want to just disappear on you ladies. Normally, TRP doesn't allow farewell posts. They are a distraction to the community at large and self-indulgent. In this case, it's good to leave the thread in place because it raises some points worth addressing. This post isn't exempt from the above criticisms, though. If shit test, then don't let the door hit you where the good lord split you. If comfort test, then of course we'll miss you but don't make a show of …
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 08:44 PM
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The most important conclusion that can be taken from this is that it's almost impossible for a woman to ride the CC if she doesn't have orbiters. There is basically no fuel for it in this case. This part is in sharp disagreement with one of the most basic facts of the SMP. It is almost never impossible for a woman to ride the CC. Casual sex is so easy for women to obtain that it requires no game or effort, that's why this and plating is off-topic on RPW. The only guy that should provide all thes…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 02:53 AM
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We are encouraged not to read the male redpill forums This is mainly for NEW readers. We recommend women become familiar with Red Pill praxeology from the female perspective first, before wandering over to the bucolic locker room environment that is TRP. This gives readers a chance to separate useful information from angry ranting and hyperbole about women that they would encounter there. One bad side effect of women starting over there is they arrive at RPW lamenting, "Oh no, I'm 28 and unmarri…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 02:34 AM
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To learn to catch fish, don't ask fish, ask fishermen! This question belongs in AskTRP, you'll get better information there.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 02:26 AM
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Not all cheating is equal. There's "Peccadillo in an otherwise solid by every measure marriage" cheating, and "Desperate act of WTF crowning years of leadership failure" cheating. You are the one who has to make a serious immediate life course altering decision, taking every factor into account, but I'm not bullish for the future of this particular marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 05:11 PM
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Also, remember that you can have sex outside a relationship and still not be promiscuous, not be a slut and not be impulsive. It's just your decision. I might advise consider this for an older, experienced woman (say 28+.) It's not great nor is it Red Pill advice for a young inexperienced woman preserving a low N count.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 10:37 PM
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I'd like to take this moment to say THANKS for all of the unpaid work you dedicate to those who seek help from our sub here. Illegitimi non carborundum, brother! u/FjordSnord is one of AskTRP's top regular contributors; one of the men who makes TRP such a great resource. Our writers toil for free, try not to burn them out, guys!
/r/askTRP29/12/16 10:25 PM
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I'm just... really nervous about dating because I'm comparing myself to my friends. They all say I should start "sleeping around" to learn what I like and not come off as a prude to my next LTR. Noooooo! That's justifying their own careless sexual behavior by trying to get others to emulate it. I told them I would be better at sex learning my partner's likes than a bunch of one night stands getting random frat boys off. Excellent! You sound much wiser than your friends already. How do I start da…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 08:34 PM
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It's a very strange and (unnecessarily) complicated situation you've described here. Maybe this break is a kind of blessing, and it's time to reset the nature of the "relationship." As in, less time with him, more time making yourself available for a real Captain to take notice of you..?
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/16 11:54 PM
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Posts like this sometimes makes me wonder if women also need the redpill. They do, it's the same relationship praxeology, but implemented toward complementary goals to those of men. Check out redpillwomen.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 04:44 PM
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Interesting historical piece, but not very Red Pill. Flaired as off-topic. Speaking of off-topic, Ben Franklin's letter to his nephew on why he should consider dating older women is a much more entertaining read.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/16 06:05 AM
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This isn't really even a RPW issue so this post will be removed. Some people are just too different to relate to; you can't win 'em all.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/16 02:41 AM
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do you think that the fact that AVP's role in aggression toward other males might explain the excessively territorial behavior some males exhibit towards other guys that are around their girlfriend/wife? Interesting hypothesis, although I think it's a minor player compared to testosterone, and the way the amygdala is wired up, where it concerns an individual's disposition toward aggression. AVP is predominantly a reward pathway, and threat of or actual withdrawal of this reward potential is a re…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 01:44 AM
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I'd recommend the If you're not exclusive, you're not official and How to vet men articles in the sidebar. ---> This brings to mind a Heinlein quote: You can lead a horticulture... but you can't make her think. I can think of many friends I tried to steer away from crashing into the same well-marked relationship shoals, only to watch them make the same mistakes. Sometimes you end up having to disengage enough not to let their toxic repeat patterns affect you too negatively.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 12:56 AM
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I'm definitely an oxytocin junkie, and love limerance, cuddling, and affection. Something I remember from when I was investigating nootropics: Vasopressin has similar effects on pair bonding, first discovered in research on prairie voles. From the Wiki: [T]he precise distribution of vasopressin and vasopressin receptors in the brain is associated with species-typical patterns of social behavior. In particular, there are consistent differences between monogamous species and promiscuous species in…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/16 12:48 AM
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Check the self-improvement section of our sidebar ----> A few relevant posts for you linked there.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 04:42 AM
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I'm going to do something far worse for OP... I'm going to leave it up!
/r/askTRP20/12/16 07:35 PM
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Sorry you didn't find the Red Pill Women portal and debriefing center in the AskTRP sidebar to get you over here sooner. Stick to RPW for now and leave TRP to the men as it's intended. Red Pill Women are not TRP fangirls seeking the most Alpha male possible; RPW understand that a healthy LTR/Marriage partner has a healthy balance of leadership and comfort/provisioning traits. Welcome!
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/16 07:01 AM
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This question is off-topic for our sub. Try addressing AskTRP.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/16 10:24 PM
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A little more information might help. How do you start these conversations, and what happens when it goes off the rails? Also, how does your approach compare to "Bring your Captain your problem, not your solution" in the sidebar?
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/16 07:08 PM
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I'm 20, and still a virgin.... but I feel I've made a mistake, that choosing this had made me undesirable. Wow, you ARE new to the Red Pill. This is a huge plus for your RMV or Relationship Market Value. But at the same time I don't just want to be a bucket for men to fuck..... I have strong beliefs in not fucking around, purity is important for women. A lot of aggression and negative self-talk through your post. By any chance, were you brought up to believe that sex is dirty or sinful? This sma…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/16 01:00 AM
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Even if OP had a partially disingenuous intent, regular members understand the differences between TRP and RPW and don't suffer cognitive dissonance to exploit as a wedge between subs or against RP theory. Whether to date a rape victim IS a common topic on TRP, worth clarifying and exploring, so let's stick to that from here on.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 04:45 PM
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This is a difficult topic of course, but OP asks for worthwhile clarification on prevailing TRP (not RPW) positions on the topic of dating a rape victim, so we'll leave this discussion up for now. Remember to stick to the TOPIC of the OP. False rape accusations are a serious item of contention among TRP men, but this thread (and sub) is NOT the place to editorialize or rant about this.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 04:26 PM
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Your posts here have been borderline, insulting people is the final straw. Banned.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 04:18 PM
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I agree with Bowie747. Banned.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 06:30 AM
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The standard AW portrayed is reacting to the loss of a week-long fling the same way a healthy woman reacts to the loss of a decade-long marriage. Well put. There can be some utility to extreme examples, but the fact that so many users arrive here worried about the inevitability of worst-case outcomes from their (often relatively innocuous) pre-unplugging behavior indicates a problem with the way the Red Pill message is presented and "sold."
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 01:25 AM
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I think the extent of Alpha Widowhood is overblown by certain Manosphere writers into something that inevitably happens to every woman eventually, when it's really mainly present in particular subsets of women. High natural SMV Consequent anomie and lack of personal development due to living in a buyer seller's market during formative years Distorted self-image Rides CC past late 20s Eventually commits to a man who is or becomes a lesser beta Red Pill aware women who choose good men carefully an…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 04:43 PM
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This is off-topic for our sub. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 12:26 PM
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This is off topic for RPW. You could post in AskTRP, but they'll probably give you a drubbing.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 12:24 PM
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Duplicate post
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 04:02 AM
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Duplicate post
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 04:01 AM
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Hi, welcome to RPW, glad you made it over here from TRP. A good place to start is our sidebar. The articles in the "RPW problem solver" sound particularly relevant to your situation. It's never too late to change, and we've seen far worse situations turn around.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 03:39 AM
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Well then fix it by participating, not by trying to lead an exodus!
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 06:36 PM
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BBQ Boboli Pizza Still expanding my repertoire of BBQ tricks, to up my eating-at-work game. I've gotten cooking croissants and biscuits down pretty well, so when the Boboli pizza crusts caught my eye I decided to give it a whirl. 2 individual crusts Tomato sauce (Boboli sells individual sauce packs, but a jar of spaghetti sauce is a better value if you can use the rest elsewhere) Pack of Italian Sausage, grilled then sliced/quartered ~1/2 sweet onion diced ~1/3 red onion, cut two thin discs from…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/16 11:44 PM
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My question is this: Should I withdraw myself to give him space to do the same? Follow his lead. Do other things when he's busy, be available when he's not. It's reasonable to ask him to keep you informed of his schedule when things shift like this. Avoid passive-aggressiveness when you are together. Observe whether this allows the relationship to settle into a healthier dynamic while he's going through all this, or if he just uses it as a pretext to withdraw further like a non-captain.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 06:35 PM
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Short for "traditional conservative" different from neocon and opposite of progressive or feminist.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 06:08 PM
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Speaking out publicly and more openly about Red Pill ideas and values is important. Pick your battles of course, but silence = consent. How will our views be known and propagate if we hold them inside always? This is one of the reasons a more-public TRP group is forming, to share tools, ideas, and FRs about opinion change and sharing stigmatized knowledge. It's understood that some aren't in a position to freely share their RP ideals, but when those who can, do, our ideas stop being publicly def…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 03:56 AM
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No, the bones stop growing and cap off around the late teens. When a pituitary problem causes an increase in human growth horomone after this, the result is Acromegaly which causes thickening, not lengthening; you don't want this!
/r/askTRP09/12/16 05:41 PM
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This is a low-effort link dump which is against our rules. Post a paragraph about the site with a link in the body and we'll consider it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 05:32 PM
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It's a minor pain in the ass to post the links as well. This rule helps protect TRP from accusations of brigading other subs. Reddit admins would take any pretext to hinder or remove TRP; we don't want to give them any cannon fodder against us.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 05:30 PM
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This seems to be a problem with newly unplugging members. They read prescriptive descriptions of bad relationship types and decisions, realize they had made relationship mistakes in the past, and choose to feel bad in the present which has no utility or benefit. There's nothing to gain by beating oneself up over mistakes in the dead past. The harsh language TRP uses is prescriptive, to prevent people from entering these situations in the future, or to deal with them in the present. Bottom line: …
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/16 11:43 PM
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We're actually working on a safe, private, sorority-like group of women who want to be involved with each other beyond online anonymity. PM your city/state and a bit about what you're looking for to u/thescarlettwoman who is doing the initial compiling of our list of interested members. We do NOT recommend people contact each other willy-nilly; you're doing this at your own risk. Doxxing and real-life trolling happens. :/
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/16 10:31 PM
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Good show, Vasiliy. One day I plan to write a few BlueCollarLand posts for those who take that path, but it's hard to hold a candle to your body of work here.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 09:10 PM
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That was a very nice response. <3
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/16 02:08 AM
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No worries, it's for your own protection. If you want to edit out the link and describe the transformation a little more instead, or even obscure your features but leave cheeks and chin visible, we will reapprove the post.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/16 07:41 AM
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Post removed, photos of OP. Don't dox yourself, it is against our forum rules.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/16 07:23 AM
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While this contains some useful elements, it's based on "The Rules" which is NOT a part of Red Pill canon. "Make him chase you" flies in the face of M/F sexual dynamics according to RP praxeology.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 10:42 PM
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Formally study self-defense. I learned a defensive martial art after a woman invoked her pussy pass to attack me and had no effective way to deal with it. Now I can dodge an attack and neutralize the attacker without looking even at a distance like I am engaging in combat. Recently a woman went berserk and started breaking things at my business; it ended with her face down on the pavement with me pinning her arm down (using two fingers, other hand raised) when the sheriff arrived to arrest her.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 09:03 PM
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We'll take whoever, wherever for our list. You never know what unexpected Red Pill aware person is already in your midst. There are lots of international RPW posting.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/16 04:18 AM
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AltTRP is in the sidebar, Brother --->
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 08:02 PM
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Paging u/SuperSlavisWife. She's an excellent writer about Sigma game.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 06:00 PM
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There are two emerging groups on the TRP side of the manosphere for those who want to meet up in person. One is a private and exclusive fraternity, one is specifically for those who want to put a public face on Manosphere issues and TRP. Several RPW have expressed an interest in forming some type of meetup group too, which would also discuss "coming out" as RPW to peers. This group will be completely independent and is currently in the very early planning and list building stages. If you're inte…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 05:50 PM
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What reads like a RPW field report in mainstream media! Excerpt: Californian Kathy Murray says she saved her marriage by giving up trying to control her husband. Despite considering herself a feminist, she follows - and now teaches others - the approach of a controversial book called The Surrendered Wife, which tells women to stop nagging their partners and start treating them with more respect. The first time I married I was divorced by 26. I married for the second time at 32 but soon found mys…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 03:18 AM
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Obviously, he beat the shit out of me and stormed out. This is not Red Pill behavior. If you're not just trolling, get to safety.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/16 03:06 AM
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PM sent. TRP does recommend texting for logistics.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 08:34 PM
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Thanks for the nice words, but this doesn't meet our posting requirements so I need to take it down. You're petting the unicorns. Keep spending time reading TRP, and post in AskTRP. You'll do well there, Brother; good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 04:51 PM
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And how do you know she hasn't or won't? Because OP wrote: I'm still a virgin but have messed around with two guys (including oral) both of which were in s relationship context, the two situations were about four years apart. Now I am going to warn you: enough with the hectoring tone toward our female members. We are addressing OP in this thread, not every born again virgin former CC rider in the world. I'm going to give you a three day vacation from posting here so you can think this over caref…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/16 02:08 AM
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Hello, this is off-topic for our sub, it belongs in AskTRP. Don't ask fish how to catch fish, ask successful fishermen! You can open this post in your post history, click "edit" select all, copy to clipboard, cancel edit, then repost in AskTRP, editing out the bookends addressing RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 11:01 PM
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I understand and agree. In this thread however, we are not technically speaking, we are addressing a particular woman who hasn't and won't do that and is aiming for ideal RPW behavior moving forward. This is distinct from giving people excuses and exceptions for future behaviors, which I sense OP is not looking for.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 08:13 PM
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This isn't the way a Captain treats a worthy First Mate he intends to keep. This is the way an insecure little boy treats a woman he cares little about. LDR troubles! The upside is, the distance is helpful and healthy for cutting ties. /u/pewpsprinkler made an excellent analysis.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 04:34 PM
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Well, in some cultures that has become a common workaround, but not recommended here. In fact, my entire statement refers to past behaviors that she can't un-do, when she is determined as a more mature woman to live a specific lifestyle moving forward. It is NOT meant to be a prescriptive recommendation, or something that's OK to do if a low N-count or virginal status is important because it's somehow not-sex. I think we can draw a sharp distinction between a naive young woman who went a little …
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 04:23 PM
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This is a tough one. It does sound like a step down, IT to T-shirts. If he doesn't have a solid plan before him, this really knocks his RMV down. I know when I started my business in 2000, it was pretty much all-consuming of my time, energy, and money; I went monk mode for a while, because I flatly didn't have time for dating, much less a GF. I don't have an easy answer for you, but this is a game changer. The T-shirt business is pretty mature, with large established players dominating, and hord…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 09:47 PM
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RPW isn't typically for men to ask questions of women, also we aren't a product review sub, so we're going to pass on this one. My personal recommendation: Don't make an appliance your primary gift! No matter how practical it will be for her, and how much better it will make her life, it might generate negative emotions. Get her something a woman will fully appreciate as the primary gift (can be relatively inexpensive if it generates the right feelings) and the vacuum as secondary.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 07:19 PM
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But, she has also openly disregarded me a couple times for being "overly beta": Did she literally say you were "openly beta?" Or, how did that conversation go exactly? giving importance to little things, crying too much, not doing what I'm supposed to, being untidy, not taking care of myself To maintain the Alpha role, you cannot exhibit these or other "weakness" behaviors before your partner, or she will lose attraction. This is one of the insights that makes it interesting to discuss RP theory…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 03:54 PM
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Go to /r/purplepilldebate with this. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 03:37 PM
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I feel it brings a level of commitment and connection im not used to? But... Wife (>ლ) (Not a tattoo fan either btw)
/r/askTRP01/12/16 03:10 AM
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Readers, don't feed the trolls. Report them! This shit got to 104 comments before getting enough reports to alert the mods.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 02:51 AM
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I'll be giving more data, facts, information in general once you guys engage with me in a conversation. Ummm, you have that backward. Provide context in your OP, otherwise it's considered a low effort post and therefore against our rules. We don't specifically cater to LGBT communities, but we aren't against them either, and your question might spur some interesting discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 02:11 AM
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I'm still a virgin but have messed around with two guys (including oral) both of which were in s relationship context, the two situations were about four years apart. Well, oral sex is sex, no hamstering that away. However, if you are indeed virgo intacta, in my book that puts your N count at zero. I'm seeing a lot of guys saying it's not fair to give it up to some guys and then make other ones wait. This applies to a very specific situation: where a woman wantonly rode the CC as a young woman, …
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 01:43 AM
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This has nothing to do with RPW behaviors or theory. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 06:53 PM
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The problem he had with me was that recently ive been getting too generally aggressive and after he said it, i thought about it and he was right. Is it possible, in your aggression you missed several cues from him to dial it back, and the 2-day silence was over a great deal more than the one joke? In my experience, it's common for some women to analyze a situation retroactively back to the point where an action by the man can be blamed on the current problem, but she ignores the context of her b…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 06:14 PM
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What happened to no sex until commitment? Nothing. The type and amount of commitment legitimately varies from person to person. A low-N, marriage and family minded woman in her teens or early 20s naturally proceeds much more slowly and commands a higher level of precommitment than experienced LTR-seekers in their 30s and 40s for example.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 06:09 PM
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It means, don't offer sex until you are convinced he's offering a sufficient level of commitment, according to your personal needs and standards. It means taking into consideration not only his words, but his relationship history, and his present and future life plans and goals. It's easy for a guy to SAY he wants a LTR, but you're also correlating his words with his actions and history. If he's distant and secretive, that reduces the credibility. If he's introducing you as his official GF and e…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 06:03 PM
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Well, that is the way of the red pill. Correction: That's the way TRP guys might treat plates, but healthy LTRs have a much higher threshold for ignore-for-days. Was there anything different about this event that seemed to provoke him back to this extreme?
