I am trying to work on my approach game. It’s probably where I lack the most with game/confidence and the pursuit of being alpha. I have other weak areas, but I have enough solid ground where I can bring it home every once in a while. So I came up with some ideas to get be more comfortable approaching.
Examples: Wave to cute girls I pass on the highway Make some conversation if there is a cute girl working there.
Just anything to get in the mode of approaching on a regular and frequent basis.
So lately I have been slacking on making my lunch, and when I go through the drive through window, I would like to use that as an opportunity to make a more personal approach. I used to work in Fast Food (let’s say I have come a long way) and always have sympathy towards them and try to be entertaining when I order. So anyways I want to develop some basic strategy and bat around some ideas to have fun when I get to the window and notice the cute girl working there. The rules I set for the approach are it has to be fun, quick and memorable.
Approach 1: “Your number to go please” (usually gets a laugh, but it’s a one liner and that’s a no no) Approach 2: Make comments with huge sexual innuendo but keep a straight face the entire time Approach 3: I always order sweet tea as my drink (from the south) so I ask if the tea has enough “soul” today.
If they laugh at approach 3 then I can usually take the conversation a couple different ways, but I have not been able to tie it up nice and neatly to number close.
So I am putting it out there to the community to for feedback!!
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