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Gardrothard/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 08:14 PM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTGardrothard/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 09:49 AM
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THEORYGardrothard/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 04:48 AM
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DISCUSSIONGardrothard/r/RedPillWomen13/08/16 08:33 AM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTGardrothard/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 10:12 PM
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DISCUSSIONGardrothard/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 06:41 AM
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DISCUSSIONGardrothard/r/RedPillWomen28/07/16 07:33 PM
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LIFESTYLEGardrothard/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 06:08 AM
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DISCUSSIONGardrothard/r/RedPillWomen15/12/16 01:12 PM
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Gardrothard/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 08:48 AM
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ADVICEGardrothard/r/RedPillWomen06/11/16 06:07 PM
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DISCUSSIONGardrothard/r/RedPillWomen24/09/16 10:44 AM
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Gardrothard/r/askTRP30/12/16 03:34 PM
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OFF TOPICGardrothard/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 08:37 AM
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Gardrothard/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 08:25 AM
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Gardrothard/r/RedPillWomen14/09/16 02:58 AM
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DISCUSSIONGardrothard/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:09 AM
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There is absolutely no regulation on trade of CP or any sort of illegal type transaction Probably one of the reasons they actually came up with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 04:16 PM
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I've watched that interview, it's not what he said. By forced monogamy, he meant a society where people who cheat are shamed and judged for cheating. He then said that such societies have less male violence which does make sense. He said many times that women having high standards and being choosy is what makes humanity progress and makes men better. He never advocated for women lowering their standards or being forced into relationships, sex, or marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:39 AM
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He’s probably just speaking his truth Yup. Too involved in his video games to be able to lie on the spot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 09:46 PM
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Millions of years of evolution. Millions of years of your ancestors doing the impossible to survive, reproduce, and protect their children. So many wars, famines, diseases, and predators. All so you could get to a point where you reject a real-life woman to watch other people fuck on screen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 06:46 AM
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The biggest problem with women having more experience with men, in general, is the fact that we tend to see through their bullshit and stop being naive. Another benefit from this narrative where women are deemed worthless for being with too many men is pushing women into staying in bad relationships when they've already had sex. Fuck that. If he's bad we need to be out of there, who cares if our numbers go up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 08:06 AM
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The problem with only 30% of men procreating is the loss of genetic diversity. Genetic diversity is extremely valuable for a creature that changes its environment fast. the fact that more men get to procreate in monogamy is probably why it became even more valuable and most dominant as society became more developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:12 PM
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And he's a teacher.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:34 AM
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My guess is that the only reason she asked him to text her was that he cheated and she found out. Or he cheated and she had some gut feeling making her paranoid. If he was able to do this to her, I'm guessing that the reason she was paranoid was that he had been gaslighting and abusing her for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 04:55 AM
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>It's been noted that the increase in male sexlessness (and female, to a lesser degree) really took off around 2008, which is the approximate time online porn use did the same This shows that it is the cause. Porn consumption started going up as technology progressed, especially as the internet got faster and smartphones became a thing. Sounds like a big coincidence that people not having sex, a natural thing people have been doing forever, starts happening at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:25 AM
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Literally came to say this. Lorde, Billie, Grimes... They all started dating these scrotes and then started sexualizing themselves out of nowhere. I assume these scrotes are destroying their self-confidence and that's why they do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:08 PM
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With climate change and all other problems humanity is currently facing makeup becomes even stranger. First of all, a lot of the makeup is not ethically produced. It's causing huge amounts of waste. It barely does anything. You might say that it makes women feel beautiful, but the only reason that's the case is that someone invested tons of money trying to make us think that we need it. If women didn't wear makeup the bar wouldn't be set so high and everyone would just lower their criteria to ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:55 AM
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I never understood why men's needs should be considered as one of feminism's goals in order for it to be valid. If we apply the same logic to other things it becomes ridiculous. Imagine an organization fighting for the protection of some endangered species being told "What about species Y?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:28 AM
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It's so iritating to see that. Sure, go ahead, we'll abolsh monogamy and women will take care of children alone. What do they think would happen in that case? If I'm supposed to be a single mother I'll just pick the best man there is to procreate with. Why not have a child with Bred Pit lookalike instead of some scrote if none of them will be there? It's men who benefit from monogamy, not women, and yet they are the ones shitting on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:29 AM
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Scrotiana Jones Ahahahah I love this term
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:30 PM
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I have never watched porn, although, I am a woman, so I guess it doesn't count as much for an effect when it comes to men. But, I'll tell you, things I find disturbing, people who watch porn find funny or interesting. For example, there was a video of a famous woman having sex going around. A guy showed me the video, thinking I'd find it funny. I felt like shit, intruding on someone's privacy. I felt bad for the woman, the guy in the video was someone with whom she had a long-term relationship s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:47 PM
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Seems to me most of them consider hurting someone as a bad thing if it's done with that specific goal in mind. As if it doesn't matter if they hurt someone because they were selfish, irresponsible, impulsive, stupid, or whatever. Like, for them it only counts as bad if they thought "let me do something evil to this person"... So yeah, in that warped sense, very few men are bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:40 PM
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As I was reading about this and seeing that they refer to the admin as she, I was a bit confused. As in "Huh, I assumed it was a man" because I saw that they accused the admin of being a pedophile. Then, further down they say that the admin is a transwoman. Then I thought "Oh, that's what's why". It's not enough. Now they use the fact that women are seen as non-threatening to hide their pedophilia and to be predators. They use trans rights to destroy female spaces... Why is the trans community o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:11 AM
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Many women think low of women who are overweight Honestly, I used to judge fat women. I wasn't mean, but deep down I did judge them. After some introspection turns out I was jealous. See, I've had eating disorders, obsessing about food, feeling guilty for eating anything... Somehow, I thought, if one is fat, they got there by not caring and by not obsessing like me. So I was envious because I thought they didn't terrorize themselves as much as I did, and I thought they were free. Now I understan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:00 AM
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The truth is, there's not much inherently wrong about people having consensual sex with many people that don't hurt others (no cheating and similar things). Yet, you feel guilty. Yet, men see it as a red flag. So why is that? It's because of what pushes someone to act like that. It's a sign that one doesn't deal with whatever problems they have and use sex to numb themselves. Same as being fat. The negative is mostly something only fat person experiences, there's rarely any harm done to others, …
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 08:27 PM
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Also, when a guy says he wants an intelligent woman, he wants her to be smart but less smart than him. "I want an intelligent woman" is usually a code for the following. He feels he's really smart. He thinks that the reason others aren't treating him like the genius he knows he is is that "others are just too stupid to see it". By "smart" woman he imagines a woman "smart enough to see his genius".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 12:19 AM
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Look At AlL ThEsE PlAsTic WoMeN? WhErE's NaTuRaL BeAuTy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:08 AM
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Anyway, after quietly enduring his little jabs and condescension (because god forbid I assert myself and risk unleashing his revenge fantasy fury a la Elliot Rodger) Every time I had to reject a guy I tried to be as nice as possible for this same reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:55 PM
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Women's "weakness" is the fact that our love is almost unconditional. That is not a weakness, it's a beautiful thing. The problem is when others take advantage of this fact. People should be more mature and check themselves to make sure we don't take advantage of people being good, not force good people to become less empathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:03 AM
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Because men are taught their worth is more than JUST their body. Where as women are taught that our worth first and foremost is our looks. Hence why even the “business boss have it all” woman must also be good looking attractive etc. that even with all our successes-it doesn’t matter if you’re not good looking. This. When you see articles about successful women it's always she's so smart and beautiful. Even those articles that are about fighting sexism in IT, for example, are only about showing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:56 PM
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Thank you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:01 PM
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It’s widely underestimated the damage this men can do. The gaslighting, the criticism, everything... it’s a huge process to come back. And I escaped 100% on time. No other consequences other than psychological. Ugh, same here. The worst part is that all that gaslighting left me insecure in myself and my intuition. I've dealt with all of it. But this one, still bothering me. In my line of work intuition is very important and something that you need to rely on. It's slowing me down when I can't le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:03 AM
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It's a mindfuck. We, women, tend to undervalue ourselves and always feel insecure. So when we see someone with crazy amounts of confidence that is not founded in reality we just can't understand it. In order to make sense of that cognitive dissonance, we assume that there must be a reason for it (since we cannot possibly understand how someone could act that way without merit since we are so strict with ourselves). So we end up thinking that there's more value there than there actually is. That'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 10:55 AM
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This. If it wasn't for monogamy women wouldn't be damaged as much. The monogamy is there so that each male, even the lowest value ones could have a chance to reproduce. They shit on monogamy, saying that cheating is natural, when they are the ones who need it the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:17 PM
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I'm so sorry this happened to you. I hope you are finding a way to deal with it and keep going. From listening and reading other women's experiences events like this seem to happen way more often than they should and nobody considers them to be rape, not even that bad. People see it as a legit strategy for men. The biggest thing that needs to be addressed is the fact that there are three fear responses: fight, flight, freeze. Women actually tend to go with the third one in situations like this o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 12:09 PM
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. He said he wasn’t interested in her and he only wants me. He said that if he wanted to date her instead of me he would do it—but he doesn’t and they are just friends. He wanted to date her but she friend zoned him.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/20 06:02 PM
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Almost any romance novel or show designed for women has a sex scene where the man asks multiple times "Are you sure you want to do this?". So definitely doesn't ruin the mood for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 08:12 AM
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Call me too controlling but there's no reason to follow or like those women. One can watch, but is there really a need to like and follow? Is everyone you have on Instagram supposed to see to what you're jerking off? It's like sharing PornHub link on your Facebook account. First of all, distasteful and then disrespectful to the woman who's in a relationship with you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/20 07:36 AM
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There's a hypothesis. https://www.livescience.com/16268-female-immune-system-stronger-males-genetics.html
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/20 10:04 AM
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Women have a stronger immune system due to 2x chromosomes. I think estrogen has also something to do with it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/20 11:40 PM
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I don’t see the benefit of enduring their BS to ‘fit in’, just to ‘claim’ I’ve been ‘chosen’ whilst running myself into the ground for a clowns ego to swell. Just because you're chosen it doesn't mean you're actually getting any value. People were chosen to go to Auschwitz, not the best thing to be chosen for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:28 AM
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Yes. She can't possibly be confident because she just passed a hard test, managed to do something hard, did something nice, etc. No, the reason a woman should be confident is because she's hot. But even then, "she's not that hot, what does she think".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:00 AM
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Pretty much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 12:55 PM
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This. When you are wary of men they say you hate them and blame you. If you act with the assumption that most are good people they take advantage of that and blame you for being stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:59 AM
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they want us to be feminine and soft... yet they don’t provide spaces for us to be able to break into pieces and be vulnerable. This. A million times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:57 AM
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I’m mad I was viewed as a girl to make the plate and not the GF. This reminds me of teachers who get offended because children try to cheat on their exams. In most cases children try to cheat because they want to pass without putting the effort (and punishment for cheating isn't big or it's nonexistent, so why not try), not because they lack respect for the professor.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/20 10:23 PM
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Yes, he's trying to get you to be his plate. Who cares, just stay away from him.
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/20 07:19 AM
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If you were a 100% rational you would't be able to do anything other than solve math problems. Pretty much everything is based on "feelz". Face recognition and detection, any kind of classification, pattern detection, understanding sentences and so on.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/20 08:35 AM
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Listen to your gut. If your gut is screaming that something isn't okay, it's not. And it's probably right. Men on reddit defend porn because they are addicted to it. Women defend it because they think it's gone too far, and it's impossible request to make. You are here on RPW, improving yourself. You aren't supposed to be a doormat, and this sub shouldn't be about learning how to ignore your gut instincts so that your bf gets to stay addicted to porn. You can eat at McDonalds every day and still…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/20 06:50 PM
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I've heard stories about people who had lots of anal sex and it destroyed their muscles. This resulted in them shitting themselves occasionally. Also, sperm is bad for the immune system if it gets into the blood. So bad that many high profile doctors believed that AIDS wasn't caused by a virus but from having repeated anal sex and sperm getting into the bloodstream. Women risking their health because their boyfriends are too sick is just ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:16 PM
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Even the simplest decisions are impossible to make with logic only. You use your gut to differentiate between animals, people's gender and other things. That's why they use neural networks for these problems. It's actually impossibly hard to use logic to describe why on one picture you see it's a cat and on another it's a dog. You can tell "shape, fur" or whatever, but if that was actually the case there would be an algorithm based on that. But there isn't one, and we aren't close to getting the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:58 AM
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Men don’t cheat because a woman isn’t pretty enough. This. Adriana Lima got cheated on. If it was about the woman not being pretty enough that would never happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 11:48 AM
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A lot of men in my country (Eastern Europe) say things like "Feminism ruined family". The fact that a woman can leave because you're abusive, and/or a cheater is ruining the families, not the abusiveness and cheating. OKAY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 09:42 AM
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If you have any self respect you need to leave.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 02:07 AM
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I think that a dark equivalent would be someone like Mira Markovic, Slobodan Milosevic's wife. He adored her until the end, even wrote her poems. She had complete control over him and every institution, including government secret service. She literally ruled the country and was untouchable. He son would go around and kill and beat people for fun and they left the country with millions. I don't know any other woman with more power. If you didn't know what was happening and saw her, you would bel…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/19 12:56 PM
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Exactly. I've heard one guy say "Doing the best with the hand you're dealt is sexy".
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 11:38 PM
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Kate Upton She's built in the way you describe you are and I don't see her having problems with her SMV. She's making tons of money out of it. Most good men I know care about the looks in a sense that they don't want a fat girl, really ugly one or the one who completely lets go of herself. If the girl isn't one of these then it's all about personality. The only men who care about perfect bodies when they themselves aren't perfect are the one who've watched too much porn and who spend too much ti…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 12:21 PM
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I would consider myself a radical/marxist feminist. Radical because I don't believe that whole trans ideology, I do believe women should have a right to abortion, I do believe that there are differences between men and women, but I also believe that those aren't written in stone. If you like makeup and being feminine good for you, but if you want to be a butch lesbian, go ahead. Unlike liberal feminism, I don't think that liking make up and sexy lingerie makes man a woman or that you are non bin…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 02:04 AM
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This all sounds great, but only on paper. My friend's mother pretty much never worked. Then her father died and now they're in a mess. Even if you vet perfectly, life still happens in unpredictable ways.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/19 02:55 PM
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Yeah good tips, but not really anything new.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 12:38 PM
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I like her videos but the way she talks and moves seems forced and fake.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/19 03:56 PM
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The truth is, if you are working on yourself and spend a lot of time with someone who's lazy there are two ways things can go - their laziness can take you down or your work will take them up. If you don't let them drag you down they should eventually start improving too. Obviously, there will be exceptions, but those are quite rare.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/19 11:05 AM
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Blake Lively. I call her Blake Lovely. :D She's so kind, sweet, smart and down to earth. She's also funny and has great sense of style. She loves baking for her family and seems very devoted to them, which is beautiful.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/19 01:35 PM
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Hello :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 09:05 PM
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If you need to ask if he cares he doesn't care, at least not enough.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 08:09 PM
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" I do still get really upset about losing my ex. I have withdrawals. Me and him had shared so many nice memories, laughs, inside jokes, moments together, I was completely comfortable with him and I felt as though we were on the same level. I liked the same music as him, we liked doing the same things, going on hikes etc.. it was about the simply things in life. Although I have been told I was a plate. That he had set times and days for me. That he gamed other girls, he disrespected me, he made …
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/19 03:55 PM
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Schwartzkopf have a great cheap product called Gliss that I spray on my hair before straightening it so it’s nice and smooth and shiny ! I also use that, it's great!
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 12:13 PM
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Woah, WHAT AN ASSHOLE
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 12:13 PM
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I've started using AD drops as a serum. It's basically vitamins A and D dissolved in water. It's something that they sell as a supplement for babies. Honey as a face mask. So far works better than most actual masks. Clay masks dry out my skin, but this doesn't and it's good against blemishes. Avoid dairy products, your skin will be grateful. Since I've stopped drinking milk I've literally had zero blemishes (it's been a few months now). I've started using Vaseline as a primer during this cold we…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 05:24 AM
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Yup, this is great advice. :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 05:01 AM
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Yes, so easy to forget but explains so many things.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/19 08:20 PM
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I'm so sorry you had to go through that, it hurts to read this. I hope you get back on your feet as soon as possible. <3 while I am work, 7 days a week, paying our full suite of expenses and doing household chores at night (and daily sex). I have developed a drinking habit that helps me get through the evening but has also caused problems in the last year especially This is too much. If you need to drink in order to make things work then they aren't working. Helping your man is great and all, bu…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 08:10 AM
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Try to include this when you wash your hair: when you put on hair mask leave the shower, put showering cap or a plastic bag on your hair and then put a warm towel. Keep it like that for 20-30 min, and then rinse the hair mask.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/18 09:33 AM
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BE HAPPY THAT THAT'S YOUR PROBLEM IN LIFE
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/18 05:50 PM
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Thanks :D
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 01:09 PM
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Everyone wants a healthy version of "pull" instead of push-pull, which is to say that they want increasingly deepening and intensifying connection. But it requires giving another person the power to either do extreme emotional damage or extreme emotional healing to you, and while that is terrifying, it is the more exciting game This.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/18 08:39 AM
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ectomorphic woman with big boobs that's typical soft dramatic type (Monica Bellucci, no surgery there for example) Although you're right about the ass, there are hips and waist and good waist to hip ratio but not much ass (which is what she said too).
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/18 11:30 AM
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There are two aspects of this : the style you wear and the colors. It is often said that you should pick a style that suits your needs and that you like. I disagree with this. Your style should be influenced by your body type, and then once you've chosen things that suit your body type pick the ones you like out of them. For example, someone like Monica Belluci, although she's one of the most beautiful women in the world cannot wear the same style that, for example, Zooey Deschanel is pulling of…
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/18 11:52 AM
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I am currently obsessed with my looks and personally, I'm putting off all ideas/thoughts of plastic surgeries/permanent cosmetic procedures until I've hit my natural limit. THIS. Couldn't agree more. It's pointless to think about plastic surgery if you aren't doing your best at the gym, with the makeup and hair and so on.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 01:34 PM
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I do want to get married and have children but now I feel unworthy and so lost, confused, socially inexperienced (I am very isolated) that I fear it may never happen. Who are you to make that judgement? You're not a God, it's not our job to say who deserves what and give that to them, just like it's nobody else's business . You shouldn't be doing that with others, and you shouldn't be doing that with yourself. The first thing to here is to see why guys have a problem with high N count. Possible …
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/17 10:33 AM
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Eat a lot of fat foods. Table spoon of coconut oil, table soon of olive oil, whole eggs, nuts, avocado and so on. Bacon and similar stuff are also fine. But do avoid sugars and complex carbs. Although fat may have a lot more calories than carbs it takes forever to digest, so you'll feel full all day long and end up consuming less calories. For example, 200g of cashews has a little over 1000 kcal, but if you eat that you'll feel full all day long so you'll end up in deficit.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 11:46 AM
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Everyone here, including you, knows that leaving is the only sensible thing to do.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/17 10:25 PM
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It's what I thought too. :) Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 06:02 AM
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Hey, thanks for doing this, you're awesome. :) Is there a way I can manage working and my studies, or should I wait a little longer with job?
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 12:48 AM
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"If you're under him, you ain't getting over him" :D
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/17 10:07 AM
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I did a lot of experimenting with my style, and it turns out that a good pair of jeans, good platforms and a tight shirt or blouse of right color look the best on me. It's similar with makeup. I love doing makeup but a little BB cream, some blush, mascara and neutral lipstick is what seems to work the best. I like to wear dresses and skirts, in fact, I just throw pants away during the summer.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 10:00 PM
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you want to be his addiction so that you can feel safe I think you hit the point right there. The two previous relationships ended because the guys cheated on me, and, if I'm honest then I have to say that I am very afraid of being abandoned or cheated on. And yes, you are completely right, it's a very dangerous road. I broke up with this guy in the spring and since then (different reasons) didn't let anything go beyond a couple of dates. The thing is, if I see that the guy is very physically at…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/17 04:23 AM
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Will I find true love?
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 06:12 AM
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Imagine buying a house. You like how it looks, the location is fine, etc and you decide to sign the contract. Obviously, you don't expect it to look the same after 20 years, but if after 3 years the roof came off or walls started to break down you'd be mad, you would say "This is not what I signed up for". Every relationship's early stage is basically negotiation of conditions, if a guy decided to be with you he did it because of the things you were offering at that time. If you remove these the…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/17 07:16 AM
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I must say, I don't think it's as black and white as most have put it here. Sure, their smugness and attitude is a problem, but the truth is that men do mature later than women, so they might not be completely wrong. I think they should just try dating older men.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 07:47 AM
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Been there, the exact same situation. Lost 3 years in my prime with nothing to show off but the lesson that could have been learned after only 3 months of that relationship. Men rarely change for better, in most cases people just take their partner even more for granted as the time goes by.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/17 12:42 PM
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They are unmatching you because there's no sense of reality among people when doing online dating. First of all, it's just a picture and you can unmatch and everything disappears, no awkward conversation or anything, no sense that that someone is a real person. Then, there's bunch of women there, and even though many won't swipe them back, just looking at bunch of women in skimpy clothes, signaling readiness for sex is enough to mess up with ones subconsciousness and make them think that they to…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 07:58 AM
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Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/17 05:27 PM
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PROS Fit, intelligent, firm big boobs, long hair, don't drink or do drugs, try to see the good in people, tall, dresses nicely, well educated in many subjects, taking responsibility, have a lot of money, can cook and bake, take care of cleaning and plants, submissive. CONS Tend to be a doormat, tend to always blame myself, tend to be too much of a perfectionist (I get really frustrated when I have a romantic story in my head and something ruins it), tend to be to needy, over-analyzing things, so…
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/17 11:08 AM
