The reasons its important to understand the falling in love process vary from man to man. Maybe you have met The One and had your heart shattered in a sickening awakening. Maybe you're an aspiring cad and want to build a soft harem and inducing women to fall for you ensures their sweet submission. Maybe you understand why marriage today is a raw deal for men but you vetted hard and truly found a gem that you think is worth the risk. Maybe you need another viewpoint on why killing oneitis is so so hard. .

So many of us found TRP because we werent finding the sex and love we wanted in our lives.

Getting more sex boils down to two things, Read the sidebar and become more attractive with these two main ways:

Improve your physical appearance with lifting, dieting, and grooming

Become psycho-socially dominant and appreal to a womans hindbrain that you are a man of high value.

The second part is harder because women themselves dont even know they are attracted to assholes.

As far as love, it gets more confusing to acheive your goals. Personally I think the main stumbling block is that love and falling in love are not the same thing and a mans lack of understanding this process can be a huge obstacle.

Love is way too difficult to understand within the framework of words. *Falling in love is easier and I think there is real value in making some observations that make common sense. Common sense is not so common so stay with me on this.

1

We can love our parents, children and hobbies but we dont fall in love with them.

We only fall in love when sexually motivated.

2

Falling in love is always temporary. The honeymoon always ends, the bloom of romance always fades.

This doesnt mean one cant fall in love then maintain a long relationship that is loving. That happens many times and if you look at your great grandparents you just may see it.

My point is that falling in love is a typical response in humans to their sexual drives and external stimuli (Hello GAME!). Its a genetically determined part of mating and reproducing. Basically, your genes are playing games with your rational mind to encourage more fucking and sticking around to raise babies.

Id be curious to hear the communitys thoughts as I mean to begin, not end the conversation