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I have some been working through some relevant thoughts for this although they are not organized yet. It is the woman's job to take care of the kids. It is the man's job to train and prepare them to be adults and to be competitive. If you don't have time to be a man because you are taking care of "motherly duties" than the marriage will have issues. It is your job as a man to provide social status and an engaging social circle. The type of environment that gives your wife purpose. Purpose to loo…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 04:24 PM
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Racism typically seems to me to be thinly-veiled jealousy and/or protectionism.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:13 PM
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One of the most interesting redpill anecdotes I've read concerned a guy that said he loved it when women tried to shame him. She would be flirting with you, but you take it so hard that her shit-testing can start to become bullying(which at its ealiest stages seems to be "social pinging" where one party is totally inept so the other party ramps up out of control). What if you embrace the nickname? What if you joke about the nickname? Back to the shaming, of course this is probably desireable in …
/r/askTRP20/10/14 04:36 PM
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I really like this perspective.
/r/AlreadyRed20/10/14 03:53 PM
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Mindfulness in Plain English
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 03:46 PM
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Currently, I suppose there is a spectrum. There are women that acquire resources to help their children. On the other end there are women who use their children to acquire resources. Resources meaning whatever the woman is driven towards: a man, drugs, money, social position...
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 06:03 PM
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Due to the power and/or prestige of the position people want it to hold to their ideals. There is a difference between mail-room clerk, senior partner, and nationally-recognized athlete. I'm having trouble finding the right words, but it has to do with power structure and others being able to use you according to their agenda. I suppose in this case where the commisioner no longer felt like his agenda with Rice was greater value than the media's potential agenda with Rice if he stayed in the NFL…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:04 PM
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http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2009/10/07/the-gervais-principle-or-the-office-according-to-the-office/ Then when I thought about how it applied to social movements, I realized that social movements should be ineffective until they are driven by sociopaths. This means that a social movement has to move past the logical "correcting societal injustice" phase and have a more specific-benefit being pursued at the top levels.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:14 PM
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I decided the opposite. The way people act almost always makes perfect sense if you consider their emotional motivation.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:10 PM
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How old are you? I'm trying to think about these things in my own context. At my age it's weird if a woman doesn't have kids. I hate to be foolhardy but this girl does seem reasonable. I think that the important part here is to analyze these kinds of situation with a more redpill frame. So the old blue pill frame of mind we want to fall in love. We would see past the flaws of a significant other and realize we had flaws ourselves. We would expose our vulnerability to women and expect likewise. T…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 05:07 PM
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The child only comes first as far as beta providers are concerned. Watch if some half-alpha badboy becomes interested in her and see how quickly the mom's needs are repurposed as the mom's needs. I'm starting to think that women aren't primarily geared to raise children, but that they are primarily geared to acquire resources, often in the form of social capital or an alpha male. Children are typically a woman's primary tool for acquiring resource, but observe what happens when they start to get…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 04:36 PM
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My advice is not to workout because you are supposed, but you have to learn to enjoy it in itself. It's like a new video game. There are paths that will get you to where you want to go, but it's not until you figure out the path that works for you that you will be drawn to it instead of away from it. My current philosophy is just freaking do it. I'm not interested in destroying myself for the sake of living up to crazy modern fitness ideals. If I don't feel 100% then I tell myself well I'll just…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 06:12 PM
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It's the bare minimum that guys want. Maybe the minimum is all that they're getting.
/r/askTRP13/06/14 03:44 PM
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I used to think that "trophy wife" was about the part that you put her on display like a trophy. Actually, "trophy wife" is more about how you built up your life to a high status and acquired the wife of appropriate status for that. She is indicative of your high status in the game of life and thus a trophy that recognizes that.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 09:49 PM
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This used to be me. Actually back in high school I used to think there was something wrong with the girls in my home town. I didn't understand why I didn't get on with them the way I seemed to with girls from other towns. Looking back now I suppose it's because despite my good-looks and athleticism, my personality just destroyed my attractiveness to very attractive girls. Girls from other places hadn't seen this side of me yet.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 05:41 PM
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Movements are driven by sociopaths and fueled by hamsters.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 03:34 PM
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It comes down to self-agency for men and appeal-to-authority for women. Which I suppose stems from innate societal value. Actually it's funny all the connections you will make if you go deep enough. A lot of women's outrage seems to stem from a very base level of "Society(men) is failing to protect me and my innate value." 'Men are failing us,' says woman planning demonstration However, feminism itself is fighting against this very innate value.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 03:21 PM
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Have you seen this yet? How Black America Has Predicted Our Future
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 09:36 PM
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I picked up on this too. This guy brags about the things he's done while saying "don't make a resume." I'm not sure how well the "work hard and prove value" will actually take you if you are trying to break out of conventional employment crap. Right now I'm investigating the idea of "Be important. Know important people. Show other people that you are important."
