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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	[RANT WARNING!] The Tinder's Abyss They were already out there, Tinder just gave you direct access to them	/r/TheRedPill	27/02/18 12:30 AM
1	Cognitive Dissonance And Game This is a lot of words to say grow some balls and don't be a pussy. Truth is when it comes to doing whatever the fuck you want, there will be anxiety and it will continue to rise till it puts you back in your place or you don't care anymore	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/18 12:55 AM
12	Building sexual attraction with a woman is like baking a cake What most guys need to know is that there's a honeymoon period, when your girl can do no wrong. Most people have been conditioned to initiate a relationship within this period and it's done through actions specifically. As guys that are aware, we change the word "honeymoon" to "probation", put her on three months probation. Do throw her a bone though, like a nickname or some sweet behavior to show that you won't ghost. Sounds funny but screen her for three months. Funny enough it's not for the g…	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/18 12:49 AM
1	"The Talk" is Socially Retarded, Do Not Tolerate It. It's basically the point where she asks "what are we"	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/18 12:32 AM
2	"The Talk" is Socially Retarded, Do Not Tolerate It. It isn't a problem but since it's a test, you can fail miserably and drop your plate. She's trying to initiate a relationship	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/18 12:31 AM
0	"The Talk" is Socially Retarded, Do Not Tolerate It. "I feel like we like each other, we'll see where it goes and there's no rush" Another great one girls say is "our connection based on sex" -- just say "nope". Make it as if she's the one that feels that way	/r/TheRedPill	23/02/18 12:25 AM
1	Most men are losers. You can easily fuck their women. It's not static, reality is always moving. It's increasing or decreasing. If you stop taking actions, it decreases. As long as it's increasing, your quality of women will increase. Try your hand with hotter women. The ones you keep around show you where your head is at basically, cos smv is really what's between your ears. So it takes as long as the women you feel entitled to basically. If you could delude yourself and change your thoughts and behavior in front of stunning women overnight, it wo…	/r/TheRedPill	22/02/18 01:19 AM
1	SMV, RMV, MMV. As far as I'm concerned it's an arbitrary concept and has no value	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/18 01:29 PM
4	How to Win the Dating: You are doing it wrong! You're thinking of women like they are robots, they are humans like you. Try speaking to them Women have evolved to respond to behavioral cues of a leader, this signals his social value. Money and status doesn't trigger attraction, it does not make her wet and behave in weird ways. Money and status may give you permission to act in ways that inspire attraction but you can give yourself that permission right now Dating is a woman's field. It requires an external locus of control - you look outsid…	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/18 01:17 PM
1	If she wants you, she won’t make it hard. This is true Though there will be a whole spectrum of girls that will be on the fence about you. Not every girl is going to be into you in 5 minutes Though it's great to feel you turn on at least some girls quickly, there's still higher levels	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/18 12:42 PM
16	SMV, RMV, MMV. Careful with this. You don't really understand what you're talking about	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/18 12:32 PM
16	Programming will destroy your social skills This is bullshit. No shit, you have to socialize. It's like a muscle, use it or lose it. As a man you need to handle your own fucking needs cos the world doesn't care Life is simple, we make it complex. Our big brains are complex. To get women handled all you need to do is handle your own life. A big part of life is fear. If you don't conquer your fears in your life, you won't with a women. If you don't move forward in your life, you won't with women. Can't handle the stress and tension in your …	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/18 01:08 AM
14	[FR] Getting rejected multiple times at a nightclub while sober We're not pretending anything. Perception of events is not objective, only framed. When it comes to approaching it only helps to frame them as victories. Since "rejection" itself is not in his control, only his own actions are relevant. Whether the girl pulls his pants down or cringes her face is not where we look at the measurments A rough estimate, about 85% of guys in that very club that night didn't participate at all, didn't speak to one girl they didn't know. What about the guys that staye…	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/18 08:34 PM
14	[FR] Getting rejected multiple times at a nightclub while sober There's no such thing as rejection. Since it's all about your actions and mindsets - it's simply how it's framed. You're framing them as failures when that's not even close to what is going on All problems come from failures to lead; yourself and women. There aren't better or worse men, only better or worse leaders. Every man has it within him to be a leader - an alpha. When I first started going sober I would judge myself, "im not having enough fun, not talking to enough girls, dam she must not…	/r/TheRedPill	30/01/18 02:47 PM
1	Timing is everything, strike while the iron is hot. Good reminder, I must have forgotten this on the weekend. Silver tongue makes me lazy apparently	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/18 01:03 AM
3	What do y'all think about the decision between upholding the dgaf/chill/abundance frame and mindset and all the stories we always hear of women who seem to like perseverance in men? We don't "use it". It's not a technique, it's a mindset. I don't give a fuck Look, two things. There are guys that don't push hard enough, they take no for an answer. They should persist for it's own sake, not for the women. Secondly, a man's attraction is like a light switch. It's turned on quickly. Logically it's turned off the same. "Oh she has a boyfriend", "but she said this one thing", "but I made this mistake", then think it's over and turn off the switch. The mindset should always be "I …	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/18 11:03 PM
