Feeling slightly lost. Seeking some advice or even what you've done to your personal life to be where you're at currently.

GuitarHero07 · 2016-11-24T12:17:08+00:00

As they say, reading is like borrowing someone else's brain. While reading TRP is useful, there are some books you must read. Here are some TRP essentials:

48 Laws of Power...a great primer on timeless red pill wisdom
MJ DeMarco's Millionaire Fastlane....this is the red pill of money
No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Glover...excellent breakdown of the psychology of "nice guys."
Gorilla Mindset by Mike Cernovich....excellent book on mindset
The Power of Now (Eckhart Tolle)....how to be present
The Power of Habit (Charles Duhigg)....it's easy to say "give up bad habits," but this book will give you a real insight into habit formation and modification
Get Serious by Dr. Brett Osborne....A complete red pill guide on exercise, nutrition and supplements by a neurosurgeon (take a look at his pictures and you know he's for real)
The Slight Edge by Jeff Jeff Olson....a really inspiring book about how small changes can produce big results

Don't just read these books once. Keep referring back to them and really internalize them.

Capt-n · 2016-11-24T10:33:58+00:00

I stopped giving a shit and started doing the things that REALLY matter. Bloody hard to break bad habits but possible. Stopped fapping, stopped porn, stopped TV shows, stopped hanging out with losers etc. Started working out, working hard, studying, reading quality books, putting myself outside of comfort zone etc. Started Applying Myself. Scary shit that.

Pomandres · 2016-11-24T11:26:13+00:00

Follow your dreams. Start a twitch channel. Stream anytime you are relaxing, distracting yourself with video games. Now you are making an income while you are not at the gym nor at work. Have fun with it. Grow the channel however large you wish. Make few commitments to your followers, continue to commit to yourself. After this little experiment you may come to find you have learned something about yourself and of life as a man. When you are satisfied with what you have built, re-orientate your goals.

throwawayurbuns · 2016-11-24T11:49:13+00:00

Hardest thing is finding good male friends with high SMV. Especially post college.

High SMV guys don't tend to do classes or any of the other stuff people suggest.

I'm still working on that one.

incolours · 2016-11-24T10:44:28+00:00

While I am sure this belongs on Asktrp, I'll bite as its a good change of pace from self-promoting blogs and philosophical circlejerkery.

About Me

I'm 23. I have a college diploma in business management. I am the fastest ascending employee in my company's history going from employee to manager in under 6 months. I work in a field I love and I'm planning on going back to university on the side very soon, I'm planning to hit 80-90k by 25 because I love money more than anything else in this entire world.

The change

You need to start running your life like a business. and running a business is a 24 hour a day job. Rule 1: If you aren't growing, you're dying. You need to be making moves. You need a plan. You need a clear vision as to why you wake up everyday. Are there days where I'm burned out, Hell yeah. But being true to your vision is what will snap you back in line.

My Vision

I am the first one in my family to graduate college, first one to be the manager of anything. I have watched my family struggle as employees their whole lives. I want to be the first one to own a business and I want to be the one 100 years from now when my great-grandkids wonder why they have what they have it all traces back to me. My vision is that my family will be slaves to nobody.

Your Challenge

The problem is you aren't asking yourself enough questions. Why 70k? is that going to make you happy? why not 60? why not 80? what does it fix? why would twitch streaming make you happy? do you need 70k to enjoy twitch streaming?

Pick up a pen, start writing. What's your vision?

levaclypeum · 2016-11-24T12:04:38+00:00

To put it simply, I try to build confidence and minimize anxiety. This means getting out of my head, breaking addictions, accomplishing goals, sleeping 8 hours a day, working out hard and eating healthy food. This helps me maintain that masculine state of mind that makes the world feel open, fun and conquerable instead of lonely and chaotic. There's no doubt in your mind, you just naturally know what to do. "Fuck yeah, let's talk to some girls." "Fuck yeah, let's try this streaming thing." "Fuck yeah, let's do X". Find that state, learn to maintain it and go with the flow.

Lsegundo · 2016-11-24T23:56:37+00:00

You need to ask yourself what pays $70k and how do you get there. Are you willing to work your current job plus a side gig, such as bartending, to make $70k?

You set a goal. Now you have to plan a route to get there. Welcome to TRP.

Title	Feeling slightly lost. Seeking some advice or even what you've done to your personal life to be where you're at currently.
Author	Flushinxkittens
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Date	November 24, 2016 9:52 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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About Me

The change

My Vision

Your Challenge