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 04:57 PM
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You sound somewhat like me. I'm really doubting that "sperg" was the right term for that group. I think now I would have called that group "believers." I think Aspies could fall into either (originally called) clueless or loser. When I think of aspies I think of someone who is removed from most "trite" societal stuff and typically focuses on some activity or thing, which could be productive or not. However, I think OP here thinks of an Aspie as someone naive yet stubborn. I really feel the need …
/r/AlreadyRed13/05/14 04:14 PM
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I like your short, simple, and to the point descriptions. I think what could really make the blog on the Gervais Principle so much better could actually be a glossary. Unfortunately, I'm primarily a loser and I still don't understand what game talk is. I know the blog author said that it was the only kind of talk that had books written about it. Hell, it'd be pretty interesting to delve into why that is the case.
/r/AlreadyRed13/05/14 03:39 PM
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It's funny that once I learned about redpill how much the dynamics are in movies and books. I don't know how writers have some understanding of these things enough to put them into their works. However, the Gervais Principle could bring to light why things are sometimes incongruent in books and film. You kind of touch on it so I'd like to mention the thought-line I've been going through recently. It is that perhaps the only thing that matters to Sociopaths is how important they are and how impor…
/r/AlreadyRed13/05/14 03:35 PM
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Somehow I had missed your comment until just now. Thanks for taking the time to write that up. It's funny that sociopaths and losers both use the similar tactics to handle the clueless. I've had some more realizations since writing this up and hope that I can tie enough things together soon to get more conversation going again about this.
/r/AlreadyRed13/05/14 03:29 PM
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So, I was wondering, "How does a sociopath actually get to a position of power?" Then I read this post and realize that Robert Greene wrote guidelines on how to do it. This is the "work hard and be good at what you do," but for sociopaths. This is the relevant part from the Gervais Principle that Greene that is being directly addressed here: Why can’t you learn Sociopath tactics from a book or Wikipedia? It is not that the tactics themselves are misguided, but that their application by non-Socio…
/r/AlreadyRed09/05/14 02:43 PM
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After studying the Gervais principle I realized how movements work. First, movements try to start with directness. This is ineffective at actually providing any sort of change. Eventually, if there is enough interest in a movement that it has built up to the level where it could accomplish something, then sociopaths will come to lead it as long as it coincides with their needs. So a movement is ineffective until someone who can use it to serve their own purpose takes it in a direction. Eventuall…
/r/AlreadyRed08/05/14 09:13 PM
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I understand your point, but I have a competing theory. My theory stems somewhat from the idea that obesity is actually more a symptom of metabolic malfunction(brought on by modern day diet and lifestyle) rather than laziness. I believe there are 3 primary factors that define a woman's perceived physical attractiveness Youth/Fertility Health Attainability and Social Influence I believe that number 1 is mostly what counts unless 2 or 3 get in the way. If being fat is due to metabolic malfunction …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 03:17 PM
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As others have said. Smart men who have tried to implement society's advice to win-over women have often dug themselves into the biggest holes. Men who ignore society's advice may often find much larger success. Laziness isn't always dumb, it's a strategic sociopathic play. From The Gervais Principle III: The Curse of Development The Three Laws of Arrested Development So far this is trivial stuff, widely understood, and offers nobody any advantage. Here is the non-trivial stuff, compressed into …
/r/askTRP30/04/14 02:44 PM
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/r/keto, /r/paleo, /r/leangains
/r/askTRP30/04/14 02:34 PM
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So many angles to cover here... You can talk motorcycles with women but remember these 4 things to keep you out of interview or nerd mode: passion, hopes, wants, dreams. Don't talk much about specs or engine size; talk about motorcycles in terms of those 4 things. You are validation starved. You can't get the bare minimum response from women that you can stand, let alone the validation you really want. This will affect you whether you realize it or not. You don't talk to a woman at the grocery s…
/r/askTRP24/04/14 05:59 PM
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I care what her reaction is because it shifts the balance of power. I'm not sure everything here has to be Powertalk. This could be an opportunity to practice the little-sister ideas. Give her a nickname, poke a little fun at her. Expect that akward moment and plan your strategy for that. Laugh it off with a smirk? Ask her "Why are you so awkward anyways?" Change your mindset: Being awkward in front of a girl is fantastic because you get the opportunity to demonstrate how you can hold frame.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 05:44 PM