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Should I stay or should I go?
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 08:16 AM
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How many times have you seen people falling for person who's much "worse" than some other. Honestly, I see this constantly. People don't actually get a crush on the currently best available option, we are far from being that rational. Bottom line, just because it doesn't work with someone it doesn't mean that you are not good enough.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/17 06:23 AM
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Biggest alpha is John Snow, and he's gentle and kind towards women.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/17 08:36 AM
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Let me give you the same advice my dad gave to me: "Being a girl and choosing a right guy is hard. The better the person the more humbling experiences they have, the less they will feel that they deserve something. (I think he meant something like Danny Kruger effect) So, in most cases, they won't approach because they will feel like they don't have enough to offer. They see their flaws and things they need to improve so they assume that there are many guys out there who are much better. When th…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/17 09:39 AM
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Others opinions should be used as a feedback mechanism, IMO. If 3 or more people point out something about you, then it's probably true. But you're the one who decides if that trait should be kept or not. By decide I actually mean honestly decide, not rationalize that it's fine when it's just because one is too lazy to change.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/17 08:08 AM
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But after 6 months I realised that I don't love him and that I'm still fucked up from my previous relationship so I decided to end it. (Here I realised that the second guy was a weak beta, maybe that's why I ended it. Nice self awareness, that's great :) Don't worry about the wall so much. The wall is used to describe situations where women who have nothing but their looks and entitlement lose the looks. With the current state of sexual marketplace (many fat women, many feminists, a lot of bitch…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/17 08:04 AM
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http://imgur.com/a/E54Ru I love these :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/17 10:44 AM
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Once I noticed that what I wear depends on my mood (do I feel fat that day, do I want to look sweet, do I want to look serious and so on) I arranged outfits in my head based on that. Since then I've never been in that scene where I stand in front of the dressing closet and don't know what to wear. Maybe this would be helpful to others too. When it comes to shopping I have a strategy that includes looking at what I already have and then figuring out what's missing (and be as specific as I can) fo…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/17 08:46 AM
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Yes. I think it was cultural influence that got fucked up. They both know that it's important for a woman to look good, so they pushed that. But, at the same time, my grandmother lost her parents very young, was starving, then another war and it was hard to get money for food. In these situations giving food to someone was a big deal and a way to show love, so for her, if I was rejecting food it hit that trauma and it probably felt like I was disrespecting her or rejecting her love. And hamsters…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 09:02 AM
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This is Eastern Europe, women are crazy here when it comes to this.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 08:59 AM
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Thanks :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 08:45 AM
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Wow, this is fun, thank you for this. :) What will happen with my career path in the next year or two?
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 08:14 AM
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Added that. :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 08:10 AM
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Hormones influence where you store fat, I think that's how it works. In the end, the root is just making you more fertile and that can be seen in your looks. At worst, it won't do anything. I don't think anyone here thinks they should have a pink hair. :D But I will add makeup and sunscreen.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 08:00 AM
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Thanks for tips, I will add them later to the post. :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 01:58 PM
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Good point.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 01:56 PM
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I've taking it while losing weight. I lost 3.5 cm in waist but my boobs and butt remained the same. Another girl tried it and says her boobs got bigger.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 01:56 PM
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Women in my family used to do similar thing. I come to visit my grandmother and my aunt (her daughter) is there. They both comment on how I gained weight and start shaming me. Then my grandmother asks if I'm hungry, I say no (who wants to eat after that) and she gets offended : "I slaved all day to make food for you, you don't even love me" and so on. So I feel guilty and I say : "Okay, I'll have some, but very little". Of course, she brings the biggest plate, full of food. I eat a little and I …
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 10:13 AM
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All women in my family did that when I was a kid. My aunt would bring tape measure every Sunday and measure me since I was 9-10 years old. And then she would tell if I needed to lose weight. She'd give me some magazines with diets and so on. To be honest, I used to hate that, and often it made me feel inadequate. But I am also thankful she did this. Highest BMI I had was 20, and when she saw me then she made sure to shame me and point out all of the things I did wrong (sodas and so on). I kept m…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/17 08:17 AM
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I also have hang ups about people watching me eat. I love to eat and if there is food around, I will eat it... just when no one is watching. YOU GET IT! Finally, someone who feels the same. :D Same for using the toilet. :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 07:54 PM
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Yves Rocher is amazing, I love their products.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 07:21 AM
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That's because you listen to what they say, not what they do. Men are almost the same as women when it comes to AF/BB dichotomy. Just like many women tend to chase guys that are unavailable, many men chase women who are the same. The only difference is the definition of unavailable, for women it's mostly consisted of lack of commitment, for men, lack of sex (although sex and commitment for women and men, respectively, play a role too). Between unavailable shit and available diamond most people w…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 09:22 PM
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So anal and neat, I love it. Thank you very much. :D
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/17 11:40 PM
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Just found it today, I plan on trying it tonight. She has the most beautiful hear.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/17 04:35 PM
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Thanks, that would be awesome :D
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/17 12:43 PM
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Yeah, just water and some tea with no sugar or honey and coffee with no milk or sugar for 3 days.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/17 11:36 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bsGuWokn47A This might be helpful :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/17 08:04 AM
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Prepare for finals. I have 8 courses so it's going to be a though one. Try 3 day water fast. Get a professional facial. Dye my hair. Drink green tea instead of coffee. Start studying as soon as I wake up.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/17 08:03 AM
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I'm insecure, how can I be more comfortable with myself and also be comfortable around other people without feeling like I'm inadequate? It's not the looks that are the problem, it's the mind. Here, I look the way you'd want to, 5'9'', hourglass with wide hips and bigger boobs. And you know what, I used to hate it, I even hate the way I look today when I'm supposed to be a grown up. Some days, I feel like my boobs make me look fat, I feel like my height makes me look too masculine and wish I was…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/17 05:34 AM
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Have you ever accepted what you could attract? Yeah. My mindset is to try to be the best I can, and what I attract, I attract. Have you ever tried to attract "better" men and failed and settled for what you could get? No, it's always been about picking the best that is being offered. I don't look at what's not on the menu. If you did succeed in attracting better, what did you do? I've been meeting more and more high quality guys now that I'm 22, then it was when I was 18. But I think that's just…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/17 05:52 AM
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am so tired of hearing all the complaining about their men and they don't seem to want to change the situation. I try to give my thoughtful, constructive advise then when I need advise it is usually something along the lines of JUST LEAVE HIM. You can find different people, but it will probably be the same shit in a different package. For example, they will complain about kids' grades, or work. I understand you feel frustrated, I do too, but that's how most people are. You need to realize that t…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 05:51 AM
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I definitely agree that it also hindered knowledge/intelligence.. But probably for political reasons. Why is it that the progress of science and technology is always a good thing by default? Yes, it solved many problems, but it has also created new ones. The sudden increase of lifespan is nice, it means that my parent, my friends and me can live longer. But, how many of economic problems are directly and indirectly caused by this. Or, take contraception, how many of the problems that TRP is set …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 05:43 AM
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No social media -> no problem.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 04:47 AM
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TL;DR Men, why don't you read our minds?
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 04:46 AM
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That's good, just do what's right and things will fall into place. :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 04:26 PM
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If you try something with him now it will mean that you accept his terms. And once you make yourself a booty call, that what a FWB is, isn't it, it's very unlikely you will go up in status. This is negotiation. The first one to talk is the one who will have to accept other's terms. Even if he doesn't call, you will be someone who showed him that she respect herself, so it's possible he will remember you when he's out of that chill phase. Although, unlikely.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 12:50 PM
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*Good and kind person. Cares about things. If he cares and is a good person than any problem can be fixed. A good man who cares about his family will find a way to solve the problems that are there. *Will tell me when he thinks I'm wrong. I don't need someone to tell me that everything I'm doing is right, I already have myself for that. I need a person who will have the balls to tell me I'm doing something stupid and stop me.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 03:26 AM
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Yeah, I don't get how she's just a 7 either. She'd be a 9 if she was more feminine. The way she talks and carries herself is a bit masculine. But as far as her looks are concerned, she's a 8.5.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/17 02:41 AM
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I'm assuming this is a question about pure utility that one can bring, so I'll answer in that manner. -Inheritance - can afford to be SAHM even if the guy doesn't earn much. Can afford to stay with a man and financially support the family even if he loses his job. -Worthy degree - about to get a degree in electrical engineering, so even if something shitty happens I am skilled enough to be able to earn money. Also, it makes it easy for me to move anywhere if needed since it's a demanded professi…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 01:08 AM
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They treat attractive women they feel they have a chance with best. This is spot on.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/17 07:51 AM
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I don't think there's a woman out there who doesn't have at least a few features that are a bit more on the masculine side. Just like there are very few men who don't have anything feminine about them. For example, 90s models had very athletic build and stronger shoulders. Stronger shoulders are masculine feature, but they were considered hot and feminine. Audrey Hepburn had a nose that was on the larger side, big feet and was flat chested. All of these are masculine, yet, I don't see anyone say…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 04:58 AM
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She's not repulsed, nor does she necessarily not care about you. But she does see you like a child. Your best option there is that she starts seeing you as her child (then you might actually get something out of it).
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 02:54 PM
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It's amazing, I watched it 3 times. :D
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 06:33 PM
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I only know that movie called About time.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 05:43 PM
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So well organized, love it :D
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 08:16 AM
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This is great, I'm glad you're happy. Good luck :D
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 12:47 AM
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I've never heard anyone regret kids they had, only regretting kids they didn't have. Not sure if this is helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 08:17 AM
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Good point, he is 10 years older than me. Most I had so far was 3 years older.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 10:03 PM
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Yeah maybe you're right, maybe I'm so used to things being wrong that I need to find them when there aren't any. We did discuss a bit, and he says that he likes it that way. But maybe he's shy and won't tell, maybe it's the truth...
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 07:20 AM
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I know it sounds a bit stupid when you put it like that, but in context, I really don't feel desired. Like I said here, I don't care much about the sex itself, more about what happens before and after. But what happens when he gets bored of me because he can't do anything but missionary because he feels he's degrading me?
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 06:05 PM
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He literally said at one point that he sees me as his younger sister that he wants to protect. When he speaks about other girls with whom he had ONS, that he saw as sluts, it's completely different. I don't think I'm imagining this.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 06:00 PM
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Thanks, will try. :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 05:57 PM
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Thank you for advice, I will try that.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 05:57 PM
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I don't really mind this if it's his preference, to be honest, I am more into things that lead up to sex and cuddling afterwards, sex is not that important. But I'm afraid he'll get bored of me soon if it stays this way and that this means that he isn't so attracted.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 05:44 PM
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It's like guys either see me as this LTR material and they aren't so attracted, or they see me as a whore, are sexually attracted and don't want relationship. Except for those 2 boyfriends.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 10:09 AM
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I'm sorry, I was very loosely using the word beta. What I meant was beta in every other sense (commitment, presents, wanting to spend a lot of time together and so on), but unlike most beta guys they really wanted me in a sexual way. I'm not saying he and other "beta" guys aren't attracted at all. It's that there's no any of that "I need to have you right now" animal desire, there's just a lot of self control from their side. Meanwhile, guys who are very sexually attracted seem to be only that.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 10:06 AM
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Great story
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 08:04 AM
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INTP/J
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 07:59 AM
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More angry feminist -> more good, kind, intelligent and high value guys for us. I love feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 09:05 PM
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Not sure why people say you are blaming a victim when they had things they could do to prevent their situation. You don't leave your car or home unlocked and just blame criminals for stealing your stuff. You don't walk in a bad part of town with fancy clothes on or flashing cash and then blame the criminals for mugging them. You don't go to a foreign place that is known to have tons of pick pockets and then get mad at the pick pockets because they stole your stuff. You would instead lock your ca…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 09:02 PM
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I had sex with my ex boyfriend very early. We went on 3 dates and on the fourth one had sex. The thing is, that was after a year of almost monk life (studying all day long, rarely even hanging out with friends, no dates, no orbiters or anything similar). I guess that's why it hit me so hard. I got so attached and fell in love like a fool. We ended up being together on and off for 3 years. At first he liked me a lot and chased after me, but then once I feel in love so much I started letting him p…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 07:01 PM
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Big nose quick fix - good posture. Look in the mirror and try lifting your head up and putting it down. You will see that when your head is down your nose looks much bigger. Look at this. Her nose is the main focus because of the bad hair and head slightly tilted down. I couldn't find a picture of her with her head down, but you can expect it would be even more in the focus. Now look at this. Note how her lips, especially the top one are the center of your attention. Her nose also looks much sma…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 07:32 AM
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If you're a hot girl, then I guess, you can go around talking about boring things guys don't care about and they would listen. But, nobody would ignore kind and fun person because they are ugly. Everyone likes to talk about themselves. They won't care so much if their audience is ugly or not. Let them talk and listen and people will want to see you again and spend time with you.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 06:59 AM
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Interesting fact, as the poverty in my country rises so does the percentage of women studying/working manly jobs such as any kinds of engineering (and not university teachers, engineers who spend 12 hours on the construction sites kinds of jobs), blue collar work and so on.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 04:50 AM
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I whiten my teeth with coconut oil How do you do that?
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 04:39 AM
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Yeah. This spray gives it nice volume, keeps it in check when it's windy or wet outside. It also helps it keep that shape if I put it in a ponytail later in the day (there are no breaking lines afterwards). And no, it's not sticky at all.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 01:05 PM
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I have to pull an all nighter and I love making lists, so this is going to be a long one. :D Hair care I wash my hair every 3 days (4 if I'm not going anywhere that 3rd day). I use Granier Ultra Doux with avocado oil and shea butter shampoo and mask. After that I'll spray Schwarzkopf Gliss Kur Million Gloss Express Repair Conditioner Spray. Then I usually do other stuff and let it dry naturally a little, 15-20 min (I usually do my makeup then since the heat from the blow dryer I use afterwards h…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 10:12 PM
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She's paid for what she's done and more. She was wrong to cheat, but he was stupid from the beginning. She did hurt him a lot, but I think she's worse off than him not being able to have kids. Nobody deserves that kind of punishment. I feel sorry for her more than for him.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 08:13 PM
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This is my perspective: I want to have kids some day. Teaching kids, disciplining them, raising them properly isn't an easy job. It takes a lot of self discipline, kindness, patience, understanding, objectivity. If I'm unable to "raise" myself, how can I expect to be a good mother. The kind of self improvement that's RPW all about it the perfect way to prepare for such job, IMO.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 07:57 PM
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What the poor guys over at TRP trying to hold frame and dragging women into their frame don't realize is they are digging their own graves. They'll never respect or desire for long a woman who has no frame and no life of her own. Then they just shudder, saying it's male nature to want multiple females. A truly happy relationship does not happen between a mom and her son, like feminists see it, but neither between a baby girl and her daddy. Nailed it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 05:58 AM
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That's great, nobody should feel like that. I'm glad you've overcome this.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 08:25 AM
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Being present After 4 years in engineering I've turned into a complete opposite from my former self. I used to find beauty in things, to appreciate them just because of their existence. And then, 4 years later I've realized that I've become this cold and too pragmatic and calculated person. For example, I love flowers. But, instead of buying them I saw it as a waste of money since they would die in a few days/weeks. The male energy is connected to achievement and results, while female is about b…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 07:39 AM
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This is the kind of shit that happens when people have too much money and time on their hands.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 04:47 AM
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In my experience, the difference between my and guy's SMV is in reverse proportion to the way he treated me. That is, the guys who were with the lowest SMV were the biggest jerks towards me. Negging and all that stuff. Very often, they'd start to lose respect for me as soon as I showed that I appreciate them and care. Is it because they didn't have self respect and thus concluded that I am no good since I was with them, or because they were used to chasing women so much that they lose interest w…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 06:24 AM
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What show? :D
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 05:16 AM
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My mom pretty much lives on 23h fast. She's got a few wrinkles on forehead and that's it. She's 50. Can't remember if she was sick more than 3 times since I was born. Perky and firm boobs after breastfeeding two kids. The benefits are endless.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 05:24 PM
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NEXT
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 05:21 PM
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Killing time? Having fun trying them on?
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 12:27 PM
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So if a woman has like a 100% success rate with her SMV but a 0% success rate with her MMV (for exclusivity in general, not just marriage), what would you say is lacking? You could be selling the best shoes in the world, for the best price for their value, but if someone doesn't need to buy shoes it doesn't make any difference. Maybe it's compatibility problem, maybe it's the guys you're picking...
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/17 11:59 AM
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Amazingly put, great point.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 07:20 AM
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Me too. I like how she's not fake happy all the time.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/17 10:27 AM
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Have you seen Monica Bellucci makeup? That was amazing. :D
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/17 10:27 AM
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Yes, but prior generations had a different living standard. They didn't have student debts and it was easier to survive with a job that didn't require so much skill. I think money is what's driving the rates of marriage and children so low. Peterson mentions that they aren't down for upper class, they still have children and get married like they used to, so it's definitely more about money than people's entitlement.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 03:50 PM
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people who like alcohol and pot a lot do it because they don't like reality. Trust me. I've been there. When you stop running away from your problems and using drugs to relax because you're so unhappy, you realize you don't need them anymore. Couldn't agree more. But young people usually go through a phase of trying out before they get to this conclusion.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 03:44 PM
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the question is how to solve it The gist of the problem is the fact that it requires a lot of people to make silent agreement at the same time. Like when economy collapses. Money is measure of trust and resources. The reason economy can collapse one day even though the amount of resources is the same as the day before is because the trust gets broken. Unfortunately, for economy, the way to forgive debt, which is essentially to reestablish trust, seems to be to start civil war. For a person to co…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 09:23 AM
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Meditation.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 08:50 AM
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I get it, I used to smoke it too after the finals. It really helped me relax and take a break after so much stress. But using it too much can slow the brain down, at least that's what I've observed from a lot of people who do it too often. but it really did teach me how to chill out and see the bigger picture at certain points in my life The same. When I saw how slow my brain was, but how creative the ideas I had were, I was amazed. Weed made me so much more stupid, but it also removed that voic…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 06:48 AM
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But I smoke pot everyday (last semester of College). I enjoy alcohol very much and have done my fair share of drugs. You shouldn't be doing this, not because of RPW or something else, but for yourself. If that's just a phase, then it's fine, but don't take it too far. The biggest priority should be your health. Not relationships or money. Don't take it for granted while you have it. The truth is, no matter what you have, life sucks so much when you're not healthy.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 06:07 AM
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They don't fight each other, but many do physically abuse women. Also, it's not just fighting, it's also a whole set of jobs that they are able to do because of their strength.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 06:03 AM
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Well, most of women's skills and abilities require knowledge and information. What I meant is that it's very hard to rely on physical power if you're a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/17 09:37 AM
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I don't use it for that either. Mostly when someone's down, I use it to cheer them up by complimenting on the nice things that most people wouldn't notice about them, but they would appreciate.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/17 09:36 AM
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if women are drawn to asking questions about someone else as a way to gather information about a person to built a mental file on them That's exactly why I do it. Don't know about the others. Information is the only power women have.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 06:34 PM
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I don't know what you're on and what you're trying to prove. We live in the most effiminsed age of our time over the last 60 years, and you're giving examples from said age. You do, I'm sure. But most of you are from USA, Canada, Western Europe and so on. And you are right, that's how things are there. The only thing they took from feminism where I live is that women work on top of everything else they've been doing. It's very common to have a women working 40 hours supporting family, cooking, c…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 10:06 AM
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I don't know what you're on and what you're trying to prove. We live in the most effiminsed age of our time over the last 60 years, and you're giving examples from said age. You do, I'm sure. But most of you are from USA, Canada, Western Europe and so on. And you are right, that's how things are there. The only thing they took from feminism where I live is that women work on top of everything else they've been doing. It's very common to have a women working 40 hours supporting family, cooking, c…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 10:06 AM
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Personal anecdotes count as a random sample, especially since these people are from various economical backgrounds and different levels of education. Even if I was professionally and scientifically assessing patriarchy I'd be doing it in that way, I wouldn't take all families. I'm not theorizing, I live there, I'm just telling you what I've been seeing my whole life and theorizing why that might have happened that way. all it seems your assertion amounts to is, you need feminism, just a non aggr…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 09:59 AM
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I say this as someone who's witness next: -A woman who already cared about her family (cooking, cleaning, working, was loyal etc) taking another job (carrying heavy load) to pay for her son's education while her husband was spending his days chatting up women on the internet. After the son finished school he chased her away and stayed in the house where he brought his new mistress. -A man spending money and time on hookers while his wife who's god phd is cooking, cleaning and taking care of two …
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 02:28 PM
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Patriarchal culture here, and this guy seems to have "grass is always greener on the other side mentality". I do understand his point of view, and in his position it does seem like a solution, but the thing is, it never stops at golden middle, it goes further. Say you implement everything he wants. Current beta males would be ecstatic, and things would be nice. But, in one or two generations men would start to abuse their power. When women don't have some kind of independence to provide them a s…
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 10:45 PM
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Where do you live? I need to move there. :D
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 01:52 PM
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One of the tenets on a source he read in his research said to only say I love you 2/3 the amount of time a woman says it. Nowadays, if I tell him I love him I'll get "I love." Or "love you" back. Ahahahah :D
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/17 06:03 AM
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A lot of women who had babies in the 90s didn't breastfeed because they didn't have milk because they were stressed (because of war). The one problem with that is that there's a higher change of smoking later in life (but then again, here everyone smokes). Other than that things seem fine. So, if you feel like this is keeping you from being happy you should do it, IMO.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 06:52 AM
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Fashion and beauty costs money. If men expect women to be attractive, they should expect it to come with a cost. A thousand times this.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 05:39 AM
1

