How to Win the Dating: You are doing it wrong!

hank01dually · 2018-02-11T12:03:28+00:00

Interesting perspective thank you. I will point out that not always do the macros matter. Someone like myself crawling out of a pit of self doubt and only now starting to see the benefits(I have dedicated my career to a large oil and gas service company and have worked my way up both in the status and monetary macros mentioned in your post). I had a hard time dating because of my self confidence with women. I would say I’m probably an outlier though. I found it hard to bring the level of dedication and confidence I posses in the field to bear with dating. I’m only now training my mind to tackle this objective as well.

threshold- · 2018-02-11T13:17:38+00:00

You're thinking of women like they are robots, they are humans like you. Try speaking to them

Women have evolved to respond to behavioral cues of a leader, this signals his social value. Money and status doesn't trigger attraction, it does not make her wet and behave in weird ways. Money and status may give you permission to act in ways that inspire attraction but you can give yourself that permission right now

Dating is a woman's field. It requires an external locus of control - you look outside yourself - every single thing you mention is external.

Simply put, you have no idea what you're talking about

ex_addict_bro · 2018-02-11T12:39:28+00:00

Aspergers called. He wants his post back.

richardbransonbutnot · 2018-02-11T14:21:35+00:00

I think most people are already working towards Status and Money anyway, so they ask micro questions.

You're going to a chef forum telling the chefs "DON'T BURN THE FOOD" and saying they're misled for asking how many dashes of salt to add.

Title	How to Win the Dating: You are doing it wrong!
Author	FitnessMang
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	February 11, 2018 11:01 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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