My First FR

Summary: Ended up going to this club with an Asian model from my uni and her two average and low SMV friends. First time actually organizing something beforehand with women and going out, applied TRP knowledge well in some areas and didn't do so well in others hence I feel like I'm stuck in a friendzone which I refuse to take a part of.

Backround: Been gaming this high smv woman who came to America a few years back on and off when I have seen her around. Both 19 freshman in college, had a class together last semester and live on same floor. She’s probably the highest smv woman in our grade but isn’t too popular and only really hangs out with her Asian female friends and no guys at all. Asked her to come out to some other event before and got a huge text about how she was travelling that weekend and couldn't go. Give or take a month I got in contact with a club promoter that could get underage people into 21+ clubs and was planning to go with some of my boys and this chick since I’ve been getting good vibes from her in our random bump intos. Tell her about it a few days before she’s all like “ya sure when?”. I text her the day of, no response, I don’t really care cause I was still planning to go out with my high smv boys and hit on women. End up seeing her and one of her friends walking to her room so I put on a nonchalant face and am all like “You get my text? Club tonight.” She whips her phone out and looks at it with a look that I couldn’t tell if it was faked or not so I cut her off midsentence and explain what was going down to her, again to which she agrees to come.

Body: Get a text from her like 6 hours before asking if she could bring two of her friends. Then she starts asking how many guys I was bringing and if they were from our school or not. My boys had some shit to do so they ended up bailing out on me. This annoyed me a bit because I was afraid of looking creepy by saying I was going to bring guys but ending up being alone and also because I needed people to keep the uglier friends busy so I didn’t have to talk to them as much as I ended up doing. Ended up not giving a fuck about how not bringing other dudes made me look as per IRC advice and decided not to cancel plans. Waited for them a bit cause of course they were late cause they had to do makeup shit, when I phoned her she kept saying how bad she felt bla bla then texted after apologizing. They show up dressed super nice and I’m all social and shit, engage the entire group so the average and the girls didn’t turn on me. I sense a small bitchy vibe from the hot one when she realizes that my friends bounced so I put her in her place telling her that I said they bounced and she looked all dumb admitting that she didn’t pay attention on the phone. I tell them that it’s a 20 minute walk and she gets all wide eyed and surprised saying that they couldn’t do that simple task in their heels so we get an uber, idc cause I didn’t pay for it lol. In the cab I start bantering with the group and it basically turns into 20 questions where the girl I was going for kept asking me random shit about school, my opinions on people, my friends, etc. We get out and she asks me to go first cause she’s scared of the bouncer. I go, mention my promoter get them all in. They start exhibiting this behavior of being afraid of stranger in the club and quote ”not wanting to talk to random guys” from the bouncer to other people and it lasts for the rest of the night.

I start flirting with the group when we enter, again engaging them all but being a bit more intent with the model. As I get another drink I notice that the girls are getting a bit more reclusive sitting in their little Chinese circle jerk of 3 and speaking their language, so I thought “dread game” and instantly open this hot blonde at the bar and get her to let me drink some of her drink. I get her number literally in front of the three then introduce her to the group and keep up some small talk. She bounces and seconds after the hot Asian starts shittalking the blonde saying that she thinks she’s lying about being innocent and here with just her cousin. I naturally agreed with her saying “Not to mention she’s a fucking dumbass” and snickered a bit to which the model gave me a big smile and said “You’re sooooo mean.” And I’m all like “It’s the truth.” Throughout the night the entire group couldn’t let down the fact that one of my other friends from an ivy league university was possibly coming and kept asking me if he was which was irritating.

I keep up my game throughout the night, girls seem to like it and give me huge smiles whenever I make a face and prolonged eye contact with one. Start off with light physical contact, high-fives, spins on the dance floor etc. We sat down after a while tired and just drank and talked. Tried escalating a bit with the girl I was going for, brought her close to me on the seat and put her leg on my knee and started giving her a footrub when she was rubbing her foot due to heel pain. Both times she would stay in the contact for around a minute give or take and then make half attempts to cut off the physical contact, attempts which I permitted to not seem too needy, don’t really know how to interpret that. We took a bunch of pics together but she absolutely insisted on taking one of her alone so she could put it on her Instagram that has more than 10k followers…Was funny ruining her attempts with random middle fingers and jumping in to the picture.

When we became static and sat at the tables we were approached by a plethora of guys, I maintained frame and deflected them one by one. One guy was bouncing around and even gave me a thumbs up and congratulated me out loud like a dumbass for being at a club with 3 women. Another guy walked up to the group and tried inching his way in closer then went for a move on my girl trying to pick her up to dance, she resisted and tried to sat down but he kept trying. I gave him a quick kick to the ankle and wagged my finger at him and said “no.” He then proceeded to fuck off and meanwhile the girls got really close and started cracking up and speaking their language (who knows what they were saying), a habit I noticed occur whenever I did anything of note. Even when I saw her and the average one the next week in the dorms and said something funny they felt the need to semi hug when they laughed at it. Some other spastic offered to buy me a bottle so I’d let him stick around but I told him to fuck off when he wasn’t delivering on his promise. At a certain point in the orbiter frenzy she shit tested me trying to relate me to the orbiters and saying something along the lines that I was "im hitting on them" (Her). I gave her a wry smile, put two fingers up like I was measuring something small and said "a little bit." causing her to one again put lean her face over in close proximity to her friends and grin/let off a small laugh.

Around 2ish they said they had to go to some apartment of a friend who just broke up with her bf so I couldn’t come cause it wasn’t a happy occasion or some shit. At this point I didn’t really care if they were being truthful or not cause I didn’t feel like playing the dancing monkey for much longer although they were talking about it before they told me. I hugged the entire group bye individually and the hot one was all like “Omg Injection it was so good hanging out with you.” Whatever. The dynamic when we see each other at school hasn’t really changed; she still gets this huge grin on her face and says hi to me which usually leads to useless small talk and her cracking up at my humor/unapologetic inappropriateness. Would have nexted her already but considering the fact that she is one of the most attractive women in this school and that there is barely any competition I’m gonna give this shit some more time to see if I could make anything happen.

Lessons Learned:

  • Women will try to trap and keep you in their friendzones to get nice perks (getting into clubs they usually wouldn’t be able to) without having to pay for them (sex.)

  • If the group of friends is inseparable get guy friends to handle them for you when you go out so you don’t have to multitask.

  • Other guys that aren’t in your inner circle at social venues are parasites seeking to feed off of your awesomeness for the slight chance that they could get some ass, deal with them swiftly.

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