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| 4 | What was your first approach like?Read “models” by mark manson. Go in there and do it. Getting rejected is a blessing because you realize it’s not even bad at all. Getting the first approach out of the way is the hardest part. It only gets easier from there. You’re not the center of the universe, and that’s a good thing. No one cares if you get rejected, and it’s very likely no one’s paying any attention. “When you’re 20 you care what everyone thinks, when you’re 40 you stop caring what everyone thinks, when you’re 60 you realiz… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 08:27 PM |
| 20 | Go to Every Event You're Invited toThis holds true for career as well. Go to those awkward networking events when you need a job least. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/18 12:57 PM |
| 1 | I need a vision in life.Seems like you might be in a little bit of a rut. Break out of the rhythm by changing things up. Start saying “yes” to shit that’d you’d normally say “no” to and even vice versa (make sure when you say no that you substitute it with a beneficial activity). If you think something didn’t benefit you, don’t do it again obvi. Sometimes you’ll have to change your lifting schedule a little bit. Don’t worry, one day a week won’t kill your gainz. do your desk work and reading in a coffee shop and chat u… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 05:55 PM |
| 15 | UPDATE on how I (35m) lied to myself about taking TRP, while still being totally plugged in, and about to marry a crazy, manipulative, narcissistic, bitch (28f)If you find trp while in an ltr, you pretty much have to end that relationship in order to fully swallow the pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/18 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Wanting to quit the gym...https://www.mrmoneymustache.com/blog/ This guy has made a science out of saving money while living a good life. He usually says to cut out driving and using a bike for the first expense. Even things like electricity and not using a drier add up. http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2016/12/13/staying-fit-with-no-gym-in-sight/ In the future, asktrp. Cheers. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Question about college and career. Not women.You'll definitely know way more than a marketing major. Pretty much every job requires training, and no degree will prepare you 100%. That being said, an accounting or finance degree will prepare you as much as possible for running a small bank. It just so happens that these degrees are two of the most useful business degrees you can get. It's a win-win. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Question about college and career. Not women.I'd probably go the accounting or finance route. Although you could probably study whatever you want and have a job lined up, it's good to have a backup plan. I'd probably work for two years at another company and then transition to your father's bank. Accounting major to big 4 and getting that ca or cpa is a good way to look like you earned it to the people you'll be managing and you also won't feel like it was just handed to you. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Question about college and career. Not women.The most respected business degrees are accounting, finance, and economics. All of these will require some math credits, but accounting and finance aren't too bad. Higher level econ courses sometimes incorporate calculus. If you go to a target school, you can pretty much study whatever you want and get a job at a top firm if you have good grades and get a good internship as early as possible. You can literally be a religion major and get a job at goldman sachs if you went to an ivy league univer… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 03:26 AM |
| 15 | Lost Virginity Today.Keep a very large amount of condoms next to your bed and your couch and put three in an altoids box to bring with you. If the condom packaging looks worn out, assume the condom is fucked. Never keep condoms in a wallet or floating around in your pocket. I've had too many break on me to not keep them in pristine condition. I remember my college selling trojans for way cheaper in the student health center. Free condoms usually suck ass. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 01:25 AM |
| 22 | 29 semi virgin. Lost and frustratedUhhhh how much do you like this job? How fucked will your smv be when you're unemployed? The scarcity is strong within you. I don't think you realize how close to the edge of being totally fucked you are. Do. Not. Fuck. Your. Boss. At best, you get fired. Worse yet you get fired and have a black eye on your professional reputation. At worst case she "metoo's" you and ruins your personal reputation. I suggest you follow the sidebar and start talking to other women. Your career (and in a sense, li… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with gaslighting roommate?Sounds insufferable. Make sure hb4's on your side, do not involve her in the drama as you suggested and tell her you're leaving her out of it. Eventually she'll piss hb4 off and you can band together. Until then, clean up after yourself and take pics of the kitchen/bathroom after use. Send her the pic when she tries to bitch. Make sure you don't leave any personal belongings in any other common areas, and do a good purge of your shit in case you are messy (not saying to do this for her - having … | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 02:29 PM |
| 5 | I’m drinking less and losing status in male groups. How to respond?Practice amused mastery. When dudes fuck around and talk shit, never get butthurt, always agree and escalate. Pressure flip will probably piss them off more. "Well last time i got drunk i couldn't get it up when i was hookin up with your mom" if yall are ok with that sorta shit. Less crass would be "nah man, gotta wake up early so i can make it to my harry potter fan club" Usually people get pissed about this sorta thing because you're holding a mirror up to them and shows them how they have a p… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 02:21 PM |
| 39 | 29 semi virgin. Lost and frustratedIf you're going to flirt with hb4's, make it someone other than your boss. Like anyone else. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 02:14 PM |
| 0 | How do I become richReal estate is one of the inly investments where the bank will give you a loan of 80% of the investment (assuming a 20% down payment). Leverage is really what makes rentals a good way to make money fast. I like blending the "sure thing" approach with the "all in" approach. Let me explain. Dollar cost averaging (google this) low-risk etfs and investing AT LEAST 30% of your take home pay. Yes, equities (stocks) will likely fall some day. But if you use this strategy early and go hard as a motherfu… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 02:40 AM |
| 5 | How do I become richInvesting in stocks is pretty much the only way to save since interest rates are so low. http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2013/02/22/getting-rich-from-zero-to-hero-in-one-blog-post/ this guy retired at 30 by putting 50% of his income into index funds. He also graduated in CS. Cheers. Rental property is a good way to go as well. Less passive though. Edit: formatting, rental part | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 09:07 PM |
| 5 | $2,000 Budget: Increase My SMV?Since you already have a gym membership and haircut, consider going to central or south america to get some life experience. Helps you have confidence walking into a bar alone when you've been around the block. Definitely fulfilling if you're in to nature and/or history as well. If your wardrobe still sucks, uniqlo, 6pm.com, zappos, and levis are good places to start. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Ex wants to get back together...need advice99% of the time, the answer to this question is to move on. It's highly unlikely you're the 1% exception. Play the odds like a computer would. This would be the logical and probabilistic approach. Even from the emotional side of things: You're likely looking at the relationship through rose-colored glasses and deluding yourself. We're emotional beings. Understand that the grass is greener and our brains are terrible at recalling memories accurately. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Has anybody read both "The Slight Edge" and "The Compound Effect?"Haven't read either, but i'd suggest reading both and rereading if it really resonates with you. For nonfiction/self improvement books, try to find 5-10 that you'd like to build your life around and read/listen to them many times. Typically these books require action, and having the info in the front of your mind will remind you to do it. The first read is just to see if it's worth putting in the rotation. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 09:29 PM |
| 18 | Abs With Every Workout? Yes.If you live in a city by a beach, abs will definitely come in handy. If you game with a shirt on: - delts - lats - pecs - traps (can be overdone easily for some people) Basically all the muscles that make you look thicker and wider with a shirt on. Small waist is important as well. Although if you're already working all those out, you may as well work out 5 days a week and do everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Misled woman on how many children i have and now want to come cleanCome clean. If she's not cool with it, then consider it a lesson learned. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 10:39 PM |
| 10 | My LTR cheated. How should I proceed? Is it because of too much dread game?Just move on without doing anything to harm her any further. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 08:24 PM |
| 6 | Should there ever be a time where you don’t spin plates and focus on yourself?Monk mode. Read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Grey hair in beard ?I started getting grey in a my beard pretty early. I've had young chicks test me on it. I did fail some early on, but now i say something that implies they're a pedophile - "you do seem like the type of chick that bangs teenage boys". Make sure it's trimmed and either dye it or own that shit. Make sure you have some contingency plans for the shit tests. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Friends at school saying I'm an assholeJust keep forming good habits. Especially doing your best in school. You'll thank yourself when you're my age. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 02:19 PM |
| 10 | Friends at school saying I'm an assholeBlocking is not aloof. Blocking is too overt and obvious. Aloof would be to "be busy" whenever she wants to hang out. Then when she asks why you two aren't friends anymore you'd say "What? We're friends" and keep playing it that way until she fucks off. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 02:01 PM |
| 1 | "If u want to get in with me u have to message me first sometime!"This girl feels like bantering. You can either ignore it and change the subject to something else not serious or say the first thing that comes to your head - "isn't that the name of a ke$ha song? Come to think of it, you sorta remind me of her" Don't be afraid of saying something stupid. Whatever you do, DO NOT TAKE IT SERIOUSLY. Cheers | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Shit test?Remember, women are just children (we all are, you never grow up). When they're all done up in their princess outfit and have a few drinks in them, they're 8 year olds. She might have just wanted attention or to stir the pot. You never know. Keep this in mind before you go out and act accordingly. Take nothing seriously when you're not at work or achieving a goal. Trying to get laid isn't a a typical goal bc trying harder isn't necessarily going to yield more results (although you gotta approach… | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Logistics, Tinder, Lacking experience, no place of my own (mid20's), lacking in mental clarity/focus on where I need to be.Good luck. Check out "the power of now", "the ancient art of stoic joy", "the subtle art of not giving a fuck", and "the 4 hour workweek". If you have mental health issues, see a professional once or twice for a diagnosis then see how you can treat it as best you can without spending all your cash on that. Tomorrow is day 1. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/18 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Need a reason to take her homeThe view from the place (even if it sucks ass) | /r/askTRP | 26/02/18 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Logistics, Tinder, Lacking experience, no place of my own (mid20's), lacking in mental clarity/focus on where I need to be.Feels like you're in the situation where you can resign yourself to the fact that you'll either have to A. Put in the work and get after it, or B. Have this one foot in one foot out bullshit where you're getting juuust enough money and juuuust enough pussy to make you complacent and to tolerate your current situation. I vote dive into the abyss and come out the other side a changed man. Might even consider the military tbh. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/18 03:00 AM |
| 3 | How to build social value a lot of younger high SMV guys in their have.Never treat the symptom, treat the cause. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/18 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Logistics, Tinder, Lacking experience, no place of my own (mid20's), lacking in mental clarity/focus on where I need to be.Personal finance: https://www.mrmoneymustache.com/blog/ My rule of thumb is that if you're not financially independent, you're in monk mode until you figure out a plan. If you can't take girls back to your place you're in de facto monk mode anyway. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/18 05:14 PM |
| 7 | How to build social value a lot of younger high SMV guys in their have.I'd say the majority of those people merely seem like their lives are cool from the outside. I know this one dude who everyone hates. By looking at his social media, it appears that he hangs out with a bunch of hot chicks and has a lot of friends. In truth, bone of those dudes like him (he has pica of us together on there that I distinctly remember not wanting to be in the picture for). Most of the hot chicks he has pics with are people's girlfriends. Kinda awkward when this dude's trying to get… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/18 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Want to Start side hustle to make a little bit of supplementary income, any advice as to what I could do4 hr workweek Rich dad poor dad http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2011/05/23/get-rich-with-owning-rental-houses/ http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2013/07/25/50-jobs-over-50000-without-a-degree-part-1/ If you don't have a business idea that you believe in, rental property is a pretty fool proof way to leverage up with pretty high confidence that there will be returns. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/18 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Game for a lighterI'm guessing english isn't you're first language. All good: Experience>exception Grim>grin As for the game, it's good if it works and apparently not if it doesn't. Just keep doing it and getting feedback by trying. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How many of you own side business' for extra passive income? Could you describe what you do?Passive>supplemental ftfy | /r/askTRP | 25/02/18 07:22 AM |
| 11 | How can i defend myself from another guy without DEERing?Ignore | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 05:27 PM |
| 6 | What the fuck happened last night?I wouldn't dwell on this. You never know what was going through her mind. She's probably hooking up with another dude who got her hamster running in the background. If she acted really weird i'f have probably fallen asleep not spooning her and tried again in the morning. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | I just got firedI'd it out first on code academy or something similar before I took the plunge | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 04:36 PM |
| 2 | I just got firedThese might give you some perspective: Subtle art of not giving a fuck by mark manson (he graduated college with a finance degree only to become a writer) 4 hour workweek https://www.mrmoneymustache.com/blog/ What degree you get matters a lot. Pre med, engineering, and accounting/finance are all ones that are typically worth it imo. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys have some sort of recommended reading list?Read these books (i'd probably start from top to bottom, but that's up to you and what your main goals are). You can literally start the book of pook or the rational male (the book is a compilation of his blog with same name) for free, right now if you want. Subtle art of not giving a fuck The way of the superior man A guide to the good life: the ancient art of stoic joy The power of now No more mr nice guy How to win friends and influence people The book of pook (free ebook) The rational male M… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 03:16 AM |
| 12 | Help me with my Tinder pics!Get one with a dog, one doing something active that isn't lifting weights (rock climbing, running, etc), and one shirtless if you think it'll help your odds (if not lift until it will), one in a foreign place, one in a suit, one in the best halloween costume you've ever done or an event where you had to dress in costume and killed it. Dog is basically mandatory, the rest are ideas that can be combined (i.e. rock climbing in yellowstone is foreign place+activity). Limit to one selfie (zero is bet… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 09:49 PM |
| 11 | Easy text analysis requestYour second text should put the ball in her court: "no worries, hit me up when you're free". And THEN you go no contact. If she doesn't respond, you'll 100% know it was because she wasn't into it. No room for "what if?" | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Switching Positions?Read Sex god method | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Do boys always have to ask the girl to hang out?Yes. Just assume that if a girl reaches out to you in any way, she wants to meet up. You're the one who has to set it up. That way, you will avoid being an orbiter. A girl might try to hang out after you've plated her though, but for all intents and purposes the responsibility is on you. Asking her to meet up will either gives you an opportunity to hook up with her (obviously the end goal), or call her bluff (if she just wants attention through texting). If you offer to meet up one-on-one and sh… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 07:43 PM |
| 6 | How to game girls on BeachLift | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 11:50 PM |
| 3 | How can I best use money for red pill ends?It should really just bring security and knowing that you've got the bottom tier of maslow's hierarchy covered. Avoid the hedonic treadmill and check out stoicism. That being said, I'd diversify the hell out of my investments (index funds and rental property) and buy the nice version of whatever i use on a regular basis. For me, that'd be clothes (not saying i'd be buying $100 t shirts or anything) a new phone/laptop, and a house with a gym in it. Probably wouldn't even get a new car if someone … | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 11:49 PM |
| 28 | Friend got hit by false accusationYou and you friend need to stay the fuck away from all the people involved. He should call an attorney asap | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Plate sends me a pic of her and a guy, how am I supposed to react?Then i might not have responded. Either way, i feel like this is one of the occasions where "ignore" is the correct shit test procedure | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Plate sends me a pic of her and a guy, how am I supposed to react?I'd have probably acted as if he wasn't in the picture and she sent you a pic of her alone drinking juice. "Looks fun. Let's make some tang when i get back in town" | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Should I move out of my parents?This guy retired at 30 and his lifestyle is akin to stoics: https://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2015/07/27/rent-vs-buy/ Binge some of his articles before making a choice. He understands that money is freedom, and excess spending entombs us. In my opinion, just out of college and under 25 is a great time for monk mode. Might even consider getting a rental property a ride out the free rent another year. Keep looking out for good deals on rent. I moved into a situation with three other people that was … | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Lifting advice how should I be doing it?Whatever set/rep range you choose (5x5 is very popular here), compound movements should be the core of your routine. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Lifting weights or boxing? Both?Being 6'5" makes those lifts harder, especially squat. Using weight targets is a nominal indicator and isn't comparable from person to person when there's a large height disparity. Strongmen that are 6'8" are strong af, but squatting is usually the bain of their existence. Consider doing a day a week of boxing to see how it goes. I'd do whichever you enjoy more, because that's the one you'll be more likely to do consistently. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 03:52 AM |
| 3 | How to date and not get f'd over?Don't be too worried about these things. Not to say that it can't happen, but this mentality will make dating much less enjoyable and will likely fuck your game up. It's partially hyped up because sensationalist news and fear mongering sells. Deer kill far more people than sharks in america (by way of highway collisions), but you only hear about the shark attacks. As a trp reader, you'll see a lot more people post their fucked up story about a false rape accusation than them banging a chill girl… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/18 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Nothing works, I prefer killing myselfDefinitely see a professional as soon as you can. If you're under 25 (even older for some men), you haven't even had a chance to experience how good life can be as a male. Feel free to pm me. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/18 05:32 PM |
| 1 | (15) need help on gameRead or listen to "How to win friends and influence people" by carnegie and "Models" by mark manson. You probably won't remember everything in one go - best to read these books more than once. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/18 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Too High SMV?Women will try to turn you into a beta as part of their sexual hardwiring. Yet again a case of them not knowing what they actually want. Obviously never intentionally lower your smv. Tease her for being insecure when she exhibits this behavior. Basically call out the behavior without being too serious or dramatic. If it persists after doing this 3-5 times, break it off if the behavior is that bad. It takes awareness and some tactfulness (especially if you're around others) to call women out the … | /r/askTRP | 14/02/18 02:19 PM |
| 5 | How to Proceed after Sex with potential plate?Wait for her hit you up, if she doesn't after a week or so text her when she's at school or work so her dude doesn't see. Avoiding reaching out to her saves time and increases the chances of long term success, but when she's in a ltr, it's imperative. A good move is for the last thing out of your mouth to be "hit me up" after you see her. If she says something like "no, you hit me up", just immediately respond "can't wait to hear from you" and leave, close the door, etc. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 12:17 AM |
| 6 | “If I fuck you, I can’t like you”If a woman brings up sex, regardless of context, she's thinking about fucking you. She's like an alcoholic in a liquor store trying to stay sober. Also, it has nothing to do with her "not liking you". She knows her rmv goes down the earlier she gives it up; therefore she acts like she's the one in the position of choice, when in actuality some other dude(s) ghosted her after dicking her just one time, and she's acting like she "stopped liking them". To be fair, it's the third date and she probab… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Lifting routine helpDon't do splits until your noob gains are gone (usually around 12-18 months of lifting 3-4 days a weeks every week). It'll be more effective at first, but you'll have to do aplits eventually. Knowing nothing about you, it's hard to say when you'll need to switch. You can then do the ole back/bi, chest/tri, shoulders/arms, and leg days. So do full body workouts mon wed fri for three months and see where you're at. Make sure you focus on compound lifts. You can do some isolation for lagging muscle… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Advice for how to stay rp in an ltr when you’ve only ever spun plates?Read "the way of the superior man" by david deida | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Traveling to see a potential new plate?Only if you stay at her place and save money on a hotel/air bnb, or if she pays for the plane ticket, which helps you financially and lets you know she's invested. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 07:28 PM |
| 2 | I want to take action financially but need directionCheck these out (especially 4 hr workweek): https://www.mrmoneymustache.com/blog/ "The 4 hour workweek" by ferris "The millionaire next door" "Rich dad, poor dad" | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Stuck in a stupid situationShe's likely saying she might be pregnant to keep you on the hook. I've through this sorta thing multiple times. When it's over, cease all contact. It's better for all parties involved. Now if you run into her put somewhere, feel free to bang her with the caveat that you must go back to no contact afterward. Do not make this your goal. Cease contact and forget she exists. Paradoxically, you ghosting her will make it easier to bang her as if she were an old plate you randomly ran into. This is si… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | How to get rid of this guy? | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 04:33 AM |
| 1 | A question about respect.Sounds like you're high status. Good job with that. Ever wonder what it'd be like to win the lottery? You'd question the motives of everyone you meet afterwards. Every chick, any dude that wanted to snag a beer, anyone. Seems like you have this problem to a lesser degree. Either haters hating on you or people deep down wanting something from you. You'll have to vet the people you bring into your life more than other people. Everything's a double edged sword, this is how it is. That being said, c… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 02:36 AM |
| 5 | Ever seen a "loser" become a "winner" in their 20s?I'm guessing you're asking for yourself. The answer is yes. Stop analyzing and living in the past and start doing something about it. Just because a mistake took you a long time to make doesn't mean you have to keep making it. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 09:54 PM |
| 5 | How to keep Testosterone when it is hard to get sleep?I'm assuming you lift. From a hormonal perspective, lifting without adequate sleep is one step forward, two steps back. This isn't a solution by any means, but just thought i'd point that out. This website does a great job with this topic: https://www.anabolicmen.com/how-to-increase-testosterone-levels-naturally/ | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 05:28 PM |