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 05:09 AM
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can someone please clarify the RPW mindset for these two questions? I'll be glad to help. Red Pill theory has a bit of a steep learning curve. if I have sex when it feels right (let's say, fourth date), how does that fit the RPW standard? I'm giving away sex without commitment. Aaah, this might be a big part of the misunderstanding. Self-awareness of all our biases and human foibles is a major component of a Red Pill mindset. It's well known that feelz can get in the way of rational thought, tha…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/16 04:38 AM
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first date is lunch or coffee and no kiss Something that has worked out well in my online dating life is to have a brief, noncommittal first meeting face to face, and if that goes well, we plan an "official" first date in the near future, and start the clock then. This prevents investing time on bad matches, and helps set and manage expectations moving forward. But I like taking it slow. Everyone has his or her pace. I'm a limerence junkie, and enjoy flirting and teasing, and almost kissing (but…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/16 10:24 PM
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What is an appropriate pace for physical intimacy, in your opinions? This varies quite a bit. For mature, experienced vetters and daters, third or fourth date is a very common benchmark. For those who are younger, less experienced, maintaining a very low N count, and/or looking for marriage/family this time out, longer is necessary and expected. Even the "three-date rule" presuppposes a lot of communication and getting to know each other before and between dates. For those who want to postpone f…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/16 09:10 PM
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OK, it was rather ambiguous. This definitely wouldn't work in reverse. A woman trying to use other guys to make one jealous will make him just say, "Okay, no prob, bye!" To induce oneitis in a guy, a woman has to make him believe she is his best available option. Actually being his best option in the SMP is pretty effective.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 04:33 AM
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"Hamster" has become TRP-speak for any process in which a woman self-deludes in her thought processes. This might include justifying a one night stand, or believing Chad really wants commitment. I suppose the male equivalent is making him a beta orbiter who thinks he'll be getting sex for whatever commitment he dishes out. The question becomes, WHY would you want to do something like this?
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 03:37 AM
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Reposting 11/27 due to a rise in low quality and off-topic material being posted lately by men, resulting in complaints from our members. Please continue to use the report button if you see a post that you don't think is appropriate for our sub. We may not respond to every report with immediate action, but we do monitor patterns of complaints and problems. For the time being, the Mod Team will be removing more borderline posts, so male posters: bring only your best or nothing at all.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 09:44 PM
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This sub doesn't need some guy policing it to be exactly like the male red pill reddit. Agreed, poor quality posts removed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 09:25 PM
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Initiating sweet texts to him periodically is fine, when you're leaving (and he's taking) plenty of other ways to lead. Relationship maintenance is the woman's realm, so taking a minor lead in a particular realm (texting if that's what works for you as a couple) not only isn't going to upset the leadership apple cart, it's a relationship staple.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 06:18 PM
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So I should just let him text me first this time no? I'd say I've initiated 3 conversations in a row. No, don't keep count of how many conversations you've initiated, and stop texting after a certain number of these has accumulated. That's grading into passive-aggression. Instead, establish a happy equilibrium of sending him a certain average number of texts a day according to your schedule, and your established patterns of communication. Then let HIM text back according to HIS schedule. Engage …
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 09:36 PM
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text as I am now and just accept the fact that he does not text every day This is close to the correct answer. RP men consider 3 from her to 2 from him or 3:2 to be the "Golden Ratio" of texting. Therefore, you're pretty safe initiating 3 texts on a given day. I'd recommend making sure they are scintillating, especially when he's pretty busy and not responsive at the moment. Send texts that make him want to respond. Importantly, never complain or whine about him not texting enough, by text or in…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 09:16 PM
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when you're dating a guy out of your league (chad), you're usually shirking commitment and giving up sex to keep his attention. You're assuming the apotheosis of a RPW relationship is a pure Alpha or Chad, which is quite mistaken. The goal of most RPW is to be in a committed relationship with a Captain with a healthy mix of Alpha (leadership) and Beta (provisioning and comfort) traits, and to seek the best from among this pool.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 09:02 PM
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There's a common expression that goes, "Women marry up, men settle down." Happy stable couples tend to be within a point or so of each other.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 08:57 PM
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It's easy to attribute this to some top-down brainwashing the masses conspiracy, but in my opinion it's more of a bottom-up, form follows function process. Wishful thinking and "blue pill" tropes and narratives SELL! Audiences find depictions of living healthily, functionally happily ever after BOR-RRRINNNNG! This is why conflict, strife, unexpected outcomes, outlandish wish fulfillment, eccentric and outlier heroes and winners, and other anti-reality (blue pill) themes pervade popular media. It…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 08:45 PM
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No worries. We've been quietly adding new content to the AskTRP sidebar, and this is part of the getting-the-word-out process. After a few more finishing touches we'll make a formal announcement.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 06:51 PM
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There are three great articles on this subject in the Frequently AskTRP'd Questions section of the sidebar. ------->
/r/askTRP24/11/16 11:56 PM
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Thanksgiving dinner: Doing it Yang-Ham Style.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 09:41 PM
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There's an excellent discussion of this topic in Vetting a man Pt 3 in the sidebar. In a nutshell, the best LTR partners have a healthy balance of Alpha/leadership and Beta/comfort/provisioning traits. Too Alpha becomes unstable over time, and too beta becomes unattractive to most women.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 08:11 PM
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Write great shit, get great exposure, Brother.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 08:06 PM
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There's a great article on this subject by u/mattyanon in the Frequently AskTRP'd Questions section of the sidebar ------>
/r/askTRP24/11/16 07:38 PM
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My money is on him saying nothing, but getting you a Dutch Oven for Christmas.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 11:30 PM
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So essential RPW believes that a 4 year old child <snip> Since a child of 4 is expected to know enough about its sexual nature to accurately judge if it would be better living as a boy or a girl (binary genders I should point out) in the future, what's to say that a child of 12 can't give informed sexual consent? That's a ridiculous argument. Nobody's arguing that anyone below the age of consent should legally engage in sex, and nobody on RPW is bringing up sexuality and 4 year olds in the same …
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/16 06:25 AM
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This seems written for a niche audience of readers who Don't know many or any gay people Think their own maculinity (or femininity) is defined, diminished, or affected by the sexuality of others Feel threatened by the existence of gayness, as if it's encroaching or threatening and will spread if not suppressed. I live in Los Angeles where gay people came out a good generation before everywhere else. Gay people leave unfriendly small towns throughout the country and come places like here. They do…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/16 06:12 AM
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New twist on baked yams/sweet potatoes We're all familiar with the traditional Thanksgiving recipe of baked candied yams covered with marshmallows. A few years ago, someone introduced a new twist on this dish. Instead of marshmallows and way too much sugar, this dish uses well caramelized sweet onions. Here's an example recipe. Several years ago I spent Thanksgiving off-roading at Ocotillo Wells, and was able to prepare a perfect large pan of these in a temperamental RV oven. Judo move to avoid …
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/16 11:04 PM
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LOL... guys are so simple and don't overthink things like this. ”I had a nice time, thank you for [insert detail]. I'm not feeling as much chemistry between us as I'd like.” Guy: K <does something else>
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/16 05:23 AM
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There happen to be two developing groups on the Manosphere side of TRP, an exclusive, private fraternity, and a more open and public-facing organization. Maybe now is the time/place to bring this up: Are there enough RPW interested in organizing their own group?
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/16 05:14 PM
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Ok, I see what you mean. The thing is, RP subs face a constant barrage of trolls who would like nothing more than to cause problems IRL with our members. That's why we have a strict anonymity policy, to prevent opportunities for doxxing. If members DO manage to meet IRL to talk face to face, that would be nice. Just be careful and discreet in the process, is all we ask.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/16 05:03 PM
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Who'd like to talk about their experiences of RP, in the context of life, culture, and relationships? Um.. all of us? Welcome to the forum, that's what we do here. It's best to chat in the open so everyone can learn from the discussion, therefore not good to post requests for PMs. So, what's something that's on your mind, let's talk about it. :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/16 06:57 AM
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Excerpt: Said F4J founder Matt O’Connor, "It takes a man and a woman to create a child, yet there is no recognition of this in the constitution. We want it to be amended to give adequate protection to the rights of the father." "If there is a referendum on the eighth amendment, the question of the rights of the father needs to be considered. Why should dads be given no choice when it comes to the unborn child?" "Fathers are held financially liable and emotionally responsible if the baby is born,…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/16 03:02 AM
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Dating in the 30s and 40s is more challenging when you're seeking commitment and not casual sex. The pool of men tends to be experienced at dating and game, and jaded and cautious from a long history of bad relationship behavior. I'm here to assure you, men looking for long-term commitment, and who savor a longer courtship process over quick sex do exist. Perhaps it's your recruiting and selecting process that can use a tune-up, so let's talk about that. How are you meeting these men? An histori…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/16 05:33 PM
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If you're past a certain point of drunkenness, you can't make decisions, can't be responsible for anything you do and therefore shouldn't be responsible for crimes you commit. This is a poor argument. The limits and boundaries of intoxication as a legal defense are very unambiguous in criminal law and legal precedent. Rape is not a special case where this is concerned.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/16 05:28 AM
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Well... on with the discussion then.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 07:41 PM
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Probably a good idea, we're comparing apples and electricity with this example.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 07:18 PM
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It's a legitimate question, but I don't think an example from Dubai where the woman is automatically presumed guilty is the best starting point for discussion about Western views on the topic.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 07:10 PM
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Two core aspects of Red Pill theory are at play here. Masculine men are leaders, including in their relationship Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment These seem contradictory, but even in a Captain/First Mate model, this is one area where it is the woman's prerogative to bring up relationship issues if the Captain does not. The wrong way to go about it is to issue demands and ultimata. "I need you to commit to me if you want to go further!" Instead, extend an i…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 06:53 PM
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Please take it to modmail, don't discuss in someone's thread.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 05:28 PM
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I could just relate to this woman's feelings, so I just thought I'd offer her a bit of advice, having been in the same position myself, albeit I'm not female. Good intentions noted, but that wasn't useful, actionable advice for women.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 05:18 PM
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my job is to make my SO's life as awesome as I can. Right? You mean, you don't already?
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 05:01 PM
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There's no utility in beating yourself up mentally over past actions that you can't change. If you're not proud of an aspect of your past or personality, put your effort into changing the underlying causes of the problem, instead of recriminations and self-loathing. In the case of having been a plate, work on your self-esteem, knowledge of M-F dynamics, relationship skills, and personal qualities that will attract and keep the kind of man you want to be with.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 04:57 PM
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Male-centric and a non-sequitur to the OP. Banned.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 02:13 AM
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Hi, welcome to RPW. I read somewhere online it's basicly like aiming to be like a stepford wife. Is that true? That's a common opinion among people who are predisposed to dislike our community but who know very little about it. What do Red Pill ladies do that is different than most women? In a nutshell, RPW reject some of the relationship-harming aspects of modern Feminism, and seek more traditional gender roles. Please read through the sidebar ---> This should build a decent picture of what RPW…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 02:04 AM
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If you're both broke college students, go on cheap/free dates together. If you are employed and she's a student, it makes a little more sense to consider paying for some activities together, but there's a right and wrong way to go about it. I'm a business owner, so it'd be ridiculous to nickel and dime a date, but I've come up with a way to spend without regret or skewing the power dynamic of the relationship onto a beta bux situation. Beating Briffault's Law by engaging the SMP on a CASH basis.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 01:17 AM
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I meant TRP. Go to purplepilldebate to ask questions like your OP.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/16 11:06 PM
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Recently banned from AskTRP. OP, please explain your reason for being here?
