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How not to be a creep

Johnny_Shades
June 19, 2015
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Title How not to be a creep
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Johnny_Shades
Upvotes 20
Comments 14
Date June 19, 2015 5:58 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3adi6y/how_not_to_be_a_creep/
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[–]libertarianwhat30 points31 points32 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Truth is women will call you a creep for whatever reason they want. In general it becomes a catch-all for anyone they find unattractive (be that physically or emotionally or whatever). You can be alpha Chad all night and she still may call you a creep just as last minute resistance. It's a word they've come to use ubiquitously in order to immediately devalue any man.

[–]JeanValjean197o 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

In my experience women use the word "creep" the way racists use the word "nigger".

It's a word of dehumanization and signals to you and others that you are less than and should be subject to discrimination.

It is a catchall word and therefore lacks enough description for a man to use to to make changes in his behavior. If women just came out and said, "He not handsome, or he's fat, or he smells bad, or he comes off needy or obnoxious then a guy could learn something from that and make improvements. Instead, it's just a painful word women use when they think a man is beneath them (and they think most men are beneath them).

[–]tomysotomayorfuxboys0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Creep doesn't mean anything because women (and some men too) use it to describe all kinds of men. If a guy is ugly, they call him creepy. If he's too nice, they call him creepy. Shy and awkward? Creepy. A confident and aggressive high status man? Creepy, especially if he gets taken down in a sex scandal. Guy they're interested in who isn't interested in them? You guessed it, he's creepy.

it's just a painful word women use when they think a man is beneath them (and they think most men are beneath them).

Then they wonder why men don't want anything to do with them after they're used up, old and ugly. Women expire at 25 and after that, I wouldn't spit on them, because they're not worth wasting my spit on.

[–]JeanValjean197o 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All those things mean the same thing. She's dehumanizing him.

That's what creepy means. It's a way of signalling to him and others that he is less than.

Just as nigger can be used to describe any black person, so too can creepy be used to describe any man.

[–]AllWerewolvesAreLike 37 points37 points37 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Creep = Not attractive

that's what is comes down to

[–]Xyereo12 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Yep, end of story. Maybe 20 year ago creepy had a meaning. Now it's a catch-all for unattractive.

[–]ddmn138 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Exactly. If you approach a girl and she doesnt find you attractive then you are a creep.

[–]TheRepressedTruth8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Girls will call guys creeps even if they don't re-approach and follow. Persisting in defeat with no way out is not good and makes it worse but holding yourself back is not going to eliminate you from ever being labeled a creep.

[–]dickbroom 12 points13 points14 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So, to summarize:

creepy = not knowing when to cut your losses and move on.

[–]Sir_Shitlord_focker16 points17 points18 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Creep = woman talk

Woman talk = noise to convey current emotion

Kinda like barking.

[–]TheQuestion785 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nailed it OP. A real man knows when a fight is unwinnable and simply picks himself up and moves on.

[–]1Claude_Reborn5 points6 points7 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How not to be a creep in two easy lessons.

  1. Be attractive
  2. Don't be un attractive

Simple

[–]tomysotomayorfuxboys1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Women call men "creeps" for no reason. Women are stupid and also manipulative and dishonest.

[–]JeanValjean197o 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm reading this and I'm cringing at myself.

It was a few years ago on New Year's Eve. I rarely go out but I went out on New Years Eve thinking I knew what I was doing.

I met a girl and asked her to introduce me to her friends. Turns out she was on a double date. I ended up sitting at their table for several hours and eventually one of the couples got in a fight.

I should have left after 2 minutes and maybe come back later for a couple minutes to say high. Instead, I planted myself there and ignored all their signals that I was not welcome. Of course, had they come out and said leave I would have felt they were terribly rude! smh

I went home feeling like a dick. Fat. No game. Alone on another New Years Eve.

Never again!

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