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I think you can take 1 of 2 approaches here. First, You could learn to close. I just saw a post that talks about how to close using small,innocent-enough steps with plausible deniability at each step. Secondly, you could try to focus receiving validation from having genuine fun and not on attention from girls. The problem is the social game isn't much fun if you don't know how to play it. Here is a little advice on how to start to re-frame social interactions: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/c…
/r/askTRP23/04/14 04:58 PM
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It's funny how at the end of relationships you get thrown out of your comfort zone and into a nothing to lose type of situation. When my last relationship was ending I stopped being afraid of doing anything to hurt the "image" of the relationship. Instead I was just trying to make the best of (or get whatever use I still could) out of the relationship. Does this make us situational sociopaths? Or was I just converted from Clueless to Loser?
/r/AlreadyRed17/04/14 04:28 PM
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Aww. The good part is I didn't make that comment just for you. It's also important information for all the aspiring sociopaths here.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 05:37 PM
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So two men waste a huge amount of time and both chose the option where neither got what they wanted Are Olympians wasting their time? Was this kid wasting his time: Montana wrestler volunteers a loss so opponent can win first career bout on senior night ? Depends on your perspective. However, I believe the parable you are so worked up over does probably demonstrate the workings of sociopaths. While many here aspire to be a sociopath, if you have done your homework you realize that sociopaths hav…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 05:24 PM
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She refused to have sex with him until very recently Well, I wonder what changed her mind she has apparently "gained a lot of weight, she probably weighs about 265 (she's 5ft. 10)". Oh, and she's now 30, compared to his 37. Oh, I see. There is a very tall wall between her and possible branches to swing to.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 04:51 PM
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She didn't want kids before marriage either, now, all of a sudden, she wants kids. When trying to generalize RP ideas I used to think that it was obvious that a woman had instincts to secure resources to benefit her kids. However, it seems instead that often times that a woman used kids to secure benefits for herself instead and if the kids become a liability they will be ditched as long as the woman can do it without directly facing guilt.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 04:44 PM
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It's funny reading this with RedPill perspectives. In high school, having bought into the mythical value of virginity, saying no to sex meant ignoring or repressing my desire for intimacy. The value of being-chaste/having low-partner count was expressed to her but ineffectively. From here I would assume she was unable to keep relationships and tried to use sex as a tool. Even worse, it’s meant using alcohol to give myself permission to act out. And I more than once let my body be seduced step-by…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 05:37 PM
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I believe this is covered in previous discussions about powertalk. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1zrcs3/on_the_implications_of_powertalk_and_other/
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 11:06 PM
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- Mindfulness In Plain English (Online) - . There are links to each chapter if you scroll down.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 08:39 PM
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It's "ironic" that this for this whole skit the "funny" depended on the man completely losing his frame to the women. However, "funny," or at least interesting, typically comes from someone holding frame despite the challenges they face. Hell, this was almost an attempt to make bullying be funny by showing a peer group teaming up on someone totally out of their frame. Disclaimer I could only stand to watch half of it. Dam that stupid fake accent I couldn't even understand.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 04:16 PM
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Ah, I was trying to put into words my thoughts on why this "makes sense." I feel it has something to do with how the children only matter in terms of beta bucks, but with a huge "alpha fucks" opportunity they can be discarded. I'm not sure if it's because A) in terms of the perceived "alpha fucks" the typical female drive does not always matter. B) The opportunity for her future children to be from this alpha outweigh the sunken investment in the already born child or C) Somehow this woman's min…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 09:37 PM
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I disagree some. I think we shelter children, especially boys, too much from what we go through as adults. We don't want to trouble them with our finance, marriage, and health issues, but what better way to teach than through example. Yeah, I know there are so many ways this can be done wrong but done right and appropriately I believe it could be very valuable. If you try to make the child feel or think something you are probably doing it wrong. If you share your experiences and the way you thin…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 09:29 PM
