So my mom told me the story today about how my parents met. She used to go out clubbing with her friend Maria every Friday night. They would buy a bottle of wine and smoke some marlboro's, then go out dancing.

She told me about how she's made mistakes between short term relationships, one night stands, and her overall having low self-esteem, wanting to find a guy that liked her for who she was.

One night my dad approached Maria to dance and she said no. Then he walked up to my mom. She rejected him because she wouldn't play "2nd fiddle" to anyone else.

But then he came back later. And he offered to buy my mom an Irish Creme. So he bought her a drink. They talked for hours and hours. And then they left the club. And talked in his car for hours and hours. And when it came time to pull, he asked my mom if he could come to her apartment. She said yes, but that she wasn't going to sleep with him that night. So he slept on the couch.

What I learned from this story is Red Pill exemplified. My dad bought one drink which ultimately led to a lifetime of commitment. This is the provider frame. He spent too much time talking and not escalating. This quickly put him into the beta bucks category. She clearly did not see him as Chad, as it became much more than a one night stand. How about 30 years of marriage instead? I would not be surprised to find out that she made him wait for sex for a relatively long time.

Things can be dramatically different depending on how you play it. You can be alpha chad pump and dump or beta billy spanking your willy. Make your intentions clear.

I learned a lot just from one simple story my mom told me.