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/16 11:02 PM
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So I'm not at all opposed to men having sexual experiences and fulfilling their desires and fantasies. I feel it's healthy! But, your Husband? I've been fascinated with sex work and how having sex can make people (especially men) feel human and accepted. I've also thought about becoming a sex surrogate or something because research into this shows how it can help heal people and I think this is so important. In the vast, varied body of human sexuality and relationship types, this is about as far…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/16 06:32 PM
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I'm honestly skeptical of the actual depth of what you call Deep Conversion. It sounds like the stuff of very intense, LTL (less-than-lifetime) love affairs. I think it's an illusion that can't be sustained over a lifetime, and in reality has an upper limit of perhaps 7 years, hence the cliche of the 7-year itch. Relationships that are still going strong at 15, 25, and 50 years don't realistically suffer illusions about their partner's nature and their relationship's problematic points. They may…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/16 02:07 AM
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Check the sidebar, the first link after DATING ------> Read through u/omlala's posting history, he goes extensively into online dating and text game.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 05:37 PM
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I'm going to reapprove this post, because whether we believe OP's numbers or not, it has spawned some decent discussion and advice for young men unplugging and becoming successful. Let's take the post at face value and continue with good advice that will be read by many.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 04:16 AM
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Read the three articles in our sidebar --------> after the word Plates Also, read about relationship types and maintaining a hierarchy. Check out the Black Dragon blog, and the More than Two website. All of that said, I personally don't recommend deliberately targeting women already in relationships as plates. There are plenty of eager, horny single women in the world, so go plate up some of those, young Chadawan.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 02:28 AM
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I have been applying some of the principles (lifting, putting myself first, knowing my worth, it is ok to be selfish) to my own life and finding success. I have no idea what this means in regards to my marriage and the male-female dynamic This is a MALE subreddit, the theory and strategies discussed here are calibrated to the needs of men, so of course it's confusing and results poor. Follow the advice of many and join us over at RedPillWomen. Post locked before devolving further into "Tits or G…
/r/askTRP10/11/16 09:55 PM
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Not sure which platform you're on, but you can use social media to meet people and maintain the proper roles of attraction and initiation/leading. Maintain a profile that presents you as a woman available for a serious LTR Like or comment on pictures/posts of a man you're interested in Wait for him to take the initiative contacting you back and escalating toward an eventual date.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/16 08:07 PM
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You're a plate and he's the typical spinster over at the r/theredpill. You also seem relationship-deficient for wanting to try to hang onto this man. He must be very handsome or something that continues to lure you to him. I'd just move on. Just think...### ##### #### ## ##### ####### while you get the sloppy seconds! While we agree with your sentiment, the delivery was too crude there.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/16 03:16 PM
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For the record, OP had to be asked to stop posting at RedPillWomen some months ago. He had some good and interesting things to say now and then, I'm surprised he flounced from Reddit entirely over this post being removed by the automod on TRP. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/16 01:56 AM
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Posting links to ANYWHERE on Reddit is plainly against TRP rules, and is enforced by the automoderator. The Automod doesn't discriminate, nor play favorites. I'm an EC on TRP, and recently had a post removed for this reason, and the mod team didn't respond to my request to reinstate it after corrective edit. I didn't whine about it elsewhere on Reddit, I went on about my business as a man should. Post locked, but left up for others to (re)learn from. ETA: So butthurt he deleted his Reddit accoun…
/r/askTRP08/11/16 10:47 PM
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No problem, I understand where you're coming from; it sounds like you are handling it well. I went on to clarify the point for all readers who will be working through what you already have.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/16 08:54 PM
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English isn't my first language. Okay, that explains much; I'm sure it came out more smoothly when spoken to him. All readers, be aware that experienced daters and vetters notice tiny inconsistencies in the narrative of your personal history. Trickle truth and outright lying about your history can count against a man's developing estimation of you more than the history itself. Sounds like a good relationship is developing here. Remember, as the woman, it is your prerogative to make sure you obta…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/16 08:26 PM
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You're welcome. I notice there is a bit of cognitive dissonance in your narrative. I have only been with one guy before, ltr, but I love to give blowjobs and I'm pretty good at it, really turns me on. but I'm just really inexperienced, never dated anyone before... Claiming innocence, then delivering obviously practiced expertise could potentially affect his impression of you more than the act itself. Make sure your own internal narrative of your history is consistent, so it doesn't come out soun…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/16 05:29 PM
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Exercise: What other examples of Blue Pill's "magic" or "luck" mentality can you think of? How can we prevent falling for the "magic" trap? Horoscopes! The notion that humans settle into 12 distinct, reliably predictable groups, based entirely on the orientation of Earth to the Cosmos at the moment of birth. The idea is very much alive in female dating site profiles, though I can't remember the last male proponent I've encountered. Another excellent article, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/16 04:59 PM
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10 dates and 6 weeks is a fair amount of time to vet a new partner, especially the way hookup culture has skewed norms and expectations. Overall, you've found much to like about him, he has volunteered an interest in commitment, and haven't uncovered red flags so far, correct? The vetting process isn't over, but there comes a point of diminishing returns with waiting much longer (he might move on) and more vetting time before escalating further. That is, unless you are both committed to no sex b…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/16 04:18 PM
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In psychology, this is called unconditional positive regard and a simulacrum can be purchased from some therapists in 50-minute blocks. Other than that and a parent's love of their children, unconditional love is an unrealistic expectation. One of the Red Pill's main tenets is, aware person, improve thyself. In the sexual and relationship marketplace, reaching the best you can become is your currency. One of the most tempting, and damning Blue Pill lies is that you are lovable exactly as you are…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/16 03:14 AM
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Here is an explanation why your post was delayed https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/5b2dnh/mod_if_your_account_is_new_your_posts_and/ I approved one of your posts for you, and wrote duplicate do not approve in the other so another mod wouldn't approve it by mistake. Your post is live now and everything should be good. A little more activity on your account and the automod won't screen your posts any more.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/16 03:06 AM
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Duplicate post do not approve
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/16 01:49 AM
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This isn't on-topic in RedPillWomen, and your comments have a current of anger in them. Please don't post here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/16 04:49 PM
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Hello, We can't accept requests for private help, it doesn't benefit the community at all. We're glad to help in a regular post, edit out this part then respond to your modmail message and we'll approve it. I'd rather write about it in a private message. If anybody is around available to message
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/16 12:42 AM
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Having an idealized vision in mind can help you work toward and achieve your goals in life. Remember not to let the perfect become the enemy of the good in the process.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/16 11:15 PM
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This has had a fair run and a clear consensus has emerged. I'm locking this post now before comments turn unpleasant.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/16 05:11 PM
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This post was removed for violating several posting rules and guidelines; please visit these in the sidebar before considering posting again. This is low effort and lacks context. We can't tell who you are or why you ask.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/16 03:30 AM
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I understand that time is a shared commodity. If he takes your time, you take his time too. This is male-centric thinking because the SMV of women peaks far earlier than that of men. This is considered Red Pill canon. It's a poor life strategy for a young woman intent on raising a family to spend years with a man without sufficient commitment from him. I appreciate that you're here to learn this information. A note to all readers, if you wish to challenge this view, the appropriate sub is purple…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/16 01:51 AM
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Don't insult our members, it is a bannable offense. Only warning.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 10:23 PM
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Come see us at redpillwomen. This is off-topic for AskTRP, post locked.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 09:41 PM
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This especially includes showing your face in pictures. Crop or edit your face and identifying background, such as house number, landmarks, license plates etc, IF you choose to post a picture at all. Because SJWs actively troll Red Pill users, practice security culture when posting here. It's not paranoia when they really ARE out to get you! Don't be intimidated out of posting at all, just have heightened situational awareness, is what we're trying to say here.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 09:14 PM
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greenhouse Have you ever made a hotbed? This is where you bury manure and compostables under a coldframe (small scale) or greenhouse (large scale) where they decompose slowly but steadily, keeping the frame much warmer than ambient. This could help you overwinter more plants without paying for heat. Come spring, spread the fully composted mix around the garden. I grow tons of plants (no, not pot, lol) under lights all winter and my electric bill is horrendous. There are LOTS of cheap LED grow li…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 05:54 PM
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FTFY. Users can set their own flairs. Those who don't may be subject to the creativity of the mod team. ;)
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 05:06 PM
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I think this is more feminist than those that would call themselves "feminists." I think the word you're looking for is Feminine. The word feminist has become freighted with meanings far beyond "one in favor of females."
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 04:18 AM
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Wtf is this gibberish even supposed to mean? We're discussing #### #### ### #### but you're on a fishing trip with your local fruit farmer. It was a very relevant quote that I recognized from an excellent book. Take your vitriol elsewhere. Post removed.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/16 10:21 PM
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Exactly this, and to add on to the description, when a woman like this passes "the wall" and becomes less attractive to the Alpha Player types, she will change strategies and attempt to obtain commitment, however, only relatively beta types will offer it at this point, to whom she finds she cannot maintain attraction. Women like this also tend not to develop their personality and relationship and job skills as fully; by capitalizing on the generosity their youth attracts, they don't have to. Thu…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/16 04:07 PM
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Hi, welcome to RPW. I notice your post was removed, but you then went to the existing book recommendation thread. Let me also show you our external resources mega-list which has great book recommendations too. If you still want to discuss this with the community at large let us know and we'll approve your thread, otherwise we'll leave it hidden. Your post was removed because you have a new account. This will expire after a few days and keeps the community safe from trolls. Feel free to comment a…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/16 12:44 AM
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Hi guys, long-time lurker If that's true, certainly you read that male and female sexual strategies are different, especially before you're old enough for long term commitments, therefore A ton of my RP guy friends (from personality) seem to think I should just do it would be following a MALE sexual strategy, which will not help you obtain commitment in the future. This is so antithetical to RPW canon that it's considered off-topic for our sub. What has lurking here taught you about riding the C…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/16 05:40 AM
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I've gotten comments about wanting to freeze eggs rather than settling for mr 85% Frozen? If she waits much longer, she's gonna need them microwavable. really acid comments about waiting for mr perfect and not settling Even your "average frustrated chump" of a guy tends to be skilled at spotting this dangerous undercurrent of unsatisfiable expectations on early dates.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/16 04:26 AM
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You can lead a horticulture, but you can't make her think. -Robert A. Heinlein It's similar to the advice given earlier to the gentleman wanting to help his younger sister toward the Red Pill: This advice applies regardless of the gender of the helper or the helpee, and is frequently asked so we'll discuss it. You can NOT get someone to swallow the pill who is not ready; they will spit it back in YOUR face, and it can have repercussions if the person goes off on a white knight social crusade aga…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/16 02:16 AM
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One of the common complaints about marriage in TRP and Deadbedrooms is the woman flipping a switch and going into mommy-only mode, completely ignoring the marriage and husband once kids arrive. Husband and Wife are partners for life. Children will eventually grow up, become independent, and move out. A marriage neglected through this whole time will NOT rekindle itself when the kids grow up. The question itself presents a false dichotomy; children are (often) a part of married life, but it's not…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/16 12:34 AM
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We're a little skeptical about the Red Pill movie to be honest. It takes some rather weak characters from the Men's Rights Movement and presents them as "red pill." However, they do not represent the Red Pill on Reddit; in fact, they're rather an embarrassment to a majority of men and women who study the Manosphere in general and TRP in particular. We're also skeptical about reporters contacting our members, from other experiences where stated intentions were disingenuous and hit pieces were wri…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 11:31 PM
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I'm speaking for USA culture, your norms and values may vary. A widow with no kids is near the apex of the pool of available 34yos, so you have that going for you in the relationship marketplace. Life is for the living. There is no dishonor in dating and eventually remarrying. As Sadie said, try going on a casual date here and there, with no pressure or obligation for either party, to ease back in to the game. It's different in the 30s, but not the dystopian nightmare some TRP writers suggest. M…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 10:31 PM
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I perfected making biscuits and crescent rolls in the BBQ. Great for at work or when its too hot to run the oven. Put a layer of foil on the upper rack, and a layer on the grill below this, sized so there's at least 1" gap on all sides. Preheat well, making sure the grill is cooked off; the first time there were crumbs of fish smoldering which is no flavor enhancer. I find my BBQ maintains a steady 375 with the burner under the foil at low, and the other burner just above low. Add the biscuits a…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 09:10 PM
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Repost- removed. If the automod deletes your thread, message the mods instead of making multiple threads.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 07:00 PM
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This advice applies regardless of the gender of the helper or the helpee, and is frequently asked so we'll discuss it. You can NOT get someone to swallow the pill who is not ready; they will spit it back in YOUR face, and it can have repercussions if the person goes off on a white knight social crusade against the naughty misogynist Redpiller. Someone as close and dear as a sister, one cannot sit by and let them go off the rails, but manage your expectations. Consider the Socratic Method, where …
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 06:57 PM
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Excerpt: I encouraged him to find a career and was thrilled when he was accepted to join the police in 1995. It should have heralded a new chapter in our lives, but it only hastened the end. We went from spending every evening and weekend together, to hardly seeing one another. Matthew was doing round-the-clock shifts, while I worked long hours on the launch of a new magazine. Our sex life had dwindled and nights out together were rare. I stopped appreciating little things he did, like leaving r…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 05:55 PM
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This better not be the same person that posted this basic question 5 times and was banned yesterday...
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:54 PM
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You've posted the same basic question about 5 times this week. Have a vacation from shitposting. Banned.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 03:15 AM
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The Red Pill isn't a movement or a cohesive group. It's a toolbox of ideas about mating strategies and mating strategy. Individuals can use from it the tools they need for their own life and situation, but it is to be expected that large areas of the discussion won't apply to your personal life, so ignore these. Men and women have differing sexual strategies, so it's best for you to stick to RPW and not hang out in the male locker room spaces. It'll give you a skewed and pessimistic view. One of…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 03:59 PM
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Well we didn't see each other yesterday (Monday) and he didn't even text me to cancel. I understand he is studying and busy, so I won't burden him. I am just not sure how to react. This is the first time he has done this. I am upset that he didn't call to cancel, but he doesn't know I'm upset. Classic case of "He's just not that into you." A rather caddish way of communicating this after weeks apart, but the silver lining is, it makes breaking it off easy and decisive. The time and energy you we…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 03:29 PM
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There's nothing remotely Red Pill about this guy, or you getting together with him. This whole thing is just red flags for days. You even say you don't want the relationship-things he's creepily offering too soon. There's really no discussion here, unless you want to justify using him or becoming a plate, both of which are off topic. Post locked. We'd like to help guide you if you're interested in growing in a Red Pill Woman direction. Read the sidebar more, participate in threads, and when you'…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/16 04:08 AM
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Hi, welcome to our sub. We hope you'll stick around and read our sidebar material. Many of the men on TRP are against marriage... I don't really understand this because many of the women on here have it as their goals to marry. There's no mystery to this at all, it's ingrained in TRP praxeology. Male and female strategies are different. RPW seek commitment in the sexual and relationship marketplace. Successful Red Pill LTRs are usually formed with a man who has a healthy mix of leadership (alpha…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/16 03:59 AM
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This post is a better fit for AskTRP, go ahead and repost it there. RPW generally isn't for men to ask advice of women, and TRP recommends against this practice as well. Post removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/16 03:49 AM
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Here's a thought... he's a history buff, how about some victorian valentines, or maybe antique sheet music for a love song he enjoys to think of a few ideas.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/16 02:38 AM
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we were 3 months away from our wedding!! Ouch! I'm sorry, but better before the wedding than after. I live in Thailand, not wanting children is seen as unwomanly/weird Strong cultural norms like that can be difficult to overcome, but not impossible. Can you identify certain demographics in your local population most likely to not want children to help focus your search, like education level (and major), occupation, large city versus rural, varying regional norms, etc? Also, I don't know if/how o…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/16 06:28 PM
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In extreme cases this is referred to in psychology as reduced or flat affect. While there can be underlying pathology driving it, often it is down to simple shyness or not so simple guardedness. The good news is, these can be easily worked on. What I'd strongly suggest you try is mirror work. You can use the bathroom mirror, but better to set up a decent mirror you can sit in front of comfortably. The right language coach or behavioral therapist can help you advance toward your goals rapidly. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/16 06:48 AM
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I've removed this post because it is considered "low effort." It looks like a good starting point for discussion and we'd like to reinstate it. When posting links, we ask that the OP include at least a paragraph or so of synopsis, context, discussion, analysis, something besides a link dump and singular question without context from the linked article. Please edit in a little more to your post, then respond to this message and I'll reinstate it. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/16 11:30 PM
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Is it possible to be a RPW if the man is not? It's possible to value a traditional relationship and see a man's controlling behavior as the same, when it's really not. Very profound insight. Point awarded. ♀
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/16 01:58 AM
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Hmmm, normally men don't lead or especially communicate subtly. However, it doesn't sound like he's "wrong" per se, especially if he's more of a Sigma type, a good enough self-leader but not accustomed to leading others. A lot of people get stuck on the road away from passive undercommunication because they don't want to become or be perceived as aggressive. My Rx for this situation would be for both of you to learn about becoming assertive in your communication. Read this article from the sideb…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 11:27 PM
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It sounds like you two are doing it right when it comes to not living together before marriage: Enough exposure to not have shocking revelations, but not so much that there's little tangible demarcation between engaged and married life. Here's my nutshell observation on cohabitation: It seldom makes a good relationship go any less well. The real downside is when the match is less than perfect, and people become financially and emotionally "trapped" in a poor relationship that now can't die a nat…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 03:30 AM
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Please, don't misunderstand me here. I'm not speaking out against marriage or OP's desire to be married. In fact, Pinklady, I'd love to hear the news when your man does propose to you, as much as anyone here on RPW. I just want to make this very clear, because it will knock an earnest suitor right OFF the marriage track. To attract the commitment of the highest quality man possible, you must offer the highest RMV possible. Be the woman he can't let get away and wants to marry. If a man develops …
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 03:16 AM
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Why is that an "or" question? Because so many people around me seem to be getting engaged, married and some getting pregnant. I just can't wait! ... It's just I am looking for what is next. and I'm just can't stop thinking about getting married, all the plans (I'm telling you Pinterest is a killer for this!). Mind you, I studied Boolean Algebra before high school; I have a reputation for answering "or" questions with Yes where applicable. In this case, external factors (peers marrying, wedding s…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 10:29 PM
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just want "marriage" as something apart from the man that they're with. Almost like the guy is secondary to the event and the fanfare, an accessory to a fantasy. That's pretty close to my reaction to this. What is your ultimate goal? A marriage, or a wedding?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 09:26 PM
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You've been reading at TRP which is a men's locker room, with demographics skewed heavily to 18-22yos who are not even in the market for commitment. Again, spend time here at RPW where the emphasis is on committed relationships, before judging the entire concept based on the sample you've seen so far.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 08:13 PM
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There's not enough info and context in your post to provide meaningful help in the first place. A quick look at post history shows this guy has hit you..? That is definitely NOT Red Pill behavior. Violence is considered a massive loss of frame. You're not dealing with a Red Pill problem so we can't help with this question as posted so I'm removing it. Read some of our sidebar articles here to get a better idea of what a healthy Red Pill relationship looks like.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 08:06 PM
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I can't speak for the top layer, but as someone who likes year-round mountain camping (especially during the Geminids meteor shower I'd like to stress the importance of quality thermal underwear. There are different types. The egg crate weave makes a good middle layer because of all the air pockets, especially with smooth layers above and below. Better quality thermals include fleece in the weave and are worth the investment. These make the best inner layer, and will greatly reduce the amount of…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/16 04:02 PM
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Bro... I said post this in AskTRP, not TRP.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 09:10 PM
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Hello, RedPillWomen generally isn't for men to ask advice of women, so your post isn't a good fit for our sub. Go ahead and repost this in AskTRP, you will get the help and advice you need from the men there. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/16 05:55 PM
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This is a low effort post. You've also demonstrated low effort at understanding our community, including reading the posting rules in the sidebar. We're not interested in quibbling about the minutiae of posting requirements; either participate meaningfully or leave. This is your only warning. Posting Requirements Posts & Comments Please make sure not to post a wall of text. Familiarize yourself with reddit formatting and use linebreaks properly. Poorly spelled, formatted, or capitalized posts wi…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/16 05:05 PM
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This is a low quality post that doesn't meet our posting guidelines. Removed. Please spend some time lurking and reading in our community before posting.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/16 04:33 PM
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It can only help refine our praxeology of sexual and power dynamics, to break down and test the various elements in a FF relationship platform. Dependent and independent variables and all of that. There are a few MtF trans lurkers there; I personally find it interesting to see them working harder to improve their femininity than many cis-females do! RPW has had a new mod team for almost 6 months; systemic problems you may have encountered before that probably don't exist there now.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/16 01:21 AM
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Check out the other subs like /r/redpillwomen Oddly enough, I've tried both those other subs and weren't exactly met with...uh, respectful welcomes. RPW Mod here. This can't have been recently, and with this username. You'll probably find us straight, but not narrow when it comes to discussing sexual strategy in a Red Pill frame. Even if you don't come over there, thanks for your sharing your perspective in MRP, it's been interesting to read.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/16 12:58 AM
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Excerpt: I cried myself to sleep in his arms that night. The realization that here I was, I had a good man, one who loves me, who tolerated my bs, who simply wanted the best for us. And what was I doing? I was being childish and selfish. Putting my needs and wants above his; needs and wants he had told me that he would only ever desire for the best of us. I knew I had to change. Its been a challenge, this past year. I read the RPW stuff religiously, tried to implement it...