| 4 | So i have oneitis. It's a mess. How do you handle the cut off?No, be genuinely busy. When you're texting her "i'm busy" it'll actually be beneficial because you'll have to MAKE yourself busy. Right before you text be like "looks like i'm gonna do duolingo and take spanish lessons", "guess i'm going to the gym right now", or "guess i'll see what chuck's up to". Don't worry about hurting her feelings if she finds out you weren't busy. If she asks why you two aren't friends, say "what? We're friends" and proceed with the plan. It's not gonna be easy but it'll… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 02:54 PM |
| 5 | Why can't I close?Need to work on lmr, cocky/funny, and shit tests in general. Practice makes perfect. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 05:02 AM |
| 22 | So i have oneitis. It's a mess. How do you handle the cut off?Just slowly fade out. Be busier with your life and genuinely don't have the time. Every time she asks to hang out, say something like "that sounds awesome, but i already have plans". Just leave it vague so she gets the point more quickly. And as an added bonus, actually make plans, even if it's just reading, lifting, meal prepping or something else non-social. Even better if you're socializing or studying (if you're in school). Work on yourself and get a quick lay with another chick if you can m… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Validation or seeking the best?You've got to find situations to talk other than the obvious (bars and parties). Try day game on campus, talking to girls in any classes you might have, yoga/spin class, co ed sports, and networking events. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 11:32 PM |
| 2 | I’m having a hard time deciding my career path/ college major. (21 years old)Chemical, mechanical, or petroleum engineering seem like they'd all work well with your background. As far as what will happen to oil over your career is anyone's guess. Computer science is great because it has staying power. If you're going into medicine, go all the way and become a doctor, or do so well in school that you can become a nurse and still have that option later on. In general, look into majors with the highest income and growth prospects then go from there. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 04:08 PM |
| 13 | 24M and VirginSidebar | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Finally have some sort of option but don't how to proceedMight want to check out 3% man by corey wayne. Dude basically made a formula to follow. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Finally have some sort of option but don't how to proceedI can't decide whether you read entirely too much of trp or not nearly enough. Either way, you need way more repititions. Get her number next time you see her. Stop thinking and blurt it out of you're new to this. Say whatever you want as long as it contains "What's your number?" in there somewhere. Doesn't even matter if it's totally unsmooth. Read "models" by mark manson | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Would fixing my diet alone help even without exercise?Absolutely. Also considering there's many degrees of eating healthy. It could be anywhere from 100% clean eating to 0% clean eating. I dated a girl who wanted phatter ass, then went on to say "i talked to a personal trainer, and he said i could only put an inch at most onto my ass", so she didn't even try. Fo you think her ass would look better or worse after exercising 3 days a week for a few months? Instead, since her ass would never be like j lo's, she said fuck it. Don't just eat like shit a… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes it isn't your lack of game but your lack of testosterone. If you have the test levels of a 80 year old cuck how do you expect to have any drive? Here is a science based guide to getting your T levels up naturally.I took 10,000 iu per day for a month (because i knew for a fact i was so deficient), then 5,000 per day. Got tested after three month and my vit d levels were 73 iu. Edit: now i take 5,000 iu per day sporadically | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/18 12:36 PM |
| 26 | 25 here and i need some advice, where to startRead these books (i'd probably start from top to bottom, but that's up to you and what your main goals are). You can literally start the book of pook or the rational male (the book is a compilation of his blog with same name) for free, right now if you want. Subtle art of not giving a fuck The way of the superior man A guide to the good life: the ancient art of stoic joy The power of now No more mr nice guy How to win friends and influence people The book of pook (free ebook) The rational male M… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Sometimes it isn't your lack of game but your lack of testosterone. If you have the test levels of a 80 year old cuck how do you expect to have any drive? Here is a science based guide to getting your T levels up naturally.Vitamin d. Legit raised my total test by 100 (ng/dl) from taking vitamin d supplements for a few months. My vitamin d levels went from 18 ng/ml to 73. In nature, we'd store vitamin d in our fat cells (usually our livers) during the summer so we had it for the darker and colder months when our skin was covered. Actually, when severely obese people lose weight quickly, they can run the risk of vitamin d toxicity. Perhaps my low body fat worked against me in this regard. These days, many of us don'… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/18 02:37 PM |
| 6 | How do I improve my voice?https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3nc9m4/simple_guide_on_how_to_get_a_deeper_voice/?st=JD4H8UY2&sh=b24a4809 | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 12:29 PM |
| 3 | High School Social CircleSports and clubs (common interests). Side note: keep those grades up. Seriously. If you don't want to play sports, consider joining or founding the powerlifting club at your school. Read or listen to "how to win friends and influence people" multiple times. Check out "subtle art of not giving a fuck" and "models" as well. Both by mark manson. Feel free to respond with any questions or concerns. Cheers | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 05:01 AM |
| 18 | How do I improve my voice?"Models" by mark manson touches on this. Cheers | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 04:52 AM |
| 2 | girlfriend (24F) and what she did to me (31M) on NYE's this past year and how to handle future situations.Stoicism, amused mastery, and never complaining about anything to her in general. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 02:59 PM |
| 6 | girlfriend (24F) and what she did to me (31M) on NYE's this past year and how to handle future situations.Well you're an asset in her eyes. Behavioral finance preaches risk aversion. I.e. humans weigh the downside risk more than the upside potential. Therefore, chicks will judge you by how you act at your weakest moments, since this is your floor. Women always fucking test and judge us at our weakest moments. Law 30: make your accomplishments seem effortless This law is useful for exuding strength. For instance, I stayed at work until 9 last night and got in at 6 today to make sure I finished someth… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 02:17 PM |
| 29 | girlfriend (24F) and what she did to me (31M) on NYE's this past year and how to handle future situations.Drunk minds speak sober thoughts and drunk thots show their true colors. Sounds like you witnessed her true nature and are choosing to act like it was a one off. Next time she's drunk, give her enough rope to hang herself instead of intervening whatsoever. This will save you a lot of trouble in the long run. The fact that she didn't walk over to you and get close to you in some way that shows the other guy that she's taken is a red flag. I'd have probably broken it off or at least called her out… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Best friend stole from me..Go for it. He'll probably say he didn't do it and you'll look like a douche. If you have evidence it might work. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/18 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Workplace fling, im in trouble.Np. Don't let the boyfriend find out. If she wants to break up with him, tell her some bullshit to kick the can down the road. I'd consider "i want you so bad, but one of us should get another job before we go any further.", this has the added benefit of her possibly leaving the company first, while also buying you some time. And then you let her get a new job, settle in for a couple weeks, then break it off before she breaks up with her bf. This would be the only way you could keep your current… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Best friend stole from me..Don't confront shit. Focus on having a good time and start your slow fade into the darkness. What he did was shady, indirect, and underhanded. Respond in kind. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 07:07 PM |
| 4 | Best friend stole from me..Dude this is the worst position for him to put you in because they'll always say they didn't steal it and make you seem like the bad guy. Just stop hanging out with him if you know he did it. Source: I was in a similar situation when i was in high school (now 28) and i didn't do the right thing. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Workplace fling, im in trouble.Steps i'd take: - start applying to other jobs right now. Get on linkedin and hustle. Get a new headshot linkedin and maybe shut down social media as a preliminary step to make sure no one posts anything damaging if/when the shit hits the fan. This might take a month or two. don't rock the boat. It seems counterintuitive, but at this point you gotta keep fucking her. And make sure you lay the pipe better than ever before. Your career depends on it. Say whatever you gotta say to keep her happy. I… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 06:08 PM |
| 6 | My buddy's newfound success caused his (now ex) girlfriend to lose her mind.I agree that there are more women who are "naturals" (in truth it's probably more about how you were raised) when compared to men. It other words, they understand how to exploit societal norms to achieve their biological imperative. However, when you're think about the best pickup artists, they are the "naturals" who also learn about game and put in the work. Same for any other profession or trade really. Not to say that women don't subconsciously practice their trade, but men typically become m… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Is this means to soft next? LTR flaked on date.When in an ltr, dread game should happen coincidentally because you're high value and actually considering ditching her for something new. You'll have subtle actions that tell her this is the case. Note: While this method does keep her in line, it has somewhat of a grass is always greener effect to the user, making ltr's stupid in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 05:00 PM |
| 40 | My buddy's newfound success caused his (now ex) girlfriend to lose her mind.For him turning into a beta: it was like putting a frog in room temp water then heating up slowly. For her turning into a psycho: it was like throwing the frog into boiling water. Case in point: she should have stuck with what worked. She let her short greed and lack of patience sabotage her game. I'm wondering if/when there's sub that teaches gold digging cunts how to play the game. Really, trp in the wrong hands could show women how to betacuck rich pussies. Thankfully the majority of women do… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Help on respect issues.Wrong sub. Questions are for ask trp. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 04:56 AM |
| 8 | [Repost] Why women in relationships deliberately beta-fy their menRegardless of age or marital status, you literally can't read this too many times. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Tall guys - do you have trouble keeping on solid weight because of your frame size?Eat more. Always have a snack on deck. Peanut butter and almond butter sandwiches, protein powder, trail mix, fruit, chia and hemp seeds in whole milk. Almonds have so many calories, i make trail mix with 100% dark chocolate chips, dried blueberries, and raw almonds. Very nutrient and calorie dense concoction. Strongmen are typically well over 6 feet tall. Now these men are genetically predisposed to be large; however, they eat constantly to maintain a weight of over 400 pounds. Check out the do… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/18 05:16 PM |
| 2 | 8/10 wants to fuck at her apartment after a party. ED from anxiety, she's too drunk. Following first regular date a week later, she leaves in middle of night & ghosts me after I make advances at my apartment.60/40 principle. A reaction from someone else is 40% what you do and 60% things out of your control like their mental state in the moment, menstral cycle, etc. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 02:45 PM |
| 56 | The Red Pill makes me sick. MALE OPINION"Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom." - Viktor Frankl | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/18 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Took TRP and now I'm lost.Sounds like you're doing fine and just dealing with a codependency issue. This happens to a lot of people after breaking up with their cunt ex gfs. Take a look at maslow's hierarchy of needs and knock everything out starting from the bottom. Some tips: - get enough sleep. - eat a nutritious diet. Might want to consider getting vitamin d levels and triglycerides tested. - keep lifting. - socialize with your friends. Reconnect with old friends that you may have unconsciously cut off during the rel… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Got catfished. Catfisher knows where I'm staying.I know what you mean, she's definitely a dishonest little hoe. Just remember that she's a fatty and wanted a dude out of her league to stick it to her like the good ole days when she could see past her fupa. Doesn't mean she can lie and get away with it. The hamstering she'll do after he nonchalantly bails on her is her punishment. "Omg did he find out I was fat or did he genuinely have something come up?" Shit if you really wanted to fuck with her, make it seem like you really want to meet up l… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/18 01:14 AM |
| 2 | My female coworkers keep telling me my wife should stop being a house wife.Even tho this guy or girl is trolling, case and point: marriage is only there to raise functioning adults. Furthermore, getting her pregnant (intentionally, otherwise abort), then get married should be the order of operations. I'm considering putting off marriage as long as possible and intentionally having a shotgun wedding to avoid getting married to a woman who's incapable of bearing children, or find out that I can't have children. It's not like i'm religious or anything. Fuck being married … | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 08:44 PM |
| 4 | Got catfished. Catfisher knows where I'm staying."It seems like you intentionally misrepresented who you were in your profile. It was nice meeting you, but I don't associate with dishonest people." - in person if you realize what happened when you first see her "Sorry, something came up, let's take a raincheck" - via text right now since you already know | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 05:22 PM |
| 11 | On Physical AttractionI'd say short term it plays a role. I don't mean to sow a seed of doubt in anyone, because I firmly believe you should only harbor beliefs that benefit you. So if you're short, believe that height doesn't matter. It's out of your control, so the only thing you can do is think positively. Getting insecure about it will magnify its effect on your life. In the long term, you see what people are made of. My uncle's 5'6" and started balding at 30. People underestimated the fuck out of him his entire … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/18 03:24 AM |
| 41 | On Physical AttractionIf men respect you, women will sleep with you. Use this way of thinking whenever if you're feeling insecure and want to gain objectivity. Could you respect a man who is overweight? Probably. If he was overweight with a shitty job? Less likely. If he was short, bald, and had shitty posture to boot? Even less likely, but he could still do something astronomically unlikely to make you respect him. Eventually it gets to a one in a million chance you ever respect the guy in his current condition. Sam… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/18 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Why is it important to cut off on fapping ans porn?Dopamine. In nature, we would be rewarded for getting sex, sugary/fatty foods, or even human validation by getting a hit of dopamine. Hunting and foraging (effort) was necessary, so our brains evolved the dopamine reward system to keep us alive. In modern times, hunting for our food is no longer necessary. Hence, fat people who are addicted to dopamine by way of food. We no longer have to earn validation by giving value to the tribe, because we have social media. We no longer have to pick up chi… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/18 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Any good books on establishing a routine to help get up in the morning, have a shave, go to the gym, go to bed in time ect.. Every night i say tomorrow will be the day, but then I'm just a lazy cunt again. Sometimes i do it, sometimes i don't.I agree with everyone here that action is better than reading; however, dedicating time to reading about something increases your perceived investment and might help kick you in the ass a bit. I've heard "miracle morning" by elrod is good. Put your alarm clock on the other side of your bedroom and find some fiction that you genuinely want to read before bed. It'll help you get to bed earlier and fall asleep faster. Stop watching tv, stop watching porn. Chill out on internet use and social media. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/18 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety at the gymYoutube athleanx, alan thrall. Knowledge is power. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/18 09:44 PM |
| 7 | How to get back into the game after LTR break up?For sleep: - meditate before bed and in general. - read fiction before bed. - lift in the morning. - lower temperature in the bedroom and/cold shower at night. - avoid blue light after dark. If none of these work, make sure you're not overtraining. Look up sleep hygiene for more research. Consider getting some bloodwork done to check vitamin d levels and the take general triglyceride panel just to rule out anything there. I recommend hooking up with another chick asap. It helps. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/18 03:56 AM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread January 17Read the sidebar multiple times and remember that a lot of these truths are not as blatant as the field reports etc. on trp are. Subtle actions contain a lot of information. Just go observe the body language of couples and see how brainwashed most men are. Their body language will tell you that they're basically a woman's pet. That being said - you've got a great opportunity being your age. Keep your grades up, keep active (lift or play a sport), and be friends with everyone. Make sure your futu… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/18 12:27 AM |
| 2 | How to go from incel to chadRead the book of pook, "models" by mark manson, "the way of the superior man", "no more mr nice guy" and of course "the rational male" by rollo. Keep lifting. Eat healthy. Watch athleanx, alan thrall, fitnessfaqs, and calisthenicsmovement on YouTube. find your purpose and pursue it. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Rate my tinder pics and give me some advice if you slay on tinderDitch number 1 and switch it for one with you and a dog. Get at least one pic with some friends in it (this is social proof and will give them data points to figure out your height). Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 04:53 AM |
| 1 | For the Incels - The only post you need, so you can shut up. Forever.That's the point. He's an example of someone possessing traits other than looks buoying his smv. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/18 12:59 PM |
| 5 | For the Incels - The only post you need, so you can shut up. Forever.I like this rule of thumb: if men respect you, women will fuck you. From the looks of my grandparents, i'll one day be pretty much bald. Does this mean I go lock down a chick asap before all my worth is depleted? Fuck no. Why? Because I know I could still respect a man that didn't have hair. Therefore, women will fuck a man without hair. Not saying that you can be fat and poor af, but that one aspect alone won't fuck you. Danny devito definitely gets laid. Work on your game and be as objective a… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/18 03:03 AM |
| 4 | The difference 4 years makes.What'd you expect? This sub is predicated on male sexual strategy. You don't go to the butcher shop to buy kale salad. Anyone that actually read the sidebar knows that women are a lagging indicator of success. Once you understand that, you focus on building the life you want for yourself, and everything else starts to fall into place. The truth of the matter is that if no one from the opposite sex wants to fuck you, you probably need to change some things. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 11:40 PM |
| 42 | The difference 4 years makes.I don't mean to be harsh, but how exactly is your comment of any value? All you did was give your opinion with no supporting facts and a suggestion to not dismiss your opinion. A well-constructed argument for why he was wrong would be greatly appreciated. A demand to take your opinion as truth because you say so will be downvoted to kingdom come. Trp is all about achieving an objective perception of reality, not to be told by anyone (man or woman) that they're right because their feelings got hu… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 07:41 PM |
| 2 | What should I do? Do I have oneitis?I'll summarize, but don't just put a band aid on this - you'll just end up in the same situation again. You can listen to the book on audible if you'd prefer. Among the many point he makes, one of them is the concept of polarizing the woman as soon as possible. This means making her decide whether she's interested sexually or not. You'll be more forward, which has an effect of being confident, and will make more women attracted to you anyway. But you'll also save everyone's time by not pursuing … | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 06:51 AM |
| 7 | What should I do? Do I have oneitis?Yea you're in the friendzone. You pretty much have no choice but to go no contact. If you'd like to look back and not say "what if?", attempt to make out with her first. If/when she rejects you (she probably will, but who knows), then ghost. Check out "models" by mark manson. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 05:53 AM |
| 4 | Fat face. Fit body.Get to 8-10% body fat before freaking out. Six pack and veins in biceps at least. Reminds me of when girls get breast reduction surgery instead of losing as much weight as possible and potentially fixing it that way. They end up being a flat chested fat chick, and the world loses a chick that could have had DDs with a thin waist. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/17 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Girl I've been ghosting obsessively trying to fuck meDo not reward her bad behavior, it'll only get worse. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/17 09:55 PM |
| 5 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.He lost the game long before asking for her to forfeit. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/17 05:23 AM |
| 256 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.Well played by the woman. She's a machiavellian. Let's all learn from this dude's mistake. Her playing dumb is the correct response from her standpoint. She already bought low, why would she sell at the price she bought at when the asset value increased so much??? The dude's probably getting pussy thrown at him (due to his sudden increase in smv) and is planning an exit strategy. She's either too stupid to realize or she's a crafty little bitch. Not even sure what's worse, as I find both to be i… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 07:44 PM |
| 4 | How well does any of this work for people of color?Trp is predicated on bettering yourself first and foremost. Don't have any limiting beliefs. Since they're usually self-fulfilling prophecies, practice having optimistic beliefs. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 07:26 AM |
| 2 | My friends age shaming me.You will understand that their criticism has absolutely nothing to do with you. Does the mirror react when you speak into it? That's what you are in this situation. The mirror that's showing them the folly of their beliefs and decisions. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Beginner starting to lift, best place to beginYoutube: athleanx, alan thrall, fitnessfaqs, calisthenicsmovement Focus on compound lifts (google compound vs isolation lifts) and learn as much as possible from the sources listed above. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 08:44 PM |
| 2 | My friends age shaming me.They're hating on you because they hate themselves. This is their unconscious thought process: - they are insecure or regretful about something in their life. they see you making the opposite decision or having different life circumstances (whether chosen or not). For example it could be natural good looks/inheritance (involuntary), or it could be lifting and working hard to get money (voluntary). instead of working hard to make the life they want, they'd rather try to pull you down the their le… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 07:39 PM |
| 2 | What are TRP's thoughts on "Models" by Mark Manson?I though it was great. Read or listen to it for yourself and form your own opinion. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 05:27 AM |
| 4 | Tips for opening girls on tinder?In general, making sure your pictures make you look hot and interesting will be more effective than anything. Put time and effort into this, and you'll save time and effort later. It's a numbers game. In bigger cities you can blast out generic openers to as many girls as possible such as "you seem fun" or something very very simple. In smaller cities, just say the first thing that pops into your head about one of her pictures. You can also do the generic thing if you feel like it. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 11:01 PM |
| 4 | I plan on retiring at 26 in the Philippines. Any other former expats? Opinion of doing so? I’m from NYC.Check out https://www.mrmoneymustache.com/blog/ The guy "retired" (he still does freelance work and obviously has a blog) at 30. He's got a bunch of good articles. Make damn sure you can live off your pension/dividends/passive income and have at least one source of active income so you can reinvest dividends instead of spending them when the market dips. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 10:44 PM |
| 26 | My friends age shaming me."If you are willing at look at another person’s behavior toward you as a reflection of the state of their relationship with themselves rather than a statement about your value as a person, then you will, over a period of time cease to react at all” -Yogi Bhajan These bitches are regretting their decisions and taking it out on you. Keep up the good work! | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Is this considered beta eye contact? Video inside.He might not be used to the camera yet | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 06:27 AM |
