TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

  • Subreddits

      Popular

    • /r/askTRP
    • /r/TheRedPill
    • /r/MarriedRedPill
    • /r/MensRights
    • /r/MGTOW
    • /r/PurplePillDebate
    • /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
    • Other

      • /r/AllPillDebate
      • /r/AlreadyRed
      • /r/altTRP
      • /r/AntiFeminists
      • /r/askFDS
      • /r/askMRP
      • /r/askRPC
      • /r/becomeaman
      • /r/BlackPillScience
      • /r/Chadfish
      • /r/Divorce_Men
      • /r/EverydayMisandry
      • /r/ExRedPill
      • /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
      • /r/FeminismStopsWhen
      • /r/GEOTRP
      • /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates
      • /r/MalePsychology
      • /r/Male_Studies
      • /r/MenSupportMen
      • /r/MGTOW2
      • /r/MuslimRedPill
      • /r/newTRP
      • /r/PussyPass
      • /r/PussyPassDenied
      • /r/RedPillBooks
      • /r/RedPillParenting
      • /r/RedPillWives
      • /r/RedPillWomen
      • /r/RedPillWorkplace
      • /r/RPChristians
      • /r/seduction
      • /r/ThankTRP
      • /r/TheRedPillStories
      • /r/trpGAME
      • /r/TRPOffTopic
      • /r/TrueBlackPillMGTOW
      • /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre
  • Blogs

      Popular

    • Dalrock
    • Heartiste
    • Illimitable Men
    • Return of Kings
    • Rian Stone
    • The Rational Male
    • Woujo
    • Other

      • Artful Prudence
      • A Voice for Men
      • Alpha Game
      • Black Label Logic
      • Caleb Jones
      • Captain Capitalism
      • Corporate Machiavelli
      • Days of Game
      • Deep Strength
      • Dicipres
      • Donal Graeme
      • Female Misogynist
      • Free Northerner
      • Gaming My Wife
      • Good Looking Loser
      • Hawaiian Libertarian
      • In Mala Fide
      • KillToParty
      • Kill Your Inner Loser
      • Krauser PUA
      • LaidNYC
      • Married Man Sex Life
      • NO MA'AM
      • Omega Virgin Revolt
      • Pook's Mill
      • Random Xpat Rantings
      • Red Pill Theory
      • Red Pill Wifery
      • RedPillDad
      • RedPillDoctor
      • Seasons of Tumult and Discord
      • Sigma Frame
      • The Feminine Woman
      • The Futurist
      • The Masculine Principle
      • The Modern Man
      • The New Modern Man
      • The Obsidian Files
      • The Power Moves
      • The Private Man
      • The Red Pill Room
      • The Red Quest
      • The Rules Revisited
      • The Spearhead
      • Troy Francis
      • Wintery Knight
      • Young Man Red Pill
  • Books
  • Dictionary
  • @TRParchive
  • Please help TheRedArchive stay alive

Does the game itself objectively get easier or harder for guys as they get older?

lonernot

January 25, 2015
2 upvotes
/r/TheRedPill
Download the post

Want to save the post for offline use on your device? Choose one of the download options below:

PDF TXT EPUB
Share
Share Tweet Reddit Email
Post Information
Title Does the game itself objectively get easier or harder for guys as they get older?
Author

lonernot

Upvotes 2
Comments 12
Date January 25, 2015 7:54 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2tlj7h/does_the_game_itself_objectively_get_easier_or/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/does-the-game-itself-objectively-get-easier-or.28331
https://theredarchive.com/post/28331
Red Pill terms in post
gamethe red pill
Top posts by lonernot

What separates guys who can pull or seduce a 9 from guys that cannot?

16 upvotes
January 26, 2015
/r/TheRedPill

Why can't we talk about how to handle the race issue when it is so important for seduction?

15 upvotes
September 14, 2015
/r/seduction

How easy would it be for a high SMV guy in his 30s to sleep with a lot of different women if he wanted to?

7 upvotes
January 24, 2015
/r/TheRedPill

Indian and Pakistani guys that have had success in the USA, what kind of girls do you tend to do well with?

7 upvotes
September 13, 2015
/r/seduction

A bipolar view I tend to see guys have of women who are 9s (extremely attractive).

7 upvotes
February 1, 2015
/r/TheRedPill

Going after girls from wealthier/more affluent backgrounds.

6 upvotes
February 2, 2015
/r/TheRedPill

To those who watched the NYC subway video where the guy knocked the girl out, how do you properly deal with women like that?

