Faux Alpha vs True Alpha

What is an Alpha?

Whether you pay for dinner whenever you go out with a woman, whether you open her door, whether you buy her flowers, whether you marry her, whether you get back with her after she has cheated on you, whatever action you choose to do, it doesn’t matter in the determination of whether you are Alpha or Beta. Some of these actions are inherently associated with being beta but are they beta by virtue? Does performing any one of them instantly make you a beta? I would say no. It’s not what you do but why you do it that determines whether you are an alpha. That is why only Alpha can truly be nice because they do so because they like the people they are interacting with, where as a beta will do it because he is scared of the consequences if he isn’t nice, or because he hopes that in being nice he will be able to make people like him or do things for him.

Did you pay for dinner because you genuinely wanted to or because out of insecurity you were hoping deep down that she’d feel like she owed you and ends up having sex with you. This is what truly separates alpha and beta, having sound reasons for what you are doing. A beta is one who doesn’t think or at least thinks albeit on a baser level, he is mastered by his emotions, he is not in control of himself and therefore he isn’t in control of his life or destiny.

To continue with the previous example of buying dinner, when you were doing that, do you for a second consider the fact that you need the money, did you take a moment to consider your expenses and determine whether you can truly afford to not only pay for yourself but for someone else as well. This may seem extreme to some but managing your money even when at current it seems inconsequential is important because it all adds up.

Little side story that provides an example for money adding up as well as the whole thought process of this post.

When I was younger I used to play a fair few MMORPGs the most important part to note is the last 3 letters, RPG (Role Playing Game) for a lot of kids it can become an escape from your current life as you get to live as someone else, have a different role and play with a different deck than the one life handed you. This one, in particular, was called MapleStory and the currency in this game was called Meso. Now one of the things I would whine about to my friend was that I never had enough money to buy the really good stuff like he had. I would frequently ask him to give me Meso, essentially asking for a handout.

Now he was following me around one day and he noticed that I didn’t pick up Meso drops 60-85% of the time when I killed a monster from the ground because it wasn’t much and I considered it insignificant. He simply laughed. He must have simply found it funny but upon reflection this is what his laugh meant. "How can you beg me for money when the game gives you plenty and you don't pick it up." Sure enough when it was a larger pile then I wound rush to pick it up. However, of the course of 60-90 levels how much gold had I missed out on. Millions for sure. I could have been in just as good of a position as my friend or better but MY decisions prevented me from achieving that. You could be in just as good of a position as some millionaires out there if you set yourself up to succeed by not needlessly spending money when you don’t have much to spare. How? That saved money when the time comes could be the difference between you capitalising on an opportunity and starting a business or being in the same position you are in now. Now why did I play this game? Probably as an escape but as you can see even in “another” life who I was followed me, someone who wastes money because by not picking it up it was essentially a loss of chance, an act of negligence committed by myself against myself. Was I beta? Definitely, however that doesn’t mean video games are beta it’s just that my reasons for playing them were beta. The action didn’t make me beta, why I did it did.

The point of the story is that if you have aspirations of being wealthy, how can you claim such a dream when you don’t control how you spend money and let external factors influence you in this case being societal norms. Just because it is a custom for a man to pay for a women’s food doesn’t mean you should do it just because this line of reasoning is beta.

An Alpha is someone who is in control of every aspect of his life. He’s in charge of his financial, physical, emotional, and sexual wellbeing. He takes an active role in making decisions in his life because he knows that not to be in control is the gravest sin that he could ever perpetrate against himself.

There is no higher duty than which one owes themselves.

If you choose to pay for a woman’s dinner because she was interesting and it’s something you want to do then you are not a beta. If you choose to pay for a woman’s dinner because you want to but in the long run you can’t afford it then you are a beta because you are showing you lack discipline, poor planning, and lack of appropriate priorities, fundamental attributes of a man.

Fuck women! It's about you!

This doesn’t just stop at women. It is the easiest thing to start at because it involves a subject that many deeply care about even those who attempt to pretend like they're disconnected from the need are still captives of their biology. It is so important because most men especially Blue Pill men would argue that because woman are constant unless you either switch teams or GYOW, for most you can’t escape them or the needs you biologically feel, they’re in turn a subject worth paying attention to. I do not disagree however the most permanent thing in your life, the only thing that will remain constant to you is you. This is why TRP focuses on teaching men to lift because even if most men don’t understand the reasons behind it, it makes you focus on yourself. Granted you may be doing it for the wrong reasons i.e. for girls.