Well, if you don't want to let it go, I'd use humor. Making jokes with TRP truth in them every day should reach their subconsciousness and bypass that feminism brainwashing that's occupying their brain, instead of seeming like an attack. So, after a month or so, they should reach the right conclusion by themselves. Or maybe complain about the way you look because it's so important or something like that. As long as you don't make it look like you are attacking their opinion, it should work.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 06:23 AM
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Do you really think that there's a woman out there who doesn't know that being attractive is important, that she shouldn't sleep on the first date and so on? The strategy we use on RPW is something that's in our instincts (at least with some control). In fact, I don't think that anyone who isn't a complete idiot can figure most of the stuff in their lives. Most of these things are simple and/or have been around in our culture for so long it's impossible not to know them. The reason they don't ge…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/17 07:36 AM
2

Don't get into engineering unless you like it and have to. It's a really hard field and it takes a lot of work. If you go there just because of comfortable living it's not enough. I've seen so many people who love it get depressed or stuck. Those go go because it's a nice pay and nothing more usually drop out in the first year. It will also take away a lot of your femininity. It breaks you and makes you tougher, but that also means that you will almost certainly lose a lot of the feminine energy…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/17 10:46 PM
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As long as the guy isn't extremely obese or 20 cm shorter than me I don't give a fuck about the way he looks like. For me, it's more about the way I feel with him, his smell, the way he touches me and confidence. If he can make me laugh then that's it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 11:54 PM
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I live with my parents and my mom isn't working many hours so she's usually the one doing the housework. I am also single so I don't spend time focusing on anyone. So, I do have more spare time than most people. Well, my classes are pretty randomly scheduled, sometimes from 9-11am, sometimes from 5-8 pm, and that dictates my schedule. Every day is differently organized because of this. So I'll just focus on weekly activities. I have around 10 hours of classes per week. They aren't mandatory so I…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 02:36 PM
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First of all, from your pics I can tell that your looks aren't the cause of the problem. There's place for improvement such as using makeup, doing your hair and wearing more feminine clothes. And you can always get in a better shape by working out. But, the way it is now is more than enough for you to find a guy. So I'm thinking that unless you turn into Victoria Secret Angel no changes in body/face will make a difference, because it seems to me that it has nothing to do with looks. So why is th…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/17 03:13 PM
1