| 13 | Why Do Girls Claim to Not Like Alpha Traits?Trust her actions, not her words. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to get to the point where I can go out any night I choose and reliably hook up?Stop thinking about it and keep putting yourself in the position to get rejected. Eventually you'll be immune to the sting. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Advice on messaging these girls (w/screenshots)Stop sending more than one text in a row Set up the fucking logistics (she's probably thinking this too). In ONE text, set up the time and place. If you know her well, pick her up. If you don't, meet her at a bar. You: "Lucky's pub thursday at 8?" Her: "that sounds great!" You: "awesome, see you then" You: "Pick you up thursday at 7?" Her: "that sounds great!" You: "see you then, hope you like sushi" If she's saying anything another than yes, say "all good, let me know when you're free" and neve… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 03:57 PM |
| 56 | How long did it take you from beta bucks to alpha chad?The journey is asymptotic. You get closer and closer but you'll never be all the way "there". Just enjoy the ride. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Sex issues with new gf -need advice.Vacation's probably a good call. - more sleep - cut back on blue light after dark - read fiction before bed - get to bed early - go into nature more often - find a new job if you need to. Consider starting a side business. Network and get new skills if needed (4 hr workweek, how to win friends and influence people). Stop or cut back on tv, internet and video games. Keep exercising and eating well. Consider a standing desk if you have a desk job. Try longer foreplay so you can meditate and stay i… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Sex issues with new gf -need advice.I'm just going to list things that could help (besides porn/beating off). Use whatever resonates with you: Find your mission in life. I actually had this problem when I had a job I wasn't in to. Then i went on vacation to visit an old fling and we fucked 7 times a day. Came back from the vacation, dick wasn't cooperating as well as it should. Decrease stress overall. Learn to meditate and meditate during sex. Sleep more Do not think about your body during sex. Think about her body, be a teenager… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Sex issues with new gf -need advice.Tl;dr plz | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Sex issues with new gf -need advice.Stop watching porn or jacking off | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 12:07 AM |
| 5 | Is the redpill valid after 30?So you think making more money, understanding how to interact with people (especially women), and being as physically attractive (and therefore healthy) will ever NOT be important? Read. The. Sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 12:05 AM |
| 6 | Got invited to eat dinner with 4 girls, what do, and is this a good thing?Options: 1. Go and try to get that chick's number. Make sure you flirt with her (maybe very benign kino like touching her arm/shoulder once or twice just to break the touch barrier) and try sitting next to her if it won't look too contrived. I'd get her number in front of everyone at the end of the night if I had to (which will likely be the case) - it'll have the effect of showing her that you don't give a fuck and have balls. 2. Just bail on the whole thing. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Should I try and slide into DMs?No. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Have any of you guys struggled to gain upper body weight as a tall guy?Get testosterone and vitamin d levels checked (precautionary measure). Fix your diet. Consider intermittent fasting. Find a good workout partner. Get more sleep. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 04:20 AM |
| 4 | In a LTR doubts and other issues and thoughts. Need advice!We make decisions with our guts (or limbic system), so use that shit. Make school your focus, and if you don't see yourself with this girl later in life, then take this as an opportunity to get used to being single and alone. When you're a resident, all the nurses will flock to your penis. Just stay in shape and get very good grades and everything will fall into place. You, my friend, are in de facto monk mode due to time constraints and the huge time commitment that will pay off in a massive bo… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 04:17 AM |
| 18 | Got invited to eat dinner with 4 girls, what do, and is this a good thing?You were invited to girls night out. This means none of them want to fuck you. Now, does that make you beta? That's for you you to decide, as you understand the situation much better than we do. Continue to work on yourself and do what pleases you. No one will agree with me on this part, but if you feel like being friends with these chicks, go for it. Just don't do unnecessary favors and nice guy bullshit for them (or anyone else for that matter). Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 04:10 AM |
| 9 | Girl got my number somehow and asked about her bf, should I ask her how she got it?No, you're thinking like a woman (hamstering). Ask her to hang out. If she says yes, set up a time and place. If she says no, withdraw your attention. Either way, you're in high school. Focus on your grades, learning how to make friends with everyone, and either sports or lifting. I know it's difficult when you're a teenager, bc you're likely horny as fuck. Once you do the things I listed, everything will fall into place. Don't make women the mission. Read "the way of the superior man" Edit: als… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Seriously think about who’s writing the shit you read here. You need to learn to think/judge for yourselves.Do not post if you're 20 and younger. I really think someone should consider making trpcollege or trphighschool Saw a 16 yo kid asking questions on asktrp and then posting garbage on trp the next day. If you've asked a question on asktrp in the last year, YOU ARE NOT QUALIFIED. On the flipside, post at least once if you're 40+ | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/17 11:09 PM |
| 2 | 16 year old beginner needs helpIt applies to all human interaction and contains concepts that are absolutely foundational to game and gaining status in general. Since it has so much information and requires action, I suggest reading/listening to it once every three months for a year (4 times total). Afterwards, once a year minimum to keep it sharp. Once you can converse with anyone, game's way easier. Figure out your career goals. For instance, if you want to become a doctor, it'll be much easier if you set that goal now and … | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 04:22 AM |
| 1 | 16 year old beginner needs helpMonk mode until college. Number 1 priority is finding out your mission in life and getting into a good college. Keep lifting, keep reading. Learn to socialize in general, this will carry over to women when you go to college. Read or listen to "how to win friends and influence people" many times. Sometime before college, listen to "models" by mark manson. Hope this helps. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 12:20 AM |
| 1 | How do you lose fat and build muscle ?Compound lifts | /r/askTRP | 09/12/17 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Tips for confident body languageTall people tend to hunch a lot when they talk to shorter people. It's a bad habit you'll have to correct. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/17 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Bit of a predicament trying to date for first timeI'd do coffee then maybe try to walk around the neighborhood after, make out with her, then invite her over for some reason that you dropped earlier in the night. Even if you think it's lame and obvious. "Come back to my place, you gotta see my aquarium" All good if she says no, but you gotta try. If you have to, remind yourself that she's just another human who gets shits, farts, etc. Avoid the pedestal. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Bit of a predicament trying to date for first timeDon't hit her up on fb or anything. Get her number. You can break this rule if there's no way of ever getting her number bc u wont see her, but that doesn't sounds like it's the case. No bars. So coffee, canoeing, chilling in a park (bring a blanket), dog date if you both have them. Make sure you schedule it where it will at least be night time when the activity ends. Best if it starts at night as well (this works for coffee or drinks), but do the best you can. Try to avoid tricking her into a d… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Is it too late for me [28/M] to date Average or slightly above average women?Alright to be honest I think you rationalize a lot of your bad behavior and lack objectivity. Furthermore, you've got some limiting beliefs to take care of. Look up circle of concern vs circle of influence. Example of limiting belief: "looks are the only thing that matters and I'm ugly. Working out will only make me 1-2 points hotter so why bother. Mehhhh" Concern: looks matter and I'm unattractive Influence: lifting You have the worst of both worlds: you think you're unattractive, yet you don't… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Is it too late for me [28/M] to date Average or slightly above average women?I'd probably stay in for two weekends, go out on the third and fourth weekends for 2-3 hours, don't drink, then go home early. Hangovers are unproductive af. That's IF YOU MUST. Getting some friends that you can lift with would be best. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Is there a RP explanation for the rise of fat chicks?Yes, most women are fat. Yes, most men are fat. Unfortunately, most (if not all) of a woman's smv comes from her appearance, whereas men's come from a combination of factors. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Is it too late for me [28/M] to date Average or slightly above average women?Just chill with your friends once or twice a week - don't go out to bang women. Welcome to monk mode. Oh yea meditate as well. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Is it too late for me [28/M] to date Average or slightly above average women?Porn fucks with your dopamine receptors: https://youtu.be/wSF82AwSDiU You can jack off, although I'd suggest you take a month of for self-discipline purposes. For mr. robot, I'd suggest making a rule for it. Such as "never watch it by myself", or even better, "only watch with a woman". Another would be to say "once I complete x,y, and z", but I feel that can lead to half assing x,y, and z so I wouldn't go that route. Socializing is key. In the beginning though, you want to break yourself down so… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Is it too late for me [28/M] to date Average or slightly above average women?Just lift and stop making excuses. Don't say "it'll only raise me by 1-2 points" or whatever. That's you rationalizing laziness. For three months: - no more porn - no more tv - no more jacking off - no more drugs/alcohol/cigarettes. Caffeine is ok if you must. - adhere by stronglifts 5x5 - cut back on sugar, eat more vegetables. - read "how to win friends and influence people" three times - read "models" by mark manson three times. - find your mission in life, read "the way of the superior man".… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 02:43 AM |
| 20 | The women who denied you will come to resent you when you surpass them in the SMP.My observations (28 years old): Single women approaching the wall are pretty desperate in general. Girls in ltr's that are approaching the wall have a serious case of wandering eye. I'll catch people's girlfriends eye fucking me all the time. They're just anxious to know whether they're still hot or if they already smacked the pavement headfirst. Girls you plated back in your early 20's start hitting you up when they're approaching the wall. Facebook messages out of the blue etc. (the obvious an… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/17 02:34 AM |
| 2 | I feel really bad after breaking up with my gfI'd like to add: enjoy being alone and focus on only your goals and your friends for a bit. Do not jump back into another ltr | /r/askTRP | 02/12/17 07:23 PM |
| 1 | There's one born every minute....No idea who that is, but she looks busted af | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/17 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Lessons from Matt Lauer et alNumber 7 saves time while simultaneously covering your ass. Best way to go. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/17 04:36 AM |
| 3 | How the absolute shit do you determine good LTR material?Plate them and see how bad they try to lock you down. In my experience, the ones that have ridden the cc the hardest try to lock you down asap. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Tips for going out alone?Lift some time during the day. Anything but leg day. Pick out what you'll wear and shit. Eat, shit, shower, shave, get dressed/ready to go out. Optional: drink a cup of coffee with the meal. Meditate for at least 30 minutes prior. Optional: power poses and smiling for 3 minutes just before leaving your place. have 3-5 quick, platonic conversations with anyone (guy or girl) asap. Very good to do in line. Get these done as soon as possible (obviously if it's a girl you're interested in, you can es… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 12:55 AM |
| 6 | Not sure what’s wrong with me.Classic cold streak - fuck something asap | /r/askTRP | 29/11/17 03:53 AM |
| 1 | How much could I improve physically if I cut right now?I don't want to discredit the genetics thing, but don't have limiting beliefs either. Believe whatever will help you aka if you put in the work and pain, it'll come. Having a negative belief about something like genetics, height, or something else out of your control doesn't serve you. Break it down into very small chunks - that ONE rep you're on, that ONE day. Focus on the now. Focus on what you can control. Never look too far ahead, it's only discouraging. Typing that got me stoked - bout to c… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/17 01:45 AM |
| 41 | 6 blue pilled behaviors, disguised as red pilled, that trap men in blue pilled beta purgatory.I wasn't talking shit about his post - just giving my opinion. I'm sure he appreciates you having his back though | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/17 09:37 PM |
| 65 | 6 blue pilled behaviors, disguised as red pilled, that trap men in blue pilled beta purgatory.Calisthenics are awesome if used in conjunction with weights. Not jumping jacks or some bullshit. Actual calisthenics. If you can do the following things you're a beast (especially if you're 6 feet or over with leg mass): Full planche Front lever for minimum of 10 seconds Non-kipping muscle up or ring up Handstand pushup I lift and incorporate calisthenics. Very happy with the results. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/17 09:12 PM |
| 1 | How much could I improve physically if I cut right now?Youtube: athleanx Dude's smart as fuck. I'd figure out what your maintenance calorie intake is then eat around that while lifting 4-5 times a week. Fuck cardio, just eat cleaner and lift more. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/17 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Question of ConfidenceSort of sounds like you're trying to get confidence from one aspect of your life. The reason those guys are getting laid is because their internal state is rock solid. Try to avoid seeking validation. Sort of where the phrase "i am enough" comes into play. There's always someone richer, more jacked, etc. You want irrational self confidence to combat this. The thing is, once you have that (previously) irrational self-confidence, it becomes rational. It's a paradox. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/17 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Need some help thinking of next steps..Probably need to find something to take up the time where you normally go to the parlor. You could lift more, join something like kickball where you could meet chicks. Learning to meditate and using that when you get the urge may be a good idea. Worst case scenario you could put most of your money in a brokerage account invested in vti (total stock market etf), making it harder to spend money on shit you don't need, as you'd have to sell shares to touch it. Sorta like freezing your credit card i… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/17 04:14 PM |
| 3 | How to earn 6 figures?These are the most common routes. Become of doctor. STEM and work your way up the corporate ladder (takes some luck, will probably have to change jobs a lot). Ivy league college get into finance is under this category. This route takes foresight and savvy. Not easy. Start a business. Not easy, but has the best payoff monetarily and in terms of happiness. In general, it's easier to get into the upper echelon of a field you enjoy (aka do what you love) rather than something you hate but pays well.… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/17 03:34 PM |
| 8 | Lost my plates in college! Need advice!Quit talking about what you do with your penis to other people. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/17 03:26 PM |
| 2 | I'm skinnyfat and 22, working a desk job, and ready to start looking better. 5'10", 171lbs, somewhere between 14-18% bodyfat--bulk or cut??Newbs get way ahead of themselves with this sort of thing. At this point, focus on lifting and getting into the gym religiously for at least a year. Find a program based on compound lifts (such as SL 5x5). After a year or more, start checking out diets/programs and experimenting. Focus on forming the habit of lifting now. In general, do what's harder. You're essentially fighting homeostasis when getting into fitness. Your body wants things to be easy; however stress makes it grow. So if you find… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/17 05:44 AM |
| 1 | I just pulled an all-nighter devouring the side bar. Here from /r/deadbedrooms. I think my gf does nothing but shit test me.It's probably best to start with a new girl who is conditioned to walking all over you. Spin some plates etc. Lift and raise your smv. This lifelong and non-negotiable. Start lifting asap, it usually takes a minimum of a year of religious lifting to get reasonably jacked. Usually at least 3 years to be close to maxing out your genetic potential. These timelines are rough estimates - depends how hard you work, how clean you eat, what your body looks like when you start, and, of course, genetics. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/17 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Calling a woman out?Don't shit where you eat | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 10:32 PM |
| 1 | I've let myself go. I have engineering exams in two weeks. Need to sort myself out immediately.Use some of that 7k to see a professional. It could be some of the best money you ever spend. Gotta cut ties with the insane chick. Try to eat more. Bring snacks with you to class so you're not withering away. Just keep it together until exams. You got this shit. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 09:36 PM |
| 4 | Girl withdrawed attention after first layThat's what's fun about this shit. They're all a little different, yet somehow the same. Hang back. Hit her up once a week max. She wants you to chase. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 08:29 PM |
| 15 | How do you boys find the strength after the breakupOh you mean like "fucking another chick asap, lifting reading, and socializing"? Please don't pick one aspect of a comment to talk shit about in a feeble attempt to discredit the entire thing. Especially when I said to sleep as much as possible for one or two nights. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 06:04 PM |
| 12 | How do you boys find the strength after the breakupDid I say lay in bed with a box of tissues next to his bed so he can cry and crank down all day long? No. You're like the politician who shits on everyone else's ideas yet brings no alternative plan to the table. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 05:54 PM |
| 18 | How do you boys find the strength after the breakupGotta fuck another chick asap. And the obvious - lift, read, socialize. Get enough sleep. In fact, get "sleep saturated" one or two nights, where you just keep going back to sleep til you can't anymore. Sleep (especially dreaming) helps our brains come to terms with shit like this. Had a bad breakup and did this - felt like I was weening myself off heroin. Terrible nightmares and shit, waking up in a cold sweat. Then one day i woke up and it was like someone flipped a switch. No feelings for her… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 05:19 PM |
| 32 | Finally got myself to breaking the iceI see that point. The argument is THAT PARTICULAR GIRL is at a point in her life where she's peaking. I like the idea of banging as many as possible, just don't lose sight of finding your purpose and becoming successful in life. Keep your grades up and go to the best college possible. If you use high school to get on a path where you can fuck the top 1% of women later in life, age will be less of a factor, as there might be one or two model-tier girls in the entire school. In addition, you'll li… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/17 04:36 PM |
| 5 | Number-closing in highschool?Just stop. Didn't even read the post, but any time you're living under someone else's roof (your parents), you're in de facto monk mode. I know you're horny as fuck, but think long term. kill it in school. Take it as a personal challenge. Go to khan academy and learn past where you are. Look at the syllabus and go past where the class is. Go above and beyond. Don't tell anyone you're doing this. The teachers will think you're a god, and you can use them for recs when applying to college. join th… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Best way to start StrongLiftsScott herman's garbage. Not talking shit, but the dude was on real world for christ sake. Only fucktards go on the show. He had a squat video that was just terrible, he got absolutely killed in the comments and he took it down. That was in 2010. He had another one on the muscle up where his form just absolutely sucked. While i'm at it, Kinobody also sucks. His form's shit. Buff dudes and alan thrall are legit though. Athelanx is what scott herman wishes he was - plus the dude used to be the trai… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Broke up with first LTR, now stuck in small town with dissatisfying life. Feeling trapped, isolated and unsure.No one has it figured out. It's similar to an asymptote - you get closer and closer but you're never "there". The professional footballer winning the world cup wakes up the morning after and asks himself "now what?". Just do what makes you happy and understand that the summit is an illusion. It never ends. Accepting this fact is key. Buddhism and stoicism have some good teachings on this. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 01:01 PM |
| 12 | {rant} I'm having anger/regret issues about my stupid whore of an ex. How do I deal with this.Yo - go lift for about 3 hours while blaring linkin park or dubstep. Afterwards, go home, eat a big meal, take a shower and meditate. Get tons of sleep until you feel better. It helps our minds come to terms with shit. Hang out with your friends. Fuck around and laugh. Watch some comedy. Tomorrow go to stdcheck.com and get tested. Or if you're in college go to the student health clinic. You're likely clean, but this is a nice way of knowing it doesn't really matter who she fucked or didn't fuck.… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 03:17 AM |
| 25 | Do I go for it with my orbiting friend's girl?Do not hook up with her. Hook up with one of her friends instead (preferably when it's her, her friend, orbiter, and you). Perhaps this could get her jealous and she'll hook up with the orbiter out of spite. Problem solved. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Advice for girls/womenLift. Seriously. Google girls who lift | /r/seduction | 22/11/17 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Resources you've found useful in money, business, finances, etc?Google Mrmoneymustache. Read millionaire next door, rich dad poor dad, and four hour workweek | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Plate getting harassedThis chick's openly riding the cc - that means she's not your problem. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Plate getting harassedTell her to call the cops | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Broke up with first LTR, now stuck in small town with dissatisfying life. Feeling trapped, isolated and unsure.Dude. You're killing it and you don't even know it. Consider doing fashion on the side. Selling some sort of garment and then going from there. Sounds like you could set up the website for free anyways. Synergy. Boom. Check out "subtle art of not giving a fuck" and "the four hour workweek". Absolutely check out mrmoneymustache. It's not ALL that bad if you're doing something you don't necessarily get a boner for if you have something to show for it (i.e. savings or a side business for supplement… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 12:12 AM |
| 7 | Broke up with first LTR, now stuck in small town with dissatisfying life. Feeling trapped, isolated and unsure.Alright man, you're pretty young so try to put things in perspective: Build up your linkedin network and hone your coding skills. Get a professional headhsot if you need to. Consider freelance work on the side. Consider joining volunteer groups now (so you can put 2017-2018 on your resume truthfully). Start lining up jobs for after the internship. You can start looking and applying in january. keep lifting (obviously) and get the best body any woman you fuck's ever seen. check out investing. Mrm… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 11:24 PM |
| 4 | Best way to start StrongLiftsFilming yourself from the side, watching alan thrall videos on youtube, and going high rep low weight. It takes about 500 reps to learn a movement pattern, and about 5,000 to correct an incorrect movement pattern. Do yourself a favor and get those first 500 reps perfect. Youtube: alan thrall and athleanx are solid resources that don't go too far in depth for noobs (like mark rippetoe). | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 09:13 PM |
| 5 | How do you break up with a gf.I've had those long drawn out conversations before. She's merely biding her time while trying to get you back. She knows if you leave before she's convinced you otherwise, it's done. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Why did this girl lie to her orbiter?If a woman brings up sex first, whether in the negative or positive, it's a good thing. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 02:52 PM |
| 8 | [22M] I'm an 'incel' i.e. virgin according to a friend who mocks me by saying it (in a good natured way, banter), but deep down it hurts, I'm terribly insecure about being a virgin and inexperienced because I know both are turn offs to women (weaknesses), how can I gain confidence with women?clean the fuck out of your room. This has a huge effect on our psyches. A clean living space makes you less stressed and more productive. Lift. Obviously. get a diet regimine. Intermittent fasting is easy in my opinion. focus on your mission. Obviously read "models" by mark manson, "the way of the superior man", and "how to win friends and influence people" read sidebar. Obviously. meditate daily and understand that everyone has problems, just some people's problems are better than others. Work … | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Study: Women prefer muscular, dominant, wealthy menOne would hope. If it wasn't, then thousands of years of natural selection are down the drain due to procreating betas and smart alphas avoiding divorce rape and child support. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 11:46 PM |