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Men in uniforms work to protect society and its resources. They have been accepted into the ranks of men to perform this primal, valuable job.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 08:02 PM
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You're talking about something that is invisible to women. They only see the men in the right uniforms.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 08:02 PM
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Only the helpless feelings are substituted with an immediate resort to violence or uncalled for physical threats. I believe the helpless feelings in women are due to "appeal to authority" possibly being their primary weapon. Whether or not a man would want to fight would probably depend on if he felt his fists were his "primary weapon" at the moment, but it could also be social or political.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 06:30 PM
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Your comment made me rethink this. At first, I had figured that those of us actually learning and implementing TRP fell into that "not all people are identical." However, if I were to quote and emphasize puaSenator so it's simply impossible to explain someone with a BP position to understand TRP When a BluePiller gets to TRP the people here can't just explain TRP to him. If he wants to understand TRP he has to move from a position of BP to a position of TRP. By thinking, applying, living, and ob…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 05:39 PM
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The truth: Of course not all people are identical. Of course not all women are like that. But enough are to form a pattern worth discussing. When discussing the difference between men and women it’s safe to say women are smaller than men. This generalization is accepted, because it’s true most of the time. The generalizations we discuss here are similar; true most of the time.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 04:46 PM
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Actually with tied-in DRM game distribution(Steam, Origin, UPlay, Windows Live) you could almost relate that to trying to get men in a committed relationship in order to latch onto their resources. Steam is the one that's a great cook and gives blowjobs "just because." Origin hasn't put out as long as you can remember and is sleeping with your VPs at your work multiples at a time. Gog is post-wall women all looking for something casual.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 05:32 PM
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I'm not sure why you guys are laughing at this girl. If mom had sued the dad for this she probably would have got it Alabama, Connecticut, the District of Columbia, Hawaii, Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Massachusetts, Mississippi, Missouri, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New York, North Dakota, Oregon, South Carolina, Utah and Washington …you may be surprised to discover that your legal responsibility to pay child support for your “children” extends to college tuition and expenses (in part or in whole).
/r/MensRights05/03/14 05:18 PM
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Interesting stuff. I want to have another kid or 2 but I don't really see finding and trusting a woman to do that with in the near future. At least with some sort of surrogate agreement I wouldn't have to worry about paying a lawyer thousands of dollars just for the chance that I could continue to see my kids when their mom's hypergamy decides I'm not important anymore.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 04:38 PM
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0 tolerance is the embodiment of feminism. It takes away the trust of someone to make a thoughtful, in context judgment of something. Instead it turns everything into an "appeal to authority." Men aren't supposed to make "appeals to authority" however it's a very important tool for women. This neuters school administrators.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 04:18 PM
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This degree, surprise surprise, did not land her a job that has any hope of paying it off. Due to solipsism, in the back of her mind she felt that her college education was going to land her an awesome job and an awesome man. Since that didn't work out she is taking the path of least resistance back to an old boyfriend. This was her failed attempt at hypergamy, she is settling with this guy for beta bucks, this is probably not going to end well.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 06:26 PM
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I just had a bit of a realization about this while thinking about a post in /r/seduction. Being funny comes from a place of confidence. Confidence comes from having a mostly unshakeable social-standing. You are less-funny with these people because you perceive their social value as greater than yours. You are "keeping your head down" in an unconcious attempt to appease them. However, if you are funny irregardless of perceived social standing then their options are to either accept you or challen…
/r/AlreadyRed27/02/14 05:22 PM
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Perhaps, but it could be that the other branch that she was swinging from gave-way and she was looking for the path of least resistance to refill that void, her very recent relationship with you.