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/16 12:16 AM
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OP deleted thread 2 minutes after locking.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/16 06:01 PM
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I'm disappointed that the first discussion of race (since I've been here) has essentially been '6 Reasons Black Women Are Undesirable'. This isn't a discussion even - there's no 'why', it's just saying that black women are terrible based on stereotypes. I'm inclined to agree. The Red Pill is about self-awareness and self-improvement; it's not enough to rant and leave it at that, let's remember to include actionable information and advice if we decide to rant. I don't want to delete the discussio…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/16 05:57 PM
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10/16 Reposting this for a day, we've gotten a lot of new users recently. Overall, we appreciate the select men who provide good, useful input to our sub.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/16 07:18 PM
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Your post does not meet our posting guidelines so it won't be approved here. I suggest you repost this in AskTRP, that is a sub by and for men. You will get better advice there. Good luck and you're welcome to lurk and read here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/16 07:07 PM
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This is not helpful, actionable advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/16 01:03 AM
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First off, the demographics reading TRP are heavily skewed to 18-22 year olds. Guys in this age group really don't have any business getting engaged and married. Second, male sexual strategy is different from that of women. They're supposed to want to try to sleep with many women, especially when young and at testosterone's peak. Stop reading TRP, it's a men's locker room! Third, there is a LOT of LTR material posted on TRP, you really have to hunt for it. The senior members will be the first to…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/16 01:42 AM
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Oh, forgive me. Scene: Fishing boat Lawyer: "Did you see the guy who caught the giant mackerel? He had a wrap sheet a mile long!"
/r/askTRP13/10/16 02:54 AM
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Lawyers get a bad wrap Wrote no actual lawyer, ever. Post deleted.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 02:46 AM
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I regret to inform you that we're not going to be able to rehash the problems with this relationship any further on RedPillWomen. You've already made several similar posts, and gotten lots of advice. This does not sound like a situation you can RPW your way out of or through. The whole relationship dynamic is fraught with problems, your SO sounds near impossible to work with, and your own self-esteem is stuck in a self-feeding negative spiral only worsened by the above. Bottom line, this isn't s…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/16 01:57 AM
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Don't let the perfect be the enemy of the good.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 04:05 PM
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He is an introvert so he likes alone time and I know I need to understand that is why he doesn't want to hang out sometimes too. I guess it is just hard for my to understand because I don't really like alone time but he does. I also think I need to find more friends because I basically have none It's good that you have insight into the problem here, and are not just reactively blundering in the direction of demanding more of his time either covertly or overtly, for that is an attraction killer e…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 03:45 PM
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Duplicate post
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 07:10 AM
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Really good advice. Voice coaches are also a thing. I remember a fascinating segment on a radio call in show with a guest who was a voice coach, it was amazing the detailed individual advice he could give out during a short call.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 04:52 AM
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This is a much better idea! Business cards printed with a secondary email address and Google Voice number for outreach purposes, which can't be traced or hacked to damage your main accounts and identity. The cards in the article come off as totally beta behavior. Just enough leadership to approach her and hand off a card, only then to flee to the safety of his computer to wait for a THIRD PARTY to connect them. Personal cards intended for general contact purposes are already a thing and can be m…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 05:31 PM
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A second date probably won't hurt anything; give him a chance to be more in his element and see how he behaves then. If he's relatively young (<23) maybe he's been relatively sheltered and will grow into himself over time. I know my 21yo self wasn't a turnkey relationship leader! However, you're right that it's unwise to take on a project relationship. It may take years for him to fully build out his adult personality; you may become frustrated, and the power dynamic won't be well balanced. You …
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 03:28 PM
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I have more advice but I'll stop here for now. Good writing. You could build this into a useful standalone post.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/16 02:11 AM
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It's well known RPW canon that pure Alpha males don't necessarily make stable LTR partners. A healthy balance of Alpha (leadership) and Beta (comfort, provider) traits is a good foundation for a male LTR partner.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 08:16 PM
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This discussion is better suited for PurplePillDebate. Thread locked.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 04:28 PM
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It's counterproductive to amplify someone's shame over a regrettable PAST mistake or pattern. What we want to avoid here is the perception that casual sex to mend a broken heart is a good or desirable course of action in the PRESENT and FUTURE, when we actually have control over it!. It tends to be a faustian bargain, magnifying self-image problems and making her LESS able to bond with a quality partner in the future. "The best way to get over a man is to get under another." This is a humorous i…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 04:25 PM
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When a woman is rejected by a man she really wants, one way to compensate or boost her ego is to go out and fool around with a bunch of other guys for affirmation, to prove she's attractive. Which may be what your friend is doing. It's as easy to self-medicate with sex as it is to use drugs or alcohol. We agree this is common behavior, but it needs to be pointed out that this is not RED PILL behavior!
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 04:20 PM
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We don't want sugarcoated advice here, but there's no need to be deliberately harsh to the people who post for help and advice. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 03:50 PM
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Can I ask why? why weren't you flattered? Are you for real?
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 03:41 PM
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Having been a step-parent, I fully understand the whole package deal concept when dating a single parent. My point was, it's extremely risky to post pictures of minor children on your dating site profile, especially for women, so much so that it affects a serious LTR-seeker's opinion of her suitability as a mate.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/16 09:04 PM
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Very timely essay, Runway! The mod team couldn't have written it better ourselves. Stickied.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/16 08:59 PM
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Mod note: Normally we don't approve examples from fiction, as they are scripted and don't reflect natural behavior. In this case, OP contacted the mods before posting, and we approved this particular post because it contains useful RPW analysis within the limitations of its fictional examples. Indeed, it has spawned a good and enjoyable discussion, so thanks OP.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 09:43 PM
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You don't suppose the guys proposing 3:00 in the afternoon meetups can't meet in the evening because they're accountable to another woman during "normal" dating hours, do you? Another potential subtle filter/checkpoint here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 05:04 PM
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redpill men here have insisted they all heard the message just be yourself and be nice and some women will love you unconditionally in all of the culture they grew up in "all" is hyperbole, but can confirm, that happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/16 04:34 AM
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He's an asshole in the sense that he's being a dick about every little rule or not even letting us perform some work in the backyard the day before we close the deal and pay them. He wouldn't be doing his fiduciary duty to HIS client if he allowed you to alter or modify the property in any way before escrow has closed. There is lots of potential downside to this for the seller. Wait till escrow closes, then do whatever the hell you want because it's your property. Maybe it's a wake up call for m…
/r/askTRP07/10/16 04:26 AM
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Hmmm, it sounds like the location (coffee shop) isn't the controlling variable, it's an artifact of the selection process. There is a type of dater in this age bracket that cynically churns through large numbers of prospects with quick, inexpensive coffee meets. Whether their standards are realistic or not, to their credit they are goal-oriented and you don't match their goals apparently. If you tried to push through their slouching, underdressed indifference by ramping up your feminine charm de…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 02:33 AM
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I likely come across as too antsy and not flirty. Tell us a bit more about that. You're right, this might be an issue; if you don't seem relaxed and warm toward him, a prospect might assume a self-fulfilling prophecy that you're not that into him.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 01:38 AM
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In my area we have several old town/ small town squares where they host weekly live bands etc. Nice outdoor evening. That sounds lovely for an "official first date." Initial meetup at 3pm in the square to enjoy a simple soft drink or whatever can lead easily to "They have concerts here, wouldn't it be fun to go to one together?" if you feel you're hitting it off. This is a good example of extending an invitation, giving the potential Captain an opportunity to lead by formally asking you on a dat…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 01:36 AM
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I decided to sticky this thread, because SO many women arrive here (often via the male Red Pill subs) and feel BAD about their prior non-redpill behaviors. We can't change the past, but we can change our own futures. Don't waste energy feeling bad about past mistakes. Feel good about your enlightened future, and turn any frustration at shortcomings toward working to make them better.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 12:41 AM
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I'm often asked to meet up for coffee as a first meeting. This is a great dating tip for both parties; it takes pressure off, and especially prevents investing a lot of time and resources when there's no chemistry. That they are suggesting coffee indicates experienced, savvy daters. Usually that's a mutual thing - meaning that neither one of us is interested in the other. This is not a bad thing; it wouldn't have worked any better at dinner and a movie with these particular guys. Several mismatc…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/16 09:46 PM
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Excellent point. Going Meta is appreciated around parts of Reddit sometimes, but it's risky in a serious dating site profile. Not to mention it presupposes that: You've done a LOT of online dating You have a crappy relationship forming and maintaining track record You're not a keeper, according to a growing consensus
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/16 01:39 AM
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Ideas like "the wall" are meant to guide and motivate younger readers onto the right path early. They should NOT be used for self-shaming or shaming others over what they did before finding the Red Pill. For those picking up the reins later in life, don't lament what you could've done before, get busy with what you can do now and in the future! I was worried I had missed the boat. This boat ride runs 80+ years with luck and effort. Good times coming!
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 11:38 PM
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All excellent points, especially the hookup part. That's what I was getting at with the "all defensive" ad, and it's as foolish as going into a car place declaring, "I know what you folks think when you see a lady coming!" It seems like a good defense mechanism on paper, but in practice, it instantly annoys and turns away all of the good people, and delights the scammers that such an easy mark has declared herself.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 07:40 PM
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Is it acceptable to have casual relationships from dating apps? Of course, why not? Tinder is specifically set up to be a hook-up site, that's why the selection process is done by swiping pictures alone. Stories of finding a good LTR match there are outliers. POF has several choices under "intent," from casual dating with no commitment, to wants to get married; this makes an excellent filter. LOTS of women in my age group choose the casual dating category, I notice if I browse instead of search.…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 07:34 PM
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Read our posting and male participation guidelines, and prepare a post of at least a paragraph giving context and maybe an example or two, and your question could spur an interesting and useful discussion here. :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 05:20 PM
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In a word, YES. This is a low-effort post that isn't useful to the community so it's being removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 05:10 PM
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I realize women get a firehose of responses to any dating profile compared to men. What I'm suggesting is, making a more detailed and specific ad will help throttle and sort the flow, improving your LTR choices available through this channel.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 03:19 AM
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I think this is sound advice but I just don't think it really matters much. If someone genuinely likes a guy they'll suddenly find that personality their profile is devoid of. As someone exclusively interested in LTRs, I'm very familiar with the phenomenon of women who project an image they believe their suitor wants to see in order to win his affection and commitment. This type of personality shift is seldom sustainable, and before long they revert to whatever their baseline behavior is, which …
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/16 03:13 AM
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Good points, I was going to mention studio and glamour photos don't look good in this context.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/16 04:06 PM
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Prostate stimulation is a legitimate thing. Some men report "most mind-blowing orgasm ever!" Personally, it's something I discovered, and became bored with, as a young teen. Not one of my GFs ever mentioned it, and I'd find it strange if someone tried to stick something in my ice cream without discussion. If you're both enthusiastic about the idea, here are a few pointers. Use proper lube! This should be obvious, but according to the internet, it's not. Wear a latex glove if you want, it shouldn…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/16 03:53 PM
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All of the rules in place are there because of specific problems that come up repeatedly for the mod team to have to deal with. All of our posters seem to be able to get their message across within these rules and guidelines without a problem. What is your specific issue, what message can't you get through because of the rules we have here?
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/16 11:03 PM
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Appears to be reposted under another username..? (which is fine as long as we don't accidentally approve a duplicate post)
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/16 04:43 AM
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Two words: Online dating!
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/16 10:45 PM
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Don't wish it away! Neoteny or youthful features are attractive in women to men. The opposite isn't true, it's the baby-faced man who has problems in the SMP. As long as you are able to act as mature or more than your actual age this is really an advantage for you. Take care of your youthful appearance! Limit sun exposure, eat well, avoid lots of alcohol and any tobacco as these speed the aging process.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/16 10:43 PM
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I disagree. This is not surprising, you have a vested interest in believing tattoos won't negatively impact men's decision whether to consider a LTR with you, and you can't live a parallel life without them to A/B test the type and number of men who pursue a serious LTR. Tattoos increase SMV to a niche market of men, but lower a woman's SMV and especially RMV to the majority. Women should not get tattoos specifically to increase their attractiveness, this is anti-RPW advice. This may not be what…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/16 08:56 PM
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I think ink is beautiful and I feel good about my tattoos. Currently working on a sleeve This will NOT raise your RMV; in fact, to large numbers of men looking for a LTR or wife candidate, this places a woman squarely in the "Pump and dump" or "Don't bother" category. I love ink on guys as well so I guess I'll attract guys with ink "easily" when I have it myself (at least that's also my experience, haha). This is solipsism, I suggest you do some more research about how men feel about tattooed wo…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/16 03:33 PM
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Good in theory, but be careful! Some people spit the pill back violently. I've come to regret several introductions (though a few stuck.)
