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[–]Clauderoughly 58 points59 points60 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah this is just feminists trying to take over geek culture and all it's subcultures because they feel they have to control every space where any number of males gather.
All that will happen is that they will strange the space, and men (and non feminist women) will wander off and create a new space.
Then the feminists will invade that too. Circle of life n all that.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Why are there any feminists involved in Steampunk? Play by their rules.
Accuse them of engaging in 'troubling' fantasies of classism and white privilege (they're always Lords and Ladies in Steampunk, never coal miners); colonialism and racist exoticism (Egypt, Africa and Asia as places of adventure, danger and mystery); exploitation of children by industrialisation; lack of concern for the needy; and valuing a pre-suffragette patriarchal society built around obedience to a privileged monarchy instead of a fair 'everybody-gets-a-vote' democracy.
Then report their thoughtcrime trangression to their local university's women's group.
EDIT: Oh shit, I was joking, but I did a google search and they're already saying this kind of crap on tumblr.
[–]icallmyselfmonster 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You could extrapolate that innovation is escape from the matriarchy. Eventually leading to artificial wombs, transhumanism and all that jazz.
[–]Endorsed ContributorDenswend[S] 22 points23 points24 points 12 years ago* (30 children) | Copy Link
For those of you unaware what Steampunk is, it's a subculture which glorifies and seeks to emulate Victorian era and uses steam machine themed accessories to do so. It's a neat little niche subculture made by MEN which is, like every other thing, being invaded by feminists. I'll give you short excerpts from the article :
Often when people are accused of violating another’s boundaries they react out of anger. This is not helpful to either you, the event or the person whose consent you violated. We will not tolerate victim blaming, shaming, witch hunts, or retaliation. Each of these can, in and of itself, result in you being banned from our events. We are not going to identify your accuser or accusers to you. DO NOT ASK. We understand that this seems unfair and is frustrating from your perspective. However, anonymity is a cornerstone of safety for all involved .
Often when people are accused of violating another’s boundaries they react out of anger. This is not helpful to either you, the event or the person whose consent you violated. We will not tolerate victim blaming, shaming, witch hunts, or retaliation. Each of these can, in and of itself, result in you being banned from our events.
We are not going to identify your accuser or accusers to you. DO NOT ASK. We understand that this seems unfair and is frustrating from your perspective. However, anonymity is a cornerstone of safety for all involved .
Now let me give you a rundown of what can very easily happen :
This is justification. Now for the witch hunt :
First accept that you’ve been accused of violating someone else’s boundaries, no matter how severely.
This means that in order to stay on the con, you must ADMIT you harassed someone.
Should we find that you more likely than not intentionally violated another’s consent, taken actions that run counter to the goals of consent culture, egregiously or repeatedly harassed people we will without hesitation revoke your admission to the event without refund. We reserve the right to refuse you future admissions for any length of time to any of our events.
This means that if you harassed someone, you WILL get kicked out without refunding.
The thought process is * We accuse you * If you are accused, you may not defend yourself * If you do, you're guilty because otherwise you wouldn't defend yourself, and your defense is actually victim shaming * If you don't, you're guilty by default
Does this remind you of any particular religious persecution? I've found that these things are getting more and more extreme in hobbies associated with nerds/betas - anime, steampunk, video games,etc. But not in hobbies associated with alphas - car culture, gym culture, etc. Frankly, this scares me because this is a sign of ambition.
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[–]c00kme -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Of course, because hobbies with a huge influx of weak males tend to be more manipulable.
Oh, just fucking, wow!
It had to happen ! Splitting hobbies into alpha and beta, strong or weak...
I am into steampunk because of its creativity, I honestly do not give a signle fuck about women in steampunk.
The guidelines in OP's post we can all agree are ridiculous and vague.
Dont generalize people into certain hobbies as alpha or beta; that in itself is giving too much of a fuck.
[–]TheSKSpecial 19 points20 points21 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
To be fair, steampunk isn't exactly a hobby that fills women with tingles. Not disrespecting it, it looks pretty damn cool, actually. But it is filled with men who in any other circumstance would be considered beta/omega. These women see this. They know the type of guy (not you personally, just in general) that devotes his time to it is susceptible to shaming language and white-knighting. Like many other "geek" hobbies (LARP, gaming, cosplay, etc) it's a space filled with guys who have never been successful with women (not trying to insult them, just stating facts). So when a woman decides that she wants to be "one of the guys", she wants to change shit to fit her, instead of changing herself to fit it. And since it's a chance for these guys to become "acceptable" to her, they'll break their necks to accommodate her.
This is what you're seeing here.
[–]c00kme 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Alright fair enough.
[–]Endorsed ContributorDenswend[S] 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well, you can run around it all you want, but some hobbies tend to attract more manipulable males. I honestly love Steampunk and video games, and it's just atrocious what the feminism is doing to them. But fuck, you can't blame a starved wolf for devouring a person. Men are those who are guilty by drooling over a pair of tits and bending backwards for their wishes.