/r/AlreadyRed27/02/14 05:11 PM
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Being funny comes from a place of confidence. Confidence comes from having a mostly unshakeable social-standing. You are less-funny with these people because you perceive their social value as greater than yours. You are "keeping your head down" in an unconcious attempt to appease them. However, if you are funny irregardless of perceived social standing then their options are to either accept you or challenge you. However, the challenge can be direct: "Yo dude are you flirting with my girl?" or …
/r/seduction27/02/14 05:06 PM
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You can't preach to hamsters. However, maybe your fellow men and redpill-leaning women could be provoked by it. It was refreshing to me to have the conscious realization that women that built their education and careers up weren't doing much to increase their attractiveness to men. I feel like some men probably think their woman should have some level of education for various reasons(the social status and networking experience, to help prevent low-level gold-digging, shows she comes from a famil…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 04:48 PM
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I wonder if the women he did whatever with were hotter than his wife or if he was slumming it. Another factor would be if she had another potential branch already in mind.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 05:31 PM
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I linked to that same article too. As a fat guy I'm not interested in making excuses but I sure as hell am interested in something that actually works. Did you watch that 40 minute speech Tom did at the college that covered wisdom of crowds and the vision of the anointed? I loved it.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 05:08 PM
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I think you are on the right track but not quite. If you eat a lot of fat by itself it will fill you up or make you feel almost sick. However, when you add sugars to that fat that's where I see binging happening. I actually believe that people were meant to be able to handle lots of fat, from animals. Then it would fill them up and this encouraged distribution among the tribe. It's my belief that reaching obesity isn't too much of a normal working of the body(storing energy for later famine) but…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 05:03 PM
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It's not genetic. It's insulin-resistance/metabolic syndrome While not everyone who is overweight or has high cholesterol levels suffers from insulin resistance syndrome, anyone with these problems who doesn’t respond to a standard low fat diet and exercise therapy should be evaluated for this condition. This is especially true if they experience carbohydrate cravings or the symptoms of hypoglycemia. http://www.greenmountainhealth.com/insulin-resistance-syndrome
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 04:53 PM
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Not everyone is a single-childless 15-25 something male. I'm not here to make excuses, but I really believe it's not as simple as you all would like to believe. People who have been taught almost the exactly wrong way to eat healthy their whole lives will probably have trouble losing weight. I took the diet/nutrition red pill before I took this red pill. Some of you guys may want to take it too when you get older. http://www.fathead-movie.com/index.php/2014/02/24/character-vs-chemistry-part-five…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 04:50 PM
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Hmm, she is only interested in the top 20%. What a funny coincidence.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 03:20 PM
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We were just talking about the difference between arousal vs comfortable. Instead of attracted to these guys I would say you were getting more and more comfortable with them. However, you weren't aroused enough to initiate/allow sex with them. This actually seems like a well-functioning mechanism; it allowed you to keep your sexual-partner count low even though you thought you were "attracted" to these guys. This helped you save that part of your desirability for future partners who actually did…
/r/askTRP25/02/14 09:19 PM
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From your BP post Do you want compassion or condemnation? I try to exercise compassion. This is obviously a big movement? Why did it start? Why do so many people swallow this terrible, flawed logic? You are stumbling upon the realization that people almost always act rationally but based only on what is currently in their own mind. Then when you observe that behavior in a group of people you can see patterns based on the factors that caused them to make "rational" decisions(ugh, I'm explaining t…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 06:01 PM
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if I was taken and into my guy. I'd rather spend my time with him then testing the waters with someone else. I think that's the point here and guys subconciously pick up on that whether they are red-pill or not. Of course there are subtle differences such as being invited out with girl-friends every few weeks vs seeking to go out every Friday and Saturday with anyone else who will go.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 05:30 PM
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Yep, new branch is what I thought. She's hamstering away her feelings about her boyfriend, probably because he's become a compliant beta provider. You're trying to establish your position as the next compliant beta boyfriend to be hamstered away when a new branch shows up. You shouldn't care if she has a boyfriend or about your long-term prospects with this woman. Your only concern should be that she won't overstay her welcome if she decides to make a solely "fun" trip. This is a chance to pract…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 05:13 PM
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The fact that she asked to sleep with another guy is a bad sign. I'd say it's projection. She's jealous and probably turned-on that you can have other women. She tries to reciprocate but doesn't understand the negative attraction that this has when girls do it to guys. I'd consider it a combined shit-test/demonstrating value(that she has other options).