I love ASMR :D
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/17 05:13 AM
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I love her videos, especially this one inspired by French style. Her instagram has beautiful pictures too. A lot of flowers and bright colors so it's lovely to look at. Some of her outfits are too revealing for my taste, at least I don't think I could pull them off without feeling too sluty, but it looks good on her. I love the fact that she's all natural but you can see that she takes good care of herself and I respect that she's done the best with what she had without the need to do plastic su…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 09:31 PM
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This whole story is so sweet and innocent. It's like you two are barely teenagers. Honestly, I don't see why you'd go and overthink and ruin it. Enjoy this. Anyways, this flirting before anything actually happens is the best part. Don't rush it or think too much, just have fun. And yes, he obviously likes you.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 06:47 AM
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BB - Beauty balm CC - Color correcting DD - Daily defense I thought BB was because it was light and it makes skin clear like baby's.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 06:36 AM
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They have different shades, I guess you should get a darker one. My mom has olive skin and it worked well. I guess you should try it before buying.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/17 04:33 PM
1

It looks like this http://www.fashionlady.in/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/foundation-brush.jpg
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/17 01:51 PM
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I used to underestimate gut feelings, thinking my conscious brain is much smarter and trusting the "facts". Honestly, so far, every time I didn't trust it I ended up fucking things up. Your gut knows if he's lying or not much better than you (subconsciously you are aware of microexpressions that are signs and so on). So if your stomach says there's something wrong it is almost certain that there is. But this case is textbook noob lying. Multiple excuses and removing the evidence. Even from that …
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 09:52 AM
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Eastern Europe has a fucked up chimera system of gender relations where women get the best of both feminism/equality AND traditionalism/patriarchy Women in my country work 8 hours, spend 2 hours in traffic jam and cook, clean, take care of children and their looks. Is that the best from both worlds? Best for men, maybe.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 08:42 AM
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Trying to say that their lives are empty simply comes from your differences in priorities in what makes life meaningful. You're right, I was wrong. Most men in my country aren't blue pill so I can't compare their goals with the ones from TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 12:42 AM
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But if you expect them to "man up" and grind through relationships solely because "it's getting sex on hard mode", you are going to find more men checking out of the dating game. No, I said the complete opposite. I expect them to get good at game to the point that it's not a challenge so it doesn't provide same satisfaction and for them to move onto bigger things in life. That is exactly what they want. There is no incentive for them to take on more responsibility in exchange for less fun. Takin…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 07:28 AM
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She's petite and has baby face, probably why she seems more innocent. She's into these new age, hippy movements, free love and all that shit (including drugs here and there). My guess is that her colorful clothes and positive attitude also contribute to her seeming like that. Most of her notches are from travelling and she seems to enjoy that. From what I see, she's not being pumped and dumped, she has fun with them and then it's over when she leaves the country. She's always in a nice mood when…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 07:23 AM
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It's not stronger, but normal people take control of most of their biological urges by the time they are adults.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 07:13 AM
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You can view that the sign of success and what people brag about at TRP is to have as much sex with as many women while giving nothing in return, marriage means less women and more responsibilities. This is what I have a problem understanding. At the same time they are saying AWALT, repeating how all women fall for the same game and brag about banging a lot of women. If it's the same principle then where's the difference between fucking 10 and 100 women? It's the same difference there is between…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 06:46 PM
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I'm honestly not sure if they're wrong... They are. The "thousand cock stare" is a myth. The most innocent looking girl I know has slept with more than 50 men. No thousand cock stare, innocent look full of love and lack of judgement. And she doesn't seem to have lost the ability to pair bond either. I do know one that has it, her n count is 1, but she's a psychopath. That stare is probably a consequence of some mental illness which very often correlates with big n count, therefore the wrong conc…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 04:15 PM
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Beautiful :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 11:25 AM
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I always offer to pay for mine, and they usually say there's no need. If I plan on seeing the guy again I'll let him pay, if I don't or I'm not sure I won't let go until he takes my money.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/17 07:14 AM
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I've started upvoting things as soon as I see "Husband of The Decade" and then proceed reading. Great post as always!
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 07:55 PM
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I don't think it has to end in disillusionment. For example, when I was a kid and started using computers they seemed like a magic, but very soon I started taking them for granted. Then I started studying about them and found them magical again, just to be disillusioned again when I learned even more. And then the cycle repeated a few more times and I'm sure it will continue to repeat. I don't find them magical anymore, but I do enjoy working on that more and more every day. The first step is no…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 08:08 PM
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Well, isn't that the same with kids? Slip a bit a few times, don't hold your frame, and you easily lose authority. But it seems like the reality can never be put to words or it stops working. That's a great insight!
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 04:02 PM
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Just because you want something doesn't mean you shouldn't charge for it (in term of money, commitment, compliments or whatever) if you can.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 04:00 PM
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No brainer - what you did wrong was hook up with a married man.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 03:08 PM
1

Hahaha, I was trying to troll actually :D
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 09:36 AM
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Sex workers are much better than regular sluts (I don't mean to use this in derogatory sense). It's better for them because they are still getting something in return, unlike CC rider who only gets heartache. If one was to replace sluts with sex workers the price of sex would actually get higher, since there wouldn't be any free sex anymore. Thus it would benefit all women. It wouldn't work if we add more sex workers though, just replace existing sluts with sex workers.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 08:33 AM
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Ok, I can't wait, this discussion is fun. :D And you have a very intelligent and critical approach, I like that a lot. :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 08:28 AM
1

I don't think this is possible. I can control my behavior, but not my emotions. I can put in the effort to knowingly manipulate my environment and my thoughts to better trigger certain emotions, but I don't think I can directly manipulate the emotions. But let's say it's possible, if I learned how to master my emotions, good luck to him trying to captain a self-made god. What does a self-made god need a captain for, and a mere mortal at that. It's possible, in fact, it's also very easy. Try it n…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 07:38 AM
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The real equivalent would be a 40 yo fat single guy bragging about being friendzoned like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:47 AM
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I see where you're coming from, and what you asking makes a lot sense and honestly, I don't think that the answer is in the sidebar. You see, the key here is that you don't need to be AWALT if you know that you are AWALT. It's not some prophecy or destiny, it's just an explanation of a woman's nature and its tendencies. But this knowledge will give you the ability to take better control of your emotions and behaviors. For example, a woman who's not aware and increases her SMV/RMV when in relatio…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 09:33 AM
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She's basically telling you to take AF/BB route.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 09:32 PM
2

My bottle is made so that you only get drops of it, so I was too lazy to try and put it on hair. But now I really want to try :) Thanks for the tip. :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 09:26 AM
2

I don't know, I haven't tried aloe vera. But castor oil is full of vitamin E.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 06:41 AM
2

It depends on the man. It could be woman's fault. But it could also be that the man was being nice and faithful because he was never in a position to be something else and this just let him do what he really wants.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 05:57 AM
2

This is why I could never date an older man. Such a weird smell. TRP is delusional about these things.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 11:34 AM
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He's cheating on you. He feels guilty and now he's trying to find flaws with you so that he can rationalize it to himself.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 11:24 AM
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His logic wasn't correct but he ended up with a true conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/17 08:54 AM
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You are young and healthy. You live in a world that provides you with food and shelter. You have the internet. You've already got a lot. If you're not happy enough it's because of the internal reasons, not because x or y. This is why more dicks won't make you more happy, after you get it it will be something else that you need.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 07:08 AM
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My go to is drawing/painting I think Freud said that art is just sublimation of high sex drive. So that could be a nice coping mechanism for her. This is a good advice, IMO.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 11:00 AM
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I heard that men will sleep with 5's and 6's and 7's easily but to date long term you have to be at least a 8...which is making me depressed because I don't know where I stand. Yes, this is what they say on TRP. From anecdotal experience usually those in bottom 10% (women or men) are that picky. The higher value ones are actually more concerned with personality, interests and so on. The guy who's bragging about not dating anyone below 8 is usually a 4 himself. I don't know why, but as the attrac…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 05:37 AM
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He sound like a good an honorable man, and you putting a bit more effort now will not go to waste. He sounds like someone who will not forget that you trusted him and won't abuse it. Having faith in your man isn't about being there when everything is roses and rainbows, it's situations like this that are a real test. The questions this lies on are- Is he a good and honorable man who will appreciate that loyalty? Is he a good captain who will make it out of this situation? The answer to both of t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 12:18 AM
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Being on top of dominance hierarchy is one of the most addictive feelings for humans. The only ones who don't try to make it to the top are the ones who have convinced themselves that they can't do it, therefore they don't want it or those who have never experienced it. It is especially true for men. Let him lead, make him feel like a king and he will start to crave the same treatment from others and become more alpha in other aspects of life. Obviously, it takes some time, it's not going to hap…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 03:39 PM
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Ahahahaha :D Good one :D
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 06:38 AM
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Well, they are all around my age (22) or a bit older, so not in their prime yet, so probably thirstier.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 06:21 AM
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You need to sell what you got to those who will value it the most. -Date older guys. Most older guys don't have the opportunity to date younger innocent girls. Your youth is more valuable for them. (Say some 35y programmer or someone like that). -Change location. If you go to a place where women are few or ugly your SMV will be bigger. -Improve your posture. When your shoulders are pulled back they will look smaller. Get to 19-20 BMI by working out and eating properly. Get a nice ass by working …
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 03:27 AM
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You are honest, and I am sorry my post made you cringe. Let people cringe. Deception is a viable and commonly used reproductive strategy among many species.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 06:03 AM
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True. I thought that saying that scares men away so I tried it a few times only to get a guy thinking about it too. I think that saying that you want something serious shows abundance mentality and confidence, kind of IDGAF vibe.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 06:24 AM
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He told me he wasn't interested in a relationship or sex with me If I got a dollar for every guy who said that and it ended up being untrue and the "friendship" turned out to be some covert contract... It's very likely that he knows you'd say no to that because he's unattractive and hopes something will happen if you spend more time together. It could be that he's just looking for a friend though. Keep seeing him and if the first one is the case you'll end up a "bitch who's been stringing him al…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 12:14 PM
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Just about to go to the hairdresser to dye it blonde from brunette (needed to change something). I'm a bit nervous about it, so this is the perfect timing. Thank you :D
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 01:46 PM
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Low confidence, clueless...
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/17 02:27 AM
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Smoking is really expensive for women. You aren't paying for cigarettes only but for all the other shit that you need to mitigate the bad consequences of doing it. It ends up costing a looooot. Reminds me of "handicap on purpose".
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 10:49 AM
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If you get a guy who has a girlfriend, you've gotten yourself a guy who isn't loyal. No need to go there.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 05:46 AM
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I'm glad you're on the right track now. In most cases people turn to this behavior because they are in pain, so my guess is that you earned those skills and shouldn't feel bad about them at all.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 05:23 AM
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Here it is :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 04:48 AM
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Oh, no. The guy who just discovered red pill is the worst option in the world. He has to go through the phase of spinning plates, having ONS and etc. Then, one day, he'll see that he feels empty and then he'll go for LTR. But now, he's a kid in a candy store who just got a lot of money.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 01:22 AM
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If a woman can get a commitment from Guy X, who has medium status and THINKS she can leave him for Guy Y and get a commitment, and does leave, and Guy Y only sleeps with her and chucks her like old trash, and Guy X and his status was about the best she could do at the time, then she loses and loses big. It's funny that this is happening. I've never seen or heard about guy waving commitment in order to get sex and then backing out. (On the other hand, women do it with sex all the time with beta o…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 06:27 AM
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For me, Bree from Desperate Housewives is a good example of dark femininity.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 06:11 AM
1