| 2 | How to end it with a long term FWB that the lines blurred on an LTR with?Yea every ending is different. If you know she's gonna try to pull out all the stops to keep you, make damn sure you have all your shit and make damn sure she didn't leave a bra or something. Phone's cool, i've feigned weakness to make it easier for them. A lot of times when you try to drop them hard, they get more attracted. This one chick wouldn't stop, so I acted like i was "lost" in life and hated my career and hadn't even been lifting. Basically bluepill. Worked pretty well. Only block if y… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 11:02 PM |
| 3 | How to reply to her moving on text?You're not even banging her, fuck it. I'd say "sounds good let me know if you change your mind" if i wanted to leave the door open or "sounds good" if i didn't care. The second response is suggested, as you didn't bang her. Alternatively, you could ghost, or say "gay". These are more savage though. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 10:53 PM |
| 9 | How to end it with a long term FWB that the lines blurred on an LTR with?Gotta tell her how it is. It's never easy. When she asks why say, "My heart's telling me to" or something a woman would say. She won't be able to deny/debate it if it's "from the heart". Do not say anything that implies "I could do better", no matter how bad she cries. Make sure you bring a bag of all her belongings, and grab your stuff. Definitely do it at her place, it's easier to leave than to kick her out. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 10:50 PM |
| 4 | Do you go for the hot one or the fun one?Seems like you know the answer - go for the one more into you (unless you're not attracted to her obviously). There's a decent chance this stokes competition and the hotter one becomes more into you. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 04:31 PM |
| 2 | 2 Years into the pill, achieved my goal of becoming the alpha I already dreamed of and now I'm lostYou're dealing with the four noble truths from buddhism. Live in the moment, that's always where happiness resides. Regret resides in the past, and fear/anxiety reside in the future. Only look to the future to plan. Once you've planned, say fuck it and do what you need to do now. Meditate. Suffering exists Suffering arises from attachment to desires Suffering ceases when attachment to desire ceases Freedom from suffering is possible by practicing the Eightfold Path | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 04:14 PM |
| 4 | How do you fight multiple vices at the same time? Relapsing constantly.Check out the sub nofap "dopamine challenge". Pick ONE thing to change and start there. Changing them all at once is very difficult. I'd probably quit video games first because it's too time-consuming. Use that time to lift, study, or meditate. You can even give yourself something like "only play video games at jake's house" or something like that if you're not successful with cold turkey. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Skinny-Fat ClownCompound lifts. Intermittent fasting. Shut your mouth and listen to people every once in a while. Read or listen to "how to win friends and influence people" 3-7 times. Don't just sit there and say nothing, just be interested in the other person and not impressing people. You're investing too much in other people's opinions. Get off social media too. Read "subtle art of not giving a fuck". | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 03:07 PM |
| 2 | I need advice to sort myself out metntallyBe more positive in general. Listen to positive music like bob marley. Read fiction that isn't heavy. "Hitchhiker's guide to the galaxy" or maybe "the alchemist" were light. get into nature smile more meditate clean the living shit out of your place. Read "the life-changing magic of tidying up" if you've never been much of a neat freak. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Male.pattern baldness affecting my SMV?lift. Make sure your neck and traps are built. if you're pasty, try to get some sun. If you're black or latino, balding doesn't really matter. try glasses and/or facial hair. make sure your teeth are straight and aren't yellow. don't have a unibrow and stay well-groomed. learn to love it. Appreciate that something way worse for your smv hasn't plagued you. Be thankful you're a dude - women who are balding are fucked. Insecurity is way worse than mpb. Even if you think your head is oddly shaped. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 05:17 AM |
| 3 | Tinder adviceAsk for number instead. You really don't need to send more than 3 messages on tinder. Strike while the iron's hot. Usually one joke to which she responds "haha" or "lol". Then immediately say "you seem cool, what's your number?" Then text her "hey it's chad, what night can you grab a drink?" You can reference the joke that made her laugh in the beginning on this explanation. This takes a little longer than attempting to fuck them that night, but is really effective and helps you stay on top of t… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 05:09 AM |
| 3 | My ex is trying to get me back, went to my workplace and tried to talk, bought me a cell phone and haven't seen her in months now. How can I get rid of her?Serves you right for going to Olive Garden! Ghost. If one more incident happens, talk to a lawyer about filing a restraining order. She's legitimately unstable. Might want to text some of your friends about it so you have timestamped correspondence where you're sincerely voicing concerns to someone else. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 06:11 PM |
| 14 | I need helpMeditation. This should be first and foremost. Chill on tv, video games, porn, and social media. Delete the apps. Delete the accounts if need be. get physical exercise and maybe play a sport. Check out yoga. get a solid career goal (aka mission) that you strive to accomplish daily. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Acne?Short term - don't focus on what you can't control. Act as if it isn't there. Long term - try to find a system that works for you. Anti inflammatory diet is good in general and has the added benefit of helping acne. All new systems are a leap of faith somewhat. Accutane is great for most, and others get severe side effects. Heard diluted apple cider vinegar works for some. See a doctor, but sometimes they just give everyone the same advice. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 03:53 PM |
| 3 | How can I shut the fuck up,stop talking so much shit,stop trolling, making jokes,trying to be funny,etc and just dont that stuff as a teen?You almost got expelled? You're investing too much in other people's opinions. It probably looks like you're trying to be cool and everyone, including the faculty, knows. My old highschool friends who got expelled are complete losers now. See things from everyone else's perspective. Your parents, peers, and teachers. Would you even like you? Focus on finding your life goal and take school seriously. It's a golden opportunity you have. Form good habits now and they'll carry you to greatness. Chec… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Refresher: Don't talk to the PoliceYour is a possessive adjective. (Other possessive adjectives are my, your, his, her, its, our, and their.) You're is a contraction of you are. It has no other uses. This is a 100% rule. If you cannot expand it to you are in your sentence, then it is wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/17 03:21 PM |
| 3 | What to say when she messages you a “how are you?/how was ...”To be clear, you should always be the one planning the meet ups. Her reaching out is essentially her saying "i want to see you". Remember: actions, not words. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Negative body imageIf you're between the age of 12-24 (depending on how quickly you go through puberty), this effect can be magnified. Honestly dude, control what you can, and do what you fear in the moment, but what you know you need to do long-term. So circle of concern vs circle of influence is paramount. Google it for an illustration. Control what you can, disregard/accept what you cannot. Example: if you're going to be laid off, don't sit there worrying, start networking, letting people know you're on the mar… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Negative body imageJust hook up with one of them. ONE. Don't say shit about it, it'll be like you're about to jump into a cold pool - it seems like it'll be worse than it is until you do it. When you hook up with her, don't even mention it, just explore her body. If this is too much for you, go on a few dates with a chick before doing it. Really, women's bodies are the stage for sex anyway - you're just the director. Everyone's self-conscious about something. Stop comparing yourself to brad pitt, although i'm sure… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 05:54 PM |
| 10 | What to say when she messages you a “how are you?/how was ...”She's contacting you/keeping the text conversation going because she wants to meet up. Assume any texts to you are for you to make plans with her. If she keeps sending unimportant drivel after logistics are set, say (after waiting an hour or more) "i'm doing great - super busy atm. Really looking forward to thursday when we can blow off some steam." Or something similar. You're basically telling her to fuck off, but letting her understand you're not nexting her and harbor some enthusiasm for see… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 03:24 PM |
| 8 | Confused about TRP concepts after breaking upNow, I'm all for not making her the center of your life. It's definitely the move. Might get downvoted, but make her feel appreciated randomly. After sex is the best time for this. Men can think straight before sex, women can't think straight after it. Straight from sex god method - tell them some shit like "you mean a lot to me" while holding her after fucking her brains out and calling her a slut. It's the af/bb ratio you're looking for. Obviously never saying "i love you" before she does. Act… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Fat girlsThe times i've done it i just felt like my endurance was assertive. Fat chicks run out of breath QUICK. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Dealing W/ HatersJust agree and amplify. "Yea maybe i'll lay off the gq for a few quarters" "Video games? Hell i wish man. Probably gonna watch dumb and dumber for the 31st time then cry myself to sleep" Basically proceed to do what you've been doing. Don't be cocky, be humble af and make fun of yourself. Don't take any of this shit too seriously, there's a decent chance they're awkward and just saying the first thing that came to their minds. Also, you're probably making them feel bad about themselves. Have an … | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 07:17 PM |
| 5 | askTRP Megathread November 15I find it funny that people on here are so worried about being a "provider" or beta bux. So long as you have boundaries and know what's happening behind the scenes (hypergamy, af/bb, etc.), it's pretty obvious if the chick's trying to bb you. It sounds like clubs are off the table. Join co ed sports like kickball (if you're not too much of a spaz). Do yoga and spin classes. Chicks love those things. Do trivia nights if you're smart. But overall, keep your grades up and lift. Try meeting chicks i… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 03:37 PM |
| 7 | askTRP Megathread November 15If a girl's making me wait for sex, i judge her more closely. If her personality's not what i want, i'm out. Read sidebar. Never say "i love you" first. Don't think about the mountain you're climbing. Think about that step you're taking. It's about the journey, not the destination. Plan the weeks then think about that ONE rep and ONE set you're doing over and over. Stay focused on the present. You'll fail if you think about the too of the mountain. Do compound lifts. I can't stress this enough, … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 02:51 PM |
| 16 | askTRP Megathread November 15From the tone of your comment, it sounds like you might be putting out negativity. No one likes negative people, as they're essentially sucking everyone's energy dry. To avoid negativity, listen to positive music (bob marley is very effective), get outside, go for a run to clear your mind, do yoga, lift, meditate, read fiction, eat healthily, etc. Watch some comedy, laugh a little. Try to live in other people's skin. Everyone has flaws. Everyone has insecurities. Relate to them. Literally think … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Personal Finance, and how to win like a regular dudegoogle these terms if you don't comprehend them: ETFs/index funds, dollar cost averaging, compound interest, reinvesting dividends. Management, STEM, doctor, and attorney (depending on what school you attend) are good career choices. Business owner is the highest risk/reward, but to the victor go the spoils. Check out joshua kennon's blog too | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/17 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Superstar Game - How high value do you need to be?Definitely agree with #1 Short dudes can lose and gain weight faster. Used to lift with a dude who's 5'7". Sorta annoying how quickly he could look big. He also got fat pretty quickly when he got married and stopped lifting. So I'd say for someone who does not exercise, being tall is better for having an "accidental" 6 pack. For someone who eats well and exercises, a short dude can achieve a 6 pack faster than a tall person of the same bf % (assuming they both start with a spare tire). So at lea… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Superstar Game - How high value do you need to be?Good point: It is probably easier to get a 6 figure salary being 6 feet or taller. I wouldn't say 6 pack and 6 feet tall are significantly linked. Not sure if having a 6 pack makes it more likely to be wealthy; however, being wealthy may make you more likely to have a 6 pack. Saw a study recently stating that higher incomes are correlated with healthier eating habits. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Struggling to get laid in Atlanta, GA; does anyone have advice on how to game here?For sure. http://www.imaginefestival.com/ | /r/askTRP | 14/11/17 04:58 PM |
| 7 | Struggling to get laid in Atlanta, GA; does anyone have advice on how to game here?Not from atlanta, but edm shows are bastions for young white chicks. Pretty sure that's a worldwide thing. Pea cocking is super prevalent at these things, but i'd dress normally the first time and observe what people are wearing. Basketball jersey/tanktop with a flatbill is usually standard. If you're in shape, this attire makes things so easy. Get there as early as possible. It's way easier to meet chicks before it's ridiculously packed and you can still converse, as opposed to only having kino… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/17 02:55 PM |
| 4 | Have you ever had any experiences that went against redpill teachings?Sometimes trp makes it seem like it's way harder than it is to be in the top 20% of men. The competition really isn't all that hard. This is a blessing for us, and a curse for mankind. Also, the fact that trp supports making ourselves into the top 20% of men then refraining from having kids or getting married. Humanity is fucked if that's the case. Not to say that I'm taking one for the team, but some other dudes should. Change marriage into a contract that needs to be renewed by both parties ev… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/17 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Superstar Game - How high value do you need to be?You're forgetting how women think. The number fluctuates based on how you act. Men are all about stats, women are about feelz. Not to say the 63 rule cant apply. Let's do the math. (Using usa figures): - 6 feet tall is 82.1 percentile. (Or 17.9% of American men are over 6 feet tall) for the sake of conservativism, let's estimate that 20% of men have 6 packs in America (probably should be more like 5% or even less) about 20% of HOUSEHOLDS (not individuals) make over $100k. It would probably be sa… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/17 03:30 AM |
| 4 | Taking a girl to a bar trivia night? Good idea?Probably not imo. Trivia night's better for meeting chicks. Not enough isolation, too many interactions. I think a good rule of thumb is if a situation would be good for finding new prospects, it's not a good place to bring a girl you haven't banged yet. Once you bang them, the rules change and you can apply dread (if need be) using the other chicks around you. For first dates, it may trigger ASD or cockblocking from outsiders. I've used trivia to meet new people. Never tried it for a date thoug… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 09:46 PM |
| 8 | Hook up with my friend's girlHe said he wasn't interested. He's probably just too much of a pussy to make a move, so she moved on. He should really blame himself. Also, she might have been using you as a pawn for dread. In which case, that's not your fault. If he should be mad at anyone, it's her. But really, he should be mad at himself for not making a move when he liked her. You're the last person that he should be pissed at. Tell HIM to not let pussy come between you. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Did I get ghosted?https://markmanson.net/fuck-yes | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Nobody respects me in a groupSet boundaries with people. Everyone secretly resents pussies. Read "subtle art of not giving a fuck" by mark manson. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 02:47 AM |
| 0 | Want to get start lifting and building muscle slowly... where do I start?Compound lifts. These will build muscle on your entire body. Aim for 8-12 reps and good form when starting. 12 reps means you choose a weight where you can't do 13 reps. 5x5 stronglifts is cool, but I strongly advise to get your form down before jumping into that. A month of good form should do it. Takes about 500 reps to get a movement down pat. Takes about 5000 reps to correct shitty form. Do full body 3-4x a week with a day in between each workout. No steady state cardio until you reach your … | /r/askTRP | 10/11/17 05:23 PM |
| 1 | How do I quit masturbation FOREVER?Read "the power of habit" | /r/askTRP | 10/11/17 05:09 PM |
| 1 | 18 year old looking for advice on how to best improve myself.I disagree that curls are necessary for big arms; however, I won't talk shit since everyone's different genetically. I support doing compounds (typically with more emphasis on posterior chain) for the first 1-2 years of lifting, THEN mixing in isolations. Especially YTWL's, rotator cuff exercises, and anything that helps your joints. For me, I'd rather do chin-ups if i need to hit my biceps. Although I used to kill curls back in high school/college, so do your thing. Just make sure you're hittin… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 08:35 PM |
| 1 | 18 year old looking for advice on how to best improve myself.Could you elaborate as to why isolations are important, and which isolation exercises in particular you find important? Just wondering. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 05:57 PM |
| 1 | 18 year old looking for advice on how to best improve myself.Figure out your major and what line of work you want to get into asap. Weigh the following: - What you find interesting - What majors make the most money - What majors your college is known for I'd start by looking into engineering, accounting (cpa is a must), computer science, and pre med. Compound lifts only until you get to 180 lbs. Fuck isolation exercises. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Does it get better?One thing I'd like to add: Get. Enough. Sleep. Sleep has too many benefits to list, but they pertain to muscle recover, but more importantly, brain health and hormone balance. Your brain basically defragments information and helps you retain what you learned during the day. There was a study where people juggled a soccer ball for 30 minutes all at once and another did 15 minutes one day, slept, and 15 minutes the day after. The second group showed much better improvement than the 30 minute group… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 03:09 PM |
| 27 | 19yo virgin. Advice?Read "models" by mark manson | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 05:53 PM |
| 15 | askTRP Megathread November 08Read "how to win friends and influence people" and the sidebar multiple times. Form good habits. "the power of habit" is a good read, but not necessary. Understand that you are what you do repeatedly. Good habits would be: STUDYING AND GETTING GOOD GRADES. Look at it as a personal challenge. Yes, most of the things you learn aren't necessary for the real world, but think of it as the world testing your willpower. Also, having read and remembering chaucer is never bad knowledge to have. Makes peo… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/17 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Please Help With Tinder PicsSo far so good. I'd classify that in the hobby category. Get one with a dog asap. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/17 04:46 AM |
| 7 | Please Help With Tinder Pics1 with a dog, 1 in a suit or tux, 1 shirtless, 1 doing a hobby other than lifting, 1 socializing (at a game, halloween costume, st. patrick's day, etc.). Then pic another where you look attractive. Limit to 1 selfie max, preferably zero. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/17 04:29 AM |
| 4 | Despair in my 30s at the realization I won't find a woman I'm truly enthusiastic about.Sounds to me like you could absolutely slay in your current situation. Big city, good smv. Watch some comedy and stop taking life too seriously. I know an attorney who's boring as fuck and seems miserable, and i know one that's funny and easy going. The former would fall jnto the category of incel, the latter actually gets his dick wet from time to time. Women want to have fun. Start fucking around more. Also, women can fucking smell a cold streak. Get a few lays, and a few plates then swap them… | /r/askTRP | 07/11/17 12:30 AM |
| 3 | What type of stuff do you do to stand out among men when it comes to appearances?Always wear a watch and make sure your shoes are on point. Always wear a belt that matches the shoes (if they're leather). For men, shoes speak the most about who you are. A girl i met years ago told me this, and since then many more have supported this opinion. There are so many options when it comes to shoes (just take one look at zappos and note the paradox of choice), so you can can a lot about a man by what he chooses out of the plethora of options. I aim to always wear leather shoes and no… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How can I encourage my man NOT to make me 'his mission'?Honestly, you'll probably have to find another dude. Seeing as how you won't like that answer, give him space by being genuinely busy (NOT girls night out). If he fills this space with unproductive activities, then that's no good. Obviously the older he is, the bigger a red flag the unproductive behavior is. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Is moving in an apartment with an LTR ever a good idea?It's crazy to move in with a chick that you'll never marry. It's crazy to NOT move in with a chick before you marry her (trial period). *I'm not advocating for or against marriage | /r/askTRP | 04/11/17 02:31 PM |
| 3 | How should i approach girls at the club that make eye contact?Read "models" by mark manson | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 10:41 PM |
| 3 | I'm 18, how do i prepare for life?For the love of god figure out what you want to do early on and pursue it hard as fuck. An ounce of prevention=a pound of cure. So if you're in school, crush it, if you have an idea for a business, do it on the side. Try to line up a summer internship after the first semester, or get ahead on hours by taking summer classes. Definitely get an internship asap though. Lift, but i did that when i was 18 and is pretty obvious. Learn to cherish your alone time. This is when empires are built. Use the … | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 10:39 PM |
| 4 | Friend clocked me while we were drunkHe put pussy before his friend. He did, not you - let the chick fuck who she likes more, no need to swim upstream for his ego. If you just let him pursue her when she wants you, no one will bang her. He's selfish, has a scarcity mentality, and lacks game. Let him know that he acted like a bitch and list the reasons why. If he does it again, just fade away slwoly until he's out of your life - it indicates shitty character traits. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Girl doesn't remember your name? MULTIPLE CHOICEI'd probably have reintroduced myself if there was an inkling of a chance that she didn't remember mine and getten hers as well. It's VERY BAD if she finds out you know her name while she doesn't know yours. Puts off over investment vibes. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 03:40 PM |
| 1 | 23 yo, Uni graduate, working a 9-5; having an extremely hard time meeting women, and as a result am starting to think they find me hideousJust remember you're the shit, keep lifting, keep striving to make more money. Also, bear in mind that women are human beings with flaws and bad days as well. They take gross shits just like the rest of us and are insecure too. You don't need their validation, and even if you got all the validation in the world, you'd need more to keep from falling into insecurity. Self-confidence comes from within and is infinite. Validation comes from external sources and is finite and addictive (hence insecur… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 03:33 PM |
| 1 | 23 yo, Uni graduate, working a 9-5; having an extremely hard time meeting women, and as a result am starting to think they find me hideousJust for a day, see how not looking at all works. Use peripheral vision only. There are days where chicks can't seem to get enough of me, and others where they don't look at all. Sometimes they're just not in the mood. Try to remember that. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 03:26 PM |
| 2 | 23 yo, Uni graduate, working a 9-5; having an extremely hard time meeting women, and as a result am starting to think they find me hideousYou say you don't look good walking down the street - Eye contact advice differs depending on physical presence. Hard to know for sure, but my theory is that as a rule of thumb: - shorter guys need aggressive eye contact (can't say for sure, i've been 6 feet tall for a long time now) - taller men need less eye contact, look into the horizon more often until you get a feel for it. I've noticed chicks will stare me down if i let them. They can sense it if i stare then down and won't look. Focus on… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 03:15 PM |
| 3 | ATTENTION: Visitors from CNNThought-provoking posts like this are what make reddit great. I'm going to subscribe to this sub just for your personal insight. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/17 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Should you even have sex in high school?Sure you can bang chicks at your school. Just focus on grades and getting into a good college way more than sex. Easier said than done considering how horny men are at that age, but that's the point. By focusing on your future when others aren't, you're getting a huge leg up on the competition. Finding out what you want to do with your life early on and shooting to be in the top tier of that field is so much more important. Also, lift 3x a week (compound lifts, fuck isolations) or play a sport. … | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Haven't gotten laid since college, what am I doing wrong?23's an awkward age for men. At least it was for me. Just stick to raising your smv - stack cash (i suggest putting $10k in a high yield saving account while doing a minimum of 10% in your 401k and getting at least $5k in your checking account), read some nonfiction, and lift (obviously). Living with your parents is a total cockblock. Been there dude. No need to go full monk mode, but save your money up and look into taking any exams like lsat or gmat that you might want to have in your pocket f… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Get rich slow with the miracle of compound interest.Think of it this way: what can you later more easily go into after pursuing a career in other? Example: If you start at an oil company (especially a reputable one like shell, halliburton, etc.), and you want to leave the industry entirely, do you think recruiters at a geology firm would be impressed by your resume? If you start as a geologist, do you think an oil company would be impressed by your experience? This is why a lot of people start at large investment banks knowing that they'll leave … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 09:44 PM |
