The real useless men are exactly the kind of men modern women want- dumb, immoral and unable to maintain and a long term relationships.

So, what you call natural selection at work is reverse natural selection in which worst men get to reproduce. Stupid and immoral scum gets to do that but sane, decent, moral and intelligent men like me don’t. This happened in many declining cultures across history and is stopped when such cultures are destroyed. Get it? Those men you call losers are actually the ones who aren’t losers and those you like are losers. The fact these losers get to reproduce is a disaster, and not a show of any success - all of their progeny will die once this culture collapses because they will be scum who will be put away with. Read - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fisherian_runaway - This is what men who are currently evolutionary successful really are. No good morons who get women by seduction. These men aren't alphas. They are omegas.

Also, what I’m saying is connected to feminism. In a society where government provides for women they no longer need providers. Hence seduction and those who thrive on it - omegas. In successful societies omegas were seen as scum of the earth and the only women who mated with them were scum themselves. The thing is, that female scum included a tiny minority of women. In feminist societies 99 percent of women are scum so omegas thrive.