Don't Eat Paint

There's been a common thread in a lot of my posts, the don't eat paint warnings. I'm here to say why that shouldn't be the concern

A lot of what I write is about simple actions, hoping to reprogram a lifetime of feminine bullshit out of your head, and start living a masculine life. Depending on who you ask, there is many terms for it. Puerarchy, Toxic masculinity, The Red Pill. Every time one of my posts come up, there is always a cautionary amendment, added because Some men are too damned stupid to know how to apply this properly [paraphrased].

I am here to suggest that it is that level of caution that is making it hard to get out of the rut.

I could explain it with a nice, thoughtful, logical essay, citing science and history, and I'm not going to do that.

Instead, I am going to use a story from the red pill subreddit Redpillwomen . This one whom the mods at redpillWomen suggested for her 'Drunken Captain'.

I am going to make a few assumptions, that this is real, not troll, and that absent of some obvious deception, any missing information is because of the hamster, not the dark triad woman.

They should only take a minute a to catch up, if that.

Husband Out of Control

Victim, right down the line. The only way you could make this any worse is to give him a handlebar mustache, top hat, and tie her to the train tracks. Bet your first reaction is to think of how poor this battered woman is, and you feel that need that every man has. How can you help her save herself from this situation she is in? If only she knew she could just leave, it would all be OK.

The Apex Predator

Read how she describes this man.

  • Athletic,
  • Rich,
  • Prime age for a man

Look how she doesn't describe him.

  • Abusive
  • Evil
  • Alcoholic

Whether he is or not is irrelevant for the point here. Personally, I think he's fiscally irresponsible, and his drinking is a partying problem. Wallstreetplayboys talk about this behavior at around 1.6 mil net worth. My brother has a wall punching temper as well, never laid a hand on another human being in his life. This isn't a woman looking to be saved. This is a woman who is looking to control, and has no idea how. She has the kids, the ring… Still, she is in full on dread that he is, or will be, throwing her to the curb for something younger and hotter. And at 24 to boot.

Read between the lines. She has 0 problems with this man. She made a point to specifically mention his income. Does that really help paint the picture of him drinking their money away? Best she has to adjust the food and clothing budget at the end of the month. I have worked with functioning alcoholics, they are just unable to spend 9k a month on booze, it is physically impossible. So,

Wheres the money Lebowsky?

Speculation

They live in an expensive house, guaranteed, and in a nice part of town. That clothing budget can't be cheap, I expect to see purses, with logos splattered across them, everywhere. Those adjustments from the gambling are big, but not big like you or I would know, on a whole new level. She never mentioned not making ends meet, just that she had to hold off on some new stretch pants for a few weeks, and stop ordering out every day for dinner.

She doesn't want him to stop being him, she wants to control him. She won't leave either.

Now if this man can hold onto a high quality (assumed) woman with his destructive behavior, are you sure you shouldn't be eating paint?

Just Eat the Fucking Paint

All the problems a man can have in a relationship? They are all mitigated by being a strong man, with abundance and DGAF stapled on his ass. I am not suggesting you turn into this gambling drunk, far from it. I'm suggesting that if the alternatives are:

  • A man in a deadbedroom, whose wife shits on him day after day, while giving him his garage in the house he paid for;

  • or, a man who lives his life, and the wife has to vent to her girlfriends every week about how he's out of control, and she just doesn't know what to do with herself when she's blowing him every night.

Which man would you rather be?

Aim for one of the other. Stop where you're happy, but don't think that your problem is eating the paint, the problem for most guys is they are afraid to even walk into the hardware store