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How taking the blue pill can create control issues and neediness that can kill your relationships

jjrobs

November 18, 2013
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Title How taking the blue pill can create control issues and neediness that can kill your relationships
Author

jjrobs

Upvotes 0
Comments 6
Date November 18, 2013 5:42 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1qvmhi/how_taking_the_blue_pill_can_create_control/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/how-taking-the-blue-pill-can-create-control-issues.232426
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[–]trpill5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Fuck all that sex 3.0 mumbo jumbo. I partly feel like this is blog spam to promote your book.

You're hamstring and propsing being happy with cuckolding. There's no way I'm going to sit there and be happy to let my woman fuck another man.

Possessiveness of women is natural in primate societies, it's not some constructed idea.

[–]jjrobs[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You don't understand 3.0 at all. First of all it is not possible to be cuckolded if you are in an unfenced relationship.

Secondly, I never said that possessiveness was not natural.

[–][deleted] 4 points4 points4 points 12 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]jjrobs[S] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You can still be 3.0 and chose fenced relationships. I am not promoting either fenced or unfenced.

Don't want your partner banging someone else? Then chose fenced.

Don't let the choice promote fear in your relationships though. That's what the post is about.

[–]gg_s2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What a crap article. Short-sighted logic and arguing semantics.

"You cannot love them if you cannot be happy that they experience pleasure."

"Being happy that somebody you care about is happy is exactly what love is."

Long-term happiness is achieved by restricting instant gratification. Allowing a child to eat ice cream for dinner gives them pleasure, but breeds poor eating habits and long-term sadness. Telling them NO is an act of love because you restrict "pleasurable" disorder, instilling discipline and solidifying long-term happiness in the future.

[–]jjrobs[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

None of which contradicts what I wrote.

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