Besides, dieselpunk is where it's at.
[–]c00kme 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ok, then I guess I can agree with you here. The steampunk or gaming or geek communities are so starved for female attention they easily cave.
This is not how I roll however; and I just dont like people to generalize and assume we are all fat neckbeards begging for pussy.
PS: you made me google Dieselpunk
[–]Endorsed ContributorDenswend[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's a sad thing but true. I live in a country where these niche interests are not so widespread, but if I find someone who shares it with me, it's either a pussy starved beta or a woman. I find it absolutely ironic that most of those who genuinely shared my interests were women.
I simply can't fathom why would someone actually crave female attention and bend backwards for it.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I've found that these things are getting more and more extreme in hobbies associated with nerds/betas But not in hobbies associated with alphas -gym culture
I've found that these things are getting more and more extreme in hobbies associated with nerds/betas
But not in hobbies associated with alphas -gym culture
Guess you haven't heard about Planet "Fitness"
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Good god, Man. Any place that serves mega carbs on the first Monday and second Tuesday of the month needs to dry up and blow away.
Good luck getting a treadmill in January, but no problems after April.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I have to wonder if maybe there's some Dormitory Effect sync going on there, too.
[–]Ferelden 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think it is a good business model for planet fitness. They are advertising for the fatty who doesn't want to be "shamed" by fit bodies and likes rewarding herself with pizza after 5 minutes on the cycle.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
Bah, Steampunk geeks are just another form of technology worshiping hipster. I think this is hilarious and will watch gleefully from the sidelines as the feminists impale them with a clockwork strap-on.
[–]TheSKSpecial 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Holy fuck, "clockwork strap-on" has my sides hurting.
[–]c00kme 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Because drooling over the latest protein supplements or the gimmicks in the latest Audi is any better ?
[–]JohnPeel 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To be fair Audi's are pretty nice.
I'd rather have a Bentley though.
[+][deleted] -6 points-5 points-4 points 12 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
I'm sorry you must have me confused with someone who gives a shit about your stereotypes of other men. I don't care about expensive cars or protein supplements. Though I do work out to keep fit, like any sane human being who wishes to be attractive to the opposite sex would do. What I don't do is glom on to some bullshit made up world. Steampunk is fascinating, it's like the hipsters couldn't get enough of today's over hyped techno-geekery so they had to go back into the past and up-tech that time period too. But whatever... do what makes you happy. I just reserve the right to laugh uproariously at it.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
you are very concerned about feeling superior to other people, and about showing your sense of superiority it by putting other people down. you might want to watch that. it's immature.
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ah the amateur psychologists have appeared as they so often do. Yes, please tell me about my fraught childhood experiences. I am all ears. That said, if maturity means I can't have an opinion about what a bunch of nuts do, then I'm fine being called immature.
[–]Endorsed ContributorDenswend[S] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Being fit and sane is not mutually exclusive with having a niche interest. Besides, steampunk isn't nearly enough popular to be a hipster interest. And considering that steampunk is older than both you and me, I'd say that it predates idiotical hipsterdom that's a retarded mishmash of different subcultures.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I did not say that steampunk geeks can't be fit, I don't doubt many of them enthusiastically tackle the tough mudder and/or iron man fully decked out in Victorian inspired regalia. (Ok, I lied, I do doubt that.)
And yes, I am fully aware of Jules Verne and other authors who wrote speculative fiction themed works set in and around the Victorian era. However it seems to me that only recently has this blossomed (like a clockwork rose?) into its current geeky techno-fetishized community... which reminds me a lot of the bandwagon jumping, vapid, brainless nature of the modern hipster, or maybe I'm just taking crazy pills. And yes, I enjoy making fun of people who dress up in brass, corsets and top hats.
[–]Endorsed ContributorDenswend[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah, you may thing that it blossomed lately but this is simply because feminism couldn't find any real things to complain about and shifted it's attention to these niche interests which are dominated by manipulable men. And it brought the mainstream with them which is absolutely disgusting. It used to be a niche community with eccentric obsessions, but it's slowly going to go the video game route.
And yes, I enjoy making fun of people who dress up in brass, corsets and top hats.
Okay, fair point. I think that Steampunk looks a bit silly. Not nearly silly as goth ninjas though.
[–]c00kme 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Close minded much ?
You must be new on this planet... You'll get over it once you are out teenage years/early 20s.
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Just because I don't enjoy your particular brass plated fetish doesn't mean I'm close minded. What's the matter? Don't have the courage of your convictions? I mean, it's not really geeky if you don't get made fun of for doing it right? I can play that role for you, more than happy to do so. Just don't be duped into thinking everyone who laughs at steam punk geeks is a roid raging jock.
