Enough Enabling

monsieurhire2 · 2016-01-30T18:18:24+00:00

It's nice that you preserved your dignity, but let me know Monday quarterback it for you.... : )

Basically, you made exactly one tactical mistake: you ARGUED with her.

Exhibit A: You gym every day = argument; Exhibit B: I'm not your valet = argument;

Then you lied to her and left her there.

Here's what you could have done:

Command her: My feet hurt! "Too bad, let's go." "Next time don't wear heels; let's go." "The sooner you start walking the sooner we'll get home. Let's go." "Come ON, let's go." "Stop whining, let's go."
Strategic placation. "You're feet really hurt, huh? Let me see them. Yeah, they look pretty fucked up. Alright fine, just this once. I'm not a monster." Sometimes you have to throw a woman a bone if you want to throw her a bone later. If her feet actually hurt for some reason and it causes her pain to walk, you can take the calculated risk of acting like a gentleman in the hopes that she won't use it against you. Also, you're the one that framed getting the car as being her personal valet, instead of say, helping someone you supposedly give a shit about by doing a relatively minor thing. Not getting the car makes you look stingy, which is not an attractive trait.

But I can't judge you too harshly, because walking away from a hot woman is an act of power. You're displaying abundance mentality to yourself because you're saying, "Who cares if I leave her behind? Plenty more out there, and better behaved too."

red_count · 2016-01-30T18:34:59+00:00

You should have said tossed her over your shoulder as if it was effortless and carried her for the short walk. That way you both refuse to do what she demands and also impress her physically.

Meat-on-the-table · 2016-01-30T18:35:54+00:00

I would've picked her up on my shoulder and carried her to the car, all while copping feels of her ass. Once we get there, place her on the hood, stand between her legs and make out.

Mission completion, from every angle.

stonepimpletilists · 2016-01-30T17:13:20+00:00

Want an attaboy?

Where's the value here for others to glean?

DforDeadpool · 2016-01-30T18:20:40+00:00

If you were to bring the car to her, it'd only get downhill. You'd make her pussy dry. But I wouldn't respond the same way as you. I'd just laugh it out and lead the way. If that doesn't work, I'd do exactly the same what you did. I just hate chicks who think they're princesses. They're the worst. They're good for being in your circle if they're hot and fun, to boost your SMV. But for me, anything non-platonic is off the table with those princesses.

PabloEscoba · 2016-01-30T19:11:44+00:00

I can't walk, be a good valet

Sounds like her frame was playful. Next time just say NO without justifying yourself. You've already hung out all night, might aswell escalate towards sex. I think OP knew he had no chance of banging her, hence him he losing his temper/frame.

A little amused mastery would have also worked wonders.

prueba2306 · 2016-01-30T17:51:49+00:00

And then...? you didn't want to be her valet, good... and then...? Did she call you later? Did she apologize for her behaviour and then compensate you? (probably not, women don't have that level of consciousness) Did you fuck her later? Did you get another HB9 or someone else?

What did you win with this action? It's good you have self respect but applied incorrectly, you had to make her walk to your car and then fuck her, "convince her" (manipulate her or make her invests) to follow you to the end or whatever to make you gain something.

You only boost your ego (with her and you're trying to do the same thing with us) and the ego is your enemy.

Title	Enough Enabling
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	January 30, 2016 5:11 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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