It depends. The more experienced the man, the more likely is that he's aware of what he can get and won't settle for less. There are a lot of amazing guys with great genes who settle for women far below them just because they've been thirsty all their lives.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 06:43 PM
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As Schopenhauer puts it "Women don't care about individuals, they care about the species". Hypergamy is very unfair towards an individual man, but it's what drives evolution. What's the result of hypergamy running around wild? TRP - a place where men learn how to be stronger and better. Isn't it funny how male sexual strategy is in line with what's moral and female sexual strategy is an epitome of everything immoral? What's female sexual and life strategy on steroids? It's the Lucifer's daughter…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 04:50 PM
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Is the wall only meant for a certain segment of women? Kind of. It depends on what makes up most of your value. Look at Jennifer Aniston in Friends. She was 32 in season 9. But she's funny, she has charisma and charm, a few lines didn't make any difference. Of course, had she let herself go, get really bad skin or get really fat, it would have been a problem. But with good care, the little ageing that happened, with her charm made almost no difference. For a woman with nothing but her looks, whe…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 04:25 PM
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It's not the double standard that's the problem. It's that it's impossible to have plates and women who aren't slutty. It takes two to tango. I don't understand how is that it's possible for a man who's internalized TRP principles to be angry at women for being slutty. There is the game, and if you follow the rules you get laid whoever the woman might be. Basically, every woman is a slut for a man who presents itself as a high status. It's also common knowledge here that women are mostly guided …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 09:25 PM
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Destruction of patriarchy and emergence of matriarchy that ends up being replaced by patriarchy again is just how things always went in history. On the bigger time scale, this is just a natural thing like change of seasons. A new idea is born out of the brain of many people, but only a few have the skills and influence to spread it. As the idea starts to spread it's good and beneficial for most because it's still pure and contained within a smaller group of more intelligent and idealistic people…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 08:59 PM
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I met him at some friends party and I don't know, I had this feeling we were going to be together for a long time. There was some real chemistry and we talked all night. Then a few months later we started going out and he made some joke and that's when I realized how much I like this guy. I was thinking about him all the time. We talked on FB and there was this topic that I started and he responded "I'm afraid this conversation will put me in the friendzone, and I don't want to be there". I inst…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 03:12 PM
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Second one.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/17 10:10 AM
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Honestly, you aren't looking for advice, you are looking for someone to tell you it's okay to keep this going when you know very well it will just be worse in the long run, but you already have the tingles so it's hard to terminate it. This couldn't be more clear, you don't need advice, you need to have some courage and next him.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 01:33 AM
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Nailed it :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/17 04:49 AM
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Well, you seem to have already went in the right direction when it comes to male friendships, that's great. I get it, there's this stereotype that a woman that dresses well and takes care of her makeup is doing it to account for lacks in intelligence or whatever. That's a perfect example of women's collective crab bucket mentality. You are right about makeup. I suggest you don't look at trends at all, they are very often unattractive. You should use makeup to make yourself look like ovulating, t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 05:54 PM
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I'm sure you'll find this sub amazing. It's full of good hearted and ready to help ladies, and also a few men with good intentions who contribute a lot of useful information from their perspective. This is a perfect place for all the information and support you might need on your journey of self improvement. but I would like to know how smooth this transition was for you all in other parts of your life (were friends lost in the process? Did people question you on the change in behavior?). The pr…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/17 02:17 PM
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But why aren't you texting back? It's actually very simple - women don't have balls. In many cases she'll give you your number just because she wants to avoid conflict that would come if she said no (and god knows it doesn't take much for woman to perceive something as a conflict). Giving you your number and then ignoring you just means that she didn't want to give you her number in the first place but she just didn't have the balls to be honest about it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 09:53 PM
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What about the women who have been sexually abused or raped that become hypersexual or more promiscuous than they previously were? I think that this is an example of coping mechanism where one identifies with the aggressor. I know one girl who lost her virginity to a guy, the experience was pretty much pump and dump. She mentioned many times that she has this need to act like a man, to use men for sex only. I've heard of a few more examples like this and what they seem to have in common is this …
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 05:10 PM
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Another girl... a seemingly perfect girl who has it all (from the very beginning) will come along and get that guy who I worked my ass off to earn his time and undivided attention. You are projecting your own hypergamy to men. They don't work like that. A woman goes to the mall, looks around every store, buys the thing she liked best and goes home regretting all the other stuff she didn't buy. She thinks about the things she couldn't afford, she thinks if she made the best bargain. If she was to…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 12:04 PM
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Sorry for late reply. There are two premises that I've used without explaining. First of all, one needs to remember that just because something generates certain emotions in a woman it doesn't have to mean that the reaction will be directed towards the source of emotion. I.e. a happy woman is good towards everyone, stressed women will snap at the person who's there in the wrong time regardless whether they are the cause of stress. Only anecdotal proof for this one. A woman needs to feel she's se…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 11:51 AM
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Also what I'm sort of pulling from the OP's post is if you don't have interest in a guy romantically, then cut him out of your life. Better for him, better for you. Most women I observe will not do that, but the ones that do will get less general attention but on the flip side might make mate selection stronger. ( i.e. you aren't in a situation where you can be pumped and dumped by a Chad, then get your emotional fix from a Beta male) You are forced to find a partner who can meet BOTH needs as a…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 10:55 AM
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Do you feel like crying after sex? Not crying because you're sad, but as in feeling so much emotion that you can't hold it inside? And how often does that happen for you? After sex with my boyfriend I feel so overwhelmed with love I randomly burst into cry for next few days. Is this normal?
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 03:28 AM
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If I have sex with a man on the third date That's the thing. Could you really have sex after third date if you didn't get attention and security from somewhere else? You could, but that man would have to be damn awesome.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/17 10:43 PM
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I don't think that a woman can have sex with a man that she barely knows without wasting emotional energy.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/17 10:41 PM
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How can I get it into my head to walk into the kitchen, cook a meal from start to finish, and like it enough to do it for my man for my lifetime? Put an apron with a pocket, put your phone there, play some music that you love on the headphones. Sing/dance and cook/iron/wash the dishes or whatever else. You can organize yourself so that you do these things after something that requires mental effort (after studying/reading). This way it's a break for your brain. I am essentially a little ashamed …
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 10:41 PM
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I hope you will resolve what's been bothering you and become the person you want to be. I wish you luck. :) Some of the books I read that were interesting and provided with good information are "How to Win Friends and Influence People", "Body Language", psychology textbooks, "48 Laws of Power", "Alchemy of Finance", "Art of War", "How Goldman Sachs Came to Rule the World", "50th Law of Power" ... I also suggest books/lectures/articles on the art of negotiation, selling, investing, psychology, ec…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/16 07:58 PM
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-Agree and amplify/humor. -Ignore their remarks completely. -Be polite and respectful as if they were saying something nice. Not sarcasm though, actually being nice.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/16 06:43 PM
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Yeah, having some social contacts before moving will make your life much easier. The possibility of seeming too good to be true hadn't crossed my mind, I appreciate that you brought it up. My count is pretty low (I think): 3; but I have no idea how to make men believe it -- especially once I'm older. :/ I don't think it's men you're dating that you should worry about. It's their girl friends who might be banking on them as their backup plans.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/16 06:41 PM
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Sure, let me explain. First of all, you don't need to cry in front of others all the time. When you're angry, take a break, go to the toilet or wherever and vent by crying. Crying is how we women deal with emotions and it's much easier and healthier for you to let it out through tears than through aggression and anger. There is no need to be ashamed of it, especially if done in privacy. It might be hard for you at first, but trust me, getting angry just suppresses the negative feelings. Dealing …
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 01:18 PM
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So how do y'all handle stress and anger like a lady? Simple. Cry. This way you seem vulnerable and helpless which are the things that give women power. Your boyfriend did something that upset you? Don't nag or yell, just cry. It will work in almost every case, as opposed to being dominant. Of course, I do not recommend this in the workplace (although, vulnerability (sad look, for example) will probably take you further than dominance, especially in male dominated environment). Another way to dea…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 03:25 AM
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Don't be so hard on yourself. Bad habits are hard to break. Listen, sleeping with men too early is a sign that you have some problems you are suppressing. It's usually a symptom of other things and that's why men call such women damaged goods. You need to fix the illness not just eliminate the symptoms. I'm not going to give you though love, just love, because you obviously need it. That's why you're jumping into bed too early. We are all damaged goods, in one way or the other. We get fucked up …
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 02:26 AM
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This is interesting, I have the same idea as a back-up plan. I'm guessing that your SMV will be way higher in, for example, US than it is in Brazil. So, it makes perfect sense for you to move somewhere else, especially if it's a place that lacks good looking and conservative women since your value will be bigger. I don't know about Asia, but I'm guessing it's similar there too since you have the advantage of being exotic. Honestly, since you are due to spend 2 years in Brazil might as well date,…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/16 01:50 AM
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Being nice while sending a vibe that you aren't going to give blowjobs is might be the problem. Or being nice in a "nice guy" sense - covert contract. I'm not saying that's what you do, maybe you just appear like that. But being genuinely nice is the biggest turn on for men. The hunt is "over" when a man gets sex, not when you give him your number or talk to them nicely. In the end, 80% of guys have a problem getting laid, even if it seems easy they'll take it.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 10:55 PM
1

It's definitely innate. The first thing that comes to my mind when I see a beta is "How can I use him?" "What's the minimum amount of time I can spend on him without him losing interest?" "How should I act around him so that he doesn't try anything (because when he does I have to say no so he can realize what's happening) so that he feels nothing's happening because of him, not me?" Honestly, it's like an impulse to eat food when I see it. By the time I realize my own thoughts I've already made …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 09:59 AM
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My wife made me feel like a failure, my MIL made me feel like God's gift to humanity. She believed in me even when I didn't believe in myself. Ultimately, that prevented me from failure. It worked. This cannot be stressed enough. 15 years ago my dad lost his job, we ended up broke with no apartment living with my grandmother off her pension (around 30 euros/20 dollars per month). We were broke because my dad took all of the savings to found his firm. There were days when we didn't have money to …
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/16 12:30 PM
1

I think that's because we get model of love from our parents. Like School of Life says we don't want a perfect person who will make us happy, we want a person who will make us miserable in the same way our parents did.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 11:11 AM
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Because she has a college degree from a good college, is from a higher class family, is pretty, has a really good personality and character, and is striving to get back in shape... she was doing a lot of drugs... I don't want to be mean, but the good things about her are not very important when it comes to SMV/RMV. You say she's striving to get back in shape, if she's overweight no college degree or family heritage is going to compensate for it. The fact that she did drugs is also a red flag for…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 06:11 PM
1

she can do a lot better than him Why do you think this?
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 04:42 PM
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I'm glad you found it helpful. :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 04:14 PM
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Your motives might not be the most noble ones but what you're doing could actually be a nice gesture if done properly. I don't suggest you go there, but if you really can't help it you could spin it around so that it's not that bad. Chanell that behavior so that you do it when his girlfriend is around. It should be subtle enough for her to notice him but not him. This way he won't get any crazy ideas she won't have anything to point out and destroy your relationship, but it will instal some drea…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 04:10 PM
2

Ok, let's see how things are from a man's perspective. Marrying for the first time: It could be that he's aware of the laws that are not in his favor or not. He might just be doing it because that's what you do. He might be doing it because he wants kids. He believes his wife won't change after the marriage. Marrying for the second time (when he already has kids): He's probably been burned by the law. He surely knows very well that it doesn't work in his favor. He isn't doing it because he wants…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 12:33 PM
1

Serbia
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/16 10:51 AM
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There are too many factors involved in all that for you to be making such simplifications. High n count is hard to isolate, it usually goes hand in hand with one or more of the following - poor impulse control, drinking, drugs, marrying in their 30s (which means the person has spent 10 years focusing on themselves only, in many cases nurturing their selfishness), mental disorder, abuse, conformism, lack of self awareness, no long term thinking, no confidence, lack of parental love and so on... A…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/16 08:09 PM
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You said you won't add sex to the list so I'm not sure if this can be added or not, but may I suggest streeptease? Anyways, great idea to make such list. It would be awesome to have all these "tricks" in one place.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/16 02:08 PM
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This is a good example of "Look what people do, not what they say". The fact is that many of those Instagram "models" who used to be hookers (even had men poop on them) with dozens of plastic surgeries end up getting married to attractive and rich guys. Even between a human toilet who's 9/10 and has n count -> inf and a girl who's low n count, kind but is 5/10 looks end up being more important in many cases. Obviously an extreme example, but an interesting way to show how much men are ready to l…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/16 12:40 PM
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In part, yes, it is. But I think that would apply more in aspects such as work, hobbies and having respect from others. Seeing people for what they give to you is a bit objectifying, even more when it's only in that light. Very often, the reason we don't get something from others is because we didn't ask for it. For example, if you're dressed like a lady, have class, feminine gestures and posture, almost every guy will instinctively open the door for you. So, it's not that there aren't gentlemen…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/16 12:21 PM
1

Try to look at meditation as a way to let go and run away from things that bother you, not some chore you need to do. That might help with implementation. Good luck with everything. :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/16 12:00 PM
3

For the last year I've been tracking, among other things, my PMS. For the 6 months that I didn't have sex I had barely any signs of it. On the other hand, the more sex we had, more likely was I to get into a fight with my boyfriend. It's like my body was raging every two days before period because it was angry it didn't get pregnant. It's really fucked up. Woman's reptilian brain knows when she has sex, and it knows if she's pregnant. So what is it to think when she's been having sex for 15 year…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 09:35 AM
2

Obviously nobody did the statistics, but that's roughly how numbers are (I am not including women older than 30 though). For example, in my high school (take it as a random sample), out of 1000 students there was only one fat girl. Every other girl was skinny or maxing at no more than 5kg over their ideal weight. Also, the average height is around 167cm so when it comes to bodies almost every girl is at least decent looking. Schools have mandatory PE classes where kids do sports and most of them…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 03:47 PM
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Being able to turn herself into a alpha widow is what's wrong with modern women. It's based on the fact that some other man can give more of something than the current one. In the root of it is what can be taken from the man. Alpha widowing is a natural consequence of much bigger problem - selfishness and expectations that are too big. If a woman focuses on what she's giving this shouldn't happen. A woman shouldn't be sitting around and thinking about the things her husband lacks, she should foc…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 10:47 AM
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Like /u/pewpsprinkler says he lost interest because the sex was bad. Also, having sex as a tool to force intimacy/closeness is counter productive, don't do that anymore. It should be the other way around, a cherry on top of an ice cream. I understand that you feel bad, especially since most guys in the west seem to have lost all signs of masculinity, as an alpha who was interested in a commitment, he does seem like a rare kind. But that's not a reason to worry, you don't need to find a perfect g…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/16 02:23 AM
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Enjoy? Well, of course. Something like when you give your friend a present and it's been a book that's been on their list for 6 months but they couldn't get enough money to buy it. You know, I'm giving something special to someone I love and that makes them happy, what's not to enjoy there? As far as the activity only is concerned, without the intimacy that it carries that's stated above, that is enjoying for selfish reasons, then no. Btw, I get that you have a kick from "destroying" it. I have …
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 10:10 PM
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Are you on the pill? If you are it's quite possible that it's causing you to be so moody. In that case ditch the pill. This will also help with the break up since women have different preferences when on and off hormonal contraception, and if you liked him while on pill you won't be so attracted without it. If not, skip this step. You should start meditating. Starting today. This will help with anxiety and stress. It will also help you survive the break up (in case it happens). It will also help…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 09:19 AM
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Every man I know drank a lot when he reached the years to be able to buy the alcohol. It's a new thing for them and they tend to go a bit far. In time, most of them will drop such behavior. At 21, he's practically still a kid who can now get a new toy. It could be just that.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 08:58 AM
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Approaching a man is not a good idea, it's a very fertile ground for spinning of the hamster. We woman need to feel desired and men like to conquer things. Taking the initiative leaves you in a position in which you are very likely to wonder if he really liked you or was it that you were there and so on. It also ruins the chase for him and in most cases it would make him value you less (people are very prone to assign worth to things based on their "price", not their objective value). I think yo…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 11:31 PM
1

manhandle her, spank her, pull her hair, fuck her face. The stronger and tougher a facade she puts up, the more she craves it. The goal of feminism is subjugating betas and getting pounded by alphas, never forget that. If all guys made a deal not to fuck feminist like that they'd be gone in a matter of months.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 08:01 AM
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Thank you :) All the best to you too :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 02:06 PM
1

