How do I swallow TRP?

jb_trp · 2015-06-08T22:41:59+00:00

I'm 17, haven't had a real girlfriend yet and I'm still a virgin

You're like a lot of 17 year olds, so don't beat yourself up.

With that said... You're at a very pivotal time in your life. You should really focus on personal growth and getting to where you want to be as a man, and the rest will fall into place. Here's my advice:

Get into the gym and lift/cardio. This will help with everything. You'll feel better, you'll look better, women will be more attracted to you, you'll be more confident, etc. You want to build a masculine frame. This won't be a quick fix. You need to learn to love the gym.

Discover what your mission is in life and make it your top priority. What's your passion? Have you taken control of your life yet? Or do you just sit at home, eat crap, and watch Netflix?

Try to find a job/career that you love, and graduate college without debt. All those student loans? You're going to have to pay them back. You don't want to finish your undergrad with 40k-80k in debt... This will cripple you.

Become comfortable with yourself first, and then try to hit on girls. I believe reading TRP will help with game, but I honestly think you learn game through trial and error. Go to the club. Talk with girls. You will fail, but maybe you'll get lucky. Be confident. You can't fake it... Figure out what you did wrong and try again. The goal is to build confidence and lose your approach anxiety. They're just girls.

Those are just some basics, I'm sure other guys can give more advice.

monzzter221 · 2015-06-09T03:37:00+00:00

I don't like those words, alpha and beta. They are supposed to define mating strategies, the DNA and the provider.

But basically, if you want to get what you want, you have to do what it takes to get what you want. Ponder that, meditate on it if that's your thing, internalize it. That basic tenet is at the core of the philosophy.

What kind of man do you want to be? Envision that. What does that man do day to day? What does he enjoy doing? How does he dress and groom himself? How does he be that man? Then do that no matter how you feel about it. Or no matter what people you know and love feel about it. And they won't be happy I promise.

Some basics that you can't escape from: what you eat, lift lift lift, find some hobbies that don't involve eating cheetos and sitting on the couch, and don't let people waste your time. That last one is harder than it sounds.

Some good reading: 48 laws of power. Really that book alone will change your life. Anything by Machiavelli. Not tupac, the real Italian guy from back in the day.

There's blogs. We all have a love hate thing going on with those.

One not of advice, don't get so concerned with learning before doing that you wind up reading this subreddit and a million blogs all day. It can be a trap. Learn what you need to do then go do it.

Given time and real focus you will be carved out of wood physically, spiritually (if that's your thing) mentally and emotionally. It will cease to be something you have to do and become a big part of who you are, and you will love yourself for it.

JohnDavidsonR · 2015-06-08T23:34:54+00:00

You act rather than ponder, and discuss. Act. You're 17, so you can chill out on "getting your life right" Exercise, and start learning how people work with the books mentioned all over the sideline. I would say at your age though...Start with Mastery by Robert Greene

trp_hamlet · 2015-06-09T02:25:43+00:00

Resources: sidebar and top posts. That was easy.

Title	How do I swallow TRP?
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Date	June 8, 2015 10:15 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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