| 14 | Should I be ashamed of having sex with a chubby girlOwn that shit. The more you're self-conscious about it, the more shit that will come your way. Never talk shit about the girl. That shit's not cool and will deter other women from wanting to sleep with you. "We had a great time - with the lights off it was almost like banging your mom" or "uhhh yah i banged her. Are you still fantasizing about that shit, weirdo?" Your friend might be jealous. I had a friend continuously talk shit like this back in high school after i banged a nerdy chick in the … | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Get rich slow with the miracle of compound interest.If you're expendable (as roughnecks are), save the fuuuck out of your money and maybe get some rental property. If/when a downturn occurs, go to school or start a business and use that supplemental income (in the form of rental income or dividends) to help keep you afloat. If you mean pursuing petroleum engineering or something similar (chemical, mechanical), you'd be less likely to be laid off in the event of a downturn. At least the guys I know who are engineers at oil companies made it throug… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Your girl is on contraception but still fears pregnancy - and she says THIS. What do you think? wtfI think the real question is: Why are you not wearing a rubber when abortion is illegal? That's like skydiving without your primary OR backup parachute. To answer your question, next please. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 02:52 PM |
| 1 | How does one answer the question: "have you ever been in love?"?Think of what each answer potentially communicates: "No" - one step closer to scarcity "Yes" - one step closer to preselection I say yes and give no further details. Change the subject - "yea, what about you?" and "I don't dwell on the past" if she keeps asking. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 06:17 PM |
| 3 | How do you get over dating being so much easier for girls?The light that burns twice as bright burns half as long. You'll be able to successfully date for longer than than your female counterparts. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Previously promiscuous girl doesn't want sex since we got togetherBreak it off with her. Read the sidebar. Lift. Study your ass off. Live the good life. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Pre-lift Workout Strategyhttps://youtu.be/sYrIMdOBHkg | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 11:07 PM |
| 3 | My sex drive has hit rock bottomThis happened to me one time. It was from working too much (i didn't think i was all that stressed either) and burning the wick from both ends. Didn't sleep enough, worked out too much, worked too much. Same thing, in good shape, in my 20's. The way i found out is i went on vacation and fucked 7 times a day and was horny af, then the next week i wasn't horny at all. Ways to fix: - sleep more, eat more fat (9-10 hours, could be overtraining) meditate use meditation when hooking up. Stay in the mo… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 10:55 PM |
| 2 | How can I get fit and lose some fat as a teenager?Compound lifts ONLY for the first year or until you've made significant progress | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for short and ugly men?Depends on shape of face. Google "face shape glasses frame" or something similar. I know that you usually want contrast. For instance, square face, round frames. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 03:46 PM |
| 19 | Stuck in a weird situation with my GF. Need advice?If she's not banging you, she's not your gf. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Some of My Personal Life Lessons For Those Under 30I love dividends, but do go chasing dividend yield (annual dividends per share/price per share) too much. If something has an unsustainable dividend payout ratio (dividends/net income), then they'll have to cut it one day anyway, sending the stock price tumbling and fucking you for being greedy about dividends. Furthermore, going towards share buybacks instead of raising the dividend seems to be the general trend these days. Having a good mix of stocks that have dividend growth, dividend yield, … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/17 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Any tips for short and ugly men?Best way to look good with shaved head: 1. Lift (for multiple reasons, but skinny neck's bad for business) 2. Don't be too pale (you'll look ill) 3. Glasses/facial hair that work Make sure your teeth aren't totally fucked. If they're crooked, see if you qualify for those cheap versions of invisalign (google this). If they're yellow, whiten them. Get a sonicare toothbrush. For real. dress well and try clothes on before you buy them. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/17 06:42 PM |
| 3 | What does trp say about relationships betweenMake sure you aren't committing statutory rape. That would be hell on earth and you'll get fucked in the ass for rest of your life. Otherwise, to see what's "societally acceptable", use the "divide your age by 2, add 7" rule Example: - If you are 20 years old, a 17 year old, (20/2)+7=17. 17 the youngest age society would be ok with a 20 year old banging. a 60 year old can bang a 37 year old a 26 year old can bang a 20 year old *this is what society deems ok. In actuality, the legal age of consen… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 08:38 PM |
| 8 | How do you handle it when a woman gives only a vague commitment to first date?I'd say "All good, let's just do it another time." Only hand out with her if she responds with: 1. a reschedule request (for a one on one date, no friends) -or- 2. "oh no let's definitely do saturday" If she says anything else, reject her (brush her off politely and delete her number - she's in the "no" pile). Either way, find some chicks that belong in the "yes" pile. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Changing life styleFinding another company to work for and then starting a business on the side isn't a bad idea. You can't quit until you're debt free. Step 1 - find another engineering job that doesn't suck so hard Step 2 - get supplemental income Step 3 - get passive income (rental property and stocks/bonds) Step 3 is important because time is a limited resource. Passive income is great on a $/hr basis. Even if it's just $1 that you didn't have to spend any time earning. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 11:24 PM |
| 7 | Fucked up don't know how to proceedMove on and act like she never existed | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 11:17 PM |
| 3 | I suck at pull ups, fuck off (or help me)My guess is you probably lack mind-muscle connection to your lats and aren't engaging your scapulae enough during pull ups. Just a hunch. Row variations, lat pulldown, and negatives. Youtube: fitnessfaq and calisthenicsmovement | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/17 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Lifting questionDoing compound lifts on anything from a 5-12 rep range is good for building muscle. I like to switch it up, as doing 3-6 rep ranges long-term can be tough on the joints. Not sure what your sport is getting you to do, but take care of your knees, back, and shoulders if you're adding 5x5 to another workout routine. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Plate ghosted, her bday is coming up?No contact. Maybe she'll be wondering if you'll text the entire day (good effect if this happens), maybe she won't give a fuck whether or not you reach out. Either way, doing nothing is the move. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/17 04:56 PM |
| 13 | Get rich slow with the miracle of compound interest.Remember to NEVER SELL when the inevitable crash/pullback happens and keep 10% of your portfolio in cash so you can pounce on the low prices. Market crashes typically redistribute wealth to those who already have it. Example from the last crash: Average joe loses job during economic crash Even IF joe held 10% of his overall portfolio as cash (unlikely, as he probably lives paycheck to paycheck), it's only $10k at best. Joe has to either liquidate some of his retirement account to pay mortgage (i… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/17 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Question for those with Stronglift 5x5 ExperienceIf you want to lose weight, then eat a caloric deficit while lifting. You will burn both fat and muscle, but lifting mitigates the muscle loss. However, if you're still a noob, you can gain muscle and lose fat because your body isn't playing by the rules the OG's play by. Eat a caloric deficit and lift if you have high bf%. No cardio unless you're doing it to make your heart healthy. Otherwise, it's a waste of time at best and fucking up your gainz at worst. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/17 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Gone on 14 dates with girl, she asked me what we areIt's never worth the wait. Next. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/17 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Fucking ugly girls?? Full of regretAdd it to the n count and forget. If anyone talks shit about it, own the fuck out of it. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 07:58 PM |
| 3 | My life is a mess, I am trying to sort it out. Where is the best place to start? Do things actually get better?Read or listen to the following: "No more mr. niceguy" "The subtle art of not giving a fuck" "How to win friends and influence people" "The four hour workweek" "The power of now" "The 7 spiritual laws of success" "The millionaire next door" "Rich dad poor dad" "Models" *You should read the ones you like more than once. If you don't like the message of one them, don't reread it. get some hobbies. These can help you meet people and possibly even make you money. Keep lifting. Look into intermittent… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 05:00 PM |
| 3 | I really need some gym advicesYoutube: athleanx, alan thrall, fitnessfaq, calisthenicsmovement Focus on the 6 basic compound lifts and full body routines as opposed to splits. Splits can come after MINIMUM of 1 year of never missing a workout. Compound lift = more than one joint involved in the movement Isolation lift = one joint involved in the movement 6 basic compound lifts (in no particular order): 1. Squat (includes split squat, leg press,lunges etc.) 2. Deadlift (includes romanian deadlift, rack pulls, etc.) 3. Benchpr… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How can I accept my current looks?Alot of the things you described are fixable. Also, brown hair and blue eyes isn't bad. Whitening your teeth and getting braces getting some sun growing a beard if you're able. seeing how glasses look on you haircut new clothes LIIIIIIIIIIIIIFT If you're under 22, you'll be more predisposed to being self-conscious. That's just how it is. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 10:36 PM |
| 0 | My GF Wants To Pick Up An Assistant/Escort Gig For A Weekend And I'm Not OK With It. How To Deal With This?Tell her all that shit you just wrote. If she's not understanding, you ought to leave her because in that case she's probably playing dumb and really just wants to orbit these dudes that clearly have some money and cool lifestyle. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 10:29 PM |
| 3 | How long after first daytime coffee date to text?No movie dates. You can't game in a movie. Night time date this time. Edit: Sit back until sunday or monday | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 10:21 PM |
| 8 | Objectively speaking what does it take to be a top 5<% male? (No bullshit answers)6 figures, 6 feet tall, 6 pack. If you've got that and game, you're up there. See heartiste's smv questionnaire. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 10:17 PM |
| 5 | Neee advice on giving her the "rollercoaster"Doing your own thing and being busy while having fun when you're not busy (whether with a chick or not) will do this naturally. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Should I approach every girl I like or should I wait for some signs?Approach unless it's shitting where you eat somehow which is typically not the case. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 04:53 PM |
| 1 | How do I get girls in high school?I'm following. Consider this: men compete to find out who is most fit, then women pick the winner. Focus on connecting with the men in your grade and even the grades below and above you (just younger if that's the case). Be cool with everyone. Guy or girl. Eventually something as small as borrowing a pencil, asking what she's listening to (if she just took off her headphones), or maybe giving an HONEST (one that you actually believe) compliment about something she's wearing will be treated much … | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 03:58 PM |
| 3 | How do I get girls in high school?Read/listen to "how to win win friends and influence people" and "models" by mark manson (I suggest multiple times as you probably won't retain all of the information in one read), lift, and take accutane/get braces if you need to. Make sure you figure out what you want to do with your life asap and get good grades. These things address all facets of smv (Game, looks, assets), and most of all give you some sort of purpose. Addressing the things that will take the most time first is important, th… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 01:37 PM |
| 5 | Next Step after finishing 2 Years of Lifting at the Iron Church.Youtube: athleanx, fitnessfaq, alan thrall, calisthenicsmovement Try out new lifts, routines, and diets. For instance, I've realized the amount of protein I eat is not very correlated with how big I am. If you told me that in college I wouldn't have believed you. Don't stagnate. Remember that it's about the journey, not the destination. The journey never ends. Never say "...once i get a six pack" or "...once i'm xxx lbs". You'll have to work as hard/harder to maintian/gain. Diminishing marginal … | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Asking a Girl out over Instagram DMI have a strict rule: tinder and apps like it are the only forms of social media that should be used for contacting women. Getting the number shows you're not a pussy. Read "models" by mark manson. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/17 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Dazed and ConfusedSounds like she wants you as an orbiter. She missed her chance. Actually ghost this time. Only way to give her another shot is if she sees you with another chick. That's the only way she'll take you seriously at this point. Stop giving her your attention and start finding other prospects. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/17 07:33 PM |
| 5 | askTRP Megathread October 181) I'd probably steer clear of doing anything strictly for women. Going to bar events like trivia night, joining a kickball team, and concerts are a good way to go. Joining a fraternity's another way to meet a ton of people. I'd just make sure to be your own person if you choose that route (i.e. make some friends outside of the frat). 2) Swimming, especially kickboarding, for legs. You can still lift upper body i presume, so I wouldn't stop that. Biking and elliptical machine until you can lift … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/17 06:20 PM |
| 1 | How important are good teeth?Got a dime on his arm and everything. What a chad. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/17 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Best friends gf sucks and im worried for himYea dude it's too late. In the beginning, you could have made him stop hanging out with her. Now, she can make him stop hanging out with you. Shit's happened to my friends more than once. Especially since you don't really know what she's like until it's too late to tell your friend. Unfortunately, just because he's cool doesn't mean he can recognize red flags and leave in the beginning. Just stay on her good side so you sometimes see your buddy, or tell him how it is and risk never speaking to h… | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Worked out for 8 months and now completely lost drive...why?Just go to the gym. The motivation will follow. Look up new movements on youtube if you've been doing the EXACT same thing every week (as in 5x5). Athleanx, alan thrall, calisthenicsmovement, and fitnessfaq are good channels. I find watching instructional vids to be motivating. Make a new playlist, get into some new workout music. watch "pumping iron" on netflix. Hope this helps. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Asking out customers at my job?Do continue to practice being charming, just no kino or number close | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 10:19 PM |
| 2 | How important are good teeth?Teeth are a relatively easy way to improve your looks. Smiledirectclub is affordable if you're a good candidate. Whitening's a good idea. 2x as noticeable if you're tan. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 10:17 PM |
| 0 | Uni student living with parents, move out for my last 1.5 years for a better social life or save my money for the future when I'll need it?Might want to get a high yield savings account and/or invest in some index funds using a retirement account. Time is on your side. A little goes a long way. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Realization: My plates NEVER ask me to hang out. Is this normal?End face-to-face interactions with "hit me up" | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Tips on incorporating red pill when I become a mother.Don't be overbearing. Let them make mistakes. If they're making a mistake that you find will be negative in the long run (i.e. bad grades), explain how it hurts them most and get them to want to make good grades by explaining the reasons why getting good grades will help their life in the long run. Just my 2 cents, hope it helps. "Mindset" by carol dweck is a good read. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Approaching someone u know of from social mediaYou can still approach. Just make sure you don't say a word about knowing she existed prior to that moment. Just because you're following her on instagram or are friends with her on fb doesn't mean you have to know who she is. For all she knows you go on there once a month and follow random shit. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Approaching someone u know of from social mediaYou'll come off as creepy. I'd probably act as if I had never seen her before. Gonna be harder now that you've stalked her profiles. Yet another reason not to spend too much time on fb or ig. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 08:54 PM |
| 1 | How to go in for the kiss?Stop basing this shit on the movies. Just dive in when the time's right. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 02:21 AM |
| 5 | Shit test help: "why didn't you come too?"This is an opportunity for dread game. "Wish i could have made it, some old friends invited me for drinks and i couldn't say no. Let's meet up tonight." If you don't feel like lying, "wish i could have, but i was really busy last night." | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 10:33 PM |
| 9 | How can I become red pilled?You're not in a bad spot. Think of the flipside, where a dude was a jock in highschool and failed out of college, ending up in basically the same situation except he's trending down. You're trending up. Your trajectories have intersected. Now, i'm of the opinion that any time spent living with parents is de facto monk mode. Here are your next courses of action: 1. Get a job (line one up for after you graduate asap), employer's like to see people line jobs up early. Go to university career fairs)… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 06:14 PM |
| 6 | Why do I fall so hard for new girls?Is it approach anxiety being rationalized as pickiness? This happens to us all at some point or another. Either way, practice makes perfect. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 05:21 PM |
| 6 | Lowering a mans valueStart asking him questions and becoming genuinely interested in what he's saying. Engage him in conversation. Whoever is asking the questions is controlling the interaction. Don't "interview" him though, just be interested in his story and life. He'll keep trying to ask her a question or tell her something, just keep making him address you, or even engage her even more in the conversation (making it almost seem like you're helping him). What is he going to do, be a huge dick to you for asking in… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Why do I fall so hard for new girls?If you really want quality over quantity I think you should "catch and release" girls you don't want. Aka number close/get ioi's and don't ever reach out. Brings abundance while not actually having to fuck them. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 05:04 PM |
| 0 | The guy slept with my gf before meI agree with glo. It doesn't matter at all. Practice stoicism. No one should be able to stir emotions in you. This gives them power over you. Responses that shows you don't give a fuck about this trolling twat: "Crazy that the last time either of us got our dick wet was with the same chick, huh?" "Damn dude you're still hung up on her? We need to get you laid man. I know a cute chick i can set you up with." If you have the opportunity to bang his ltr or cockblock him, or even flirt with his girl… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Millennials Are Delaying Marriage Because Men Aren't Earning EnoughOne word: opportunity cost. Women making more than men is illogical from the standpoint of having children and maternity leave. As a society, we can make laws barring companies from making promotion and hiring decisions based on this; however, taking off that amount of time in corporateland will screw your career whether you tell them to or not. It's like if the wnba all stars played the nba all stars and they doubled the points for each shot made by the women. If money, pride, and glory are on … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/17 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Anyone ever end a LTR to be single? How did it work out?Yes, i have ended it just because i wanted to be single. Great decision in retrospect. Trust your gut. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 05:54 PM |
| 4 | Selling Them The Fantasy (Machiavelli Behavior)Good post. It's pretty much what women do to men: - Selling a fantasy (oneitis) Saying how you feel/doing what you feel like doing in that moment, then doing whatever you were going to do (appealing to the other's emotions). "I love you" = "I love you for now" In general, doing what "you feel like doing". Aka what your biology and hormones are telling you to do. Whether it's polygamy (men) or hypergamy (women). The games work both ways, except men's goal is sex and women's is to make you want th… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/17 05:45 PM |
| 4 | Hard next or reach out?She'll probably see you on fb or irl with another chick and get jealous. Might even hit you up. In that case, you have the option to ghost, pump n dump, or plate (I wouldn't ltr a chick that's doing this). Life's better with options. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Sums it up...I like that you're striving for simplicity as opposed to complexity. Einstein is one of the most renown scientists of all time because he discovered an equation of simplistic brilliance that laymen could understand. I think if trp could achieve more simplicity, more bluepills would be more likely to enlighten themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/17 04:29 PM |
| 11 | Hard next or reach out?Non-exhaustive list of the effects/reasons of/for ghosting: Sometimes the quickest way to gain someone's attention is to remove yours. she should earn your attention being able to walk away creates power it's time efficient it saves your mental focus for more important problems EDIT: added "of/for" | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 02:26 PM |
| 25 | Can a red pill guy turn into blue pillNothing in the world is static. Things constantly change. So yes, you can relapse. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 02:15 PM |
| 2 | I started to lift, but now I can't mountain bike ?I used to road bike while continuing to lift. I probably did about 50-80 miles a week and lifted at least three times a week. I was working about 50-60 hours a week as well. I do think the stress of work contributed to the overtraining aspect. I went from 6' 185lbs 10% bf to 170lbs at my lightest. I had all the symptoms of overtraining including insomnia. Gave up biking and gained the weight back in about a month. Now i only lift and do no steady state cardio. I'm bigger with better definition. … | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 02:12 PM |
| 36 | Boys Scouts of America will be allowing Girls to join in 2019This reminds me of when i played football against a girl back in high school - she seemed so happy to play with the boys. Especially when a dude on our team trucked the fuck out of her and she was on the sidelines the rest of the game. Girl power. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/17 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Police tell me she cheated on me after I am arrestedHire an attorney asap. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Some Tinder girls...Come to my crack party!!! Fyi No smoking crack at the crack party. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 07:33 PM |
| 24 | askTRP Megathread October 11If you can get into nature one weekend, do it. Spend an entire day (preferably alone) away from your phone or civilization. Even a park will do, just make sure to turn your phone off. Bring a sandwich, water, and a beach towel to sit on. Removing yourself from the situation entirely helps put things into perspective. Cheers. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/17 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Investing and Stock MarketsLook these up: Dollar cost averaging, index funds, roth ira, roth 401(k), compound interest, reinvesting dividends, fundamental analysis, value investing Joshua kennon has a great blog. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 09:58 PM |
| 2 | What would you say to a guy that wants to move out of his father's house at 21 years old to finally become independent and gain more life experience, but has less than 100 euros total and no friends that can help?Unfortunately people will typically not think it's a good plan and tell you not to do it. For instance, I know this happened to zuckerburg when he made facebook. There's actually a ted talk on not telling people your goals. I'd read "4 hour workweek" and "subtle art of not giving a fuck". Sometimes it's not the question of "what glory do i want?" But "what pain do i want?". Example: Everyone wants a great body, but how many people actually put in the time, effort, and pain in the gym? How many p… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 11:50 AM |
