So I started talking to this girl about a month ago. She has a boyfriend. I didn't know that when I first started talking to her over FB. Eventually got her number. We started texting and talking on the phone pretty much every day since then.

The way we talk it seems like shes all for me. Telling me she likes me, i'm attractive, and she wants to come see me. I live in another state.

But here's what I'm curious about. She has this fucking boyfriend that she says treats her like shit, always makes her unhappy, always does the wrong thing. She tells me I'm way better and all this bullshit. She keeps saying she's only giving him a little more time to see if he changes and if he doesn't then she's gonna end it.

SO if she says all this shit and knows I like her why doesn't she just dump that dude? I was reading the post on here that was talking about why do taken girls talk to single guys and it made sense that she could just be talking to me for emotional bullshit. But then she wouldn't be talking to me the way she is or coming to come visit me right?

Last thing. She knows I like her but I'm just gonna tell her "I like you, I know you like me, are you breaking up with him or are we done here?" I'd really not like to keep talking to her if I'm just the side bitch. Any thoughts on that?