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 05:04 PM
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Actually, What I pick up from reading TRP is that if a woman's perception of you is high enough then this isn't uncommon. I don't know how common polygamy used to be but it certainly wasn't unheard of. Now we have "women would rather share an alpha, than be exclusive with a beta." Although if you are an aloof alpha then she will likely either hook-up with other alphas or settle with a beta provider on the side.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 07:47 PM
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The end result? He felt he had an abundance and not enough time to even deal with all of the possible prospects. The bad? Was probably still mega blue-pill in person trying to feel out spinsters for LTRs.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 06:19 PM
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While I wonder if it's silly to argue about the TL;DR like this, look at the women with kids on dating sites. "Hey, I've already popped out 3-5 of some other guys' kids, now I'm looking for someone to build a family with. I don't know why guys only want me for sex now so don't bother if that's you." These women don't understand that half their value was in providing offspring and the other half was sex. They've already wasted the value that could have got them commitment and are bitter about bei…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 05:54 PM
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That was like what I was thinking. "I did it while fighting for the right to do it."
/r/MensRights17/02/14 11:58 PM
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Doesn't this kind of stuff happen to rich/famous men too. Besides the social status it's worth giving them stuff just to get a foot in the door. I wonder if this affects these people's view of the world in a similar way, especially if they were born into it.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 06:51 PM
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Sex toys have a very different social stigma for men and women for good reason. If a man has a sex toy, it's an indicator that he cannot get laid. Since we are RP we know what a devastating blow this is to a man's attractiveness. It's pretty much despicable to a woman. It's not the toy; it's the indicative social status. However, for a woman it is a tool to quench her insatiable thirst without slutting it up. It shows that even though she needs sexual release that she is not going to lower her s…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 06:24 PM
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I wrote a parable based on your idea. A man is very hungry. He makes conversation with women and eventually one woman offers him pie. The man is grateful for the pie. He tries to pay the woman for that pie. The woman doesn't take his money. However, he continues to regularly come and eat her pie. They get to know each other and he takes her to places, does nice things for her, and often helps her with bills or pays her way. One day the man comes to eat but isn't in the mood for pie. Pie is all t…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 06:06 PM
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What a great way to put it. Can I run with that? "Sex isn't all men want. it's the minimum." As someone who has spent too much time browsing pof. I think this is such a concise yet layered way to say something so many women need to realize. Don't worry. I'm not going to go preaching to hamsters.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 05:53 PM
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I have an unusual trend of men raising their children mostly alone in my life. My dad, me, and my best friend and other real-life but more anecdotal examples. It seems the women that are most vocal about how awesome they are at motherhood(not the ones sharing useful info on facebook though) are the first to dump the kids on grandparents or the dad and disappear for periods of time. I suppose it happens at least as often as there are dads that are good at typical "mom's work."
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 07:09 PM
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Right, but we're talking strategy here. Which is more valuable: the friend's alliance or the sex. Maybe your friend is a great wingman, a member of a board of directives, the guy that will loan you $500. I would think of it in tribal terms. You lead the tribe but will this guy stand next to you in war with competing tribes. Are you ready to give that up? Has he outlived his purpose? “Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.” Edit: Actually I see my comment is a little…
/r/AlreadyRed12/02/14 06:40 PM
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Doesn't this also mean if feminist usurp more and more dominance from man that their whining and probably "appeals to authority" will diminish in whatever effectiveness they might have had before. In order for feminist to get the things they want they will lose the effectiveness of the tools they are using to try to get it.