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/16 06:51 AM
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Attraction is a complex thing. Women will definitely withhold sex from a man they're unhappy with at that moment for whatever reason, when he's very attractive conventionally or to her specifically most of the time. It's a risky bargaining chip. A Red Pill Aware man might simply say "K" with amused mastery then go sleep with a woman without reasons not to sleep with him.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/16 07:10 PM
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The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago. The next best time to plant a tree is right now. -Hebrew proverb Thanks for a great field report. One barrier to positive change is people get bogged down in self-recrimination over past behavior. This FR goes to show that even entrenched patterns can be corrected within a relationship; it takes the will to begin changing, and the fortitude to follow all the way through.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/16 06:58 PM
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For those who don't know, Rollo Tomassi is one of the titans of the Manosphere. He's been studying psychology and M-F relationships since before the WWW existed, and is the author of the canonical book, The Rational Male. Here are some FAQs about himself he has answered in the past. https://therationalmale.com/2014/08/14/20-questions/ It's really good that he's doing an AMA; it's been said that there's probably no question that he hasn't already written an entire article about. Looking forward t…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/16 06:54 PM
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Good advice from others here, so I'll focus on this in particular. LDRs are generally not recommended for numerous reasons. If you're able to continue this relationship, what will it take for the two of you to live closer to each other? In sociology, propinquity or physical proximity is one of the largest determinators of whether two people will form and maintain any type of relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/16 04:37 PM
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Duplicate post removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/16 04:49 PM
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I had mentioned that he grew marijuana to my therapist Oh my! Say what you will about the marijuana business, but you absolutely need to internalize security culture if you're going to be around it! Look at these images daily and get it stuck in your head. The therapist is a special class of relationship and what you confide is legally privileged information so you'll probably be OK this time, but seriously STFU.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/16 04:02 PM
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My question is this: If a man seems hesitant to go monogamous, how do you ladies handle it? Discovering a potential partner's relationship intentions is part of the dating and vetting process. To avoid becoming a plate, RPW recommends fulfilling your end of the basic relationship transaction: make sure a man is offering the commitment you want before offering the sex he wants. but then last week when I visited him, we wound up having sex. Well, shoot. The best thing you can do at this point is b…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/16 03:00 AM
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This is not even remotely Red Pill. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/16 02:41 AM
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This post is all over the place for being so short, and doesn't offer anything useful for our community. Removed. Please read our posting rules and guidelines for male participation.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/16 09:09 PM
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This is a tough road, your investment of years may pay off, or he may date you for years then marry someone else when he graduates. Here is the spouse/partner support subforum on a great website for med students. Be sure to check out this extremely long thread when you have, like, a month to waste reading. Sounds like you have the right ideas in mind already, good luck in this journey together!
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/16 07:30 AM
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This is off topic and not aligned with male participation guidelines. Post removed. I recommend you repost on AskMRP and do some serious reading there too along with TheRedPill. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/16 07:17 AM
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My personal opinion is, the "midlife crisis" phenomenon is a result of people living the life they are "expected to" according to Blue Pill narratives, and realizing late in the game that they have many unfulfilled dreams and wishes. It stereotypically plays out in a lunging, thrashing, impulsive and self-destructive manner. I think it's the same thing as people facing an early death; they don't grieve for the life they won't live, but for the life they haven't lived so far. It's important that …
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/16 02:45 AM
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Your post is short and lacks context that will help people give meaningful responses. You might flesh it out to 2-3 short paragraphs with a little about the relationships you've had so far, where you're at now, where you want to be in the future, and what you're doing now so far to reach these goals. We'd like your posts on RPW to be successful, so please edit this information into your post and reply to this message or message the forum mods, and we will get your post approved. Thanks and welco…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/16 02:36 AM
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I just read a story of a woman who met her husband in nightclub. Outliers always make for a cool story, but the odds are stacked against a relationship started in a bar or nightclub. If you're seeking a committed relationship with a well-matched partner, this should be near the bottom of your list of places to specifically go looking for men. The example of her future husband watching her dance with other men sounds like a made-up blue pill narrative. It's a solipsistic projection that, because …
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/16 08:30 PM
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Generally, terms of endearment are part of the bread and butter of relationships. There is a broad sweet spot between not enough and too much. Obviously, pay attention to the greater context, and to feedback from your SO. Beware of developing them into verbal weapons of sorts. We've probably all seen examples of shrewish women who preface every criticism and correction with, "Hon-eeeeeee!" in a keening mixture of insistence and annoyance. Protip: Men who spin multiple plates will use nicknames e…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/16 08:10 PM
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This is not Red Pill advice. Don't proselytize here or we'll show you the door.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 10:52 PM
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Exactly. It's so common a human behavior that it has a name. Look up "self-fulfilling prophecy."
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 08:05 PM
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You are a plate. This relationship isn't likely to turn good no matter what. Strongly recommend cut contact with this man and work on improving yourself and being available for a good and interested man to come along.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 08:02 PM
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Excerpt: Women don't always know how to comfort men, because we have a tendency to look at it through the lens of "what we would want". We know that when we're upset, we want someone to vent to, a shoulder to cry on, and we want men to be men. We can only imagine when men are upset they want the same things, but they don't, because men are not women with different parts. They need different things.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 05:28 AM
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Please seek professional help, TRP won't cure clinical depression or suicidal ideation. This is off-topic. Post locked.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 04:30 AM
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For example, let's take the advice "smile genuinely around people to show your warm personality." What if you had a bad facial structure that just makes you look even uglier when you smile? "Smiling genuinely" will only turn people off. I am thinking of a young woman who has a medical condition that has stained her teeth permanently. She's very self-conscious about it and deliberately modifies her smile around strangers to hide her teeth; unfortunately the unnatural strain of it shows conspicuou…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 04:26 AM
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comfortable in their own skin This factor alone can boost the RMV of a plain-looking woman above that of a high-SMV but insecure, validation-seeking woman.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 03:24 AM
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What you've presented is congruent with RPW canon, and advice given when this exact topic has come up various times in the past few months. Good write up, but it's not clear why you say: while the advice here is generally good, it might not always be best if you're genetically unlucky
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 02:47 AM
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Avoiding sun is a good thing, especially given the perilous state of the ozone layer. At my age, the difference in women who spent their youth in the sun versus not is tremendous. Decades of sun damage means LOTS of facial wrinkles at 50, and the cleavage and arms suffer a lot as well. Beta carotene not only colors the skin cosmetically, it confers strong UV protection. This is useful for photosensitive people, whether from porphyria or taking photosensitizing drugs such as certain antibiotics. …
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 03:47 PM
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We haven't had sex or anything like that (I'm definitely going to make him wait for that) That's good, because there are red flags for days here. So far, I've given him oral sex but that's as far as its gone. He said he wanted to have sex but he would wait until I was comfortable. LOL wut? I'm not saying go ahead and do everything now, but oral sex is sex. I don't understand how it sometimes gets categorized as not-sex. I can already tell I'm falling pretty hard for him. That's too bad, because …
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 02:47 AM
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No dry rubbing (when it's more than a fleeting amount during regular foreplay)! Use a sloppy amount of lube, the improvement in sensation is worth it. Try different lubes; Astroglide smells and has a bit of a sting in my experience. Pink Water worked much better. If long BJs are hard to give, a hybrid hand/blow might work. Lube the lower half of the shaft generously and stroke it while licking the head and especially the area right below the head on the underside. This can feel as good/better th…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 03:17 PM
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How are you supposed to tell if your partner is an Alpha or a Beta? Our Vetting Men article in the sidebar focuses on this in Part 3. If you're doing a lot of reading on TRP, I recommend stop, because that is written for men, specifically reforming Betas. What do you take into account for RMV vs. SMV? At what point is RMV more important? The simplest answer is, SMV refers to traits that are readily visible and important to initial attraction, such as appearance, attitude, immediate-term behavior…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 10:41 PM
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the post The Final Exam by /u/Whisper I can't speak for Whisper, but my interpretation of this canonical post is that the final exam presupposes a LOT of vetting, before going into a position where sleeping together "just happens." If a committed relationship is the goal, it does NOT mean sleep with an unvetted man on the first date. That would be a pop quiz, not a final exam by any stretch of the term.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 10:00 PM
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This is not good advice for a woman if she's not certain the man is interested in pursuing an exclusive relationship with her. Men are not vending machines that you put in sex and get out commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 04:31 PM
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No more coffee for you today, Mister. :P
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 04:29 PM
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"as a guy" posts usually get nuked It's bad form, but our current mod policy takes the entire post's value into account. A de-facto ban on men or pedantic mod policy throws out a lot of really good advice along with the bad.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 04:25 PM
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I'd try a movie at home (bring wine/liquor too) where I know there's sexual tension and eventually a hot scene. Then I'd suggest you make a move. This is not good advice for a woman. If the man isn't pursuing a relationship, throwing sex at him is a great way to become a plate and nothing more, ever. (The only partial exception might be a shy, inexperienced man who is definitely pursuing a serious relationship and needs a little nudging.) Create opportunities for HIM to escalate, let him clearly…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 04:18 PM
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Remember that old saying, "You never get a second chance to make a good first impression." The bad news is, you probably could never change this particular man's impression of you as plate material only. The good news is, there are almost 4 billion other men on the planet! Don't beat yourself up over the past or obsess about someone you can't have. The icky feeling shouldn't be a reason to wallow in misery, but a motivator to aspire for, and achieve better in the future. Continue with self-impro…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 04:04 PM
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This is a bit sparse and confusing to read. Perhaps you could add in a little context and expand it to 2-3 concise paragraphs we can see about approving it. Message the mods once you have done so. Thanks, the mod team.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 03:56 PM
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I see several minor misunderstandings at play here. Let me reassure you, the situation almost certainly isn't as dire as you're making it out to be. SMV is highly subjective. Yours is probably higher than you give yourself credit for; his may not be as high as you claim in the eyes of others. The sexual marketplace is pretty efficient; a SMV gap as large as you claim isn't common. You are neglecting RMV or relationship market value. SMV may attract lots of men, but RMV is what keeps one. Right n…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 03:39 PM
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Agree, post removed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/16 09:50 PM
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To all posters: this topic may invoke strong feelings and positions, but let's remember to stick to discussing the merits of the ideas, without ad hominem (criticizing the poster instead of the idea.)
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/16 03:12 AM
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Is she attractive ? This is less relevant because men will sleep with a much lower SMV woman than they'd commit to, especially if the lower SMV woman is a willing plate.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/16 09:43 PM
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This totally depends on the intentions of the woman and your SO. If she's carrying even a tiny little torch for him, then no. I'm an outlier (and old), but I do maintain friendships with the opposite gender that do NOT harm or threaten my romantic relationship. Some dating prospects were not OK with this, which is their prerogative. This was discussed during the early dating/vetting phase, and some considered it a deal breaker and bounced. If there really isn't an extant threat of your SO cheati…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/16 08:46 PM
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The party idea seems over the top and inescapably awkward. If he's not trying to get back together it's astronomically awkward. I say keep any sort of in-person interactions between just you two. I strongly second this. The party idea is a type of covert contract. The problem here is, you HAD him, and totally took that for granted and neglected the relationship. Words and promises over a short time are not what is needed to fix this, you need to do serious work on yourself to become an attractiv…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/16 07:50 PM
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Here are some tips I gave someone with a similar question. I have an article on this topic in the planning stages. Also check out the three-part vetting men article in the sidebar. with regards to strategies to meet, socialize on date #1, #2, etc It's always a good idea to meet online dating prospects early, in a brief, noncommittal way, at a VERY public and safe place. This saves investing weeks or more, only to have a record scratch moment when you meet. A smoothie or ice cream place is good. …
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/16 11:23 PM
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Post locked due to being a duplicate. New Redditors: Your posts are removed by the automoderator to help control spam and trolls. The Mod team cannot override this for individual users, but we approve legit posts manually. If a post of yours is removed, message the moderators instead of making multiple posts with multiple usernames.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/16 06:53 PM
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Duplicate post due to automoderator. Original post approved under other username. This post is now locked.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/16 05:34 PM
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How does your husband handle the flirting? What does he say to you about his opinion of her privately? That's key to the whole thing.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/16 08:13 PM
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I'm almost 50; have been around long enough to know that a conscientious, determined person can totally mature into a worthy partner from all kinds of early life shenanigans. OP is 21 FFS folks! What she did in high school, provided she makes deep, permanent changes, has little bearing at 31, less still at 41, and even less still at 51. Speaking as though she's already used up for life is ridiculous. That said, don't get tattoos!
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 06:34 PM
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I don't have the money or time to go shopping for a new wardrobe, since I just started college. Thrift and sometimes consignment stores are the way to go here. Sometimes you find even designer stuff never worn with label for pennies on the dollar. Different stores sometimes have different strengths; one is known for great clothing, another good for books and knick-knacks, and another for dishes, appliances, and bikes/outdoor goods. Don't try just one and give up.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 05:06 PM
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Every "rule" has its exceptions and exclusions. Long straight hair is by most standards more feminine than straight hair cut very short. However, this rule can't apply to naturally curly hair, so don't beat yourself up over it or spend extensive time making it something it's not (straight) in the name of this arbitrary standard. Extensions that interfere with normal washing help your SMV for distant observers, not the most important observer (your SO) who will bury his nose in it. Find a style (…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:38 PM
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A reminder to readers: Just as TRP isn't a museum of perfect Alphas but also a hospital for reforming Betas, so is Red Pill Women not a display case of women who came off-the-shelf in perfect condition, but a physical and mental gymnasium where all can strive to become better partners. I'd like to remind the virtue-signalers and bashers that many women out there feel that the men of TRP are all irredeemably Betas for life, and their TRP-inspired improvements are but falsehoods. Posts that are al…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 04:08 PM
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This belongs in AskTRP, go ahead and repost it there. It does not provide any value to the RPW community and goes against our male posting guidelines. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/16 02:40 AM
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Check out this long post comment from a few days ago, he lays out the male Red Pill perspective very well for a female audience. Going over to the men's locker room that is TRP is often shocking for female readers, there is a lot to slog through. I'm also developing an idea on some sort of panel discussion of vetted male members to offer their insight into the male psyche.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/16 09:13 PM
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Fair enough, it's not wrong if this is what mutually works best for a particular couple. Personally, I love spooning tightly off to sleep, and love even more waking in the night still tightly embraced.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/16 07:15 PM
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Thanks, and good luck over there. :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/16 06:49 PM
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What are some red pill biomechanical strategies that I can employ in this situation to help it all flow? Form a new band consisting of normal, adjusted people? This is way off topic for RedPillWomen. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/16 06:45 PM
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This can be difficult to impossible in our 20s. As people mature and gain more life experience and fulfillment, it becomes much easier and more natural. From my mid-30s on, it has become more common to remain on a cordial basis with exes even. Several became clients of my business (4 figure spend over time) specifically because they feel they can trust me. I recognize that I am an outlier in this regard. Especially when you're in a relationship, one must be vigilant that friends aren't carrying …
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/16 12:06 AM
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Count me as a firm believer that the parents should maintain their own PRIVATE bedroom, and that changing their priority from each other as a couple, to servants of the children alone, is a recipe for dead bedrooms and eventually worse. Yes, the kids are important, but couples that switch to being parents only and neglect their couple relationship seem to be the ones most likely to run into problems.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 11:29 PM
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I think the parents themselves should sleep in separate beds. How about no! (This is apparently quite a thing, judging by the number of RVs equipped with twin beds.)
