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"Don't Ask, Don't Get"

usul1628
March 26, 2015
19 upvotes
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Title "Don't Ask, Don't Get"
Author

usul1628
Upvotes 19
Comments 3
Date March 26, 2015 8:47 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/30eyx5/dont_ask_dont_get/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/dont-ask-dont-get.30673
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[–]Tricky_Dick_2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

AKA - You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

The non-sports related anecdote is very nice though.

[–]argentinean2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

like I did something wrong

This. I tend to have the same feeling, which leads me to being passive and "nice" in a beta way. In 99.9% of the cases, there's nothing wrong in asking, no one gets offended/hurt, and if they do, you shouldn't give a fuck.

[–]TheFastCat1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Really like the simplicity of this as well as the self-conditioning of it to remove associated shame that can come from rejection. Thanks for sharing.

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