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[–]recovering765 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What did you learn?
What skills/routines did you apply?
How did you act?
Why didn't you read the posting guidelines?
[–]Rasalom72 -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You are a pussy. The fact that you had to wait, and then try to get someone to give you a pep talk, to talk to a fucking woman.
Jesus.. at least try to add some value when you post. What could you have done differently? Did you learn something? How about some self talk to try to provide some insite into how you managed to do whatever...
Also, the fact that you give even a single fuck about the ANSWER you got means you haven't internalized abundance. The fact that you were nervous means you haven't internalized "I-AM-THE-PRIZE" mentality. The fact that you got rejected means you haven't uped your SMV or done any reading at all.
You didn't even try to chat her up, or anything.. just walk up to some strange women and ask for her number? How fucking many times a day do you think that happens? What sets you apart?
[–]1Kolbath 3 points4 points5 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In agreement with /u/Rasalom72, but I'm going to put this a little differently.
This doesn't meet the posting guidelines for a Field Report. Please read them. They make it easier for us to help each other and give advice.
You have not internalized abundance mentality. As Ras said, you need to be the prize. She had no reason to give you her number. You had an average approach and built no rapport. She had no desire to give you her number. Why should she want you? Bear in mind that her shields were up: handing out flyers means she's exposed to the public. You're probably the twentieth person to hit on her that day.
Kudos to you for trying. In fact, I upvoted you for two reasons. First, this is obviously the first time you've done this, and second, you had the courage to talk about it here. However, this is only the beginning. Make it your mission to get rejected fifty times by the end of the week. Cold approach at least fifty women and ask for numbers. Inure yourself to rejection! The purpose of this assignment is to make you so used to being turned down that you absolutely do not give even the tiniest of fucks about it any more.
Please return on Friday and write a full field report using the posting guidelines to tell us about your fifty rejections. Most importantly, what lessons you learned.
Good luck!
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[–]1Kolbath 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The nervousness is an indicator that you do care about her answer. You said, "Okay," but was it really?
When you're no longer nervous, it will indicate that you don't care about her answer. Does that make sense?
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