Don't live with BP ppl

TheMGhandi · 2015-12-25T00:28:22+00:00

Such a beautiful display of butchering the english words their and there.

Nothing worse than a shitty family member, except a shitty roommate. Dread game is your only tool without breaking frame.

You could also fight fire with water. Instead of being passive aggressive, think of it as the wilderness. There are no rules so do what you want. Just remember that only certain people can get away with certain things. If you know how to fight, go nuts.

50pluspiller · 2015-12-25T00:10:09+00:00

Reminds me of a dude I lived with in the mid 80s. He was a slob. Just before Christmas I cleaned the entire apartment, then left for a long weekend to visit family. When I returned the place was a Fucking pigstye, sink overflowing with dishes, garbage all over. I see him cuddled up with his girlfriend eating popcorn and 1/2 is spilled out on the floor, he then proceeded to tell me he just asked her to marry him, my response was; "Good, I am moving out tomorrow, she can clean up after you."

I never had another roommate after that.

sir_wankalot_here · 2015-12-25T02:54:08+00:00

TLDR => OP is a beta who cleans up after his alpha room mate. Why is the room mate alpha, because he is getting OP to clean up his shit.

OP then hamsters about how his roommate is BP while he is RP, if OP was alpha he would get his slob of a roommate to clean the house.

downvoteacct1 · 2015-12-25T05:17:07+00:00

I'm going to take a quote and elaborate on the 2¢ I could pull from this post.

The best I can do is hold frame and not lose my shit and hurt someone.

If you're having difficulty with anger (loss of frame), it's because you're thinking 4 seconds ahead. I'd be anxious too. Slow down. We're going to plan this out.

I am currently counting down the days to leave.

If you're counting, then how many days until you move out? If you time a pile of dishes correctly, you can turn it into a pile of armageddon as you walk off into the sunset. Hell, make dinner* with their pots and pans for 3 days.

*I recommend burnt rigatoni for pots, and frozen puck cheeseburgers on scratched teflon pans. Make sure to leave ranch dressing on the plates.

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aherne18 · 2015-12-25T09:29:18+00:00

The thing is: do not fear conflict. Enter conflict head-on immediately and you will build respect around. Command him to clean NOW or else close in with threatening voice and (if he doesn't get the message), smack him into submission.

So far you are the omega who performs alpha's cleaning job!

RP-Doctor · 2015-12-25T04:19:36+00:00

OP, your roommates dirty tendencies are not determined by RP/BP. Some things really are separate from sexual strategy. Your roommates are slobs. I've known BP slobs. I've known RP slobs. If you want your roommates to keep up their end of the bargain then find a soft spot and press it until they've cleaned their shit.

throwaway-aa2 · 2015-12-25T05:30:24+00:00

I would LOVE to live alone... however it's expensive here and I save so much money by living alone... and the money I save usually goes towards things like gym class, fighting classes... physical therapy...

That being said, I know I eventually have to live on my own. It's just much better for sex (I like the type of sex that makes normal people cautious, plus girls get self conscious if they can't make sound), much easier to keep things cleaned, much less stressful because you don't have to worry about a bunch of incompetents, etc.

So eventually I'll have to move.... but that extra money man!

I'm thinking once I have a decent warddrobe, once my body is fixed of the minor issues I have left...maybe a couple of big purchases... and I'll be ready to live alone.

DaBaulz · 2015-12-25T06:12:21+00:00

Well I am not here to insult or make anyone feel bad. But I wonder if you are RP and they are BP or instead the other way around? You seem to be complaining, and looking for validation here. And you seem to judge them only cleanliness and not other values that inform a man's worth. There are other things that make a man bp, and being clean and doing your laundry is not sufficient to be rp.

I wonder if there are ways to lead your roommates in to treating the house as a team asset and having them be proud of your team. I honestly think that an alpha male can do fine amongst bpers. There has got to be a direct way of letting people know the rules of taking out the trash without them taking offense.

honeybadgersyo · 2015-12-25T05:07:28+00:00

Take a shit on their bed. Why should you clean up your mess if they don't clean up theirs ?

ljsjdoj009e9we · 2015-12-25T05:25:51+00:00

Now there are legal considerations that determine what happens.

BS. you can grapple him if you know how to. Don't leave marks and bruises, don't strike(he will), just choke out or put a joint lock on. No evidence no crime... high chances he is not even gonna call the cops because no evidence and for other psychological reasons.

Title	Don't live with BP ppl
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Upvotes	9
Comments	17
Date	December 24, 2015 11:22 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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