Now this is something most guy here should already know but I see this all the time in the ask_trp and with loads of my newly red pill friends.

If there is one universal rule when it comes to attracting women it’s “just do your own thing and put yourself first”

Im not saying be a dick who isn’t flexible for the sake of not being flexible. What I’m saying is that you shouldn’t bend your wishes or your schedule to someone else.

Women will test you act like the dislikes you for this but they actually love it and crave it beyond words. Most men today are losers with no drive, spine or vision and all have this “Let’s just do whatever you want babe” mentally.

What women really want are guys from who form the top 1% of guys. The guys who know what they’re after, who are busy, who are determined and who are after stuff in their life. The guys who have a high opinion of themselves and go about their business in life. They don’t ask girls what they want or worry about their wants or wishes. They do what they want and let women join them. If they join then great! Of not, also great!

I have seen it so many times when guys have a date set up with a girl but then she calls and ask to reschedule. Sure it may seam like a no big deal at first but think about it. What she’s really saying is that if you want to meet her then you need to change your plans because she has something that is more important than you to attend to.

Don’t do that to yourself. Don’t let them reschedule! You’re a good guy and she should consider it a privilege to hang out with you. It should be her top priority and make no mistake, a girl who likes you will cancel her family over you without even thinking about it if she has to.

So don’t be that guy! Don’t be the guy who girls can push around and meet when they have the time. You’re a winer and you don’t need her!

You live your life on your own terms and you’re you first priority. Girls only follow those who show them that they’re prepared to lose them in the chase of their own vision!

Stay strong guys and follow you dreams!