I live in patriarchal culture, men have a lot of power here and tend to abuse it, for women here manipulation is the only way to offset that. Before you know it, the man of any good quality will leave you as soon as you reach 30 (that's with cooking, cleaning, taking care of appearance and everything) just because he can. Women abusing power in the west is what gave rise to TRP's amoral strategy. Men abusing power in my country is what gives rise to women being good at manipulation.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 01:18 PM
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Good job on improving yourself, especially on working out regularly and losing weight, since that seems to be the hardest one for most people. :) And good luck with new goals. :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 03:59 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xF_E3VrtRCQ There are a lot of exercises. Some of Victoria's Secret Angels are using her program and they say it's amazing. And she's so graceful and feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 03:25 PM
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Some of these are already habit that I want to keep (regular) , some are in the process of becoming habits (italic) and some are new ones (bold). Some are things I want to do. Also, from experience I end up doing 80% of planned so I tend to shoot higher so that when I miss it's still good. Spirituality, overall well-being, hobbies Meditate every day for 30 min. Don't argue with people on the internet. Before reacting to anything someone said/did think about their perspective. Make Christmas pres…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 12:32 PM
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Why do we need women for nowadays? Uhm, being a mother of your children?
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 11:35 AM
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1) Agree. That's up to a person doing the manipulation, they should weigh the goods and bads. Assuming they are doing the manipulation means they know the person's traits and human nature well enough so that the decision is informed and gives accurate prediction. Again, it's a tool. 2)Kid doesn't know right from wrong. Ok, this is very interesting. When a person starts going to the gym they might have in mind the long term consequences and benefits, they might think about the future and all that…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 12:15 PM
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BB - a provider, marriage material. A man with whom she's keeping her reason and self control. AF- a guy who gets to sleep with the girl earlier than usual because she's feeling some kind of animal attraction towards him. Someone who makes her lose her head and not think about anything else but present. Girls want to get commitment from this guy, so they'll play by the rules, they'll wait for sex. If there's a girl who isn't a slut, but can't help herself around him, sleeps with him too soon he …
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 09:30 AM
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Be his safe space. Not another battle front where he has to keep his guard up - which will happen if he even gets a whiff of behaviour like that. The key is to make him feel like you like that awkward high school boy, but you do acknowledge and respect his accomplishments. It's the same thing, you just made it sound much better.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 09:13 AM
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I keep telling him about how insecure I am and he keeps having to reassure me (problem two), which he does very nicely - but I know he's sick of hearing about my concerns. My best friend was in a relationship with a girl who was way out of his league. She was an 8, and he was a 2. At first he thought he didn't have a chance. Thought she was one of the most beautiful girls. Once they started the relationship she started talking about her flaws. She was complaining that she had too much fat on her…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 10:08 PM
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Insecurities are similar in their nature to fantasies. Insecurities and fantasies are very connected. Most fantasies are based on some kind of liberation from insecurities. Feelling that there is something missing in order to reach some ideal (whether material or emotional) is what produces wishes. I don't see why that has to be necessarily bad or disrespectful. In the given example, treating BB as AF doesn't have to be evil at all. It could just be about fulfilling someone's fantasy. Just to ma…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 09:50 PM
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My advice is partially based on observing people in my environment, but partially from TRP field reports. I bet they can see bullshit a mile away. Not. TRP isn't some hidden truth, it's there staring at everyone, but most people still don't get it. People love to believe in fantasies, and they'd rather stay there than face the harsh truth. Give them bullshit that they want to believe and the reason will go out of the window. I don't think it's necessarily evil. Manipulation doesn't have to be ev…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 08:36 PM
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Is my comment immoral? Yes, I agree. But it did answer her question. I don't advise her to go there, not just because it's immoral towards the guy, but also because she would end up unhappy in a relationship that's based on that. But that's not what she was asking. She was asking how to get a guy who's like that. I gave her the information. If she going to use it for good or bad, that's her choice.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 11:10 AM
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Actually in many cases they are one of the easiest men to get commitment from and most naive ones. Type to aim for Those had low SMV when they were young and used it as motivation, or worked their ass of for decades and didn't focus much on dating. These guys are easy to manipulate. But they tend to be a bit awkward or too beta. But some of them might be hidden gems if you let them open a bit. The thing to note is that most women around them want their money and these women use different strateg…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 09:17 AM
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Yeah, he did say that when they were about to have sex and then she asked him if he was going to leave that girl and he said "Lol, no, I'm getting married, I just wanted closure with you".
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 06:41 AM
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I assumed it was that fat chick. That's why she was climbing alone, because the other girl needed more time to catch her up. Or maybe it was her boyfriend. I don't know.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 10:46 AM
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Actually, How to Be Single is TRP movie. She goes to ride the CC only to see that she ends up being cumster for most men. Her ex boyfriend ends up marrying the girl and she ends up alone.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 07:52 AM
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I love him so much... I like him as a person too. When we started seeing each other he was a bit chubby, had an eating disorder, played video games all day and was failing in school. I was finishing my first year of university and because of it I was in a monk mode before I met him. Now he's got a 6 pack, he's much more mature, he doesn't play video games, he's got a job and about to get his degree, and he's working on achieving his dreams. I'm about to get a job and get my degree... It's that w…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 07:57 PM
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I did ask and he said something along the lines "Women can be so annoying I think they deserve a bit of discipline here and there". And I made some baffled face and he just smiled in a way "I expected that reaction" and went on to get ready for work. I broke it off a few times because he would stood me up and I was having 14 courses over the year in engineering so I couldn't tolerate that, because I already had very little spare time and felt that he should respect me allocating time for him mor…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 09:34 AM
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You are also ignoring the approach OP wants to take. Good point. But if she's so into saying it as it is why is she posting here? She's either looking for a green light t lie, or, more likely, she's looking for someone to tell her that she will find someone who will love her and marry her even though her N count is a bit bigger. Yse, she can find someone who won't mind it, there are such guys, but in most cases they are betas who won't have the balls to say they mind it too. Is that the type of …
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/16 06:42 AM
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If this subreddit was as "moral" as TRP we'd be having posts such as "How to keep him orbiting", "1000 cock stare and how to hide it", "Ways to make yourself look like a victim", "He found out the child isn't his, what now?", "How to effectively branch swing so that you can get him back if you want to" and so on.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 08:11 PM
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Part of TRP knowledge is that women are very manipulative and good liars in their nature. In fact, they are very often able to hamster things only sociopaths would be able to do. It's in woman's nature to manipulate and pretend. Look at little girls - they usually play some kind of acting and role playing. Play is a way to prepare for real life. If girls have this instinctive need to play these games, maybe it's because these skills are useful in life. Of course she can pull it off. Women do it …
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 06:25 PM
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Do reformed betas tell their girlfriends what loser betas they used to be? No. Reformed sluts, however, are expected to be 100% honest about their past. Good point.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 06:12 PM
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I understand you. It's the same case with me. My interests and school (engineering) always made me end up having more guy friends. Focusing heels, make up and all that stuff is truly mind numbing and does feel shallow and empty when I need to spend so much time on it. But these things are way more functional than it seems at first. Looking good, as a woman, gives so much power, that the cost of maintaining it is far smaller than the benefits. For example, heels. Sure, I might not be able to spri…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 07:27 AM
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People downvoting this, meanwhile just a few weeks ago some guy posted about using TRP knowledge to fuck virgins/low count young girls and then leave them broken after that. He's going around living his revenge porn with girls who've done nothing wrong with him. And this is just one in many examples. Why is that they are using TRP knowledge with dark triad outlook and when someone gives advice here to a girl to lie everyone downvotes? I think you have a good point. The truth is that no decent gu…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/16 07:13 AM
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I suggest you read The Manipulated Man. It's on TRP sidebar. Society wasn't organized in a way that it was oppressing women, there are good reasons to believe those traditional values are just a big scam and manipulation women made. You are completely right, slut shaming is helping women the most, not men. And yes, it's hard to keep a man when there's free sex all around. But then again, most women these days lack other skills, such as cooking, cleaning, nurturing, being feminine. Most are glued…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/16 05:36 PM
1

I live in a country that is regularly on the list as having one of the most beautiful women in the world. Trust me, it's the girls who are settling. Even fat, blat and short guys want a girl who's thin, but with good ass and boobs and a nice face.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/16 08:15 AM
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I'm wondering if your parents were perfectionists who put a lot of pressure on you? Oh, yeah... I got first place in math competition but I had 90/100 and my dad started talking about the fact that I lost those 10 points. Then an aunt who'd measure my waist every time i saw her and make fun of me if it was bigger than 65cm, or saying I was ugly because I was pale. If I do 99% of the things right, most of my family will focus on that 1% I did wrong and make me feel like they were disappointed in …
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/16 08:07 AM
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You are right, everything you said is true.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/16 07:59 AM
1

I know it's a job, but it's not like I would go WGTOW for any kind of job.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/16 07:56 AM
1

I don't have a problem putting the effort. I like to make the best of everything I have and I think happiness lies in doing your best, whatever you do. It's just that the nature of the male-female relationship is putting the pressure on the looks and that's causing me to feel too self conscious and insecure about it. Honestly, I wouldn't be feeling like this if I were neglecting it. This whole caring about the looks feels so shallow. It makes me feel empty. It's not that I want permission to gai…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/16 07:38 PM
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No brainer really. Dump him.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/16 05:17 AM
1

Well if there are children involved I would put their needs first. I would never let them grow up without a father figure present.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/16 05:12 AM
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Pro marriage. Would sign a prenup. But I would love to take half of his shit if he cheated on me, was violent or left me after hitting the wall (assuming I didn't do anything wrong, for example getting fat or if I was too bitchy and naggy).
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/16 07:32 AM
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This is the similar thing my dad has been telling me. You learn up until you're in your late twenties. Then in thirties you gather experience and process the knowledge. In forties you make money out of what you've learned and experienced and create your legacy. By learning he doesn't just mean intellectual work but also nurturing self-discipline and improving yourself. It's sad to see so many people wasting away those years on their phones or getting drunk/using drugs. I have a friend who's in t…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 07:15 AM
1

Yeah, I don't eat anything that day. But I eat very little anyways so it's not really a shock for my body since my metabolism is already slow.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 06:59 AM
1

Me neither, but I doubt I could go back to that after this boyfriend (hopefully I won't have to). He turned me into possible alpha widow when it comes to sex.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 03:42 PM
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Requirements: -Good health. -Taller than me (I'm 5'7'' and wear heels a lot so that already reduces the pool significantly). -Has principles and integrity. He's a good person (to those who deserve it). -Fucks me like he's some animal. Very dominant in bed. -Smart. -Similar education level. -Wants to lead. -Wants to have a family. Preferable but not required: -Gentleman. -Likes to read and discuss things such as philosophy, politics, science. -Athletic. -Romantic. -Studies or works in some kind o…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 07:25 AM
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Honestly, reading TRP for the first time I had similar feeling. But then I kept digging deeper and honestly, I find it very optimistic for women. For example, I was always afraid that my boyfriend/husband would change me as soon as the better model comes out. No, that was my own hypergamy and solipsism. Men don't work like that. If he has something great with you he's less likely (than you think) to ruin it because something shiny caught his eyes. If you give him enough sex, make good food and d…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/16 09:02 PM
2

Being vulnerable with my boyfriend. We've been together for almost three years and I always kept my frame (as I was the man). Not very affectionate, being bitchy and argumentative when telling about the problems. For example, he is a bit irresponsible when it comes to time management so he tends to be late about telling me when we're meeting or he's too flexible with plans. I get it, he needs 5 min to get ready and doesn't find it problematic that up until 5 we don't know if we're meeting at 6 o…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/16 06:14 PM
2

My boyfriend's parents are divorced and he's red pill as it gets. Then again, there are guys who are pathetic betas who grew up in normal families. Sometimes, losing your frame in front of the kid to stay in a "normal" family is worse than keeping your masculinity at the price of divorce. I think that divorce fucks up children because most men lose their authority and respect from mother during that time and I believe that that's what essentially fucks them up - lack of strong manly figure, not …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 05:44 PM
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I still remember my first day of high school. There were so many beautiful girls getting into my class. One of them was blonde with blue eyes, tall, athletic. Other girl, tall, long reddish hair and amazing legs and ass, then some petite girl with small waist, big boobs and butt and one of the most beautiful faces and hair I've seen. And then, there was this fourth girl. She was pretty, cute, tall, very skinny but she didn't really catch my eye as being anything extraordinary. One month into the…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/16 04:34 AM
2

If you got nothing to eat, then fucking eat something idiot. No bread? Why don't they eat cake?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 10:08 AM
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Why aren't women honest? Women have all these options like some girls I know are talking to 5 guys at a time why him move along and find another woman who might or might not say yes. Yes, that's what you see. But woman sees that she has a very limited time to actually find a good man. If you had money that was losing value each day and wanted to invest wouldn't you do the same? See all possible investments so you could make the best possible decision as soon as possible (because in a year that m…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/16 05:46 AM
3

Well, I'm from Serbia (between Eastern and Southern Europe). All we got from feminism is that women are a part of the work force, not as many privileges nor that much promiscuity. It's normal for a woman to try to maintain her looks, work, take care of children, not cheat or divorce and take care of her husband. This is all doable because we maintain good connections with our families (not a lot of moving away) so we get help from our mothers. As you see it's a different culture, so it's probabl…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/16 05:14 AM
1

What the fuck, dude? When you're not intruding into stranger's personal space (on purpose, subway or bus is a different thing if it's crowded) or trying to grab her ass or whatever you aren't being a creeper and no woman has a right to call you that. Fucking entitled bitches with zero empathy. I was riding a bus once and some guy (I wasn't attracted to) was staring at me and eventually came and introduced himself. He was shy and insecure and if I were a basic bitch I'd say it was creepy. But bec…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/16 04:01 AM
1

But when you do things you aren't supposed to with someone it makes you feel closer to that person and there's a lot of material there for inside jokes. Why do you think those two don't go together?
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/16 01:33 AM
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When people feel that they aren't free (due to obligations at work, for example) they tend to do stupid shit that they aren't supposed to do just to get the sense of feeling free. I think this is also a good part of what motivates women to go for assholes. They know very well that they aren't supposed to be with them so doing it anyways makes them feel like they have more choice and freedom.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/16 01:03 AM
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Well, of course, it doesn't apply every time. I wouldn't say this to a woman who's, for example, suffering from abuse. Of course, you shouldn't just jump into things without thinking about the choice, but after you made it you should trust yourself and commit to it and not jump the ship on the first sign of something not being great all the time. Like I said, seeing things how they are with reasonable expectations.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/16 11:30 AM
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That's great, just reading about you being so content and happy made me feel better too. :) Thank you for sharing this. :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/16 05:56 AM
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Yes, in fact I believe that hypergamy is just one example of more general thinking that women tend to have, which is always wanting more and better and implicitly assuming that there is some point in spacetime where happiness lies. As an electronics student it's impossible not to see that everything in life and nature is pretty much zero sum game. Increase speed of the circuit, but you'll end up with higher power dissipating. Remove the second problem and something else comes up. If everything w…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/16 11:48 AM
1

n-count Yes. Also it's an integer so it further makes sense for it to be called n.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/16 12:49 PM
3

First of all, good job on being so hard working and still trying to find ways to improve. That's awesome! :) What I found to be great is ballet for adults. Since you already go to the gym, maybe you could use some of that time for ballet or other kind of dance. And it's okay since you are just exchanging physical activities.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/16 01:48 AM
1

And he would be all over her if she was fat and lazy? Unconditionally?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 01:45 AM
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After she's been fucking him and loyal when he was fat he should divorce her now. And then go and bitch about women not wanting to be there for the journey.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:42 PM
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Guys don't like acting on 'principle' unless everyone else is playing by the rules. The rules have been changed. Marriage was always a prisoner dilemma. By making the responsible party suffer consequences staying loyal and working on the relationship was the Nash equilibrium. With no fault divorce deflecting instead of cooperating is Nash equilibrium. And you can't solve this problem by asking everyone to play nice and cooperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 06:03 PM
1

Agree. Women cheating physically is much worse since they are the gatekeepers of sex and in most cases "emotional" cheating that they do is having a guy orbiting but not really caring. The same reasoning applies for men. If they emotionally cheat, that is give their commitment to someone else it's much worse than having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 05:55 PM
1

I'm not married but I'm in a LTR (almost 3 years) and my desire to have sex is going down. My boyfriend is real alpha and the sex is always great, but one thing changed. Before, we'd lie down and he'd look at my body with desire, he'd give me compliments and admire it. Now, these things don't happen very often, he's starting to take it for granted. I see that he's attracted to me and all, but there's not that novelty about me anymore and it's not the same. It just makes me feel unattractive, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/16 02:22 PM
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She was married young, after coming from an extremely restrictive and religious upbringing and just feels she's never had the chance to grow or pursue anything of her own. She knows SHE'S the problem. As a single mom she'll have even less time to do things for herself. It makes no sense. That is, of course, if pursuit of more isn't euphemism for pursuit of more dicks. In that case she'll have some fun for a few more years and then get even more depressed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/16 03:11 PM
2

Most of the women complaining about "being objectified" don't get catcalled or "objectified" as much. They are fighting against it because they don't like that other women are getting that attention.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 08:49 AM
0

It's not just about that. I think a woman should be man's emotional tampon (probably why betas who are taking up that role are so unattractive), a healer. I am there to suck up all the negative energy and heal him. He's supposed to spill all his shit on me (not literally) and feel better after seeing me. Sometimes it's emotional stuff and I will listen. With rough sex it's about him letting out his frustrations and anger out by being aggressive towards me. With blowjobs it's about him letting go…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 04:00 AM
1

Just yesterday a friend recommended languages of love. Definitely need to read it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/16 06:31 AM
1

Most women who open up their relationships typically do so when they are tied to beta males, not top tier men. A woman who feels like she is losing her partner will be LESS inclined to allow her partner to roam freely (that is completely unlike a woman) And this is exactly why I gave my example. To show that these assumptions don't hold every time. Idk, maybe I'm wrong, but I just can't make sense of a woman being okay with her partner fucking other girls unless she's doing the same or using it …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 09:12 AM
1