[–]c00kme 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I mean, it's not really geeky if you don't get made fun of for doing it right?
I am quite confused by that question. So I'll assume it was meant to be "if its not ridiculous, its not geeky" implying therefore that "geeky" is ridiculous.
I guess you better throw away whatever device you are writting this on right this minute then.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Oh, yes I definitely should. Because rejection of techno-fetishism also surely implies that one wishes to live in world devoid of any technology what-so-ever. You got me, I have a huge Amish fetish.... Mmmm, not really.
implying therefore that "geeky" is ridiculous.
Ding ding ding! We have a winner! Now let me be clear, I'm not saying TRP is not for geeks. I'm sure that even men of the most bizarre proclivities can benefit from the knowledge herein. However if such men were to expect acceptance, from all the members of a group preaching 'cold hard truth' they might be in for a surprise.
[–]c00kme 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think you might be confusing geeks and cosplayers here.
I am an engineer, and by claiming that geeky is ridiculous you are claiming that engineering is as well. I am not sure if you noticed but the modern world works because of geeks.
Yes how crazy of me to get those two totally separate things (with their universally recognized definitions) confused.
One can be an engineer without being a geek. I do it every day. Now, I have been called a nerd before, but not in a while... largely because I don't rub in other people's faces about how many books I read, what I got on my GRE, or how I don't watch TV. I don't reject the modern world as a whole, but I do find geekdom hilarious.
[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
They define harassment as "being a jerk."
Merriam-Webster defines jerk as "a stupid person or a person who is not well-liked or who treats other people badly."
So if you are stupid or not well-liked by others then you are harassing feminists.
[–]c00kme 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Preselection ftw !
Gotta a bide by social norms and be popular so you are not a creep or a jerk. Basically be beta and bend over backwards to please others.
[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like feminists fit the definition of jerk quite nicely
[–]MockingDead 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This should be the top comment.
[–]InvisibleVisitor 12 points13 points14 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Given the rarity of false complaints you should also accept the fact that it is more likely than not that you actually did violate someone else’s boundaries. "
-- That's a horrible way to go about investigations. I know perfectly well some people get touchy feely with people without proper consent; I'm not even going to deny that. But, that's not the way to approach the problem. These rules make it highly unlikely I'd ever attend this event, because I have little to no protection from being within that small percent of false claims.
[–]MyRedAccount 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This has less to do with feminists taking over Steampunk and more to do with Jeff Mach being a feminist IMO. I dated a girl he, "trained," once. He either is or used to be a figure in the BDSM community, and I'm 99% sure the girl was underage when he trained her, as she was 18 or 19 when I met her. He also wrote a book for training female slaves called Give. Last time I looked for it it had been taken down, but you might be able to find it if you want.
It's very common for well known male Dom's to claim to be feminist as it makes very good sense politically. It's either that or go with a Gorean type frame where women are naturally inferior. If you look at the wording and you're at all familiar with BDSM you'll see it's basically taken directly from the SSC guides.
[–]1mr_throwz 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Most of that stuff isn't even harassment. Being high is "harassment"? Really?
[–]c00kme 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Actually, where I live it is expected that men shake hands, that women get kissed on the cheeks, even if they just met. It is considered standard greeting; and actually people get somewhat offended if you don't.
The part about not touching wouldn't work in this part of the world.
Americans are notoriously uptight about "sexual harassment". Whatever happened to common sense ?
[–]1KingofRiders 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"First accept that you’ve been accused of violating someone else’s boundaries, no matter how severely. Given the rarity of false complaints you should also accept the fact that it is more likely than not that you actually did violate someone else’s boundaries. If this was done out of ignorance the event can help educate you so that you do not repeat your error. We can help you apologize in a safe manner. We may give you a lift to the train station."
You spineless betas and your stupid cons. Lemme tell you, if you have an ounce of self-respect you will tell everyone you know not to go until the feminist dildo a foot up this events ass, is taken out. Period. If you go, pay these people and do nothing you are giving approval to this kind of nonsense.
But you'll probably go anyway and then complain under your unwashed breath the whole time about your "mens rights" and tip your fedoras at each other. And that's why they'll keep getting away with shit like this at your events.
That's the thing, this is just like a religious persecution.
Accept that you're guilty, no matter what you do.
[–]1spicy_fries 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
For this policy “People” refers to attendees, staff, volunteers, guests, performers, vendors, and hotel staff and management at the event.
So in other words... people.
I swear to god this shit is getting too fucking insane.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Way to dick over transspecies bro
[–]HighAngleAlpha0331 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"We won't reveal your accusers to you"
Someone said that you offended them! Without knowing who or what or when, defend yourself from these accusations.
Jk no need to defend yourself you're guilty until... Forever.
No drinking and no touching. Sounds fucking awesome
[–]RickAstleyPrevails 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good to see they're tackling the important issues.
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