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[–]SadJoblessDoge7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
We don't endorse treating woman like shit, we endorse treating woman like woman. We understand and accept that man and woman are different and have strenghts in different areas.
Moreover, calling names is stupid and shows unacceptable loss of frame, no matter the conditions you are in, same with violence (read the sidebar goddamit, the threads are becoming more shit by the hour). We don't disrespect woman, we lead them, in a way that both we and them feel happier in the process.
If a woman deserves being insulted, she should be hard next'ed and ignored. On the other hand, if you can't cease the contact with her, (divorce case etc. you know the drill) you should be calm (or at least appear to be), reserved and professional.
If you start to argue with woman, you already lost.
TBH this thread looks like somebody from XX reddit or something similar came and wanted us to show how presumably "misogynistic and woman-hating" we are ( list of traits that make you treat somebody other like shit? really? if this is a bait, you really have some lessons in highschool to catch up to)
[–]EvilGenius00-2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm not sure that you understand that what I called in my examples as disrespectful actually has worked. This is why I asked what did I do right. I want to refine it ,if you will like sharpening a blade. I have personally as a black man have seen disrespect work on multiple occasions . If you are serious about me reading the side bar, please know I have. However that sidebar is extra disorganized and some of the links don't work. I am not understanding where you draw the notion that what I'm doing is wrong. I gleefully call women bitches and whores(after all hip hop is very redpill). If you want them to be treated like women that is fine, but Hip hop did not lie to the black community. If anything hip hop is the only redpill music genre to exist. So this is not bait of any type please understand. How could you say that my method doesnt work when you can always just watch it work?Maybe white women/latina /asian don't have the kind of gall to be disrespected. I firmly stand tall and heavy on this(no matter how your perception may help you view it), and I only love sleeping with women but do not love them . Tom Leykis endorses treating a woman like shit, and he is on point. -------side note What is xx reddit?? Thanks man.
[–]SadJoblessDoge1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Not a bait, a pleasant surprise it seems. And actually read the sidebar (most of new guys here don't even look at it despite every post reminding them to). I apologize for jumping to conclusions.
I never said that it doesnt work. I said that you shouldn't lower yourself to using it. Wouldn't physical violenece have the same effect? You're opening yourself up to potential (mental) household violence accusation. It's an extreme comparison but correct nontheless.
Here's the explanation why it works, but why you should learn other ways:
Here, in RedPill we strive for top. What we want is not to get 1% of best woman. What we want is to become 1% best men, and women come as a by-product. The core of our drive is to better ourselves in any way we can/see fit. Through insults you have displayed frame and abudance mentality. Yet frame should be unshakeable whoever you meet- no matter if if i's a 10/10 supermodel, your bully from highschool days or older brother. There will be people who will be resistant to insults or people that you simply cannot afford to antagonize. If your most basic and most used tool fails, what can you do then? According to your comparison, you don't sharpen your dagger. What you do is add another weight to your sledgehammer. Why crush the head of your opponent when the fight is to first blood only, and a small drop of blood on a cheek is all that matters.
You've said you're a black man and you listen to hip-hop. I don't want to generalize, but it seems you're medium social class or lower. If you truly strive for greatness you'll soon need to change your behaviour to match the upper-middle or upper class of the society, and they will not cut you any slack because of your condition. These people wil look at blatant insults as something barbaric, beneath them.
Another thing to think about: I've been in my LTR for some time now (a couple of years) and i have never even raised my voice. The same effect that you'll have with screams, insults and broken plates, I will have with a silent stare and a frown. Think of it as this example: There was always one kid who didn't swear, even if everyone around threw "fuck"s and "shit"s all over the place. But when shit really hit the fan and even he said "Oh fucking hell" everyone knew that something(or someone) is about to go down.
EDIT: Typos and:
Also, you've said that your ex loved the atmosphere of unpredictability. Not the verbal violence. The great book that you should read (included in the sidebar) is 48 Laws of Power. Actually there are some laws that are easily seen in this situation, but the one that worked in your case was:
6th Law : Create An Air Of Mystery
[–]EvilGenius000 points1 point2 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Good post . Really good !! The only reason I have even resorted to using verbal aggression is because most of the women I deal with have grown up around it, and it feels extra natural(unconscious ). Maybe the women you other guys deal with respond better to silence and not raising your voice.
It is the same class of behavior that explains why some women stay with their abusers. A lot of the redpill can be applied into basic attachment theory. If you grew up around certain things, you may respond to that certain stimuli. The laws in the redpill works, but according to the target only. The same things you would use to catch a fish , is not what you would use to catch a fox. You could apply the same tool to cut bread and cut another person.
It is still a metal blade.
The girls I have to deal with are not really nice(they are ghetto).
Another thing is this: I come from middle class but was abandoned by my mother and thus casted into poor class. Me and her are not friends . So often I get called a white boy for just being me because I talk proper.
(The ghetto women and ghetto men do this) It is really evident to everyone that I'm not from the ghetto.---------------The thing about the redpill is I think it may work better on non ghetto women who are not black when it comes to non aggression.(I find it much eaiser to date white women than black , but I dont resort to cursing because I'm usually fun and firm with them.)
Nobody should not be violent. But the redpill seems to not have a clear target on who to apply the principals to. It gives you the tool but doesn't say what type to target to apply it to . If she was raised in a chaotic environment, then she may only respond to it.
Outside of that, I'm not a cursing potty mouth , but when it comes to women my defenses are up and the thought of even being nice mentally just doesn't seem like an option that I could survive.
It is survival of the fittest, I'd rather hurt than be hurt. I do occasionally be nice to them, but it very little and most likely involves food.---------My ex loved my personality these were her words: " I love the ups and downs it's okay."----the thing about my behavior is that it isn't really aggressive in delivery.
Most of the time I'm smiling while addressing her by the name I give women. I withdraw attention when we are not having sex. There is no cuddling, no hugging no I love you. Just a sexing session and then I keep attention away from her until I want to have sex again.
If I treat her to an outing, then I'm feeding her something , while looking at other women. This is natural.(unconscious )
But The cursing part is something that comes out of feeling . Women are called bitches . I don't say this with ill will.
[–]WISE_TURD1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wrong sub. Questions are for ask trp.
[–]EvilGenius000 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I will try to put it there. I could nt find the flair for it thanks!!!!
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