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 11:22 PM
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Are there any cultural or religious reasons he might have for being slow toward physical escalation? Because it's not really dating after 2 months with no physical contact. If he's shy or inexperienced, he might need a little encouragement to escalate physically. For example, hold his hand briefly, or lean your head on his shoulder for a minute or two if there's an opportunity. Then... back off and see if he takes the reins. This is a way to extend a physical invitation for him to escalate, yet …
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 11:17 PM
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I second this. This is the Red Pill Male's perspective on dating, a hard-core message explained with obvious effort for a RPW audience. Despite its length, it left me thinking, ...go on... The Red Pill may go down with difficulty, but if you disagree, telling us why would be better than downvotes here.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/16 04:37 AM
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Sometimes what you are seeing are automoderator notifications and conversations between mods and OP, all of which are deleted before a post is approved. No need to point out someone appearing to be shadowbanned here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 10:09 PM
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A couple of possibilities come to my mind. Everything's normal, this is part of the natural shift toward Companionate Love Everything's normal, he's extra-stressed and will return to his previous state Something about the trip bothered him, but it will resolve with a little time Something about the trip bothered him and made him rethink the long term plans Something having nothing to do with you on his mind If ALL you have to go by is a change in TEXTING habits, you may be overthinking things. H…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 10:07 PM
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PM sent explaining the situation.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 09:06 PM
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As I've said to those early in the weight loss process: Don't sit on the sidelines of the dating marketplace waiting for some qualifying event in the future. You are not going to arrive at your target weight or step from the operating room with dating experience and confidence fully realized. Suppose a year or two goes by and you meet whatever condition you were waiting for, only to realize every other aspect of dating has gone unpracticed and unexperienced, and you're just as inhibited-feeling …
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/16 03:43 PM
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This reminds me of the time my stepdaughter decided to take a few nudes of herself and put them in a folder on her computer when she was around 18-19. Well, her screensaver was an automatic slideshow randomly displaying anything in the entire pictures folder. Her Mom was in her room chatting when one of the nudes flashed onto the screen, which was not responsive to hasty efforts to hide it. Many lessons learned that day. I'd recommend against nude photos of yourself for simple security.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 04:56 PM
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New accounts are filtered by the automoderator to protect our sub against trolls and spammers. Anyone whose legit post is filtered can contact the mod team to get it manually approved. We check periodically for hung posts but if one seems to be missing for hours send us a message, we are here to help.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/16 04:45 PM
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The risk of a 60yo husband being flirted with, much less stolen away by a 37yo, is rather overblown IMO. At that age, her ability to be a good, pleasant, reliable companion is one of her greater assets. This is what makes these type of relationships (companionate love) stick.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 07:55 PM
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For short term relationships up to a couple of years, or part-time long term (eg plate) arrangements, wide and even extreme age differences matter far less. A large age difference is sometimes part of the draw; though not always in a mutually healthy way. For marriage, children, and lifetime bonds, a large age difference can become a cruelty to both parties. It's hard to meaningfully pledge "Till death do us part" when one has gotten such a big head start. Certain shifts along your respective ag…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 07:49 PM
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I agree with u/picklepansy and u/lacygnus that there's a bit of a boundary issue and perhaps some covert contract in the mix here. However, as someone who has successfully (not always, mind you) maintained healthy friendships with the opposite sex, this might be correctable by steering, rather than braking or reversing. I think his GF is onto something, maybe in him more than you, but still something. You can't begrudge her looking out for her own best interests. If an opportunity to talk openly…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/16 06:28 PM
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singing kid's songs to your baby boy If you want an alternative to kiddie songs, John Lithgow has at least one album of old standards remade for kid sing-alongs. The album I heard is called "The sunny side of the street" and you should start with the song Baby. I lost it laughing at the scatting part.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/16 05:46 PM
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Hello, welcome to our sub. We discuss female sexual and dating strategy here from a particular range of perspectives. This post is off topic so it will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/16 06:27 AM
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it is a concept that was created and popularized in the 40s Poor argument, a lot of concepts and distinctions have been discovered and refined since then; and don't forget that useless concepts get discarded along the way. No radiologist has ever imaged empathy, just as no pathologist has ever found the broken self-esteem during autopsy. Just because these concepts are abstractions doesn't make them useless or false. That you go so far to deny the very existence of empathy says a lot more about …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 05:10 AM
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This is a low-effort post therefore against our posting rules. Please add some supporting context and details. Your age and basic info, brief relationship history, relationship goals. Edit this in or make a new post, and we'll approve it.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 11:08 PM
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My first word takes into account your posting history about this relationship. Polyamory is a S*IT DEAL for you in this case. This is his wish. You are doing this not because you want it, but to appease him. This is not a foundation upon which such a relationship arrangement can thrive. Since this is right over the border of on-topic for RPW, I'm going to send you off to do some extensive reading at the More than Two website. Also, the Black Dragon Blog discusses polyamory extensively, from the …
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 03:27 PM
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My ideal relationship isn't Captain-FO with constant experiences and new things. Mine is me + Sigma male, very opinionated, self-assured, self motivated individuals who happen to enjoy spending time together. There is no need to lead for him or submit for me; it just flows. It would be awesome if you were to expand this into a FR or theory post. I agree that many relationship models are underexplored on RPW, and Sigma Game is one of the more useful examples.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 03:29 AM
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This is very far off topic for our sub. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/16 11:28 PM
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Excerpt: Matt straight up told me that my know-it-all feminist dominant smart girl attitude was unattractive to men, and I really ought to stop doing that (there was context, he wasn't just being a dick). After he said this, I predictably dumped him and labeled him a misogynist, only to reflect on it and realize he was 100% right. I was always vying for dominance, and that throws off the whole balance of dominance and submission that makes romance work!! Everything started to make sense, because…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/16 01:27 AM
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This isn't the type of post we normally leave up, but it has spawned some useful discussion so we'll leave it. (Thanks to those who have reported their concerns.)
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 11:49 PM
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LDR problems. Is there a known end to the period you'll be so far apart, like a semester of school or end of a job assignment? 2-3X a week is pretty good for a LDR actually, but very burdensome to whoever does the traveling. As for your feelings in his absence: When you are together, is he a great boyfriend to you? If yes, use that plus knowledge of the time you'll be conventionally together to help your mind through the harder periods of absence.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/16 05:54 PM
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I would extend this premise to include socialism in general. This appeals to people between being cared for by parents as minors, and those plunged into the cold realities of the post-college workaday world. I don't see college campuses as hotbeds of socialism indoctrinating the next generation; I'm old enough to have heard that prediction made every year and not come true for generations now. Rather, they're the only place left where these dying embers can still be found.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/16 07:41 AM
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Try purplepilldebate.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 09:25 PM
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This... isn't the way we usually discuss things on RedPillWomen.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 08:29 PM
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This doesn't add any value to our sub. You might discuss this on TRP or AskTRP. RedPillWomen isn't for men to question or poll women.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 08:23 PM
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Take care not to set up a "mothering" or nurse/patient dynamic that could skew the relationship power structure in an unhealthy way. Keep him company and help him out when he needs it; know when to get things done apart so you two don't have cabin fever problems. Other than those caveats, it's sweet of you to be looking ahead at how to help.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 05:55 AM
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Excerpt: But while this may all sound mad, narcissistic or completely pointless, self–marriage is one way to embrace the reality in which ever increasing numbers of women find themselves — wanting to settle down, have children and make a lifelong commitment, but being short of a man to do it with. Today there are more single people than at any previous time in history, especially in large cities. In America, where Beyoncé sang about ‘All The Single Ladies’, unmarried women now outnumber the marr…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/16 04:22 AM
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What has appeared so far has been deleted quickly, so you probably didn't see anything. I wanted to make sure this was clear from here forward because things are only going to get even more crazy for the next couple months. TRP ran a "Don't peddle your candidate" thread a few months ago. It's starting to trickle back over there, too.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/16 04:19 AM
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I have some very close life experience with this situation. Someone just please tell me I'm not hopeless. You're not hopeless. Make no mistake, you've got it harder than most, but even entertaining the belief that you are hopeless becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Story 1 A woman we'll call N was in a LTR with someone in my brother's band, so this played out within a large group of people frequently involved with each other for years. She had MD and could barely awkwardly walk with two canes. …
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/16 09:37 PM
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OK, let's keep it calm, everybody. This is a strongly emotional topic, but let's try to stick to being supportive and helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/16 08:34 PM
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Numerous posts removed because they're off-topic. Please refer to the sticky post at the top of the thread.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/16 07:50 PM
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I'd like to remind everyone that OP is asking for advice on how to prioritize elements of her self-improvement journey. Let's keep the discussion on this topic. OP is not asking whether she should move away from her BF; this undoubtedly difficult decision was already made. I don't want to have to remove comments, but if the discussion of this side topic escalates any further toward arguing there will have to be some heavy pruning. If anyone wishes to further discuss the topic of staying/breaking…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/16 06:43 AM
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Fair enough. Why do you think you're qualified to offer women advice on the internet, you ridiculous player?
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 03:38 PM
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You've got A&A down well, must have learned at least its name from someone, somewhere. Spend some energy paying that forward sometime, don't only ever criticize the writing of others.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 03:34 PM
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Great field report, you handled everything well! Engaging a drunk person who is belligerent or approaching so is difficult to pull off with feminine grace. As hostess you may be called upon to deal with this situation, but it sounds like your husband is a great team member and managed it well enough that you didn't need to. An important thing that should be pointed out, OP has been together for 5 years; her man has long since been thoroughly vetted, and it's safe for her trust to run on cruise c…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 04:18 AM
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You should repost your question on AskTRP where you will get good advice from men. This sub generally isn't for men to ask questions of women, and yours is off topic. Thread locked.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/16 03:36 AM
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PemBayliss is a tireless contributor to AskTRP. I just cross-flaired him from TRP to make sure others don't try to criticize him for ANSWERING a few Frequently AskTRP'd Questions. This will probably end up in the AskTRP sidebar. TRP's answer to content critics and concern trolls: instead of whining, write and post the material you think is lacking on our pages. I don't see this in your posting history.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 11:47 PM
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I know this is kinda bullshit post. Then don't post it here! Locking thread to quiet the shitstorm you're inviting. And then one day you find/Ten years have got behind you/No one told you when to run/You missed the starting gun -Pink Floyd
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:44 PM
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From my experience, a high intelligence man and average intelligence woman can have a happy, functional relationship together. The critical factor isn't the intelligence of the woman, but her self-esteem and dignity. If she's content and secure with the things she can't change about herself, and working/making progress on things she can improve for the good of herself and the relationship, the intelligence isn't a fatal mismatch for domestic felicity. If she's insecure, it clogs the emotional ch…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/16 05:53 PM
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Anyway this successful man, wants to date me. I feel under qualified, so to speak. He's much more interesting than I am. I feel like I have nothing to add to the relationship. Well? Go on a date! Accept an invitation to somewhere you can get to know each other, without distractions, and without pressure. This means a public enough place that you feel secure, but where you can really engage one another. Bad ideas: Movie, loud bar, secluded area, netflix and chill at his place. Good ideas for a fi…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 11:55 PM
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He's so attractive, gets seduced in front of me, Could you clarify this bit please? Does he follow through with being seduced, or do you mean women flirt with him and...?
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 10:09 PM
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That's not against RP phiolosophy at all. The woman flirts with him and he ignores it with amused mastery and solid frame.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 07:15 PM
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I love this post! I'm a Sigma/Introvert, not a person who needs people. I killed my TV in 1990, my last social media site was Myspace (mainly to keep tabs on my stepdaughter at the time), and I have never owned a cell phone. An interesting phenomenon: when I tell people I don't own a TV, one of two things happen. They start making excuses and apologies for their own TV consumption (totally not what I expect) or they speak to me as though I actually watch all the same TV as they do, they literall…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 04:41 PM
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Depends on your area I suppose. If there's not a French speaking population in your town, maybe you could freelance or work as a writing translator, like translating technical manuals to French/Quebecois to/from English. That would utilize your skillset without real time demands or face to face work with clients. So far I've struggled to find something that doesn't drain my energy and contribute to me being an unpleasant person. Oooh, I'll take one like this too! Been serving the public for over…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 02:19 AM
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My advice to us women here is to be wary about changing yourself too much around what men say they want. This doesn't reflect the actual content of RPW. Nowhere does our sub recommend women change themselves to become what men SAY they want. Another Mod already removed the post. It's kind of rambling and all over the place, without clear actionable information that can be taken away. I invite you to lurk and participate in the comments to become more familiar with the community, and when you hav…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 12:30 AM
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It's difficult to understand what's going on in this post. Can you edit it to break the text up into paragraphs, and add some contextualizing information like approx ages and what you would like to happen next. Do this and respond to this message and I can see about approving your post.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/16 03:35 PM
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Sigma? Think Lone Wolf, or some might say the most likely emergent leader of the Ixxx personality types. Likely to situationally take charge, not to bask in the attention or credit, but to enjoy the fruits of the results for his own ends.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/16 11:15 PM
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Start with the wiki page and book recommended in the body language section of this article. These will help lead you to further pursuits if you're interested.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/16 06:15 AM
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Women age very well in Japan. I understand diet has a lot to do with it. High in omega-3 oils, very unlike the American diet full of hydrogenated and omega-6 oils and oxidized fry oil, plus over 50# of sugar annually per capita.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 08:46 PM
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Red Pill is about improving ourselves. While some of us as individuals may be activists and SJW-confronters, this is off-topic for our sub. Post locked.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/16 10:23 PM
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Take your question to AskTRP, you'll get the help you need there. RPW generally isn't for men to ask questions of women.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/16 07:18 PM
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Congratulations Sadie! May your recovery be quick and thorough. Great FR, it must have helped so much to have trust that your Husband is a competent Captain.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/16 04:46 PM
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Meth? Run and don't look back!!! I am so serious! Run far, far away from the situation that is unfolding here. This drug is highly addictive, and ruins everyone who begins using it. There's a saying: A thief will steal your stuff. A tweaker will steal your stuff and help you look for it. There's no comparison to pot and psychedelics. Meth is so much worse it belongs in a class of its own. This cannot be helped by pussyfooting around. Forget his feelings, relationship etiquette, all of that out t…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/16 03:32 PM
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This is not Red Pill, why are you here?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/16 10:40 PM
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The Red Pill concerns itself with cis-gender issues; as such, you may find useful information here about how to look and behave more feminine. We don't specifically cater to the trans or gay communities, but neither do we shun them. We can fix ourselves, but not necessarily the world as it exists today. Do you have any specific questions about femininity we can help you with?
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 11:54 PM
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Learn to shoot if you're interested in that, but do not substitute learning self-defense with buying a weapon. If you produce a weapon but are untrained in hand combat, you're very likely to have the weapon taken from you and escalate the situation way beyond what may have played out. Practice Tueller drills and you'll see. Most attacks initiate from a few feet away, and you can't draw and shoot a determined attacker from less than 20 feet away. The REAL value of learning martial arts is the non…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 11:46 PM
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The first few weeks/months can be a buzzing, blooming confusion. You have to learn a lot of the basic elements that go into the moves- stance, balance, muscle memory etc, before it starts to feel like you're making progress, and while you're building muscles, getting through a 2 hour class can feel grueling. She said it was about 2 months in that she felt she had reached a certain basic ability where things started to make sense and new moves became much easier to learn and memorize.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 11:38 PM
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What forms of validation would you be seeking? What alternative, organic, and/or passive channels might be available to you, that you don't have to fish for validation from others? What context? School, work, family, friends?