| 2 | What would you say to a guy that wants to move out of his father's house at 21 years old to finally become independent and gain more life experience, but has less than 100 euros total and no friends that can help?Ask yourself this: Do you have a way to make enough money to survive (let alone thrive)? Why are you moving out before you save up? Are you in physical danger? Otherwise, definitely save up at least €1.000. Will you be able to go to school or learn a skill that pays more money? Could you start a business? This sounds like a question of finding your mission and direction in life more than anything to me; but like I said, we don't know the full story. If you MUST move out do it. Otherwise, learnin… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Being Wired DifferentlyGet enough sleep, lose weight, make sure you don't sit too much, lift legs. The last three are blood flow-related, which your problem likely isn't. Getting enough sleep is so important because that's when hormones (test, dopamine, etc.) are created and your brain rewires itself. Doing nofap and sleeping 5 hours a night seems counterintuitive to me. Sleep a minimum of 8 hours. 9-10 when you can is a good way to go. Loose fitting underwear isn't a bad idea. That's for overall ball health. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/17 04:05 PM |
| 8 | It's fucking SaturdayYou already know the answer. Get out of your comfort zone. "Certainty is the enemy of growth"- from the subtle art of not giving a fuck. Ways to prepare to go out solo: 1. Lift/pick out clothes/groom throughout the day. Lift chest if you can, makes you look noticeably bigger. Eat Shit/shower/shave (Optional) drink coffee. Some will probably disagree, but it helps me to not yawn and look bored. Especially at like 2 am when i woke up early. Meditate for 30 minutes (split it into 10-15 min incremen… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/17 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being an Omega Incel?Lift. This will be what is known as your "keystone habit". Source: the power of habit. The habit that gives structure to your day. However, don't think lifting alone gets you laid (certainly helps), as you can enter a gym and see men who think lifting and never approaching will do something. No. It will greatly increase your success rate when you approach (the numerator), but just going for it and saying anything is obviously how you increase the denominator. Make sure you do well in school as w… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/17 01:00 PM |
| 2 | How to balance being serious and being humorous?Being goofy is not the same as not taking anything too seriously. "Serious" people are usually the same ones who overreact and get butthurt easily. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 11:05 PM |
| 6 | How to apply soft dread in a LTR where you're 24/7 together?Raise smv | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Going on date with acneIf it makes you feel any better, I've hooked up with chicks having breakouts before. You're gonna have to forget it's there. The symptom of insecurity caused by the acne is 10x worse than the physical acne. Cheers. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Going on date with acneAltering diet and getting a kdf and/or vitamin c shower filter are things to consider in addition to skincare regimen. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 09:03 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread October 04Word - take it slow man. Weirdly enough, calisthenics helped my shoulders a ton. My theory is that it activates the stabilizing muscles more than even free weights. Also made my abs, lats, and delts develop noticeably. Youtube calisthenicsmovement and fitnessfaq if you're interested. Cheers. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 05:11 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread October 04Drilling compound lifts and HIIT is where it's at. Fuck isolations unless: A. you have a noticeable muscular imbalance that is greatly hindering you aesthetically (for instance, your deltoids are weirdly small in proportion to your tri's and bi's even though you do already shoulder press, handstand pushups, and planche leans) B. You have a muscular imbalance that may lead to injury (for instance, doing rotator cuff band exercises or YTWL's to prevent shoulder injury is a great investment) source… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 04:56 PM |
| 2 | A couple were staring at me last nightSmile and lift your glass to them from afar. This works for anyone who looks at you at a bar. It makes them give you a response, whether it be negative or positive. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 07:27 PM |
| 2 | How do i stop sexually sabotoging myself?Keep putting yourself out there. knowing without doing is useless doing without knowing is inefficient doing and knowing is best Failing and understanding why you failed is very important. Read models by mark manson and keep talking to women while thinking about how you could have done better. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 06:49 PM |
| 4 | When plates hit you up too often what do you say?Plan when you will hang out with them a few days in advance. Say you're busy and give no other reason. If she continues prying, say "what are you, my mom?". Then immediately change the subject back to logistics by asking (or reiterating if she disregarded) a question. If they hit you up long before you're scheduled to meet up with them, say you're super busy but looking forward to seeing them. Have them over for dinner, make sure they drive so they can leave. Have "something to do" around 8-10 a… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 06:44 PM |
| 5 | How do i stop sexually sabotoging myself?Bro, you're in college. Go fuck all the young chicks, and not the old one that has the power to fail you if you piss her off. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Practical Question: How do you guys manage condoms?Carry some in an Altoids box so they don't get fucked up | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Is this worth addressing?Oh she's playing dread game. In my experience chicks that played dread game turned out to fucking suck. However, something I've learned from sports, chess etc. is that the strategy people use on you is usually their achilles heel. Dread game will work on those who use dread. There are a ton of posts on that on trp. Although after my experiences, I might cut bait entirely. I'd have said something along the lines of "i can see why you didn't take her up on the offer" (in a bland, matter-of-fact to… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Is this worth addressing?Keep in mind that these dudes are basically chicks. If you say anything, it should be funny. A little quip about the dude's snapchat (nothing too bad), "oh cute, Jerry's at the empire state building". Or even say it's cool, "whoa is that a snapchat with jerry and tom brady? Awesome" Just let her know that you're the mountain and nothing anyone does can throw you off. Be aloof that this dude even wants to bang her. He's not even on your radar because he's so beneath your value. Not a threat whats… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 03:49 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread October 04Look into speed training for football. Also, fuck doing anything over a 5k for time. Def no more than a 10k for time. Also, i'm working with little context, but if you're a noob, do full body mon, wed, fri with compound lifts. To answer your question, read into speed and agility training that football players use and incorporate tabata training into these. Ladder and cone drills are (somewhat) fun and will gas you the fuck out of you if you treat them like sets and use an interval timer. Very ti… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/17 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Is this worth addressing?Keep in mind that orbiters are an indication that your ltr is high value. Would you prefer her be low value and have none? Give her enough rope to hang herself; being overbearing makes you seem insecure and will make her less attracted, hence making it seem like a good idea to hook up with them. It's a paradox. If she hooks up with any of them, simply walk away. Read "sex god method" and fuck her good. Dominate her and make her know her body is yours. make sure to focus on your goals and not on … | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 03:20 PM |
| 6 | Use Humor In Your GameHumor = non-neediness. Being serious and staying between the lines indicates that you're investing too much in the interaction, and therefore don't want to "fuck it up". Paradoxically, staying between the lines IS fucking up. That's why RP preaches not giving a fuck. It's the foundation for pretty much all attractive behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/17 12:40 PM |
| 38 | askTRP Megathread October 04She's got a few years on you and has a kid. That means she's got tricks. Watch out for this one. You handled it ok. Best to always make it a funny response so you can have plausible deniability that it was a joke if you need to hit the eject button. "How'd you know I like sloppy seconds?" Show, don't tell. This implies what you said without making it too black and white. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/17 03:04 PM |
| 4 | Review My Routine, Please.Lift | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Women only get into me once they get to know me, how to fix this?Read more and practice more. Read models by mark manson and/or 3% man by corey wayne 3+ times. Practice makes perfect. Not sure if you're doing this, but rich dudes sometimes flaunt money too much. That's needy as fuck. Be cocky/funny whenever she brings up your job/how much you make and avoid the question with a joke about having a shitty job and being broke. Wise to steer the conversation away from that topic, you'd only end up with some gold digging biatch who wants to divorce fuck your face … | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 02:33 PM |
| 1 | How to forget about work when I exit the office?Meditation and reading fiction helps me. Figure out whether you're more of an introvert or extrovert. If introvert, be alone. If extrovert, hang out with some friends for an hour or so. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 01:27 PM |
| 4 | how long do college relationships usually last when the relationship starts your freshmen year?Be single in college. Seriously. Don't be like your dumbass friends who are in relationships. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 01:20 PM |
| 1 | What do you suggest here?Give her the opportunity to fill in quantifiable attributes with whatever she wants them to be. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 12:32 AM |
| 1 | What do you suggest here?As a general rule, never answer a question with a sensical response: "How tall are you?" "Tall enough to take you burger king on wednesday" Keep in mind the heartiste's commandments of poon - "never be afraid to lose her" Say something ridiculous - you'll be surprised what you get away with. Also bear in mind that she probably asks that all the time and chodes are giving her the height every time. Different = polarizing. Aka she gets pushed into the "no" or "yes" more quickly and it saves time. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Gaming a bartender/waitressIf that's the case, keep putting yourself out there. Even to bartenders and waitresses. Read "models" by mark manson so you have a little bit of a framework. Otherwise, keep up the good work. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Are there negative long-term effects of being promiscuous with women that men should worry about?No. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 08:52 PM |
| 9 | High SchoolIn my opinion, high school (or any time when you live with your parents)= de facto monk mode. Focus on your grades and either a sport or lifting. These things pay dividends in college. Try to enjoy the fact that kissing still gives you a rush, as one day it no longer will. Monk mode is not the same as mgtow. Take opportunities to hook up with chicks who are interested, just don't preoccupy yourself with them. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 08:49 PM |
| 8 | Gaming a bartender/waitressGeneral rule of thumb is don't attempt a number close on a waitress/bartender unless there are numerous ioi's (besides her just being friendly). | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 08:42 PM |
| 7 | Don't bother with her if you already lost frame. Not worth the time or effort.This advice is good because being able to walk away and having abundance mentality will inherently boost your frame. It's not necessary that you actually walk away, but it's imperative that you know with 100% confidence that you can walk away and get a hotter girl. This confidence usually comes after a few times of walking away. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Strategic nextingIf you actually didn't want to date her then why did you cause unnecessary drama? Hang out, have fun, hook up. Everybody wins. Sounds like this girl wants to be a plate. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 03:13 PM |
| 2 | PreUnselection and how do i expand my selection of women?Fuck all that shit for now. Focus on grades. Lift. Study and find out what you want to do with your life asap. Once you get into the college you're shooting for, start gaming them. By that point you oughta have a six pack and life goals. It'll be easy af to get chicks. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 10:47 PM |
| 11 | I have the opportunity for revengeContinue ignoring. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Advice on switching collegesStay in your current situation and take more semester hours if you want to live on your own sooner. If you're finding living with your parents is cock blocking you, consider it monk mode and get an internship while trying to graduate asap. Lifting's nonnegotiable as always, so your weeks should be pretty slammed. If you want to transfer go to a school where you will pay more, make sure you will make you significantly more money in after school. Google "return on investment". Chances are the sign… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 06:05 PM |
| 2 | What do you do to unwind?Read fiction, learn a language, learn an instrument, learn to cook, meditate. Reading fiction's great before bed. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble fucking. Not sure how else to put it.Read "models" by mark manson and "how to win friends and influence people" for game/social skills. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 01:08 AM |
| 1 | [Gym noob] A few fitness/nutrition questionsMore lifting less steady state cardio. Eating less calories has the same effect as steady state cardio (more or less). Lifting still burns calories, but will put you in a less catabolic state (which makes you skinny fat) while gaining muscle. Google anabolic state, catabolic state. Elliot hulse had a good video on it a few years back. Alot of the time, trainers stick you on the cardio machines when they don't want to do their job, or the session's over and they'd like you to do something, but do… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 01:04 AM |
| 4 | Meditations on the HB scale.We have three viable options: 1. Binary scale (0 or 1) 2. HB system 3. Grading system These are guidelines as opposed to strict uses: 1. Binary - ONS, night game prospects 2. HB system - Plates, day game prospects 3. Grading system - LTR prospects Grading system example: I might give her a "B", my buddy might give her a "C+". This system provides more selections without getting into decimal places. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/17 08:21 PM |
| 1 | How to attempt to plate ex-LTR?You should act like she's an acquaintance. Be cordial when you see her in class, don't meet up outside of it. Doesn't sound like you're willing to do this. Wear a rubber if you must learn the lesson the hard way. Just don't get her pregnant or let her fuck with your personal goals while you're learning it. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Need some adviceStatic holds as opposed to concentric movements. Not sure of the extent of your immobility, so i'll list some: - hollow body holds - plank - side plank - L sit (on ground, hanging, on rings) - active hang on a pull up bar (youtube calisthenicsmovement and fitnessfaq, r/bodyweightfitness) | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 07:21 AM |
| 15 | ULTIMATE LOOKSMAXING GUIDEStraighten teeth, whiten teeth Haircut Get some sun Groom eyebrows/facial/body hair as necessary | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/17 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Question About TextingTrick: read receipts on, while making it so you can read the text from the home screen (without opening it). So you basically know what they said and can act like you never read it if you want. Only drawback is when you hand your phone to a chick so she can put her number in and another girl texts. No bueno. Edit: now i just make it so it vibrates and nothing pops up, turned read receipts off. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Instant gratification as a rewardSocialize on the weekends. Gratifying and good for your brain. Going into nature works too. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Gaining weight?Keep snacks with you. Unsalted mixed nuts and raw almonds have a shitload of calories. Can be a little pricey. In college we used to eat donuts for calories. The $/calorie is absurd. Obviously not the healthiest way to go. Chia and hemp seeds. milk has great $/cal specs. Check out the gomad method. I don't think this is very healthy either. eggs. So cheap. If you want to be spartan about it, hardboil the bitches. I suggest steaming them actually. Easier to peel. ramen's cheap af. I suggest not u… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 12:28 AM |
| 1 | How to identify shit testsDamn this is tough to know without hearing how she said it. If it's adamant, stop. If it's token resistance, say something cocky/funny and proceed. I don't go too far into battling lmr because legally if she said 'no' one time, she could say you raped her even if you didn't. In reality though, a woman could probably say you raped her even if you didn't bang her and you'd still be fucked. Apologies for the shitty answer. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 09:22 PM |
| 1 | What are your reasons to live?Get therapy if you have the means | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 09:01 PM |
| 1 | What’s in her mind?When she says "you're too busy with your girlfriends", be cocky/funny. Say something like "i'm pretty busy, but i can squeeze you in. Hit me up, we should hang out soon" or try to pull that night by giving some bullshit reason to come over that night - "come check out my new [insert bullshit reason here]" Don't let her dictate the tone of the conversation. Make sure every conversation is fun instead of serious. The only time you should put your foot down is if a woman embarrasses you publicly or… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 09:00 PM |
| 3 | The Women who are too Smart to have a boyfriendIn other news, 1 out of 3 educated women is bangable. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/17 07:45 PM |
| 1 | How to identify shit testsFirst: yea make it a collaboration at worst, but preferably you choose everything. If she's fucking insistent on making her own time as well, let her, but throw in a cocky/funny jab at her (similar to my example above). Never take her too seriously when she wants to be the "adult". If she offers a second time and you're busy, do not drop what you were doing, tell her you're busy that day and offer a different day/time. Second: don't explicitly attribute the idea to yourself, but be a bigger fan … | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend Doesn't Believe We Should Pay the Same Amount of MoneyFar hotter than the girls in your town = scarcity mindset | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 06:21 PM |
| 7 | The power of the eyes?Having smaller eyes is a sign of high test during puberty. That's why women and children have bigger eyes than men. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 06:07 PM |
| 2 | I suddenly have the urge to call EVERYONE out on their bullshit now. Is this how men really should be?Be cocky/funny. Be sarcastic. For example: I picked up lunch, and this tub of lard i work with (who one time attempted to pay me back in quarters when all he had was a $100), said "aww man you should have let me know you were getting something, I'd have wanted that". To which i replied sarcastically, "oh man, totally forgot that i'm supposed to pick up everyone's lunch on a daily basis" He fucked off, and I didn't do or say anything that was worthy of HR knowing about. Sarcasm's great if you thi… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Whats the difference between being patient and being a bitch?Sounds like you have to tolerate it, understanding this dude's mentally ill and could do something completely violent or completely off base. Like take a hammer to you when you aren't looking. I suggest looking for another job. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 05:45 PM |
| 0 | Need help with dread game - gf hanging out too much with male best friend - Round 2You played it well. If you're dating a high smv chick, she'll always have orbiters. Let this dude go as far into the friend zone as he wants if you know he's not a threat. Although it's literally never a bad idea to hard next. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 04:09 PM |
| 0 | Need help with dread game - gf hanging out too much with male best friend - Round 2Raise your smv for subtle dread. It's imperative to lift and make as much money as possible. If you're in school, focus on grades and make it obvious that money will come due to your drive and ability to network. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 03:48 PM |
| 2 | is having a crush on someone for an extended amount of time oneitis?Oneitis, approach anxiety, failure to escalate are all possibilities | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 03:46 PM |
| 6 | How to identify shit testsLet's put it like this - if your friend said that, how would you react? When sex is involved, it throws us off. Don't think of it as breaking frame when she has a counter offer and you accept. I'd have said "sounds good, forgot i was dealing with one of you straight-edge weirdos. Meet you at ___ at 7?" or "good idea, i might bring my typewriter so we blend in with the hipsters. Meet at ___ coffee shop at 7?". You can go along with her plans, just add some condition of your own and make it known … | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 03:24 PM |
| 3 | What would you have done in my situation?Take the word creep out of your vocabulary | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 02:56 PM |
| 2 | How to identify shit testsTry not to think so black and white, just think about standing your ground, maintaining frame, being the mountain, etc. and you should be fine. Other wise it's like "OH GOD THERE'S THE SHITTEST KNEW ONE WAS COMING" and you'll take it too seriously. Don't take women giving you shit too seriously. Have fun out there. Do you take it seriously when a friend gives you a little shit? Hell nah, you just give him a little shit back. Hope this helps. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 02:46 PM |
| 5 | Higher smv guy on a partyDon't ever submit to thinking another guy is higher smv than you. You'll subconsciously give off signals that he's better than you, and she'll have no choice but to agree. If you do find yourself sizing him up and her noticing him, go talk to the guy and make sure you "shoot the shit" (google this term) pretty hard. Even introduce her if you must (opposite of mate guarding, shows you're not threatened by him). So try not to even look over at the dude to size him up. Don't size ANY dudes up, you'… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 02:41 PM |
| 2 | You're not good enough, you're not smart enough, and people don't like you.There is only progression or regression. The winds will always push your boat back to shore if you do not make an effort to venture into them. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/17 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Can Alpha Widows recover?I'd ask redpillwomen | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Debating with people over politics/philosophy/religion, beta behavior?Law 38 - Think as you like, but behave as others | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Is my plate broken?If it's a good plate usually get it with the ball in her court. Something along the lines of "Word, let me know if you change your mind". I had one that i thought broke so I ghosted. Then i randomly said fuck it and hit them up and they were still spinnin. Now I use this tactic to leave the door open for her. If it's a so-so plate, I might just ghost. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 12:53 PM |
| 3 | When to punch someone in the faceIt's best not to punch someone in the face. Got in a lot of fights when i was younger. Been on the winning and losing side. Neither is good in the long run. Add in the fact that it could ruin your life, and it's really illogical. Practicing stoicism is key for taking appropriate action. The goal of shit talking is to piss off the victim so they can't think clearly. Once emotions get involved, mistakes ensue. If you're blinded by rage, say something along the lines of "why the fuck are you talkin… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 12:49 PM |
| 4 | How to hold frame as a sensitive guy?Practice stoicism and meditate. Trp has good articles on stoicism. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 12:43 PM |
| 2 | How can I fix a flat asian face?Everyone's self-conscious at 14. You're so lucky you found trp this early. I suggest working hard in school and getting some career goals started now. If you make $500k/yr you can look however you want (literally) and still get women. Obviously figuring out your skin care routine, getting braces (and wearing your retainer afterwards), and lifting and/or playing a sport are the routes you can and should take to maximize your looks until you get out of the self-conscious phase of life. You have so… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 02:41 AM |
| 10 | How do I escalate to sex when I know the girl is interested?If you know she's interested, don't try to be smooth, just start making out with her. EDIT: isolate first | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 11:12 PM |
| 2 | What weight do I use to determine my BP, squat, pull down, etc.For instance if a program says 60%, it is referring to 60% of your 1 rep max. Make sure you have a spotter when maxing. Hope this helps. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 09:44 PM |
