Im typing this while still drunk so forgive my grammar. TLDR I went drinking with coworkers. Im 21 and ive taken my fitness seriously lately. Im down to 155 from 205 in 1 year. most of the loss is within 6 months since my new job is extremely physical. We went on a pub crawl and ended at a bar where another of our coworkers is a bouncer so we get in easily and for free. Ive been practicing cold approach to good effect lately. (I almost always get numbers) but tonight I was just off my jokes game. My 2 coworkers were amazing wingmen and got some 9/10 girl to dance with me/show me how to dance. My cold approach at bars game is weak as fuck, all my jokes work on the streets or once I have conversation going. Im a 10/10 comedian and known as the joker but I couldnt do much with this chick but she was cool with it, showed me how to dance to "modern" music etc. General nightclub music. I grew up and lived in a town of 5000 people so big city socializing is a new world to me. I learned a TON tonight and grinding on a hot chick was a completely new experience and being the center of the dance floor after I quickly caught on was ... definitely amazing. Was more ore less awestruck when the dance was over and drifted away, didn't get her number etc. Fuckups galore but I learned.

Points to work on, I need to up my approach game. So, JOKES. I need funny content, so this will be a point of research for me.

Mustering the balls, Ive been doing the "just approach and talk to random chicks/guys" to get over my apprehension and shy attitude from highschool. And its gone great, but the club scene was completely new vs the farmtown I grew up in. But tonight My confidence was shit. I hit it off with 2 chicks and ended with nothing.

The 1st chick i hit it off with on the streets, her friend came over and dragged her away. I had no idea how to deal with that so I let it go as we were already moving to the next bar. the next, I was more or less awestruck that I danced and hit it off with a hot chick and was grinding and the center of the dance floor.

SO , my TRP brothers. What are some sources I can devour to improve my approach game and confidence. And my mom is leaving my stepdad, and I was wondering if anyone would be interested in a breakdown of everything that happened to lead up to their split.