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 09:32 PM
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I recommend you continue, and if the dojo you're in doesn't feel like a good match after a fair chance, try another. I insisted on a GF trying a martial art years ago; it was difficult at first but she really took to it and is a tight member of the social group there now. She's two belt levels from black at this point. She is no longer meek and paranoid, just from the confidence the knowledge imparts. One thing about working out at the dojo, when I went in with a sore back or other pains, I'd wo…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 07:58 PM
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You have a man who has accepted you the way you are. Why would you allow self-doubt to sabotage such a great thing? It's a real relationship killer to chip and chisel away at a man's liking for you. If you stop rejecting or dismissing his compliments and affections, and instead reciprocate them sincerely, it will not only strengthen and improve your relationship bond, you will begin to internalize feeling loved and lovable, exactly the way you are. When you are confident in your own skin, improv…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 03:58 AM
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Your comments are not helpful to OP's situation and you seem intent on attacking her. Removed and banned.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/16 03:30 PM
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This is male-centric so it belongs in AskTRP. Removed. AskTRP is for men to ask questions of men, that is where you will get good advice. RPW generally isn't for men to ask questions of women.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 08:07 PM
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TRP and RPW strategies are the complete opposites and aren't at all compatible, they don't work together as well as they could. RPW strategy says that woman should withhold sex because otherwise she might end up as a plate. They are entirely compatible because they draw from the same body of theory and praxis. You're making a false dichotomy out of the differing strategies of men and women. TRP teaches men not to overcommit in exchange for not enough sex. RPW teaches women not to offer sex in ex…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 04:24 PM
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We’re a perfect fit for each other and I can’t picture my life without him. We love each other dearly. There's always a but. We’ve been doing LDR for the past 11 months There's a reason LDRs are not recommended here. More than half of your "relationship" has been virtual. When you finally are reunited permanently, you will both have changed quite a bit. It's an artificial and often idealized environment you're in now: having a relationship and all the obligations that go with that, but none of t…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 12:58 AM
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This article from our sidebar would be a good place to start. Read this and follow up with further questions. https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/4tafpv/what_to_do_when_your_captain_wont_lead/
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 07:38 PM
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"Nice to my SO, b##ch to everyone else" is not RPW behavior at all. It amounts to passive and not-so-passive aggression. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 06:09 PM
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Mod Note: This thread is being brigaded by another subreddit. Voting may be skewed, and please use the report link if you spot a trolling or otherwise malevolent post.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/16 11:41 PM
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Comments removed for concern trolling.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/16 10:14 PM
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There is no specific evidence that reduced oxytocin production is the specific mechanism, but plenty of observational evidence that pair-bonding ability is diminished with multiple partners, particularly in the short and intermediate term. Let's not lose sight of the global effects by focusing on minutiae.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/16 04:14 PM
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This is male-centric discussion and does not address OP's question. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/16 03:06 AM
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A few times they've said things like I'm boring, should get out there, etc. Does anyone have any advice on how to handle being around friends that are always talking about their slutty behavior. Let these friends attrit away and find new ones. Crummy people will influence those around themselves to become like them, not because it's a better way to live, but to justify and rationalize away their own crummy decisions and outcomes. Don't do it in a holier-than-thou manner, just quietly build a new…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/16 01:03 AM
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OTOH, this is just harsh, period. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 11:12 PM
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How EACH partner behaves in a "crisis" such as this is part of the dating and vetting process. She's vetting him, he's vetting her. It may be too much for one partner or the other, resulting in a breakup. If they do stay together, and the kid does turn out not to be his, the way each handles the process says a lot more about how a lifetime partnership might work, than two years of staid, placid, conventional dates. Watchin' you, watchin' me... ♫ This post has gotten more than one report; I see i…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/16 11:10 PM
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therefore it basically means men have a right to think about their own happiness but women don't Here is your problem: you're working from a false premise. Red Pill Women are encouraged to negotiate wisely in the sexual marketplace, and submit only to a worthy and compatible man whose wishes almost always align with hers automatically anyhow. When a woman finds herself always clashing, at odds and challenging the authority of her man, there is usually a problem with her choosing and vetting proc…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/16 04:36 AM
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As we say on TRP: Don't complain about what's being posted/not posted; write and post the content you want to see. <checks> Picklesnsunshine2 submitted posts There doesn't seem to be anything here
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/16 07:51 PM
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Excerpt: 8 What’s one thing I can do to take a burden off you? 9 What hobbies do you wish we could do together? 10 Do you feel respected when we’re in public?
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/16 06:16 AM
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It's generally advised that you cannot make someone swallow the pill, they will spit it back and blame and (verbally/character) attack you. You can be a living example, and sometimes you have the opportunity to guide and mentor someone who is ready. It's better to give someone a book than direct them to a RP webpage, until they're for sure ready to swallow. For men, books like The Rational Male and No More Mr. Nice Guy are usually recommended; for women, The Surrendered Single is popular.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/16 03:26 AM
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We have our own RPWMods sub for thread development; RPEC was considered but it's not the ideal environment. The question then becomes, should subs like RPW be exclusively for women, and if so, how then do we ensure that such a standard is preserved? The old mod team was anti-male to the point of near misandry; our current policy is to allow male posters, but we have high standards and ask that they commit to understand the culture of our sub before participating. This has worked well for us and …
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 06:22 PM
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If I tell you, I'll have to ban us both.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 03:17 PM
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Troll post. Banned.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 06:55 AM
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How would you advise women to go about not hitting the wall? Stop time? Stop the ageing process? If you know how people can do this, there are some men in Sweden who would like to give you a big prize. Please stick to actionable advice that our readers can actually put to use.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 02:34 AM
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I was not the only one reaching that conclusion. The point is, we like all of your other posts so far; that one was off the mark for the culture of RPW (but ok for TRP) so just take this as feedback and move forward from here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 08:44 PM
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I've always been atheist, but when I was young I was much more brash and disrespectful about it. "If religion is so great, why are there so many messed-up religious people?" was my snarky attitude. I'm still atheist, but I once read a rebuttal to that common point of skepticism that helped me understand and respect people of faith better. Churches are not just museums for saints, they are also hospitals for sinners. The same applies to The Red Pill. People from all walks of life find and attempt…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 08:39 PM
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You've made good comments here before, but this misses the mark. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 03:45 PM
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OP didn't come here for you to spit Mad RP Truths to her. Banned for insulting our community and members.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 03:43 PM
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How long after you start dating someone new do you wait to have sex? Red Pill Women are interested in securing long-term commitment before offering sex, so our quick answer would be "Longer than average by modern standards." Young inexperienced daters and those seeking to marry with the lowest N count possible might wait till marriage or engagement, or weeks/months of dating. Older, more seasoned daters interested in LTRs commonly wait till at least the third date. I'm wondering if [moving quick…
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 06:03 AM
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Generally, you cannot lead someone to the pill, they must be ready and willing to take it on their own terms. It will transform them, maybe into someone you don't want, or doesn't want you. What you CAN do is improve yourself to be the best potential mate for the best potential husband, so that that man will select YOU. In an established, invested relationship where the man isn't leading enough, there are a few things you can do such as extend an invitation to lead and let him take it. However, …
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 04:22 AM
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is it okay to have a goal like this or is that unhealthy? It's potentially unhealthy, if you put the cart before the horse and decide that you want to be engaged by a date certain, before you've even met the man! This can negatively affect your behavior when meeting and dating people. If a potential suitor gets the impression you're desperate for marriage, not necessarily marriage to him, he will bounce! An unintended consequence of this goal could be, you'll scare off potentially good suitors, …
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 02:07 AM
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I wrote this for another RPW who was working through major weight loss and wondering about staying Monk Mode in the meantime, hope you find it useful. Should I continue with monk mode and brush off any flirtatious encounters with guys I know until I am Categorically no. The main reason being, you are not going to arrive at your target weight to find your dating experience and self-image in turnkey condition. Be reserved about actively seeking out a relationship if you wish, but don't turn away l…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 06:49 PM
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Thank you, I really appreciate the feedback. Regards, --VRR
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 03:22 PM
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I was a complete teetotaller for over a decade when I was your age, for strongly personal reasons; even now two glasses of wine is a lot for me. Therefore, I can totally relate to being the only nondrinker in a group. It can be interesting, and sometimes fun, but most of the time you can't help but feel like an outsider. I found it was MUCH better to have an opaque glass or mug and drink from that, refilling it with non-alcohol discreetly, so as to blend in with the crowd. This always worked muc…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/16 06:57 PM
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Hi, welcome to RedPillWomen. We need some more information to be helpful. How old is he? How old are you and what kind of prior relationship experience do you have? Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/16 10:04 PM
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My bf tells me he is abusive - but I don't know these people. he called her, and she told him she has cancer. An angle you may not have considered: The boyfriend is not abusive and she doesn't have cancer; she can only thrive by creating drama because normal life is boring and feels out of control to her. Your "Captain" has allowed this drama, real or not, to intrude into YOUR relationship. This is your problem at hand. The onus is upon him to "own his shit" and take control of the problems he h…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/16 08:17 PM
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The official RPW advice is to fully negotiate the commitment you want from your partner, before delivering sex. This is the basic sexual marketplace transaction, and works just as well for women who want to wait until marriage, as it does for experienced daters who can usually discern good LTR material after a small number of dates.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/16 08:03 PM
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That would be empty virtue-signalling by yourself and completely unhelpful to OP, so harsh isn't even the word.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/16 05:45 PM
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Succinct is good. Dialing the harsh back by even a click or two will allow the helpfulness of your words to really shine here, is all I'm suggesting.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 11:31 PM
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Excerpt: 8 Do I act as a balance wheel, cheering him intelligently when he is tired or discouraged, or do I rub him the wrong way on such occasions? If your husband does not share with you his disappointments, it is almost invariably because you have not qualified yourself to share them. 9 Do I try to smooth things out after unpleasant discussions—as I would if a new dress or theatre party were at stake? Many married persons have an uncanny capacity for making miserable the objects of their affe…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 11:12 PM
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Harsh truths, gently spoken is what we strive for on RPW. Your application of RP truths is impeccable; remember that a tone approaching harsh isn't the best presentation of them here.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 10:57 PM
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How long will it remain an LDR? These are generally recommended against because of the potential for wasting valuable life waiting for someone who may not deliver, or perhaps be worth the wait after all.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 08:30 PM
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we were both aware of that fact when I met him OK, that's a plus actually. If you both have the maturity and meta self awareness to recognize your readiness for a serious relationship now versus then, it can set the foundation for a strong partnership. Don't make assumptions or build covert contracts in your mind; TALK with each other about relationships and values.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 05:56 PM
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Use surnames. It's cold and makes me less attainable. Second this. Calling a man Sir or Mr. Lastname in a clearly non-deferential manner should be as obvious as an Ice Bucket over the head, as negative IOIs go. Many will persist anyway though. (sigh)
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 05:40 PM
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Is it smart to hope something will still come out the situation with N? I feel I lost so much time creating myself in a way that would please him, (out of his sight ofc) that I will not be able to fully submit to someone else. If he doesn't make a move soon, forget it. What you call "creating yourself in a way to please him" is to him "She rejected me when I was young and struggling, and wants me now that I'm attractive and established?!?" This is the male equivalent of If you can't handle me at…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 05:18 PM
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This is actually part of the mods' ongoing RPW sidebar/wiki writing project. All of these articles will fit into a master framework, from RPW lifestyle, self-improvement, and problem solver, to finding and securing your Captain A-Z. Kudos to LilStar for all of her hard work gathering these links. Reddit even tried to make this article disappear while it was being developed, probably because of certain inter-reddit links.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 04:44 PM
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And how do you objectively get to know what your SMV is? Ask a friend or family member? It's hard to objectively measure the inherently subjective cluster of traits that make up an individual's SMV; it's more of a heuristic process. The Rateme subs are full of BP losers gushing praise for every female that posts a picture; like printing money with no backing, their SMV becomes inflated way above their actual market value, which sooner or later leads to a harsh crash of market correction. Friends…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 04:30 PM
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Him: 27 year old military guy... I didn't pry into the details of what happened with the mother. Guaran-damn-tee you she lived large on his earnings and benefits, and partied and cheated on him while he was deployed. This is so common there is military slang for this type of woman: Dependapotamus. Noncustodial mothers are vanishingly rare, this almost always involves substance abuse, criminal acts, or mental health issues. He's shouldering a lot of responsibility, respect to him if he's handling…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 05:21 AM
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Aaah, a long-distance relationship. Problems like these are why they are generally recommended against except when the person is an exceptional match and the duration is limited. Another potential point of conflict is dating a younger man with a longer timeline than you for establishing himself. His first entry-level job is two years out at least; this will make it hard to establish/maintain a healthy power balance in the relationship. Is this a Captain you can commit to join on his life voyage?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 03:28 AM
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I agree with u/runway on this. Confronting him won't end well, whether his actions are innocent or guilt-motivated. "Trust, but verify." Take him at his word face to face, but see how this situation plays out. If it turns out to be innocent/ok, you'll have saved a blowup over nothing. If it turns out there is a problem, it will be harder for him to conceal when you haven't tipped your hand. A little context would help: How old is he? How long together? Any recent changes in the relationship or b…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/16 10:09 PM
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Slow down a bit, Turbo. Eye contact can be a nonverbal communication power tool- strongly effective, and dangerous in equal measure if used carelessly. Use your new knowledge carefully at first, until you more fully understand and internalize it all. (Don't be embarrassed out of progress by newbie mistakes though; you should see the cringeworthy things year 1-2 Psychology students try...) Direct unbroken staring is usually interpreted as threatening, or at the very least, a challenge. This is vi…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/16 02:56 AM
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Wish fulfillment is a popular trope in entertainment media. It's popular on TRP to attribute things like this to some top-down, master plan to control the masses (which is, itself, a trope). While I don't deny the existence of entities that seek to manipulate the masses, I think this almost always has a much more mundane, bottom-up explanation as to why it appears over and over in pop culture: It sells! TV and movie studios and their investors are very risk-averse when it comes to spending on a …
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/16 04:27 PM
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AskTRP exists because TRP has over 150,000 subscribers, and theory posts by the Endorsed Contributors would get buried by the same basic questions daily. RedPillWomen doesn't have this overwhelming volume problem, so we're perfectly happy to answer even the most basic questions on the main sub. We also periodically post a "simple questions" thread for those who don't want to make an entire post for their question. No question is too small for RedPillWomen. Go ahead and post; start a dialogue. It…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/16 03:58 PM
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"I saw that you read my text at 3:20 am last night. There's no other reason why a man would be out that late, so what strip club were you at?" could be rephrased as "Is everything okay? I saw that you read my text at 3:20 am, did you have trouble sleeping?" So, from stalk-y and controlling, to stalk-y and speculative? "Do you even love me anymore?" could be rephrased as "I feel like we're in kind of a rut. What can we do to spice things up?" I like the direction you took this, bringing the Capta…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/16 05:42 AM
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You may come out enlightened if you gave these guys the benefit of the doubt.... I think you're a bit too harsh on the men. By USA standards, sure. However, given that in her country, I'm an ethnic minority in a country where men don't tend to marry outside their race, like, at all. Therefore, they don't see my ethnicity as a candidate for anything "serious". There's really no doubt for these men to benefit from. They see her as a potential sex partner and nothing more, and are (crudely) polariz…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/16 05:47 AM
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There is a whole campfirecooking subreddit! My own experience suggests, dedicate a pot and pan or two specifically for camping. Thrift store wares are perfect for this. A laminated bottom is good if you can't find a good cast iron one. A regular thinwall stove pan or pot will overheat easily and burn the food, and a nonstick pan will quickly become overheated unto toxicity. Aside from difficult heat regulation, cookware used over a campfire can become permanently streaked with soot and creosote …
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 11:33 PM
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First off, I'm glad you're giving this guy a bit of a chance, rather than sticking to a rigid program of only dating the most aggressive suitors to initiate with you in your local dating pool, then wondering why they always seem to take the initiative to move along to someone else so quickly. Check out Sadie's post about when your Captain won't lead, and take the time to read the two long articles linked therein. Practical application of this advice would be to tell him you enjoyed the last date…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 06:43 PM
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Lots of good advice in this thread; I agree with the consensus that these are not guys you want to hang around with, and they will displace good guys from being available. Offer a person one nice explanation that it's inappropriate and you don't want these comments. The next time, be firm about it. When it happens a third time, become cold to the person, shun them socially. On an individual level, people like this will always try to flip the script and make you the bad person. Stand by your prin…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 06:20 PM
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I made this troubleshooting chart for another reader who had no problems meeting and talking to guys, but never got asked out on dates. Hope its helpful to you. If the guys are Then maybe you're You might try Walking away embarrassed but interested later Attractive to shy inexperienced guys which is good for both parties when you're inexperienced yourself Give them a little nudge to get started. "Don't you have a girlfriend? You should ask a girl out." Walking away neutrally but not interested l…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 08:58 PM
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I would almost intentionally seek out a group of men at a party or church or wherever and crash the discussion. Right, that's being aggressive; a great alternative is to learn to be assertive, so you are joining the discussion instead of "taking over."