The example I've given was to show that sometimes it's not hypergamy even though it seems. I'm speculating intentions based on her saying "A deal is a deal" and not being very mad about it. First option: Hypergamy is the reason she did it and then she accepted that deal was a deal and that it was fine. In this case it means she was hurt but managed to see things objectively. Second option: She did it to get commitment and what happened was what she wanted in the first place. She's not actually r…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 06:18 AM
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She's not married, so she might not think of it as having the commitment. If a girl wanted more commitment, she would NOT be trying to test her partner by "opening up the relationship". There would be much more effective methods, and she knows this. To paraphrase Will Smith "Women have advantage over men because men are limited by their need to be rational". That's why you don't get it.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 11:23 AM
2

It saddens me to hear that young girls are going around wearing T-shirts and shorts. You will never be able to rock a nice dress as when you're young. As time goes by you will probably have less and less time to care about yourself. It's sad not to use up that potential that youth gives.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/16 10:10 AM
2

It's not the same, but it's the similar kind of manipulation. It was to show you that it's not always as trivial as "she wants more dicks". Well, she didn't lose him, did she? Not only that, he accepted to close the relationship again. She let him chose her, showed loyalty and got him to feel guilty.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 03:58 PM
1

I broke up with my boyfriend a few times not to branch swing or fuck other guys (didn't do any of that just to be clear because intentions don't necessarily mean actions). I did it because he never had LTR before me and I felt that he would appreciate my product more if he were able to see quality versus cost when it comes to other products. He tested and saw that I was giving the best deal so he came back every time. That's manipulative indeed, but it's much better to let him choose me over and…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 03:49 PM
1

She doesn't need an open relationship to secure branch swinging. She can just cheat if that's what she wants. In the end, she was the one proposing, wouldn't she secure some AF before proposing the deal if that was what she wanted? Women don't care about new dicks as much as they care about commitment. This guy has been withholding it for 8 years. He's been waving the carrot in front of her for 8 years. There is probably nothing else she cares about than getting that carrot.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 03:11 PM
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That was her shit test. She opened the relationship to either not use it and show how faithful she is in hopes of getting marriage proposal, or/and to test if he's going to do something. She said "deal is a deal". Also the words she used "There was no one she found worth fucking". There is no way she'd be that rational about it if she was really hurt. Her reaction seems calculated which makes me think she got exactly what she wanted - made herself seem loyal and made him feel guilty at the same …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 02:43 PM
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If a man seems hesitant to go monogamous, how do you ladies handle it? Make sure you outcompete any other girls who would consider him. Be the best looking version of yourself, be there for him, be feminine, be smart and intelligent, be kind and positive, know how to cook, clean etc... Make sure that what you offer has more value than the work he needs to put in to get another girl and what he gets from it. Novelty is one thing you won't be able to provide like other girls, but everything else i…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/16 06:03 AM
0

Any noob can fix a bug given enough time. Knowing why the bug happened turns it into a 2 min job. Answering the why is what enables us to get the most optimal solutions to how and to know when we got all we could. Solving the problem by only looking at the results and comparing them to those you already have, which is what happens when you don't care about the why, isn't the fastest method nor can it guarantee the best possible solution. To put it this way - how gets you the local maximum of the…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 05:34 AM
1

God, that first paragraph, it's like you've been watching everything. I don't know what to do. I want children and can't really afford being in a dead end relationship, I am 22 at the end. On the other, I love him so much and just can't leave him. I can't even keep beta orbiters or back up plans because it feels wrong. I know the reason for his behavior is the fact that he's a single child and that he has a mother who's acting the way she does and I can't blame him... I can't say that I am not a…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/16 07:11 AM
1

Just few days ago one of my "friends" used me as a doormat again. I was PMS and with that got really pissed off. My boyfriend stood me up too and I went full retard on him. Sent 3 angry texts, started crying and apologized 5 min later. My way of dealing is to see how things really are. In case of stooding me up, it's because I was so happy and excited to see him and I was sad and disappointed and hurt because I missed him. Usually I apologize just minutes after snapping and when we see each othe…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/16 01:00 AM
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Wet and paper tissues, book which I'm currently reading, lipbalm, wallet, rubber band, gum, earphones, phone, and keys. Depending on situation I'll have lipstick, deodorant, pads/tampons, notebooks/pens, hand cream, gloves, sweater or something similar in case it gets cold. When going out I usually wear my small purse. If I'm going to classes I'll wear bigger purse. Both are black so they go nice with everything (I don't like switching bags because it usually ends with me forgetting something). …
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/16 12:33 AM
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Post this on TRP
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/16 05:43 AM
4

Hey there, I know exactly how that feels. In fact I was in same position when I was a bit younger. Been with this guy for a year and a half. Lost my virginity to him and gave him everything. He had my FB password, he would look at my phone, he knew all my actions and friends. He cheated on me with some fat girl. He was lying about it for a few months and then finally admitted and started crying. I forgave him. Some few months later he fails first year of engineering. College here is founded by s…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/16 11:45 AM
3

No party can replace that feeling of "getting it". You know, you don't understand it and then something clicks in your brain, or you figure out what was the bug after hours of checking it out, or finding some hack that reduces solution to almost a trivial one. That feeling is better than anything else. For me at least.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 04:36 PM
1

In the end life is just about exchanging one type of problems for other ones as time goes by. There's never that reaching of some happy place when everything is perfect. Even if the problems get smaller, they start to matter more so it ends up being the same. There's no point in expecting some better days to be happy.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 04:15 PM
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I think it's more that all that gossip ends up giving them leverage over each one so none can afford to say anything. The gossip thing though, I guess it's adaptation. They do it instinctively and my guess is that that's what's creating some kind of hierarchy and keeps them in respective positions.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 06:18 AM
1

There's a picture in the study link, you can see if it applied to your environment.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 03:13 PM
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Added.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 03:12 PM
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There's a picture in the linked study, you can see the difference.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 03:12 PM
6

I'm from Europe, a country where you kiss people on the cheek three times when you greet them. People kiss a lot here.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 02:17 PM
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Cause she's my mom. What's weird about having your mom kiss you on the cheek?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 12:32 PM
1

He does and they probably did, but doing it in secret in small communities isn't very easy.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 06:18 AM
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So, if my mom kisses me on the cheek I'm getting my dad's penis there by association. Fuck you, mom.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 06:15 AM
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Most "nice guys" hide behind that mask when in reality they aren't really nice, they just lack the balls to have any conflict. What a surprise, women aren't attracted to men with no balls.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 06:12 AM
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I think that a lot of these qualities are already present in women, it's that they are brainwashed into thinking that they need to hide them. Femininity is constantly connected to stupidity and naivety. Women listen to stories about men being pigs and don't allow themselves to really care because of that.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 10:05 AM
1

Specialization, that is division of labor, seems to be connected to higher intelligence and life complexity. The differences between men and women being more prominent would be connected to progress, the so called equality is a evolutionary step back. That's why it's always going to fail.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 08:54 AM
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A matriarchy is the human default setting. Matriarchy is only valuable strategy when there's abundance of resources. Human child isn't able to survive on its own until it's 14-15 years old. When there's abundance it's not very costly to raise it. It's like west right now, mother can leave the child on the computer, food is cheap, schools do the teaching. She has no incentive to find a decent man who will stick. When there isn't such abundance she cannot afford to have a baby and not have the guy…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 07:30 AM
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People lived in small communities and it was known if a woman was married or not. Also men had more tribal mindset. So, even though AWALT, women had very little chance to show that because if she was married other men respected that she was a property of someone else and didn't try anything. Honestly, treating women like property had a lot of sense. When you look at them they act like objects - ending up with the highest bidder. The only way to control that is to have that object turn into your …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 06:58 AM
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Yeah, in most cases that's true. But there's a possibility that she wouldn't go further than texting/flirting. He should test that somehow.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 06:01 PM
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Best case scenario : she was flirting but never thought about doing anything and nothing would have happened. She just did it to feed her ego, probably because she felt you didn't appreciate her enough. Even in this case you are playing with fire. The real question is what she'd do if, for some reason you're busy or whatever and can't give her the attention that she needs. Will she do more to validate her ego or not? You can test this. If she doesn't, then don't worry about the messages. It's no…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 01:52 PM
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A woman wants an alpha, but if you're giving that vibe because you're just an asshole or learned it from TRP she's gonna be disgusted because you fooled her. It's the same reaction you'd have if you fucked a 9 and woke up to see that without makeup and everything else she's a 5.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 01:41 PM
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Yup, a man has the potential to significantly raise his SMV and be in that top percent fucking most women. These men are the ones benefiting. And what's most staggering is that it was the men, the men who would privilege from this, who wanted to stop feminism because they knew it would make women unhappy. Talk about men being pigs...
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 06:09 PM
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The only misogynist thing in western world is the feminism itself. Trying to prove that women are equal to men by turning them into men is the biggest insult to woman's true nature. It's like they said fish is just as good as the rabbit and put the fish in the grass field to prove it. And they are blaming the rabbits and the environment because the fish isn't able to survive. Woman's strength comes from kindness and love, not from being competitive and aggressive. Using these as their source of …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 07:46 AM
2

There is nothing more beautiful and worth admiration and respect than a good person when it's a choice that came from position of strength.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 07:05 AM
1

Actually yeah, I was wrong, in the west it has turned into forms of actions.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 04:02 PM
1

Why are you so adamant to accept that some women don't want to settle or commit? Women put negligible work compared to men when it comes to relationship, in fact being a plate is usually more effort for worse outcome than a relationship. A woman who prefers being a plate to having the same man commit to her is like someone choosing to invest 5 dollars to earn 10 as opposed to investing 1 and earning 50.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 12:56 PM
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I don't think that it's about letting people walk over you and just pretending it's fine. If you can do something about the thing bothering you you do it. Complaining and whining aren't actions.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 12:19 PM
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Divide and conquer, and what a nice way to do that by using gender. Women's behavior has started a "war" against men and now they have to fight back by using them for sex or being on their own. And the war is going to end when women realize they've lost, which based on their need to hamster isn't likely to happen until shit hits the fan.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 12:10 PM
1

Now I wish I was fixing her computer so that when she asks what's wrong I could say "I don't know what it feels like to be a computer so I can't say anything".
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 07:43 AM
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It's genetic and there is nothing I can do. Yeah, meanwhile stupid physics says that perpetual motion machine of the first kind doesn't exist.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 12:44 AM
2

True and very well put. I couldn't agree more with that part about introspection. People tend to see themselves as special individuals, but the truth is that we are all have similar machines with very similar inputs and by seeing how you react to certain situations can actually help you learn a lot about others too. You can test a lot of theories by using yourself as a guinea pig.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 09:12 AM
3

I don't think I've formulated that well, I meant that seeing truth about the world goes hand in hand with estimating ones actions too. For example, a woman with high count is not very likely to see TRP principles. Because seeing that would make her face her own doings, which would hurt the ego a lot. Someone who's goes to college and spends 4 years studying and is now in debt isn't very likely to objectively see the value of that degree - realizing that in most cases it's worthless would be pain…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 07:48 AM
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It's very hard to find the truth when there aren't morals. When one wants to look at the world objectively they will have to face themselves too. That's where the problem happens. The more garbage there is in one's mind the harder it is to look inside objectively. There will be a lot of guilt, anger, mistakes, responsibilities not taken, people hurt for no reason and it's painful to face that. That's why a normal human (who feels guilty and instinctively knows what's right and wrong) should try …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 09:39 PM
1

What happens if there's poop on his dick (happened to one of my friends)? What if it hurts too much and now I have to do it because "Men can't go back sexually".
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 09:31 AM
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I've never had anal sex and I'm afraid, especially since he has a huge one. Don't tell me I'm not trying, because you don't have enough information to claim that.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 09:21 AM
1

I thought that this was normal and expected. Reading this sub showed me just how much I should respect her for doing all that.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 08:44 AM
1

"Well fuck you then"? What's up with that?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 08:42 AM
1

Thanks, the ice idea is definitely something I'll try. About anal sex... How important is that? I see that he wants to do it, but I don't want to give it and then see it doesn't work and take it of the table.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 08:12 PM
1

He's true alpha. He does what he wants with me. He won't ask, he will just what he wants unless I stop him. But it makes me wonder what about me being more dominant in bed? He never pushes for that and I don't know if it's because of my lack of experience or because he's dominant as one can be. The thing is, I don't think he will tell me if it's the first so I wouldn't feel bad.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 08:08 PM
0

"Suck your titties?" That works? You mean it doesn't look fake? Anything else?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 07:07 PM
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I think it is, although I know of only one example. Some 15 years ago my dad lost his job and our apartment was destroyed. My mom wasn't getting paid at her job either (this was just after the war was over). My father took all of our saving and used it to found his firm. For 5 years he would work for 15 hours a day, very often not getting paid for it (and the system sucks so it's even costlier to sue someone over that). My brother and I got sick and we didn't have the money to go to the doctors.…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 03:55 PM
1

Been looking for some sex advice on RPW about sex but there isn't much. It would be awesome if some of you guys could post some advice on how to please a man.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 03:31 PM
1

Way too much emphasis is on making people feel comfortable, not allowing your body to do what it needs to. This has infected everyday life This. So many problems disappear once you accept that being anxious/uncomfortable/stressed and other negative feelings are normal part of life just like happiness and comfort and stop fearing them so much. So many long term problems come from this need to avoid all feeling of discomfort.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 05:25 AM
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it is of course open to debate if the women in the past truly had our interests at heart when they nurtured us. I think not. They nurtured us because it was in their interest to do so, for the system was so aligned. Make your man happy, and you live comfortably was the mantra. How about the reason being that making life easier for person you care about and love makes you happy?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 06:10 PM
0

"Unearned dopamine spikes slowly but surely lead to depression." Been thinking the same for a while. Is there some study about this?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 11:11 AM
12

I met a guy once who though that women were this perfect amazing beings (even though his ex was a bitch). I tried to warn him that that's not what things are like but he wouldn't accept. Even though I liked him I didn't want to get into all that, once he started mentioning how depressed he got because he thought I was mad since I didn't respond to his text (I was studying). It was too scary. I just imagined what would happen if we were to be together for a year or two and then break up for some …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 09:31 PM
2

When it comes to yoga Yoga with Adriene channel on Youtube is awesome. There is a 30 day challenge playlist which is a great way to start.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 06:09 PM
1

After reading Dawkins' Selfish Gene I couldn't help but notice that mating rituals in animal kingdom are almost the same as those in humans. Used the same approach, game theory and evolution to see if it can be explained. Suddenly everything made sense. After a while returned to the topic and started doing more research and stumbled upon TRP. Spent two weeks just reading it and sleeping. I was fascinated how much they developed everything. Loved that it also provided with a lot of real life exam…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 12:14 PM
1

Some girls are unable to understand that some guys will never commit, and keep on waiting or blaming him of being a D. He is not, it is obvious he just doesn't want to commit/marry/etc. Then if you choose to put your head into the sand, it's your choice, not his fault. Yeah, to the point that they make a 6 season show based on women hamstering that. :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 09:58 AM
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You're right. A few intelligent people come up with ideas. Once people start following in greater numbers it's going to turn into rituals, mindless following of ideas, arguing about irrelevant things, misinterpretation and so on. And the gist gets lost in the noise. Very few people can find meaning in following the truth and virtue, most need something external, whether that's law, other people, or form of religion that creates internal motivation. If you look at the basic ideas underlying most …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 06:41 AM
1