The fact of the matter is that you are still improving yourself which is the most important aspect and hopefully in the process of improving yourself you find a greater love for being better than you were yesterday than lying next to a woman.

Introducing the Faux Alpha

This doesn’t stop at women to reiterate because we are constantly being influenced by external forces. That is how most men became blue pill, external forces. If they had a choice at birth would they choose to be low value, incapable of accomplishing their dreams and struggle with women? No, that choice is forced upon them by society, by their mother, or by their lack of a father or a guiding male figure. How it transcends into your everyday life and how you can identify if it’s indeed transcending into your everyday life is by asking yourself questions to ascertain the reasons you are doing things. Are you in University because you are genuinely interested in the field and it’s something you want to do or is it because you have pressures from your family to “be the first one in the _______ family that finished University/College”, “Make something of yourself and make your family proud”, “Not be a disappointment” or the saddest one of them all because it isn’t external rather internal “Because I didn’t know what else to do”. As you can see even reading it causes a sickening feel in your stomach because it is beta and it is disgusting. It extends further. Are you in your 9-5 because that is where you choose to be or through external factors such as life, that is just where you ended up?

If as soon as you finished that last line and your line of thought instantly jumped to “Life is more complicated than that”, “You can’t just be whatever you want, this is reality, not a game” that is a defeatist mindset. This is your justification for not controlling your own life? It is lazy, and it just reeks like expired vagina. I’m scared that I might fail so I won’t try, I don’t know many people that have done it before so why bother. This is Beta thinking because you are effectively giving yourself an excuse not to be in control of your own life, by arguing it might be too hard or you might not make it or the most common I don’t have the talent for it, you get to convince yourself that it isn’t your fault that you are currently working at a gas station. That is just life. Sorry, but no it’s not.

This sub likes to trash woman because undoubtedly they deserve to be trashed however it isn’t just woman who like to scapegoat and not take responsibility. How can you judge them when you are doing it yourself by refusing to take responsibility for your own life? This is truly beta.

Elon Musk has been previously dubbed a beta in other threads, is he though? A man who can literally change the world is not a beta at least not completely. He is a Faux Alpha someone who has some Alpha qualities in some areas but lacks in another department that shapes his life for Elon this would be relations with other humans, particularly females this again is because of external forces he has been raised to put woman on a pedestal and as such from a lower position it is easy for them to kick dirt in his face, twice from one woman. Some TRP men are the opposite of this as they have been able to shape and control their interactions with women and general human relations but can’t or to be more precise, choose not to shape their destiny. Not matter how many field reports you do, you aren’t a true alpha, artificial is your name and fake is your game.

As a Faux Alpha, you may have other areas of your life in control but lack of determination of where you want to be in life and who you are going to be in life and most importantly the belief that if you put time in and don’t give up you will make it, any barrier will break before you do. While this doesn’t devalue your achievements, it still makes you an artificial nonetheless, you are a fake wearing shoes that are multiple sizes too big for you. The good thing is that you can grow, but only if you choose too. Don’t get me wrong however; success isn’t just having a billion dollars in your bank account. It is having goals or an ultimate goal and moving in alignment to their completion. There is nothing wrong with a 9-5 if that is where you want to be and are happy, if you aren’t happy then who else can you blame? Goals are something unique to you. You define them. Whether you want to be your local clubs superstar or play for Premier League as long as it is something you want to achieve not something that has been forced upon you.

In using Elon as an example you might wonder well if you attribute his poor judgement in women to external forces then what could he have done. The same thing you have done, for something that can deeply affect yourself life especially if you are interested in marriage. Understand how your future partner works, what benefits they can provide you and what limitations they possess is just a good strategy for a thinking man, for a true alpha. I would wager that most of Elon’s ventures he has critically thought about them because they affect him so deeply but when choosing someone that he was making a life commitment too he didn’t apply the same strategy. If these resources are available to you a “common” man, what say he for falling in such trappings?

In summary, take control of your fucking life. You’ve taken the first steps so far by addressing a problem that affected you (women); you definitely have it in you, now go all the way. If you want too ;)

Note: I wrote this to also help myself as I have noticed my self slipping back into bad habits.

Also, it’s a really good day today.