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 08:55 PM
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Thanks for all the hard work compiling that! Enough to keep every aspiring RPW busy studying and growing indefinitely.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/16 08:54 PM
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But how often are couples not sexually compatible? Oh my. (－‸ლ) Let me tell you about a subreddit called deadbedrooms.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/16 06:30 PM
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Perhaps u/superslaviswife will have something to add, she's one of the great Sigma Game experts around here. I'm understanding the problem is you're not in school anymore, therefore have less fresh, new information to talk about with him? You may not be a speed reader, but you might be able to maintain a good enough general knowledge of current events by finding a few news feeds to follow in addition to your own unstructured browsing of info. This goes to show that there do indeed exist men who …
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/16 10:38 PM
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This is a low-effort post and not useful to the community. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/16 05:22 AM
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This 100% alpha is most likely an unreasonable choice for a life partner for most women. <snip> What are some of the characteristics of the 100% red pill female counterpart? Perhaps one that is an unreasonable choice as a life partner for most red pill men? Is sweet and submissive to her SO, but considers it fair game to act like a raging hosebeast to anyone else Seeks help from others for self-improvement, then considers helping others along the same path beneath her Affects a superiority compl…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 10:40 PM
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A man does not insist on physical beauty in a woman who builds up his morale. After a while he realizes that she is beautiful -- he just hadn't noticed at first. -Robert Heinlein Lots of great advice and thoughts in this thread, so I'm going to throw out some various thoughts on the topic. Also, tonight's Nostalgia Night flashback post, Improving/Skyrocketing your SMV outside your appearance: The Guide, has lots of relevant discussion. Feeling beautiful is important to female self esteem and hap…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 06:53 AM
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Excerpt: As RP Women we are aware how much of our value is based on appearance. Well, as long as you do everything in your power to look good, you're good. Maybe even with your efforts you don't feel competitive enough in the Social/Sexaul Marketplace. It doesn't matter, because there are some VERY important qualities which are in HIGH demand. Acquiring these qualities will skyrocket your SMV. Beauty is rarity. There's no lack of beautiful women but there's a lack of feminine qualities and using…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/16 05:15 AM
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at what point do you surrender things, how long after you begin dating? That is one of the central points of the discussion; there is no one-size-fits-all answer, and what is a showstopper for some individuals may increase the bond between a couple. The length of the relationship in this example appears to be measurable in weeks.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 04:22 PM
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I think the beginning stages of the vetting process takes different amounts of time for everyone, I knew my husband for almost a year before we began dating, he was a very close friend in my inner circle, so the vetting kind of happened then but if you don't know the guy at all, the process would take longer. Life doesn't always make available to you a potential partner you've had a year to vet platonically before becoming intimate and submitting. For most daters, at the beginning of the relatio…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 03:40 PM
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What I find funny is the Rower opens her monologue explaining how her boyfriend did something for her that he disagree's with and he complies (he shouldn't have); now she's in the exact same position he's asking her to do something and she disagrees with it yet now it's 'different' and she's questioning everything. Quite hypocritical if you ask me. I see what you're thinking, however: To me, it didn't seem as ridiculous because she was ruthlessly hitting on him all of the time and it made me unc…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/16 03:20 PM
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That's necessary on the Blue Pill general women's subs, but at The Red Pill, we're all about truth and facts, not wishes and feelings. Here, be basically helpful and compassionate, but you don't need to shy away from speaking difficult truths or couch them in so many disclaimers that they become meaningless.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/16 10:28 PM
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I'd rather have a woman who likes to spend 45 minutes on the treadmill rather than that time primping her hair, nails, makeup, etc. Even though I might agree, you and I are in the minority and this is not how human impressions and judgement work most of the time; therefore this isn't good advice for women in general.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/16 07:32 PM
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What "women's sub" are you talking about here? Edit: OP means TwoXChromosomes.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/16 05:42 PM
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LOL you guys are really that delusional to think that anyone gives a shit We're talking about actual articles that have already been published about us in MSM, and actual articles being written right now that reporters are contacting our members about.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 07:45 PM
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the comments are worth more than the actual piece I agree; though I'm biased in the sense that the Letters to the Editor has been my favorite part of the paper since 10 years before the WWW existed.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 07:33 PM
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One of the things is that I don't consider my man in alpha or beta terms. It's a useful framework for discussion of sexual and power dynamics, but it's simplistic and has its limitations; people are complicated and don't neatly fit into these basic categories across the board. I always imagined an alpha as a person who understands what their SO wants and can be flexible and enjoy their partners strengths as it adds to their own? Nope, that's solid Beta/Greater Beta territory. The Alpha and Sigma…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/16 09:22 AM
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The reason I'm writing this is because I have a few questions and would be grateful for some answers or discussion! First things first, I'm a feminist OK, we don't mind answering honest questions, but when it comes to questioning or debating Red Pill Theory itself, that kind of discussion belongs on purplepilldebate, not here. I can never be First Mate and my relationship can never be hierarchical, it's equal. I still respect my man and ask his input and when he wants to lead i let him and I exp…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/16 09:01 AM
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Wow, so many new people here; the growth rate is phenomenal! Welcome, everybody. As part of your mod team, I'd like to re-introduce myself from the last introduction thread. I'm in my upper 40s and have always been LTR oriented. I found TRP about 2 years ago and worked my way up to Endorsed Contributor status. I've always lurked in the RPW forum because I have IRL connections to relatives in the largest user demographic, late teens to 20s, and I consider it an important component of the RP netwo…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/16 06:18 AM
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My philosophy on this is, I'd rather be pranked repeatedly by high-effort trolls, than become so jaded and cynical that I miss helping sincere posters who might seem like trolls. In terms of bad posts the mods have to remove, I'm happy to report that posting quality has gone UP quite a bit the last few months.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/16 06:03 AM
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Economist article here Edit: Added to OP, thanks for your leet contribution.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 02:15 AM
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20/20 hindsight; I don't have a flair or mod powers on TRP with this username so it may have come off like some rando barking orders.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 06:21 AM
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I wouldn't feel comfortable dating some over 23 though since I'm just starting college Right, the OP in that original thread was 24 and specifically asked about age gap relationships but most is useful to beginning daters. We're always glad to hear young women getting their love lives off to a well planned start. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/16 11:14 PM
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Hypergamy refers to the capacity to leave a committed partner for a better one. It operates in the realm of LTRs and marriages. If a new person you're seeing proves to be a poor choice to commit to and you leave him, that's not hypergamy, it's smart dating. I think this will be less confusing once you understand the concept of hypergamy better.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/16 10:59 PM
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Glad you found us! The community here can give you a lot of advice about how to enhance your feminine appeal and navigate the dating marketplace avoiding giving up sex without securing adequate commitment in exchange. Here's something I wrote to another beginning dater, hope you find helpful information within. with regards to strategies to meet, socialize on date #1, #2, etc It's always a good idea to meet online dating prospects early, in a brief, noncommittal way, at a VERY public and safe pl…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/16 10:52 PM
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I agree with your portrayal of reporting. Several people have tried to make a case that there's nothing we can do. I disagree, and so does TRP management. We can't control what reporters do after their interviews, and are familiar with their deceptive techniques. What we can control is our members naively agreeing to interviews without being aware of the risks, by warning them in advance with posts like this. Instead of just saying this won't work, can you offer a better action plan?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 08:38 PM
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Hi, we were not introduced. I'm a fellow TRP EC, currently on sabbatical to help maintain RPW as a fill-in moderator after the old team flounced. The Guardian is working on an article and contacting our members; I made this post to the main three subs in the Red Pill network. I'm just the announcer; users are asked to contact the moderators before talking to reporters so RedPillSchool himself can advise and guide them; he has firsthand experience and is the final word on how to represent the TRP…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 07:50 PM
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I can't wait to see how THAT story is spun! /s
/r/askTRP15/07/16 06:15 PM
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I agree reporting today is mostly junk, but they'll probably write about us whether we participate or not, so careful engagement is a better path than attempting to stonewall them. This warning is to keep people from naively believing that the reporters should be taken at face value about their intentions, and unwittingly being baited into saying things that can be twisted against us.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 06:13 PM
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There is much to be said for the saying, "No such thing as bad publicity." Even the slam pieces, like criticisms elsewhere on Reddit, drive curious people to us who become subscribers. The negative effects they cause are harder to observe and therefore quantify.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 06:08 PM
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A woman's Red Pill knowledge of Hypergamy leads her to recognize it in herself and consciously avoid the tendency. Remarkably insightful. Excerpt: But my recollection of the elevator exchange days later in a moment of solitude made me excited. Made me revel in his physical attractiveness, in his intelligence and talent. Made me dream of possibilities with this person as my partner. However! Aware of women's tendencies towards hypergamy, I recognized this train of thought, which lasted a mere mom…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/16 07:10 AM
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Fair enough. As long as everyone is clear on this rule moving forward. Your message was understood so the post wasn't removed, just pointing out for everyone that this is near the edge of a slippery slope.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/16 05:46 AM
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It's against the rules to criticize other RP subs; go to purplepilldebate for that kind of discussion. You know the saying, if you like sausage, don't tour a sausage factory because the sausage-making process isn't entirely pretty. Let's just say that TRP is for men and leave it at that.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/16 04:34 AM
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Hi, (Jeez, I thought only other mods could see the comment after deletion) Anyway, this is very common; our automod keeps trolls and spammers at bay, but for genuine posters such as yourself, we will manually approve your posts and comments during the brief probation period. Feel free to repost your question, even elaborate on more detail, and we'll approve it for you. I can tell you now, several members fall on the Ixxx side of the Myers-Briggs scale, and I know one particular writer who specia…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/16 02:26 AM
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Anyone here not social? <deletes thread and unsubscribes before getting a single response>
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/16 12:56 AM
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Let him take the lead on this conversation. That's the RPW way This is generally true, but I wanted to point out a very important caveat. Securing commitment is the woman's prerogative in relationship matters. This is one topic you simply cannot let slide if your man isn't moving forward and escalating his commitment on his own initiative. Of COURSE you don't make demands, ultimata, lecturing, passive aggression, nagging. The Feminine way is to open an invitation for him to take the lead. If you…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 11:22 PM
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He talks about the big house he will have one day and most recently when we were talking about his wedding he would have eventually he asked me if the amount of people he wants to invite is cool and if WE could have one of our mutual friends be in the wedding. Wow. Pinch me, I must be dreaming! I’m approaching 30 and I don’t want to wait too much longer Smart woman. A frivolous 5-year relationship that leads nowhere would be devastating for your family plans. This man sounds like he's worth the …
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 09:57 AM
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This was not responsive to what was said; you seem determined to shame her, not offer anything helpful. Follow our rules of discourse.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 04:27 AM
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It sounds like you kept score? You usually have good insights, but I think you're missing the mark on this one. Sounds like she didn't keep score, and the man in question used this "feedback" to contribute less and less, almost in a cynical game of "Let's see how much and how long I can get away with mooching off of this woman!" "Don't keep score in your relationship" operates on the micro level, and is a prescription to avoid covert contracts and petty tit-for-tat or entitlement thinking. Keepi…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 04:20 AM
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Therefore if he is not working at all an you are working 100 hours a a week, he is gonna get a very favourable outcome in case if divorce. This... is one of the most RedPill insights I've read today. ♀
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 03:58 AM
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Last time you mentioned the microwave egg cooker I looked at them online, have been served Pampered Chef ads everywhere I go on the internet ever since. When you cook egg with meat mixed in, does the meat ever get localized hotspots that overcook the egg? I'm wondering if the nature of the cooker mitigates this microwave effect. Those breakfast tacos look really good!
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/16 03:29 AM
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Begone, concern troll.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/16 04:00 PM
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I am sure he cares about me more than a fuck buddy What basis do you have for this belief, especially given I have been in a sex-oriented "relationship" he didn't want to date me It sounds like you are a plate, or noncommittal sex partner. but I am wondering You'll be strung along as long as you allow yourself to be. If your goal is to be in a committed relationship with a man who will actually marry you, you need to be better at rejecting suitors who want anything less than that. Because, as yo…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/16 03:33 PM
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The topic is how women can learn to better vet men. Your sexual experiences don't inform this discussion in a useful way.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/16 10:27 PM
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Is it worth it to stay friends? He's been an asshole and treated me pretty shitty over this but in other areas, he's been a pretty good friend. No, not worth it. Consider the sunk costs fallacy. There are 3.5 billion other men on the planet, many of whom will be pretty good friends or even your life partner, WITHOUT the "being an asshole and treating you pretty shitty" part. Breaking up with one's first lover is particularly hard; if they prove to be a BAD CHOICE of partner for you, it's all the…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/16 06:40 PM
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We've gone as far as we can with the information provided; this thread is now locked because the comments are becoming unproductive. When posting for advice, please include substantial relevant info like PREGNANCY in the OP. Trickle truth derails threads and undermines relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/16 04:26 PM
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I have a habit of becoming emotionally attached to men whom I idealize and have a hard time getting over. Basically, I will develop an intense crush on a guy and pine over him for up to seven years. This is a defense mechanism, which shields you from the risks and burdens of seeking out a "real" SO, because you've got the fantasy surrogate SO in your imagination. It's an innate human capacity to develop a short term crush on an individual; when it carries on unreciprocated, it becomes harmful. T…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/16 04:30 AM
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Very nicely, thanks! :) No seriously, that's one of the neat innovations of the thing. The egg is broken into an upper round chamber and the yolk broken. Then the top muffin/bagel is placed on/in the egg and the lid closed. The egg cooks thoroughly on its plate, and it is well cooked-into the top bread. When the sandwich is ready, you pivot the bottom of the egg chamber out, the cooked egg and top joins the cooked bottom of the sandwich, and you flip the whole ring assembly up, leaving a perfect…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/16 10:16 PM
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As a business owner I'm stuck at work for very long hours without a kitchen, and buying meals becomes expensive. This week I picked up this awesome Dual Breakfast Sandwich Machine. THIS THING IS GREAT! There are many variations; this morning I added mushroom and red bell pepper to the base english muffin, egg, provolone, and sliced turkey. Yummm! It's really easy to clean, the rings come out as an assembly and are 100% nonstick so very easy to clean by hand and its dishwasher safe. I got it on s…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/16 09:10 PM
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How do I bring it up? Concern? There are plenty of avenues to bring it up. The main underlying theme should be, instead of trying to fight his Fatherly pride, redirect it to fit the new reality. "Dad, I really appreciate the way you cared for and nurtured me growing up. It's made me into the woman I am today. This little birdie has flown, and built her own nest. Now it's time to take care of your own nest. I love you, Dad."
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/16 10:28 PM
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If you're familiar with the Love Languages, he sounds like gifts and acts of service are his established primary ways of expressing his love to his family, and this probably worked well for everybody during his financial heyday. Now is the time for him to start planning financially and mentally for retirement. Many men whose identity is totally wrapped up in earning and providing don't transition well; some end up dead 6 months after retirement, after drifting with no sense of purpose. Others ar…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/16 08:21 PM
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I have some ideas here but need some clarifying info first. How old are you and your siblings and do any of you still live at home? Has your Dad seen a reduction in his income from historic levels?
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/16 05:41 PM
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