How do you define a keeper?

mordanus · 2014-04-01T04:12:07+00:00

Dating down makes sense until you learn how a woman thinks. Look around at how entitled fat chicks are. The reason they are that way is some guy gave them the d and now they think that they deserve it. If you are an 8 and date a 5 she will begin to think she is a 9. You will constantly have to reaffirm with her how you can get more than her.

If you want a LTR then you have to find a woman that knows how a woman is supposed to act. Don't get someone that wants to fight you for control of everything ever 5 minutes or you will be miserable. Find a woman that loves you for being a man and then be the man that she can love.

chimpichanga · 2014-04-01T03:50:41+00:00

No history of lying or cheating.

No history of excessive drama/shit-testing.

Strong moral compass.

You enjoy spending time with her.

Katoska · 2014-04-01T12:24:48+00:00

I'll tell you about my primary chick.

She's smart, can cook and clean and can take care of herself.

Very rare for women, she can actually apply cold hard reason and logic.

I almost think at times she's a man in a woman's body.

She's as loyal as a girl could be, a bit on the antisocial side. Doesn't interact with other guys much.

Not bad on the looks department, 7/10. Great tits, maybe 5 pounds overweight, but again, great tits and a nice ass.

Only downside would be she's got a super conservative family. Me and her mom don't get along too well, but could really not care less.

Tl;dr moderately attractive, avoids feels-based reasoning, self-supportive, quiet, and most importantly, loyal.

Demonspawn · 2014-04-01T04:03:37+00:00

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CappnKrunk · 2014-04-01T03:28:57+00:00

Long time lurker here, first comment.

Personally, I think a keeper is someone who enjoys the time you spend together as much as you do, with interest in the same hobbies. A girl who is happy to get out of bed and scratch your back when she's trying to sleep and you're pulling a late night Battlefield 4 sesh. She likes surprising you with small gifts and tries to steal a kiss at every opportunity. Someone you're willing to fight for and someone who can comfort you as much as you do to them.

asd1100 · 2014-04-01T09:30:47+00:00

I don't look for qualities when dating, I just have behaviors that I find unacceptable. If its not fun or I get the feeling that she is expecting me to entertain her or somehow reward her for being present, I just explain my position and walk of.

Date down only to cure the scarcity mindset when it comes to sex and learn how to not tolerate bad behavior. But when dating down always plate spin, because otherwise you become complacent.

Dominant never, equal but different and at my level is actually preferable, ie my dick is as valuable as her pussy, emotions do not count as arguments but can be taken into account when express in a calm manor and my executive orders are non debatable, as a compromise I do not use my authority often.

[deleted] · 2014-04-01T10:44:59+00:00

I want a women who is kind, loyal, pleasant and enjoys having sex with me. Honestly she'd only need to be a 7 and I'd be fine with that.

I can only find vindictive, manipulating whores who enjoy having sex with me.

[deleted] · 2014-04-01T11:30:10+00:00

Everything else aside she has to be classy, honest, and hard-working.

Varrian · 2014-04-01T07:19:47+00:00

Non-existant.

the_Milkweed · 2014-04-01T07:02:44+00:00

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veyron1001 · 2014-04-03T14:22:19+00:00

It seems like redpill is all about one night stands, and displaying dominance over women.

While that appears to be the front or rumored theme of this subreddit it is surely not. Redpills philosophy is how to adjust you're self to being attractive to the opposite sex. Women love dominance and confidence even if they say they don't like it. Women deemed non wife material (carousel cock riders) shouldn't be treated as such. It artificially increases their value and negatively skews the bell curve.

I understand that its not the whole picture but it seems to be a trend. So for those who are looking for something more, what qualities do you look for in a woman?

A true traditional women is the most desirable. She has value outside of her vagina. Women and men have their roles. It is biologically ingrained in us. Here is a thought, why would a man desire a woman that wants to do a mans role?

I personally believe its better to date down, its a more controlling situation having her fear breakup more than yourself.

Dating down will only artificially increase the value of women.

What are your thoughts on women who want to be dominant or equals in the relationship? (I know the response will be run)

A dominate woman in the relationship will be an abusive one. She has no innate guidance of respect/responsibility and will only use psychological and physical harm as a way of control.

[deleted] · 2014-04-01T04:11:09+00:00

My girls a keeper.

Shame is I wanna screw around, we had our issues in the bedroom and although they are improving it made me think about leaving a lot. I think I will end it sometime in the future as I am genuinely excited about the prospect of being single. Plus she is approaching 30 and wants kids and I feel like I will just ruin that for her if I stay.

I am in the best shape I have been in years and a grade A catch these days. Just I doubt I will find a girl who is as honest, slept with as few people or I get along with as much which sucks.

Title	How do you define a keeper?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	8
Comments	20
Date	April 1, 2014 3:18 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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