6 upvotes
January 31, 2015
/r/TheRedPill

Life changing dating advice for ethnic guys in the western world.

3 upvotes
February 17, 2016
/r/TheRedPill

Comments

[–]JustApproach6 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Put it this way

Men age like Fine Wine, while Women age like Milk.

If you remember this your whole life then game will not get harder for you but easier because now as a man you will know where the sweet spots are since you have more experience.

As long as you are still in the self improvement mindset and continue to follow the red pill guidelines as you get older you will be able to gain a great advantage in game.

The only major issue I see is social media because it is making bitches lazy and giving them too much validation when it's undeserved. It is also making them idiots who are anti-social, and can't hold a conversation unless it's on a screen and post everything online.

[–]cheeky--kunt4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nothing improves on its own. Improve yourself. The game itself gets easier for guys as long as they GET BETTER than they were yesterday.

In every category there will be someone who is better than you. Deal with it and become that guy for the others you leave behind in line.

There is no law to force you to talk with 30year old women when you are 30 year old. you are free to talk to anyone, be it 25,20,..

you are not entitled to commit to anyone if you do not want it. Work on yourself hard, read sidebar, learn to spin plates. There are very good FR's describing that even women in their late 20-30s that willingly sleep with alphas thinking they can snatch them.

[–]leodoestheopposite 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Male in my early 50's here.

Personal experience is that it gets easier, of course I started as an AFC therefore it's not a surprise that it can only go up; however after years of perfecting PUA and now implementing TRP, game gets easier and more fun too.

This is the best time of my life.

[–]corvusdelicius1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's up to YOU whether it gets easier or harder.

Will you let your youthful insecurities fester and crystalize into adult age? Will you let go of your physical fitness and become fat and lazy? Will you be a manchild who does not aspire high, so you have the habits and success of a 20 year old with the looks of a 40 year old?

Then it will become harder.

Will you put the past behind you and commit to a new you that is confident, mature, and assertive? Will you stay in good shape and nurture your mind with education, travel, and self-discovery? Will you hold on to your aspirations, work hard, and succeed?

Then it will become easier.

Simple as that.

[–]stimulated_narcolept 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It stays just as hard but you get better at it.

[–]crazydave1979 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You are right about women over 30 usually coming in with baggage, but look at it this way. The previous guy that thought he would settle her down and have kids with her is the one paying child support.. Makes it easier to weed them out

[–]AntixD0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

well practice does make perfect,although game is one thing that can't really be perfected as their are a lot of variables

[–]LegisOfTheAegion 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I was considering making a related thread about this myself.

Take a male subject in his 20s, and have him spend a night trying to pick up women. Suppose we stick him in a machine that artificially ages him ten years so he's in his 30s, and then have him go out to bars again. You've had two male subjects - with identical personalities, finances, (mostly) looks, the whole works. They're just aged differently.

Do they have different SMVs? In other words, are older men of higher value by virtue of being older, or because age in men is correlated with improvement in sexually valuable characteristics?

The answer is certainly some of both (lotta women out there with daddy complexes), but I suspect it's primarily the other characteristics, not the age itself.

[–]harkrank 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link

They have higher SMV because women think they are expected to have serious relationships with decent guys their own age and it becomes too much pressure for her because she just wants to have fun. If it's an asshole or an older guy she doesn't feel this pressure because nobody expects her to commit seriously to one of these guys. That's why you have more leeway to act like an asshole the younger you are.

[–]alfredo_linguini1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

It gets easier.

Try this experiment. Go to the gym, pub, expensive restaurants or wherever that has different types of men. Look around. Some men are just another face. But there are some that by just looking at him, even though he's not the most buffed guy or the richest-looking guy in there, there's something about him that tells you that guy needs to be respected, or not to be fucked with. Guaranteed, that same air around him will alert women on an instinctual level that he's attractive, and all he has to do most of the time is approach with a smirk, and don't even need a lot of game.

[–]evrydamnday1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Along with the overall increase in wealth which leads to higher SMV, I do think there's inherently more security and confidence that comes with being older and understanding yourself. If you use all that youth right you probably have created a good life for yourself.

[–]harkrank -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You get better and the game gets harder. What would I have given to have the knowledge I have today when I was 18 and surrounded by beautiful girls 16-19. There is almost no interface today for men 25-30 to meet girls 16-20, unless you are in the same school as them and why the fuck would you be there?

Browse all authors
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter