Everything is my fault

telnet_reddit_80

June 13, 2013

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Title	Everything is my fault
Author	telnet_reddit_80
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	June 13, 2013 7:41 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1gaefj/everything_is_my_fault/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/everything-is-my-fault.234289 https://theredarchive.com/post/234289

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp11 points12 points13 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]DaddyMonster4 points5 points6 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah. I dislike it when people say cookie cutter things like that. Sure, a lot of crap is one's own fault, but far far from everything. The trick is to realize that the shit other people cause for you, is almost always still your own damn problem.

It's not my father's fault that he got IRS taking him to court for years frivalously, but it was still his problem, and he had to deal with it.
It is not my fault that most women are unfit for an LTR, but if I want an LTR, it is still my damn responsibility to make myself attractive enough to women in general, to be able to hook a woman who is fit for it, if I can find one.
It is not my fault that my upbringing and societal pressures made me a pathetic beta for the first 2/3 of my life, but it is still my own problem, and only I can do anything about it.

If you really thinks that everything bad that happens is you're own fault, you're setting yourself up for depression and burnout, because you assume on some level that you can control everything. That's impossible. Shit that you have no control over, what so ever, happens, OFTEN. How you deal with that shit is still your own problem.

If, however, you don't do your due diligence and/or don't do your best, and you fail or something foreseeable goes wrong, then you can start blaming yourself.

[–]TRP VanguardVZPurp0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. I'd say more often than not, unless you've got some exceptional connections, guidance, and luck. Most of the world runs on deception. You're on TRP, after all. Chances are you're here because you felt lied to. Was it your fault as an information processing machine that you were consistently given misinformation (or disinformation)?

Fault implies you're to blame. You're not. You're just the one who has to deal with the consequences and take action on behalf of yourself.

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