Last night I was flirting with a bartender and talking to the other people in the bar, it was just me and a couple of her friends there. They were talking about Lamborghinis and I mentioned the Wordless Lamborghini Game video.

The bartender said if a guy did that to her she would kick the car door in. I started teasing her about it, "so you are telling me that if I rent a Lamborghini and roll up in here then you will kick the door in? How do you know? Has that ever happened to you?"

Anyway we chat some more and she invites me to come to another bar. I get her number, go get some food, and text her and wait for her to show up. I start a game of pool with another guy, and when she gets there she brings some weed and smokes me out (awesome).

She and this other guy are talking about boring shit, their families etc. I ask her who is hotter, her or her sister? Maintain eye contact, shit-eating smirk grows as she doesn't look away. She shows me pictures of her sister, not as cute as the bartender but I don't tell her that.

I get some light kino going during this and we go inside to play pool. I am wearing my wedding ring during all of this. She says "yeah I hate guys", I say "no you don't" then she says something about "you wouldn't believe how often I get hit on by married guys expecting me to come back to their hotel" (lol). I said "really, how often does that happen to you" and she says "every day". "(pause) Hey let's go play a game of pool" again with the shit-eating smirk.

She has "her stick" and I tried a couple of times to share a stick to keep kino going but she was having none of it. She even said "I don't share sticks" (I was wearing my wedding ring this whole time, but she still smoked me up and invited me out...)

I said "I can respect that", kept playing pool (made some damn good shots too) and backed way off on the flirting, still some playful banter but no touching or anything else. Really IDGAF, I was just looking for something to do, but I probably did look a little brooding/upset after we got done playing and went back to the bar.

TRP, how should I have handled this? What, if anything, should I text her to reopen? I figured by withdrawing attention she'd come back if she was really interested, but I guess I should have escalated when we were alone at the end of the night.