If all women were average looking or lower, had no makeup technology, and lacked any natural feminine charms. Men would become tuned to the slightest hint of feminine nature. Not knowing the deeper truth of themselves; about their core aesthetics. But if real beauty and femininity were suddenly disclosed to them in fantasy, how many men would still embrace the real in such a world.

The real is ugly but true. The fantasy is perfect but fake.

Is this close to the world we now live in..

Much effort is needed either way.

To believe our fantasies are more real Or to believe our women are more like fantasy, dripping with beauty, femininity, loyalty and charm Or to deny our core aesthetics entirely (act, but not feel - an emotional eunuch)

Red pill would choose the real. Obviously. Mgtow might choose a life of fantasies. Blue pill pretends / wants the real to be like his dreams. Thus can become bitter.

But looking at the bigger picture. Over a whole life. Eventually, we all need to develop the skills of the fantasist. Because at 50, 60 or 70 years + the real is not going be so great. Or so easy to fake as being great. Memories or dreams might become all we have left.

So lock into memory the good times. Believe, for just a moment, in her beauty and charm. Feel your life's triumphs deeply. Because, if you're like me, these memories will become rocks sustaining your happiness and contentment as we age.