How do you deal with the hate?

djonmaya · 2013-06-10T14:05:44+00:00

I dont mention TRP or MGTOW outside of here. Just be red pill. Live that lifestyle and own it. No need to argue with betas and uneducated people about it.

redpillschool · 2013-06-10T14:00:03+00:00

Don't talk about it in public. Just live it. Living the red pill lifestyle gets you a lot of friends and admirers.

That's the thing about the red pill. People only react so angrily when somebody speaks about it plainly- but being a red pill man is basically the best kind of man you can be- and people around you notice and like you for it.

That's why I don't really give a fuck about detractors on reddit trying to discredit me. I don't care, for all you know I'm the guy you're fucking.

[deleted] · 2013-06-10T14:35:23+00:00

i give out small redpill tidbits. just things like "girls like guys who can say no"

small bits that ease people into the view

theubercuber · 2013-06-10T13:58:36+00:00

In conversation this usually comes up in two aspects.

First: MRA. Someone will say "women are victims" or "women are oppressed" in reference to something. I respond with "Who told you that?" I press them for as much information on whatever they were talking about - salaries, DA/DV statistics, marriage stats, whatever. Then when they pull numbers out of their ass, I will tell them "nope. Studies show women are about equal in (insert abuse, college, w/e)." I tell them to look it up if they don't believe me. If they don't believe me at this point they still don't when I email them a large study later. Lost cause.

Second is the sexual aspect. If I'm giving a guy dating advice, before getting into anything serious I have to browbeat him into accepting that whatever he is doing is not working and try to get him to just be open to new ideas in general.

If you're arguing with a woman and she is saying she is against the thought of hypergamy or something, I usually guide the conversation to her own hypocrisy. Personal examples do best. Logic will not work here.

[deleted] · 2013-06-10T15:09:49+00:00

What hate? I've had nothing but love when I talk to my friends about it. The key is I talk to them in this manner (because they're men):

Friend: Dude, bitches be crazy <specific reason>
Me: Haha, check out this guy's post on it <heartiste>

I get a sale every time.

AlwaysLateToThreads · 2013-06-10T14:59:58+00:00

I'd never suggest it to a woman I wasn't related to, even so I probably wouldn't suggest it to women at all.

I'd only suggest it to men who are ready to hear the truth, and even so I wouldn't send them directly to here. I would send them articles and the stuff that is linked here that are helpful.

For example if I have a friend that's too giving, I'll tell him he needs to be more selfish and then link him this article

http://boldanddetermined.com/2011/11/18/the-only-piece-of-advice-you-will-ever-need-to-pick-up-and-attract-women-and-keep-them-vying-for-your-love-attention-and-affection/

You can't just force the whole pill down someone's throat you have start with small doses.

30303030303030 · 2013-06-10T14:01:35+00:00

I don't, let them hate. If someone is willing to listen and argue then I'm all for it, I like having my beliefs questioned but if someone is only spilling hate without listening to any argument whilst having none themselves I simply don't. It's a waste of time and energy. We just part ways and I take a little mental note that this one is a moron.

VZPurp · 2013-06-10T17:12:04+00:00

Don't talk about it, be about it. The results are all that matters and TRP yields results. To get to TRP there has to be a catalyst for the person. Otherwise it's information they'll reject outright and be defensive because it doesn't align with what was first planted in their brain.

Humans have a tendency to go with whatever information they were presented with first, until it clashes with direct experience or observation.

whiskey_bearfist · 2013-06-10T15:34:34+00:00

most of the friends I have/had during my betabitch days are pretty locked into the whole BP thing. they really don't like a lot of the ideas discussed here preferring to subsist in their cocoon of feel good thoughts. I just decided to severely limit my contact with them. their insults are irrelevant to me now.

I am fine with them sitting at home every weekend, playing video games and smoking pot. they are soft and docile and have dominating girlfriends who will cheat on them once they are old enough to go to a bar. (friends are mid late 20s, their gfs are 19-20 and average/fat) they can have that life as far as i am concerned, its not my duty to change their minds, although I would offer support if asked.

Title	How do you deal with the hate?
Author	JenzelWashington
Upvotes	0
Comments	11
Date	June 10, 2013 1:35 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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