/r/AlreadyRed12/02/14 06:13 PM
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As a single, working dad I have realized that even when you can work as a parent you are still limited. I can't go out and have a job that demands I work 60 hours a week. I'm not sure I could even work 4 days at 12 hours each. I have a day job that is flexible with time off and I'm not sure what I would do without it. I believe most states have actual laws regarding at what age and/or for how long children can be left home alone. That being said I don't see a reason for discrepancy in performanc…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 05:06 PM
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I got mixed up. I meant that as a reply to your comment. Nice to meet you.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 04:54 PM
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I'm trying to figure out how to describe all the reasons that I'm not at all surprised. I'm a conflict-avoider who is a total follower and really only has relationships with people who "make me." However, I avoided having to learn much about being social in high school because I was just so involved in everything that it seemed that I was in decent social standing. However it wasn't until the conflicts that I had in my later 20s that I think I finally had inklings that my Star Trek:TNG and Quant…
/r/AlreadyRed12/02/14 04:48 PM
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Sorry, I believe the family part was meant for TVTestPattern but now that I realize you're the musician scene guy I see you'll have valuable perspectives(for myself) too. I'm finally playing guitar like I felt I was meant to while I wasted my 20s. I have 2 groups of guys trying to help me find time to jam with them since I have the single-father thing going on.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 04:37 PM
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My poor son. I was trying to teach him to be a well-disciplined, respectful, probably self-sacrificing boy. Now, thanks in large part to the information I've learned on the way to RP, I'm trying to teach him to trash-talk and navigate boys' social hierarchy. I'm teaching him about social control and how changes in that control cause anger. I can teach him "love yourself first, work on yourself first. Then let others love you and work to be with that person you make yourself into" I have revelati…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 04:37 PM
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I tried not to let RP ideas bias my answers and answer with mostly my pre-RP mindset. I've always taken pride in my abilities to be objective, non-judgmental, empathetic, and helpful. Of course, it may be that objectivity that brought me to RP and allows me to see how it works in life. This is what I'm working with here. Trait Score Percentile Narcissism 1.4 9 Machiavellianism 2.3 30 Psychopathy 0.8 2
/r/AlreadyRed12/02/14 04:04 PM
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Single dad in my 30s. Definitely interested in the perspective that other family men my age or older have on these things.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 06:25 AM
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Men hate doing repetitive tasks. Doing repetitive tasks is a minor inconvenience for women. I think this is what I have been trying to figure out is the problem with my job.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 10:52 PM
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Single-father here. I assume most of us date single mothers based on similar demographics, activities, obligations. I haven't been able to reconcile single-fatherhood and TRP yet, but I was also starting out from an incredibly far-out beta position anyways.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 10:00 PM
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You do touch on a possible contradiction here. The effort that women put into dating is mostly done behind the scenes: Girl dresses up to go to the club with her girlfriends. So a foundation should be built with healthy habits, make-up, social awareness, and whatever assets a woman can bring to the table. This is pretty similar to a man as had been said here "it's not what you do it's who you are." So I imagine that in a best-case scenario dating is really just a test to see if you are congruent…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 09:15 PM
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Perhaps the issue is more importantly the focus on letting the man feel like he is "funnier." Also, playful or risque humor(1 on 1) could be safer than "one of the guys" type humor. The guys in RP went crazy over this girl that went along with this guys playful "pretend boxing" so I imagine that this can be used to show a playful, feminine confidence. I can imagine how clowning or crude humor could detract from a woman's RP attractiveness. However, I can also imagine that playful, socially aware…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 09:00 PM
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I wonder if there is a connection between this and couples who live "off the beaten path." I mean if a man takes his wife to live on a rural farm in Tennessee or a cattle ranch in Wyoming he is severely limiting the size of the tribe and the numerical possibilities of other "alpha men" to pine for. I wonder if these women are "happier" because of this.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 04:35 PM
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The fedora is a big red flag that says, "I am unable to excel at the conventional paramaters of societal fashion and probably social anything." It pretty much means a guy has given up trying to be the things that a woman wants and that he will be totally-bluepill-clueless in any area that matters to her. That's why women hate it, because it's blue-pill "be yourself" personified.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 01:50 AM
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I would not admit to anything or apologize for anything. Be very, very careful. Here's a comment from a thread that talks about the consequences of apologizing. We're talking about "assault" on a work colleague. You really can't afford to not get a lawyer right now.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 03:18 PM
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