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Guy posts confession from his Uni's forum. Advised to post to relationship_advice. Here it is.

Bill__Lumbergh

September 18, 2014
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Title Guy posts confession from his Uni's forum. Advised to post to relationship_advice. Here it is.
Author

Bill__Lumbergh

Upvotes 15
Comments 8
Date September 18, 2014 4:38 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2grwim/guy_posts_confession_from_his_unis_forum_advised/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/guy-posts-confession-from-his-unis-forum-advised.228073
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[–]Bill__Lumbergh[S,🍰] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I was not the OP, but I saw the top comment was a suggestion to post in relationshit_advice to see what the hamsters and whiteknights would say. Sadly, the results are not surprising. Any piece of half-way good advice was downvoted. Anything that was aligned with the feminist agenda was upvoted.

[–]Endorsed ContributorInvalidity4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That reads like entitlement. Her doing what she wants for herself may be hurtful to you, and that sucks. But she doesn't owe you anything, so she isn't obliged to stop. You are obliged to take care of yourself, so if you want to stop being hurt, walk away. -MissCarrieNation

I'll be honest, this was very reasonable advice. The top post is pure rambling.

[–]SkyrimCory1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I was the guy that saw th is on my uni confessions page. Thought it belonged here most of all.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Can't she see it's hurting me?

Your entire post, and that line particularly, reeks of entitlement. It doesn't matter how good you are to her. It doesn't matter how nice you are. It doesn't matter how much it hurts you to see her do what she's doing. It doesn't matter how shitty the other guy is. It doesn't matter how much you think she'd be better off with you than him.

She makes her own decisions. She isn't accountable to you. You respect her decisions or you don't. If you don't, find someone else to be infatuated with.

This shit right here man. fuck, it cuts so deep. being kind and gentle, bitches dont give a shit for any of that. it doesn't matter to her.

at least, a man knows to repay my kindness with a kindness of his own. but bitches brah, bitches aint shit.

fuck it man. im done. im not hovering around on any ho no more.

[–]ilike2partyhowaboutu1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She isn't accountable to you

The North American Princess Motto

[–]kindlebluemoon 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The advice isn't THAT different from what you'd see here. Everyone is telling him to move on, work on self-improvement.

They even included a bit about AFBB, although it was worded a lot more politically correctly than it would be here and painted in a neutral, rather than negative, light.

[–][deleted] 0 points0 points0 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]Fhqwghads-1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Entitlement by definition isn't restricted to deserving something without working for it. Effort expended is nowhere in the definition. It simply means that you think you deserve something.

This guy is receiving exactly what he "worked" for, to be her beta orbiter bitch. Yet he feels entitled to be her AF.

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