Yeah, they don't care when they're in the club, and they will be more attracted and more likely to give you their number. But they also don't like competition and they think that they are special snowflakes. Anyways, this is easy to test. Try it a few times and if the flake percentage comes down then it's to show these aren't independent. If they don't then I was wrong.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 02:30 AM
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I agree with approaching more girls, but don't do that in the same place. Every time a woman sees you approaching and leaving after a while (doesn't matter if you got the number or not) she will assume you were rejected. So when you approach her she will see you as low SMV because she thinks that others rejected you and/or she will be pissed off that she was fifth in the queue. You can be a fucking Bred Pitt, but if she sees you going around trying something and then coming to her she will proba…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 09:58 AM
1

What do you mean by gaming back?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 07:08 PM
4

Have the same experience with nerds. The bit about passive aggressive behavior seems to be spot on. The percentage of bad people in my school seems to be much bigger than in general population.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 05:01 PM
1

Do you really have nothing better to do than to write long post about trigger warnings? And you think other people should waste money and time in order to pussify this world even more? Half of the world is starving and you want to waste money because people lack even the tinniest amounts of self control? Disability service? Why because some fat feminist won't read about consequences of having 200 kg?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/16 10:26 PM
2

Your premise is wrong. You're implicitly assuming that if a person is helpful it's because they are kind. It could be that someone is kind and empathetic , but that's not the only possible motivation. To be able to help someone means that you are in a more powerful position than they are. Helping a person could be a way to show that you have power over them, to have them owe you or just virtue signaling. "Also in this modern day, times are a change, and some women earn more money than their husb…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 09:24 AM
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Betas make women's pussies dry. But betas pretending to be alphas, that'll make them so dry to the point it's about to turn into dust. Keep that in mind.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 09:10 PM
1

I don't think that's what's his post is about. I think that he's very well aware of what he needs to do but doesn't have the balls to take action and posted that so that others can hamster for him.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 08:52 PM
3

I think getting a math or engineering degree is the best option, even when one isn't very interested in the field. They teach abstract thinking, pattern recognition, self discipline, problem solving, creativity and critical thinking. These skills make it easier to move onto something else if you feel like it and are appreciated in almost every work environment. In short, they provide great thinking tools.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 11:37 AM
2

I honestly doubt that any man who's smart would be able to maintain a relationship with a girl who's stupid, and vice versa. I agree with that. Looks probably aren't sufficient, but they are the needed condition. Like I said above, these were dates, not relationships, it doesn't really say much about anything that's long term. When it comes to first impression it's all about the looks, they are a pass to show that you have a brain. But brain alone, not sufficient.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 06:06 PM
3

So she basically said that sex is the only commodity that poor helpless women use in order to get something from men. So she concludes that solutions is for girls to give that commodity for even lower price. That's some fine logic...
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 11:23 AM
3

My mom always hold her feminine frame. My parents are very happy together (almost 30 years). All this time and I've never seen her with hair on places it shouldn't be, if I didn't know any better I'd honestly think she doesn't poop. She wakes up at 5.30 am to put on make up and brush her teeth. Of course, she also cooks great food and listens and lets him chose what they watch on TV (so it's not just the keep of feminine frame that's making things work). Just to show that there is really somethi…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 04:24 AM
2

"Attraction is ultimately a narrative; both men and women latch onto aspects of the other which they like, and their imagination fills in the gaps. Men, maybe impressed with the visual, see things that aren't there at all, while women take what they see and multiply it." This is so fucking true. "The loss of attraction is an intrusion of reality. The amount of raw, hard reality which a person can tolerate varies, but the intrusion of reality is a sure way to ultimately kill attraction." Never lo…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 04:09 AM
2

I doubt that sunsets, winter and other things make you angry. You accept them because that's just how things are. Once you accept women for who they are you won't get mad because that's just the shit women do.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 03:58 AM
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"Men often think that if they give of themselves this one time, then there will come a point where they will be rewarded for their selflessness and get what they deserve." Yeah, energy conservation illusion. Unfortunately, in most cases some other guy picks up fruits of that work.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 03:47 AM
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Reminds me of this question I've seen on Quora "What makes you special?". Most answers were rationalizations, mental illnesses and plain bullshit. Some guy wrote "That I don't think I'm special".
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 03:20 AM
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Could you share some things you figured out? Sounds interesting
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 03:14 AM
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Yup, it's true. Great blog post, too. Three years ago I decided to do an experiment. Went on a date with every guy who asked. It's obviously not a real study but it gave me some insight. 5/10 dates I would mention my interests, what I study and so on. 5/10 dates I pretended to be utterly stupid. Conclusion 1: It didn't matter. Me wearing a dress or not was a better prediction of how much the guy would like me, than the amount of brain I showed. It doesn't add value. Conclusion 2: If a white knig…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 02:00 AM
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It means exactly that, be yourself. You're a man. Being yourself means being a man.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 11:55 AM
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Oh, I'm sorry for breaking the rules, thanks for pointing it out. I said it because I thought it would show that I've been able to observe from the inside, but come to think about it, it's just a speculation anyways so it's kind of pointless to add it.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 09:59 PM
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That's a very good question. I don't know enough about cultures around the world to provide any somewhat objective response. I don't honestly think that some egalitarian society is possible, in fact any society in which there is any kind of equality. As soon as something like that emerges it tends to drive one way or the other. It puts people in a position in which everyone is using the same strategy. The more people use a given strategy the easier it gets to exploit it. Let me compare mating in…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 06:09 PM
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http://www.danas.rs/danasrs/ekonomija/_ne_daju_im_da_idu_u_toalet_teraju_ih_da_nose_pelene.4.html?news_id=319688 This article is by one of the most respected newspaper here. They are one of the few independent and objective ones. You can use Google Translate to make sense of it. The thing is that they hire poor people. Men here aren't that submissive and feminine, and they don't want to put up with these things. They expect everything that you guys expect from women, but unlike most here, they d…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 05:27 PM
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Serbia. These things happen in small towns. In Belgrade it's a different story.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 05:19 PM
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Actually that's what foreign companies do in my country. Most of the workers are women (but they work on the lowest positions). The women work 10-12 hours a day. They wear adult diapers because they aren't allowed to leave for bathroom break. Almost all of them have children. They use the fact that they need to do whatever it takes to support them so they make them work in these inhumane conditions because the women have no other option but to put up with that. My friend's mother was carrying he…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 10:36 AM
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I agree that smile is natural reaction to joy, but I don't think joy is something that is very objective (except in few cases where dopamine is produced due to biological reasons). Well, the example you've given is hard to isolate. It could be the music in the cartoon or other things indicating that something sad has happened. It could be empathy too. I guess you are right that is something intrinsic. But I still think most of them are learned behaviors. For example, some of my friends grew up w…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 11:39 PM
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Realizing that almost all emotions are just learned reactions really changed my life. Copying is fine, as long as you are aware of what you're doing and why.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 09:51 PM
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Now, I was only talking about various degrees in colleges. However, I suspect STEM requires a much higher IQ, may be even 125 or 130. You can assume any base point IQ above 110 and do the calculations for yourself again. You will only end up with a higher proportion of males. http://www.randalolson.com/2014/06/25/average-iq-of-students-by-college-major-and-gender-ratio/ You are right, it is around 120 or more.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 09:26 AM
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Same thing happens when you amplify some signal. Say you have 1V and put it through amplifier that will increase it 10 times. You don't end up with 10V right away. It's going to oscillate at first (google impulse response for picture) - 15V ->6V->13V-> ... ->10V. It's the same, you can't make a big change and expect that that's it. It doesn't really have a lot to do with what how big of a change it is. Of course you're going to backslide, what's important is to keep trying. Maybe at first you'll…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 04:29 PM
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You do not need to abstain from all audio visual entertainment, or any other forms of pleasure, you just need to make sure you have it under control. Yes, there is some critical point at which it turns into addiction, but is that something you will notice as it's happening or when you're already in shit?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 08:33 AM
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I'm amazed how some people work/study and play video games. One or two games and immediately everything else is just too boring.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 08:28 AM
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Agree with this. I think that Pink Floyd - High Hopes talks about this idea. It seems that, when you're a child you have life figured out the most, as we age and go through different systems we seem to turn away more and more from all that. Recently read some book on ethics and stumbled upon idea of "child's moral". It says how stupid or unfair ideas are very easily sold to adults, it's the children who will say something like "But that doesn't make sense" and challenge the illogical stuff in co…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 09:05 PM
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There was some Hackathon a few months ago. Asked my friend if he wanted to go. Turns out another guy from his uni wanted to participate too (let's call him Mark). We assemble the team. This girl that has Mark on leash (does her homework, listens to her bitching etc) says that she wanted to participate. Mark says there's no any places left and mentions who's going. And she says "I can't believe you got yourself another girl". She actually didn't have a problem with guys taking places, but with me…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 08:11 PM
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Honestly, I am not blaming professors or anyone who has a bias. In fact, I will start with similar default assumptions. (Just using Bayesian rule :D) It's the women who are making shit for dinner, and in the end it's the women who have to eat it. Feminist hypocrisy is what annoys me - don't make movements, just stop making shit.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 07:53 PM
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I actually wanted to study math, but I live in a country where it would be next to impossible to find a job with it. It's pretty much pick between some kind of engineering or welfare. Actually, this year I decided to do the project by myself. The girl who was supposed to work on it with me ended up working with some guy. Completely ignored him. After he finished everything she called and tried using the pussy pass. He actually let it, but in the end she didn't even know basic things so it was ob…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/16 07:49 PM
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A yoga teacher who 1. Believes that there is fixed identity that cannot be changed. 2. Preaches how one should always want more. 3. Sees being a good person/partner as a business, a favor that needs to be returned. The irony is just too much to take.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 07:34 AM
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There is so much productivity, fight procrastination, fitness and diet advice, relationship advice and other bullshit out there and people are still earning money by repeating the same shit over and over again. Not to mention the that the internet is full of these questions. It's not quantum physics goddammit. Then I realized that people like to read that stuff over and over again because it's the perfect kind of procrastination - it feels like action and work at the same time so it takes more a…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 03:13 PM
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This. I'm sick of people bitching about being good and then getting nothing in return. "Life's not fair". If you did a good thing and expected something in return it's a contract, and you're stupid for making it with people who don't respect it and should play your cards as if you were doing business.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 05:36 PM
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"This is a conflict only when the individuals in a couple have differing relationship goals." I agree with this. Good point, the strategies work perfectly well when both parties are in fact interested in relationship. The problem lies in the fact that any intelligent and experienced men would probably end up not wanting a relationship in this kind of situation. And why would he? The chances of getting normal and functioning marriage that will last and justify his investment are minimal. Let's sa…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 05:58 PM
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Most of women's blogs are their hamsters working hard. -Bunch of blogs of women saying how happy they are because they choose not to have kids, rationalizing focusing on a career, their divorces, and single motherhood. -I have yet to see a blog/book of a woman justifying getting married, caring for her children and so on. The conclusion is pretty clear. Before feminism: Man works, woman takes care of the family. This leaves her enough time to do hobbies, charity work, read and anything else she …
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 11:55 AM
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I will definitely try this! Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/16 11:03 AM
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In my opinion, a good RPW relationship is when we help our SO's go further in life than they would without us. Absolutely, the type of men RPW have are already going to succeed. But we are the ones who help them go as far as they can dream. I've always had these dreams, about being there and supporting my partner but I could never actually share them with anyone. I love this place. Thank you, the women here are amazing.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/16 08:28 AM
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Fucking Slavs protected Europe from Muslims throughout history. Slavs fought and eventually kicked them out of Europe.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 10:58 AM
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Kosovo is current Europe situation in micro scale. Look how that turned out.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 10:46 AM
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I am sorry but you are clueless. Just like there are many guys who think that commitment will chase women off, many women, too, think that commitment will chase guys off. That panic in her eyes was fear of losing you as a result of proposing commitment, therefore the "W-well...I don't want to label things or-" . Look at actions, not words, isn't that what you guys say?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 09:57 AM
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This. This is exactly what happened in Kosovo. They've opened the borders in the 70s and they started moving in and having bunch of kids while Serbians were having 1 or 2. Then US gave them a lot of money that they used to buy houses for insane prices. The few Serbs that were left were selling their ruins and they'd move to other parts of Serbia and use that money to buy a nice new house and never work a day in their life. Then the war started and it was ridiculous to defend a territory where Se…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 09:34 AM
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Meant to leave similar comment. Times gone by always seem prettier because we tend to forget the ugly things. First year of university was hell on Earth, but looking at it now it now it seems wonderful. Yes, sitting in my room for days working on problems and getting frustrated and angry at least 3 times a day looks like good old times that I'd go back to if I could. Even though, objectively, I am much happier now.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 08:35 AM
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My mother is the true red pill woman. She's a professor (teaching French), she's skinny, she knows how to do make up, cooks every day delicious food, high pitched voice, very religious (my dad is the only person she's been with), supportive and knows how to listen, cleans the house every day, has feminine body language, she's extremely kind and positive person. And I mean kind and positive in a way that you see monks are, it's just shinning on everyone and makes people better and happy. Not to m…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 06:03 PM
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I agree with everything you said. I was just point out that even by the measurements of those people I wouldn't have wasted my life. Even if sacrificing a decade of work to care for the kids would make me miserable I would still have better results (based on their narrative of good results). The happiness that comes from loving someone so much and making them happy and everything else is a big bonus that makes me happy. Bottom line, I'll end up happier (so I haven't wasted my life based on true …
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 12:54 PM
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"You're wasting your life" argument. Actually, when you sum everything up it's pretty obvious that you actually aren't. Obviously, I have wish to contribute and create things. Let's say the amount of good work, good things I create, people I help during my lifetime without kids is x. If I chose to have kids, the amount of work I'll do is probably x/3. But let's say it's much smaller, let's say it's 0.1x. At first it seems I did less than I wanted. But if I have kids and devote time and effort to…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 12:24 PM
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This is a lovely reply. :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 12:11 PM
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It feels so good to have a place where I can share this. I feel like feminists would eat me alive if I were to admit something like that. So much for respecting freedom of choice that they say they support.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/16 02:09 PM
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I was actually talking to a friend a couple of months ago. I don't know if you noticed, but many students today have problems with depression and similar psychological problems. I have a hypothesis that the reason for all that could be the fact that today's society doesn't generally "allow" for people to start having kids before mid/late twenties. I believe that suppression of those biological needs for so long could frustration that appears in different forms. Note that I don't think that that'…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/16 02:08 PM
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It's too young, I agree. That's why I was freaking out. I still need to finish graduate studies and get a job before I can even go into something like that.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/16 08:30 AM
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I've always loved mathematics so I've chosen programming because it's a job with flexible hours and a lot of it can be done from home. The only reason I want a good job is to be able to take care of the family. My mom and dad have been together for almost 30 years, and during that time my dad was out of job or doing jobs that he wasn't getting payed for. She stayed with him through all that, and the only reason we were able to make it during that time was because of her. I am amazed by how uncon…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/16 08:28 AM
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Although many posts and comments state that feminism is there to eliminate beta males, I think one should seriously consider the possibility of feminism being a way for women to destroy their competition. One of their most repeated points is that there isn't enough women in engineering. So what did all their crying and screaming do? If I were to give a job to a woman or a man I'd chose a man, even if he has less knowledge/experience, because I don't want to be in a situation where I'd be call ch…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 11:52 PM
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