| 3 | She has hsv-2, no breakouts. Do you be safe or no way?I'd bail. If you do decide to do it, always bring three rubbers in an altoids box whenever you're anywhere near her. Even so, i wouldn't play with fire. Have a friend who got hpv from a chick bc he got shitfaced and banged her with no rubber. Knew she had it, just banged her enough to where it was bound to happen. So dumb. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Asking out the other coach (HB8)Definitely works. Snag her number then text to set up the date (not to talk or anything else) and you're golden. Fyi typically if she offers anything other than a one on one date, or postpones it somehow, she's not into it. Read or listen to "models" by mark manson and "3% man" by corey wayne. Corey wayne tells you exactly what to do as far as texting, dating, etc. Manson gives an overview of game and attraction. Hope this helps. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Divorce raped by myWeigh that against the odds of getting a not guilty verdict. You'll have to get that from the attorney. If it's a 50/50 or better, I'd plead not guilty. Otherwise I think you have to plead guilty. Totally fucked up situation. Since you have two years, could you plead not guilty and do something like anger management to show "improvement"? Gotta play the game sometimes. Sorry to hear your parents are being such cunts. Best of luck | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Divorce raped by myDamn man that's rough. What are the ramifications of pleading not guilty and having a guilty verdict? I think that's what you'd have to consider. Definitely a shitty situation dude, keep your head up. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 07:40 PM |
| 1 | How fast do I go?Definitely do not hesitate. That's how you get friendzoned. Let her know you want to fuck her with non verbal cues (kino) oitside of school, don't say it verbally. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 07:30 PM |
| 2 | What if she asks me to be FWB when I break up with her?One time it ended with her being a psycho, attempting to follow me to bars and to cockblock me. She'd call everyone i knew and try to figure out what i was doing. I'd tell everyone i was going to one place then go to another with two or three of my close friends. She eventually resorted to banging a bunch of dudes i knew, but i didn't care and her plan failed. That was when i was 19. Another, significantly less psycho chick, would "end up" where i was, usually while i was meeting women. I'd eith… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 07:28 PM |
| 3 | What if she asks me to be FWB when I break up with her?She'll just try to weasel her way back into ltr. I mean, be my guest, but it'll probably be more trouble than it's worth. Source: been there, done that | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Divorce raped by myTl;dr please | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 07:12 PM |
| 1 | How fast do I go?Fast. I'm assuming you're in hs and don't have your own place, so you should take her to a park during sunset (have a towel or blanket to sit on and chill), make out with her out there and hopefully hook up in your car when it's dark outside. If you're in college, only do dates at night and never movie dates. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Lift or Judo?Lift for sure | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 06:05 PM |
| 7 | How do I initiate sexual topics?Quick google search yields the following: Dr. Albert Mehrabian, author of Silent Messages, conducted several studies on nonverbal communication. He found that 7% of any message is conveyed through words, 38% through certain vocal elements, and 55% through nonverbal elements (facial expressions, gestures, posture, etc). Sounds like letting her know you want to fuck is the desired result. Use body language and tone to achieve this, rather than explicitly saying it. Thinking about what you want to … | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 06:03 PM |
| 5 | Why don't girls like body builders?Solid point, but to be fair, arnold's head on brad pitt's body wouldn't be on their walls | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 02:46 PM |
| 14 | taking complimentsSay something totally stupid for why you're good at it. Example: Someone interrupts a conversation I'm having by saying "oh man you're so jacked". I say "slimfast and shakeweight" shoot a finger gun their way, and carry on. So golf - "i played alot of golden tee growing up" Deadlift - "pro tip: it's all about using that vagina machine in the gym that you only see girls using" Edit: this is congruent with Law 30 - "make your accomplishments seems effortless", while not taking it too seriously | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 01:02 PM |
| 3 | How do I put myself to sleep quickly without fapping?I'd do a full body workout for 1.5-2 hrs then run a 5k or do 30 minutes of a cardio machine. Ice bath 30 minutes to an hour before bed. Read fiction right before bed. If you can't just bludgeon yourself into it (aka sleep from 1-4 until you're tired af), try melatonin for a nught or two to try to get in the right rhythm. Avoid blue light from electronics after dark. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Alright so just went out with this girlIf she asks more details just say "i don't love and tell" (standard answer) or something goofy/creative like "it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Everyone knew the mcrib was a limited time only, but i did it anyway" I try to remember "never be afraid to lose her". Helps when asked these sort of questions - you don't have to take them seriously. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 11:42 AM |
| 4 | Are these women orbiters?Whatever you call em, sounds like they want it. Abundance ensues. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 02:45 AM |
| 12 | Regarding alpha-widows and their ChadsDon't put Chad on a pedestal | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 02:43 AM |
| 2 | About AbsFocus on the 6 basic compound lifts: 1. Squats (includes lunges, split squats, and leg press) 2. Deadlifts (includes romanian dl, kb swings, one leg dl) 3. Pullups, chinups, lat pulldown 4. Overhead press (includes pike pushups and handstand pushups) 5. Rows (single arm, cable, barbell) 6. Bench press (db, incline, pushups) Don't worry about your abs yet, gaining muscle will create an illusion of a better stomach. Once you've gotten 6 months of crushing compound lifts, then work abs in there. At… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 02:40 AM |
| 5 | Alright so just went out with this girlRandomly smack her ass all you want once you've banged. That's kinda what she meant. When i girl asks me if i've ever been in love i tend to say yes and give no further details. Makes her think competitively, whereas saying no is a step toward the "doesn't get laid" direction. Hope you didn't explicitly call her out for getting her friend to call her, but just acted like she was being weird. Good call with no initiation of contact. Proceed with life as if you never met her until then. All in all… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 02:27 AM |
| 6 | From a TRP perspective, how do you treat your woman “like a princess”?I keep my body pristine and bang her brains out. Everyone wins. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Getting rejected in the most disrespectful wayTake a vacation to another city to rule out/confirm that seattle is the issue. As with most problems, it could be a combination of variables. The list is pretty long here - appearance/style, facial expression, tone, body language etc. Sounds like you're handling these rejections fine, just point out how weird they're being. Approaching a woman is not weird - being a psycho biatch is. Read or listen to "models" by mark manson and "how to win friends and influence people" at least three times each… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 02:10 AM |
| 1 | tinder matchesAll of this depends on the city you're in | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 09:39 PM |
| 1 | My Original Red Pill LoveNever been married, but sounds like me when i bang one of my exes - hook up, come to my senses after sex, eventually cease contact realizing the sex wasn't as good as I'd remembered and her personality was even worse. I ignore her until she finds another dude, but still hits me up every now and then to "see how i'm doing". Does that sound like fun to you? Probably will get downvoted for saying this, but my advice is to stay away from this dude. If he's as redpill as you say he is, he's gonna fuc… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Question about a situationShe probably expected you to make a move. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 02:00 PM |
| 1 | New girl entered my social circleInitiate contact with a question/introducing yourself, treat everyone in the group the same has worked for me in this situation. So have quick conversations with her and everyone in the room. Spend roughly the same amount of time on everyone. The time spent shooting the shit with your friends builds attraction through social proof. Women are like cats. Cats hate to be cornered and need space to come to you. Also, is someone not already banging this chick? Why is she around? If someone has or is … | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 01:26 PM |
| 3 | What are some good ways to downplay your own intelligence/intellect in public?Are you sure you're reading this situation correctly? For example, are you steering the conversation toward topics that you understand and the other person doesn't? A good socializer will allow them to feel smart/good about themselves, knowing they'll unconsciously associate you will that good feeling. Let then choose the topic, pick up on subtle "bread crumbs" they drop for follow up questions. Read how to win friends and influence people. If you already have, read it again and implement it's a… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 01:16 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with too much available dickThose apps are all about your looks/body and what job you have. Unethical tip: If you're just trying to pump and dump, make your facebook say you're a doctor (you can change this to private in your facebook settings so it only shows up on the app, and not on fb). Drawback is she might get pissed and tell everyone you're full of shit. Recommended while on vacation to avoid this effect. Hope this helps. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 01:09 PM |
| 1 | when should one step in to protect his girl?Yea this is a difficult one. You should address it; however, the question becomes how much do you have to lose compared to the girl. Even an ltr today could become some chick you used to bang in less than a year. If you beat the shit out of this guy, and his bitchass for some random reason, your life's over. Saying something is a good way to go, even if it's as simple as "did you really just grab her ass?" I think the question is "how much could you lose from kicking his ass?". A background chec… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Understanding AWALT.I believe AWALT stems from a bias to assume women are much different from men. This bias stems from straight men saying this. Let me explain. When you hook up with someone, you see a totally different side of them from what they present to the world. I've heard of my best friends doing things that i'd never expect from them with women, in private (from being huge pussies, to being ice cold). I think it's closer to AHALT (all humans are like that), but since we only get to know the other side of … | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 11:28 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean?Somebody get this man some pussy! | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Do career aspirations change after RP?If it's law school i highly recommend you reconsider. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 09:41 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean?Common errors: Acting needy, blowing up her phone, etc. If you texted her, all you can do is wait for a response. If she doesn't respond, she doesn't respond. Try to avoid thinking "wtf she said she was happy to meet me!" if that happens. It's her choice. Just like it's your choice whether you want to pump and dump her or not. It goes both ways. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 09:39 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean?I'd have to be there and hear her tone and see her body language. Chicks will seem uninterested then bang, and others seem interested and flake. You never know, just watch what she does. Also, we don't know what you did since she said that, for all we know you could have unknowingly made a huge error. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 09:29 PM |
| 3 | what should i do? i need advice.For real tho, you should probably focus on other chicks/goals and get her off your mind. Don't initiate contact at all until she reaches out. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 09:25 PM |
| 3 | what should i do? i need advice.In before someone says unicorn or oneitis | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Rent: Alone in apartment or house with friendsOption 2 because you can always move into your own place. Getting good roommates gets harder and harder as you get older. Stash some of the extra dough in your 401k and/or high yield savings account. If they end up sucking and have no other viable options, then move into your own place. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 09:18 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean?Carry on as you would if you hadn't met her. She'll get back to you if she meant what she said. Actions are more important than words. Words mean nothing. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 09:15 PM |
| 8 | Dating a rape survivorHmmmm sounds like a fair amount of baggage/red flags there. She's probably on her best behavior since it's early on. Bail IMMEDIATELY once the behavior changes. Probably better just to leave now though tbh because that sounds like a storm on the horizon. Walking away only gets more complicated with time. It'll probably rear it's ugly head when you're out drinking. For your sake, I hope no one's around to see the meltdown. Source: been in your situation. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 07:15 PM |
| 6 | Just did the most beta thing imaginable. How to recover and never do it again?I think you have to choose between these two laws (48 laws of power): Law 2 - Never put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies Law 15 - Crush your enemies totally | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 06:56 PM |
| 21 | Can a redpilled man be a leftistLaw 38: think as you like, but act as others | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Obvious shittest help (beginner)Always best to tease her and/or be funny in your response. "Omg he sounds like a total hunk. Bet he has the smoothest dick evaar." (mocking her of course) | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Just did the most beta thing imaginable. How to recover and never do it again?Trp has good articles on dark triad Also check out 48 laws of power for more info. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 04:39 PM |
| 15 | Just did the most beta thing imaginable. How to recover and never do it again?You did ok. If you'd have put in a good word for him, then that'd have been another thing. Being machiavellian/dark triad isn't always the same as being alpha. Be machiavellian when your career's involved. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 04:31 PM |
| 1 | What’s in her mind?Noon = lunch time (when you're free). Respond when you're free, you don't always want to be available and you can sometimes respond to texts immediately if it fits your schedule. Don't break frame when she wants to make the plans or wants to call to confirm. Reframe and tease her about being weird, lame, boring etc. "I'm worried if you made the plans we'd end up watching 'sex and city' reruns with a gallon of ice cream" or whatever. Check out 3% man by corey wayne. He gives very formulaic dating… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 03:37 PM |
| 0 | What’s in her mind?I'd respond around noon and say something simple and to the point, "when are you free to grab a drink this week?" Example for next text would be "cool meet you tuesday 7:30 at ____ bar?" Then the third will be "sounds good, see you then" Respond in at least 45 minute intverals. Get back to her that day, but never after 6 pm (implies you're busy and have a social life). If she texts you after 6 pm, respond in the morning (unless she's trying to bang that night). Plan a date with contingencies (do… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 02:58 PM |
| 2 | What’s in her mind?Never know what's going on in the background. For all you know, you played it right but she got back with her ex. Women are like cats - give them space to decide whether they want to sit on your lap. Note: This is one of the reasons why working on ourselves is key. We can rest assured that if/when we run into her again we'll have progressed into a higher league/smv than when she last knew us. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 02:05 PM |
| 4 | What’s in her mind?Too much investment on your part. Talk to other chicks and take your mind off of this one. Don't reach out for 10 days (put a reminder on your phone so you can take your mind off of her) - text her offering to meet up. If she offers anything but a one on one meet up, then you should move on | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 01:49 PM |
| 5 | High school gameFocus on academics and finding out what you want to do in life. Nice resume builder is finding a really easy, inner city, eagle scout troop (troops vary widely in their time-investment, only do it if it won't take too much time). Lifting or athletics is great, but you'll have so much time for that in college so don't worry too much about it. Check out lists of high-paying careers and careers that are projected to grow over the next ten years and get on top of that asap. The earlier you figure th… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 01:10 PM |
| 1 | How to develop real confidence rather than episodes of ego-boost?Failure will accelerate your learning. That's how pua bootcamps work (i've never done one, but i'm almost certain that's how it works). They force you to do approach after approach over the course of a few days. Granted I'm assuming they provide some feedback as to why you failed after each time. Instead of doing a pua bootcamp, try this: - Read or listen to "models" by mark manson 3 times. This will give you an answer key as to why you fail when you do. Failing a test in school is only benefici… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 12:53 PM |
| 4 | A loser who want to be alphaStart from within. Be comfortable with yourself. For example, if you have a self esteem/smv issue that can't be solved (height), own that shit and don't let it get multiplied by being insecure about it. If you have an smv issue that can be solved (being overweight), fix it. Google "circle of concern, circle of influence". Common shit tests are just seeing if you're insecure about something; it's a common misconception that only women shit test. Men talk shit to each other all the time - gotta ow… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/17 01:10 AM |
| 1 | For everyone who cannot afford gym or don't have time for it.For those who cannot afford it: youtube - Calisthenicsmovement, fitness faq If you're high school or college and don't have much time, get a job doing manual labor if you want to kill two birds with one stone. Minimal exercise on top of this leads to great results. Source: personal experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/17 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Gym Tips?Weights for legs, rings/calisthenics for upper body is my golden formula, but you should do weights for all until you slim down a bit. Learning how to flex each muscle with no weight (especially lats, pecs, quads, and glutes) and then using this mind muscle connection during lifts is key (i.e. Flex your lats during rows, flex pecs during bench press) Compound lifts over isolation. Especially in the beginning. No bicep curls until you can see a 6 pack forming (even if it's in the morning under pe… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Police officer or business ownerBusiness. Cops are "contextual alphas". Once they take the uniform off, they're no longer in their element. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 05:01 AM |
| 8 | When confronting someone fails?Honestly, if you're listening to trp, you'll have more to lose than the other person. Better to not let it get physical, you never know how it could turn out legally. I find men with low smv who are frustrated in general will sometimes look for fights. It's more of a statement about them and they're basically cockblocking you. When i was younger and someone fucked with me or my friends, i'd always take it as an attack on my honor. For instance, i got my ass kicked one time when i tried to fight … | /r/askTRP | 19/09/17 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Sales jobs??Close friend of mine got into fintech. He's had sales jobs for about 8 years and switches jobs every 2 years like clockwork. Started out in something vaguely related to finance and worked his way laterally until he came upon fintech. A colleague of his made $1m in a good year. He always had good production in his previous roles, kept his linkedin/networking game up so recruiters could find him, and changed jobs frequently. You want to find a situation where you're working for a startup that's in… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Problem with nerves/sex, need some advice/solutionsBefore you go out: lift then meditate for 20 mins During the date: have a few drinks and think about fucking her. Get graphic. During sex: leave your body. Only focus on her and stay in the moment. Use all your senses. Breathe her in. Think about her entire body and how it belongs to you. Take deep breaths and look her in the eyes. That will help you to stop thinking. You need to stop thinking. On the flipside, if you don't want to cum, think alot. Think about a sport or math problems: "man on 2… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Sales jobs??Get into fintech sales if you can find it | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Is TRP psychologically healthy?To build on the answers above, trp is about attaining an objective paradigm in all aspects of life. Trp talks about women/relationships because that is an aspect that society has widely instilled subjective (read untrue) viewpoints into men. The concept of a "healthy" psychology is subjective. Just because something is deviant/contrarian does not make it "unhealthy". That being said, asking this question is somewhat counterproductive because of course those who would answer this are all under th… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 09:08 AM |
| 8 | Best A&A to 'u always look like a fuckboi' shit testI usually say something like "I guess that means you're into fuckboi's" | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 08:50 AM |
| 1 | How would I go about becoming a bartender?I'm thinking youtube would have the same effect for less money. All you need to memorize is like 5 drinks that use different liquors. In raising smv, lifting, reading, and meditation will have a much more profound effect than making drinks for chicks. Do you braj, godspeed. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/17 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Got evicted from my seat by a girl at the school cafeteria today...Time's still on your side. Read models by mark manson, how to win friends and influence people, millionaire next door, and rich dad poor dad before you graduate. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/17 05:07 AM |
| 5 | Self-ConfidenceIf you have the means, get some new clothes and a good haircut. -See if you look good with a beard. Buy clippers if you go this route and trim it to the best length for you weekly. If you wear glasses, see if you'd look better with new frames and/or contacts. find a cologne that works for you, it takes a little sifting through free samples to find the right one. Make it yours. get a cheapish watch (~$100). Always wear a watch. always wear a belt. only wear athletic gear when exercising. Same for… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/17 01:55 AM |
| 13 | "I'm not ready for a relationship right now"Oh yea i'd move on. Hook up with as many chicks as possible, she'll inevitably hear about it or see you with one and that social proof may raise you into prospect territory for her. When i girl says "hang out as friends?" You GOTTA be cocky/funny or really direct right there as in "i'm not interested in hanging out as friends, let me know if you change your mind" and physically walk away. Until then, keep raising your smv and focus on other chicks. Don't hang out with her or you'll just bury you… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/17 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Got evicted from my seat by a girl at the school cafeteria today...In addition to lifting, you might want to start training mma. As an aside, it's not a big deal IF you give your seat to the chick, but HOW. At this point, you've got bigger fish to fry - forget about that shit. Meditation and lifting are a good way to go. Oh, and KEEP YOUR FUCKING GRADES UP AND GO TO A GOOD COLLEGE. Time is on your side. Read the sidebar from time to time, but most importantly, work your ass off in school. Good luck. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 11:44 AM |
| 6 | What to do about a manipulative guy?Thanks for the tl;dr. I'll address this as throughly as possible. Yea it's the backwards law on this. Remember: women are like children. If a little girl's dad doesn't want her dabbing, all he has to do is start dabbing and saying "swag". If he condemns dabbing, guess what she'll do when he's not around? The point is, pulling her away is pushing her toward him. Pushing her toward him is pulling her away. So for your situation, say things like "i think it's great you have such a great friend who … | /r/askTRP | 14/09/17 09:04 AM |
| 1 | A good reversal to stripper shit test?Sounds like her dread game's working | /r/askTRP | 14/09/17 08:35 AM |
| 3 | What to do about a manipulative guy?My advice is to put a TL;DR so that we can efficiently address the topic at hand. It's human nature to see a long post like this that will not benefit me in the slightest that i just bounce and see if there's a shorter question to answer. Not trying to be a dick, but i see this all the time on asktrp. A long question with one comment that has nothing to do with the post. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/17 08:23 AM |
| 2 | Best way to turn down coworkers who keep inviting you out without looking like an outcast ass?Go with an excuse to leave all set and ready. Say you'll stay for one drink, but give them two if/when they're adamant (sorta like a planned encore at a concert). | /r/askTRP | 14/09/17 07:32 AM |
| 6 | How would I go about becoming a bartender?Bartending school's most likely a rip off. Becoming a bar back and work your way up is pretty much the only option. Unless you want to work at a shitty bar. Alternatively, work for a catering company. They'll put you behind the bar from time to time. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/17 07:16 AM |
| 10 | How would I go about becoming a bartender?Typically you'd be a bar back or bouncer first. Do not go to bartending school without a job lined up that requires it. If you know any bartenders, ask how they got the job. If you happen to start shooting the shit with a bartender, ask him how he got the job. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/17 06:55 AM |
| 7 | Never Get Involved With A Girl Your Buddy Has Fucked.Yea, by all means pass her around. Decent chance one of your shithead friends privatizes the public pussy and fucks up the whole thing. Anecdotal evidence: I know a dude (lifts a lot, good job, but not attractive otherwise, definitely lacks game) who is ltr'ing an absolute hoe (albeit an attractive one). She was not only passed around, but spit roasted by some of his close acquaintances. Furthermore, he personally snap chatted her naked while at a party, and definitely acknowledged her hoe-ness … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 06:44 AM |
