TL;DR The key to dealing with rejection is to barely acknowledge it. And never. Ever get butt hurt.
Let's face it we all get rejected. And I see a lot of new guys come on the sub and are horrified of it.
"What if I do what you tell me and she REJECTS ME!"
"You're probably going to die and most definitely will never get laid again..../s"
Get used to it fellas. I've slept with a lot of women in my life and have been rejected by 1000 more. It comes with the territory and you have to not only become okay with it. Learn to have fun with it. I'm going to keep this simple because it should be. But I know myself and many others like examples. So I'm going to give you a few that I use. But I suggest to tweak them or make them your own. Or provide your own for the new guys in the comments on points I missed.
Example 1
At the club. You're dancing; having fun. You see HB9 you immediately approach.
"Hi I'm TrenGod37. Dance with me =)"
"No you're ugly and I'm a feminist and hate all men, fuck off pig!"
shrugs shoulders starts to moonwalk away (or anything dance). And whispers..
"Call me ;)" putting the phone hand signal up to my ear.
Light. Playful. OI.
Example 2
You're out on a date with HB8 and things have been heating up. You're sure she's into you, you stare at her and you go for the kiss. But... she turns her head.
(Before reading further. What would you honestly do in this situation. Probably freak and make the rest of the date awkward).
Instead...
"Did you just reject me? (Playing acting appalled)"
Before she can say anything
"You're going to regret that one 😏"
...back off and immediately change the subject. Act like nothing even happened. Play cool. Lead her somewhere if possible and Keep having fun. try again later. If she reject you after a third time. Stop. She just isn't into you.
Or...
When you kiss her and she turns you can laugh. Say nothing. Or Say "ouch" and smile. And again. Back off and act like nothing happened.
I've done this a hand full of times and all it is, is some LMR to test you. By the end she's fucking, suckin, and kissing you all night.
Example 3
Cold approach a hot girl on your walk to the store. You ask for her phone number. She says she's not interested. (Now learn the difference between a playful no to test your frame. Or a serious. No I'm not into you. There's plenty of post on this.)
"Well it was nice talking to you. Have a nice day. =)"
Now this one is a no brainer for most of you. But you wouldn't believe the amount of guys who ask me how to handle this one. So for you guys. Here you go. That simple.
I can go on for days. If you have any specifics put them in the comments so we can help you with them. And I'll add them in the post. The main key is to act like nothing happened and keep having fun.
If you're on a date back off and slowly escalate again.
Another good tip for those of you afraid of rejection is go to a bar. Maybe have a couple drinks to loosen up. And go try to get rejected 5 times in a row. Make it your goal. Not only will you realize it isn't that bad. But when you try to get rejected. It makes you give a fuck less about it. And it shows. So you end up not getting rejected and having a good conversation and learning experience.
Pimp on gentlemen
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