This isn't a lesson about rewarding good behavior and punishing bad behavior. I have learned that sometimes it pays to be front-footed and take initiative before things break down.
Things were going pretty smooth with my favorite plate. We managed to get away from our respective families 3 times in 3 weeks for drinks, dinner, and hotel room fucking. We had a lot of laughs and were speaking/texting almost daily.
Two weeks ago, I decided to let her last text hang. Same with the voice mail she left at my office.
Why? To display high value. I wasn't upset, I was creating delicious drama for her. If she thinks she has me, that's boring. She craves tingles and tension so I aim to please
I shot her a 3 word text Monday morning. Acted like it was completely normal.
Smartly, she took 24 hours to get back to me:
Plate: Cad, I am slammed before I leave for vacation tonight
Me: I want to come on your tits
Plate: Touched
Plate: By your thoughts
Plate: Id like to think its your way of saying you missed me and feel bad not being in touch for a few days
Me: I feel horrible
Me: Horribly needing to slap your ass and fuck you til you moan my name
One hour later
Plate: You think Im so naïve
Plate: And I think you are kind of an asshole
Me: Just kind of? That's Mr. Asshole to you
Plate: Ok have a great week Mr Asshole. Have fun with whoevers tits you get to come on
Note: I never came close to mentioning ANY reason for her to get jealous. But the ghosting is something a High Value Man would do and High Value Men do not lack opportunities with other women
Me: wear suntan lotion. ciao
Two hours later:
Plate: Sent pic of a book I should read, said she bought me a copy.
TLDR--- Don't give 100% to any one woman. Make her constantly wonder if she has you.
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