| 5 | Ex-Girlfriend keeps sending signals.I've fucked a lot of my exes after the breakup (usually i'll see them out when i'm drunk and i'm like "sure, why not?"). Just don't do it (although to be fair the sex is usually fucking crazy because of the guilt element for both parties). They wake up and say some thing like, "soooo i guess i'll talk to you later" and my stomach turns. I end up having to aggressively ghost anyway. God, typing that gave me chills. Long story short: no. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/17 05:22 AM |
| 36 | Never Get Involved With A Girl Your Buddy Has Fucked.Best case scenario: You and your friend(s) pass the chick around your friend circle, and start seeing her as a complete joke. She might even try being "one of the boys", but her used up pussy is all she's bringing to the table. Ties will be cut with her naturally when no one can look at her without cracking up with laughter. Worst case scenario: Your circle of friends is changed forever, even though the girl will eventually find another friend group to wreck. Ultimately hooking up with a girl yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/17 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Recommended books in monk mode?How to win friends and influence people The power of habit 48 laws of power Models by mark manson The sex god method Millionaire next door Rich dad poor dad Subtle art of not giving a fuck | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 11:51 AM |
| 7 | Quick question.10 years is a huge sample size. She's definitely the same and is obviously very manipulative. Look past her beauty. She's getting closer to the wall and wants to lock something down. Probably reached out to a lot of other guys too. GHOST. For the love of god, ghost. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 08:49 AM |
| 1 | What to do to further improve myself?Keep grades up and get into a good college (take SAT prep courses and differentiate yourself from your competitors). Use your body (join sports team and/or lift). Get your skin routine down. If you have bad acne, consider accutane. Get braces and USE YOUR RETAINER. Be friends with everyone. Don't think with your dick too much. College (or senior year after you're accepted to your college of choice) is a great time to start thinking with your dick. Respect your parents. Seriously. Love the idea o… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 07:31 AM |
| 1 | How important is it to make her orgasm?Read "the sex god method" by daniel rose | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 07:16 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck am I sexually and would RP strategy work on masc gay dudes or only feminine gay dudes or no dudes at all?To put in the simplest terms (am straight so i may be wrong here): If looking for commitment, follow advice for women. If looking for hookups, follow advice for men. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Did your mindset about certain ideas you posses change after monkmode?I'd get one real dirty ONS in. Like picked up from the bar, talked for under an hour, and fucked sorta thing. Makes me feel like my ltr could leave that second and i could presumably go out and be fucking another one in no time. She'll feel the confidence you emit from this paradigm as well. Edit: honestly man, everyone's different. Do you. The golden rule of trp is constant investment in yourself. Never slack on this aspect and you'll be ok. The ONS thing is good if you meet a girl you like. Le… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Does it matter how you lose your virginity?Being a virgin can be a huge cock block. From my experience, when you're older, people ask "what age?", not really anything else. I wouldn't lose it to a prostitute tho. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Did your mindset about certain ideas you posses change after monkmode?Some people might not like casual sex, but you must have at least a handful of ONS before being in a ltr. This will let you know that you can be single, and your relationship will go more smoothly. Banging a chick in a parking lot 10 minutes after you met might not be your thing, but do it at least once so you know deep down that you can. We'll all go through life oscillating between ups and downs, just make sure the long term average is going up. Monk mode is still about the journey, not the de… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Should I read a book before sleep instead of watching movies or videos or listening to podcasts as a teen? Also,how can I live passionately and enjoy life instead being a potato gaming all day? Should I keep gaming with friends as a teen in my free time?Video games are dangerous because of the false sense of accomplishment and dopamine when it isn't deserved. In nature, we'd get dopamine as a reward for finding food, sex and other benefots to survival. This is why nofap is endorsed on trp. Think about someone who games all the time. Would you want to be like them? Do things that people you admire do. STUDY, lift (or join a sport), read fiction before bed. Listen to non fiction using overdrive or audible during the day. Playing video games doesn… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Closing adult women as a minor.You'll have to pull the chick then and there and hook up with her in a "spontaneous" place. Keep your grades up and lift so that when you are in your 20's you'll slay. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Contextualizing one's objective SVM presently and moving forwardMeditate and practice stoicism. You're thinking subjectively instead of objectively. And similar to the concept of risk aversion in finance, the +1 you get when you're riding high is more than offset by the -1 you get when feeling down. Bring those both closer to the mean will actually result in a net gain in overall well-being because of the effect. Instead if thinking "fuck i'm good looking" one day, then "man i look like shit" the next, you'd be seeing yourself as others see you. I recommend … | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Bench Press and how to make a girl romance meOh yea for the second part - this may sting, but it helps to learn about game/life to a point where you have it down pretty good and meet a new girl. She'll never have a memory of anything but you manhandling her in bed, being cocky funny and passing her shittests without a second thought, and generally leading the dates and interactions where she feels like you have all the answers. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Bench Press and how to make a girl romance meBench press - learn more. You might not be shoulder packing (shoulders down and back) and instead are using your front delt. Try different variations. Incline, decline, and especially dumbbells. I only do dumbbells and use gymnastics rings for pushups (archer variation and weighted fucking crush). Make sure you're squeezing elbows together (not hands) on dumbbell press and pushups on the rings. Hits the pecs more. Overhead press can help with bench too. Alan thrall has great vids on the subject. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Should careers be chosen purely for earnings potential?The top 3-5% of any field makes good money (millionaire next door, rich dad poor dad, 4 hour workweek are all good resources). Sales and the human element is always the common denominator. Read "spin selling" and "how to win friends and influence people" for sales. Doing something that interests you will make it more likely to reach the upper echelon. Putting in the extra time will be easier. I vote go for what interests you, but don't take out student loans when you don't have to or are unlikel… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Slept with a girl and I regret it.Yea she'll probably get the picture if u either make a lame excuse or ghost | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 04:41 AM |
| 3 | How do you provide "beta comfort" without "opening up?"Keep it simple. Read or listen to "models" by mark manson. Hope this helps. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 04:39 AM |
| 2 | How to play power games with roomates.Don't worry about alliances - the couple's probably gonna win every time, as they need to sway only one for majority. Get yourself some plates (pun intended), and kill the fat chick with kindness. Bear in mind roommates can easily cockblock. Don't let the place you call home ever get compromised by this drama. Have boundaries, but don't step on any of your roommates' toes. Sounds like the fat chick needs excitement, let her get it from someone else. Pick your battles here, no need to amog low va… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Idea for a more sober understanding of sexBe a bartender instead | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 03:07 AM |
| 3 | Nudes shit test"Depends on how good the pics you send are" | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 02:55 AM |
| 2 | help i need to liftSome more youtube resources: Calisthenicsmovement, fitness faq, athleanx | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Pain in my left hand during curling weightsMan injuries are very tough to diagnose in person, much less on the internet. I'll take a stab at it and give you my two cents on moving forward. Try stretching your fingers/wrist using the floor or even a bench. Take it slow and steady. If it's only on curls, i say ditch them. Compounds are so effective if you kill them. Chin ups ALL the way up. Try different curl variations. Hammer curls and reverse grip. Hope this helps. If it's bad you'll have to see a doctor, sorry buddy | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Is it possible to change the way you talk?In addition to talking more slowly, speak from your stomach, not your nose. To test, hold your nose while talking. If it sounds weird as fuck, you're speaking from your nose. If it sounds about the same as when you didn't hold your nose, you're speaking from your stomach. (Source: "models" by mark manson) Your voice will sound deeper and more relaxed. Hope this helps. Edit: grammar, fixed incoherent sentence | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 06:41 PM |
| 4 | How can I stop talking too much and saying things I shouldnt when talking to other people?Read or listen to "How to win friends and influence people" If you already have and aren't having success. Reread, but also focus on asking good questions. People leave breadcrumbs in their answers for follow up questions (whether consciously or unconsciously). Be genuinely interested in learning about them/ or the topic of conversation and explore that topic they are interested in deeply. Never namedrop, never take the conversion where you want it to go. If you do this right, you should talk ju… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Where can I read more about posts like "Mystery Man" and "Be More Like a Stranger to Her"?Sounds like what you need is less reading and more field research. You might want to start reading about psychology though. You might just find that interesting. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Why do I push people away when they start to like me?What's the common denominator? You. Peel away the layers and to find the paradigm that's holding you back. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 12:55 AM |
| 5 | Plate flaked to go to friend's birthday party?At the absolute most (depending on how hot she is), say something along the lines of "word let me know" and expect to never hear back from her. Weekends are great for finding new ones anyway, you're in a great position. Her loss, your gain. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 10:17 PM |
| 1 | My gf wants to meet her ex last timePutting too much pressure on yourself bro. I used to get jealous back in high school (over ten years ago) and even got friend zoned once. Stopped giving a fuck and got my lay count to about 15 or so by the time i graduated high school. Chicks used to say i had "no emotions" (they still do sometimes). They say that because they're frustrated they can't use my emotions against me and make me their puppet. Don't overcomplicate things. Game sometimes gets too technical and we need to make it simple.… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 08:39 PM |
| 2 | My gf wants to meet her ex last timeI'd say you just gotta let these things slide. I always let my ltr's do what they want and give them enough rope to hang themselves. I don't come off as needy that way. If anything, when she mentions meeting up with him say something cocky like "why do you want to meet up with him? So you can remind yourself how out of your league i am?" (While smirking). Then preferably make out with her aggressively then fuck her hard if you really want to drive the message home. Insecurity will only push her … | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 08:17 PM |
| 2 | The respect I receive kind of makes me feel uncomfortable.Always allow people to do things for you: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ben_Franklin_effect Also, as for lunch and or drinks after work (that happens when you're in the working world), i usually take them up on it especially if they are my superior (obvi). Otherwise they may feel slighted. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Need TRT...Chekd stinksCan't help you there, sorry. I have no idea how old you are, but I'd absolutely test my vitamin D, TSH and T4 before I did trt. Selenium, zinc, D or other nutritional deficiencies could be the culprit. This guy went from around 270 to 615: http://life-longlearner.com/double-your-testosterone/ Best of luck. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Need TRT...Chekd stinksWhat were your levels and how many tests did you take? Did you get LH and FSH tested as well? | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Need TRT...Chekd stinksDo everything possible to avoid trt. Sounds like once you're on it for a while, it's necessary indefinitely. I'd see if you have a varicocele, start wearing loose-fitting underwear, supplement zinc, d3, magnesium (at the very least), cold showers, sleep more, get thyroid levels checked - anything i could do. If you're overweight, definitely lose the fat first. Don't give up until you've tried every option. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 05:03 PM |
| 7 | Is game basically Acting?Read (or listen to) "models" by mark manson | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 04:24 PM |
| 10 | No, Plastics Are Not Lowering Your Testosterone Levels - Real Science Explained InsideI don't doubt the legitimacy of your argument; I see it as risk/reward of two options (the worst case for each option): Avoiding plastics when they turn out to be benign, Cost: expended needless money and effort. Using plastics when they turn out to be harmful, Cost: my physical well-being, the extent of which is unknown. It's an ongoing cost/benefit analysis: -If i'm in a setting (hospital) where plastics are predominantly used, i won't complain about their use. -If I have the choice of not usi… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/17 02:43 PM |
| 3 | What does the TRP mindset think about this: Quitting your job without another job offer lined up?The general advice is don't do it. Throttle back on lifting (can be difficult) and extracurriculars until you line another one up. You run the risk of reeking of desperation in an interview if you're unemployed (similar to plate theory in this respect). Plus prospective employers want you to be employed at the time of the interview. If you want to start a business with your spare time, make it your second job instead. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Girl usually dry when I bang herRead "the sex god method" by daniel rose. Free pdf can be found in this sub somewhere. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Plate never makes plans firstThink about it: do you really want to make plans according to her schedule? Everything seems to be in order here. Carry on. Edit: grammar | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Plese help me sort my mind... Post LTRHook up with other chicks. Use bumble or tinder if you must. Think of it as sifting through the population until you find a chick (or multiple) hotter/higher value than her. Could take a bit, but it always works and it's always been the answer for me. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 09:34 PM |
| 1 | 1 How can I man up and become manly as a teenager?Study very hard and lift. Get used to being alone and breaking away from your friends to do your own thing. Life is to be lived conquering goals. School is your number one priority. Lifting should be your hobby (still very important). Conquer these two goals and don't squander this opportunity. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 08:52 PM |
| 1 | What to do after getting a girls numberNever say shit like that. Use the phone to set up the date only. On monday, say "hey it's gosu, when are you free to get together this week?" Any counter offer or her trying to set up anything other than a one on one meetup is a "decline". If she says, "tuesday", say "meet at coffee shop name at tuesday at 7?" When she says "yea", say "sounds good, see you then" and no more contact. Just show up. This is the generic advice. Keep approaching other women. Read corey wayne for this stuff, he breaks… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 07:35 PM |
| 1 | What to do after getting a girls numberI'd hit her up monday, schedule for tuesday, but that's bc i use the weekends to find new prospects and i generally don't feel like scheduling a date so far in advance. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 07:21 PM |
| 3 | [Flirting/Sexting] Should I screenshot chat to be safe?Grades and finding your career path (if you do well enough in this department you can fuck nothing but models at 25) Lifting (there's a noticeable difference between my friends who lifted during college and those who didn't) Somewhere down here is getting laid (although i was a horny little fuck back in hs, so i know it's easier said than done) High school's about developing good habits and being social in general. I'm of the opinion that game can be learned easily if you're social and can strik… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 07:19 PM |
| 3 | How do I get body builder body without roids?Man, the amount of time that could be spent on this topic is exhausting. Check out these youtube channels: alan thrall, athleanx, fitnessfaq, and calisthenicsmovement. Calisthenics while continuing to use weights for my legs has proven to be very effective. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 07:11 PM |
| 4 | [Flirting/Sexting] Should I screenshot chat to be safe?She's drama. You, sir, are most definitely in high school. Check out the rational male smv chart and you'll realize highschool's for setting up your future self to slay. I probably sound like your fucking mom, but worry about your grades and lifting until you get to college, not this kinda shit. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 07:01 PM |
| 4 | [Flirting/Sexting] Should I screenshot chat to be safe?I'm not sure i entirely understand your predicament. Save them if you think you'll need them. Girls won't typically tell anyone about things that make them look slutty fyi. Just NEVER tell ANYONE about who you're seeing or it'll cause you a bunch of bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 06:53 PM |
| 7 | [Flirting/Sexting] Should I screenshot chat to be safe?You're probably been watching too much game of thrones. Stay above and aloof of any drama anyone causes. Practice r/stoicism | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 06:46 PM |
| 1 | What to do after getting a girls numberCoffee date then take her to a park (park can't be sketchy though). Bring a blanket to sit/lay on. Not gonna lie, it's tough when you don't have you're own place, but you can make it work. Make sure the coffee shop isn't a chain, but is local. Also scope the place out beforehand. The way i see it, if you don't have your own place you're in de facto monk mode: -Do very well in school, lift, and keep putting yourself out there socially. -Avoid video games, tv, and porn/jacking off. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 06:00 PM |
| 1 | What to do after getting a girls number3% man by corey wayne is a good book when you're just starting out and clueless about dating. Models by mark manson is great for pickup. I'd cycle through both of those at least three times so you internalize them. Audible's a great resource for getting through books quickly. In general, even when you have money to take them out to a fancy dinner, you want to just grab drinks and have a second and maybe even a third bar in mind (you can make it feel like it's been more than one date by changing … | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 05:36 PM |
| 6 | Men - the most important post you'll read on Testosterone. Your levels are being systemically lowered with plastics. Science inside.Berkey filters are serious. Pricey though. Carbon filters that have no plastics (glass or stainless steel) involved are a safe bet. If you must get one with plastic (they are the cheapest option), ensure that it's bpa free. Although i'm guessing there other chemicals that leech from plastic that we don't know about yet, so that's something to consider. Definitely better than nothing in my opinion. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/17 03:42 PM |
| 5 | Ok, I'm in a bit of a conundrum. How do I apply the Dale Carnegie method of human relations when there is research showing that women prefer aggressive "bad boys" as sexual partners?Read "Models" by mark manson | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Question about cardio and strength trainingStop doing steady state cardio. Either do HIIT or lift more (more volume, more days a week). Hate to say, but the trainer is most likely just plopping you on a machine so he can go do other things instead of doing his job. Not for your benefit. Use him until you've learned the basics, then youtube is your best friend after that. Athleanx, alan thrall, fitnessfaq are very good resources. When i was your age gaining fat wasn't nearly an issue, having too fast a metabolism was. Steady state cardio … | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 01:03 PM |
| 90 | Men - the most important post you'll read on Testosterone. Your levels are being systemically lowered with plastics. Science inside.Vitamin D3 deficiency will kill your levels. I raised my total test levels by 100 IU after fixing my vitamin D deficiency (vitamin D levels went from 18 ng/ml to 70 ng/ml). (Insert dick joke here) Here are some things I've learned: 1. Get enough sleep lower stress lift heavy. never do steady state cardio, if you must, no more than a 5k and you better book it. intermittent fasting fix any vitamin deficiencies (especially vitamin D) 6.avoid sugar (especially if you want to continue drinking) cold … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/17 12:28 PM |
| 163 | A Word For Those Back At CollegeKeep your grades up and go to a good college. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Entering monk mode. Are there other things can I be doing to become the best version of myself?Nofap, no tv, no video games. I'd take spanish instead of french, as it's cheaper to visit central and south america so you can absolutely ball out when you go. Personally, I listen to non fiction using audible throughout the day and read fiction before bed. You learn more than you think from fiction. Intermittent fasting and supplementing with omega 3's and vitamin d-3 isn't a bad idea. Not sure if you put this, but meditate as well. Edit: just realized you're in highschool. Grades and lifting … | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 06:58 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread September 06That's a question for the people putting it on; however, i would guess if you have to pay to sign up, there will most likely be a photographer there | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 05:17 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread September 06Sign up for an official 5k race. 10k tops or it'll be brutal. They typically have professional photographers that take a candid picture of each racer and sell them online afterwards. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 04:47 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread September 06Shirtless while doing something that'd be considered interesting. While rock climbing for example. Especially with bumble (since they're messaging first), give them pictures they can start a conversation with. None while weight lifting, as it's better to make it seem like your physique comes effortlessly. You must quickly and positively differentiate yourself from all the losers these girls are sifting through. Being jacked obviously does this to great effect. Eat less, lift more, avoid selfies. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 04:19 PM |
| 23 | TRP is.... giving me oneitis?She gets extremely wet yet she's not giving you sex? I find this perplexing - she may be getting some on the side. The ones who cheat are usually the jealous type. You should probably bail, she sounds too high maintenance for only 3x a week anyway. In the end always go with your gut, it's way more well-informed about the subtleties of your situation than anyone else could possibly be. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 03:45 PM |
| 11 | askTRP Megathread September 06Single arm dumbbell rows while focusing on pulling with the elbow instead of the hand. Hope this helps. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 01:46 PM |
| 4 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.I dated a girl like this a long time ago. There's a lot of talk about possessing dark triad traits, but i believe avoiding dark triad women is even more important. These are the types of women that will falsely accuse someone of rape. "The psychopath test" by Jon Ronson is a good resource for quickly spotting a psychopath. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 03:49 AM |
| 1 | A red pill newbie needs advice.Be more selfish. When your woman or women aren't around, never care about what she thinks or where she is. Focus on lifting and either working and/or studying when she's not there. When she is there, think with your dick and get yours. Put yourself first, your friends don't give a shit about you (if anything they want you to fail so they look better by comparison) and your mom secretly wants you to move in with her one day. Every single day: 1. Eat right 2. Lift 3. Abstain from tv and video game… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Should I introduce my friend to TRP?Sounds like he'll figure it out on his own if girls keep shitting on him. Always lead by example | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 01:49 AM |
| 2 | First time bringing a girl home and I fuck it upDo whatever as far as the party's concerned, you'll only learn. I suggest you think long term at your age. I used to play video games back in college (i'm in my late twenties). Complete waste of time. I was addicted to the dopamine and false sense of accomplishment they gave me. I suggest you quit them completely. This helped me immensely. Also, do not smoke anything at all. Only drink. Keep your gpa up, get internships, and lift now; you'll be slaying in 2-5 years tops and you'll have freedom a… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/17 10:55 PM |
| 2 | First time bringing a girl home and I fuck it upFirst of all, you didn't fuck it up all that badly (although her tugging on your johnson while you tried to sleep was probably an indicator that she was down). IMO, i'd have used the party to line some other prospects and meet up with her one-on-one some other night. If she offers anything but a meet up between you and her, she's wasting your time (you mentioned oneitis, yet it appears that you're going down that path). I personally don't let plates meet my friends; only ltr's who have shown the… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/17 07:15 PM |
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