3	The world is shrinking for men, build your frame or die The world will shit on you but women will do it more often. It can take many years to fail in life but women will help you with this more often haha. The truth is it is a lot of psychological pressure. "Holding frame" in practice is not easy if you're not "alpha" (in essence, care what other people think more than what you think). So if you don't break mentally and become a beggar, women can help you make this very climb to actually having a strong frame of reality that they will want to bend ov…	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/18 01:05 AM
2	Will I regret not dating women? 35 is prime, you won't me reminiscing shit All your "deep thoughts" while you are high is essentially rumination. It's for relaxation, doesn't increase an individuals self awareness In terms of relationships, if she is the one initiating, screen for qualities. Life is about relationships/friendships. If it's to your standard you can only learn. If you're chasing it though, it's a waste of time and you'll learn nothing but to not waste your time, so there will be nothing to regret. Take massive a…	/r/TheRedPill	21/01/18 10:44 PM
2	The Ansari story - Red Pill Edition Hahaha nice one. I rate there's a good chance he's done this successfully with other women. He did get a blowjob	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/18 10:29 PM
3	The Ansari story - Red Pill Edition Who needs skills when you have power	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/18 05:48 PM
10	Science says: Women most attracted to arrogance, confrontative behavior, and musculature for short term relationships Science has never kissed a girl	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/18 05:38 PM
0	Brother's Text Game In my experience there's no such thing as a conversation over text, it's not real. No real communication occuring. Though people will engage in it prob cos it provides a sense of control. Wanting quality attention over the phone isn't realistic. It's easier to have those needs met in person	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/18 12:51 AM
3	Brother's Text Game I text like this but more warm and friendly. Your bro is a bit of a dick haha. Two girls I'm close with text like this, very brief but in person again, warm, friendly, highly responsive The main key is to not allow your brain to engage in trying to prove your value or look into anything over text. Trying say the right thing, trying to make people laugh, trying to say something clever etc. This is not the time, life's to short to waste thoughts on such. Focus mostly on building your life and buil…	/r/TheRedPill	07/01/18 11:21 PM
1	How come even if you fit into a woman's ideals of beauty and personality, share similar background (same religion,race, etc) and the girl is open for catch, she won't necessarily be interested in you? In particular why would they prefer poor abusive partners who are flatout terrible father material? Hahaha yeah quite illogical	/r/TheRedPill	04/01/18 10:14 AM
1	How come even if you fit into a woman's ideals of beauty and personality, share similar background (same religion,race, etc) and the girl is open for catch, she won't necessarily be interested in you? In particular why would they prefer poor abusive partners who are flatout terrible father material? Yeah sure, you could have a great resume on paper.. logically In reality the difference is how he makes her feel vs how you make her feel. He likely makes her feel great about herself. In a weird way. Humans are a bundle of needs and wants, with traumas and fantasies etc. that need filling	/r/TheRedPill	04/01/18 01:00 AM
2	How to Get Laid - A Demonstration of Screening Nice Yellow light is where "game" is applied. Turning the dial on her arousal Imo yellow light is as common as red. Up to you how long you want to spend time with this girl	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/17 01:28 PM
1	If you are constantly approaching as much women as you can, then you might be doing something wrong You are right but there is a solution. The answer is to actually treat every women with utmost respect and appreciation when you approach. It is to increase the quality of your interactions..but it won't just be with girls, it will be with people. Mass approaching leads to lower consciousness, you don't see what's infront of you. So every moment you're with a girl, you treat her like she is the only girl you are interested in, and she will feel it, she will feel you wanting to know her specifica…	/r/TheRedPill	28/12/17 05:26 AM
2	The case of 'innocent' girls or 'innocent looking girls' Every women wants a man to invest in the long term The error in judgment is making assumptions based on how someone looks, to predict future patterns in behavior Women already have to hide their sexuality. These women aren't like that to attract "men with options". It's likely due to upbringing, personality etc.	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/17 01:04 AM
2	[FR] Day game pickup - Road-map for newbies I wouldn't consider a number a success. There's still work that needs to be done unless she's going to meet up with you already horny	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/17 07:02 PM
6	The case of 'innocent' girls or 'innocent looking girls' I think it is better said that all women love sex, just as much, if not more than men. This truth alone is too hard for many men to swallow. It automatically makes them sluts, which decreases their social value to naught. So they will be innocent for anyone who wants that. It is better to understand this through living it. Don't think "she's a slut", just treat her like a sexual human	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/17 06:58 PM
7	Training for results vs training for skill It requires self awareness, you have to know where you are then put easy steps for where you want to be. Steps so easy that you say "yeah sure I can do that easily" all the time. Steps that are so easy that you are easily motivated to do them over and over again. No will power required. You need to look back at your time being social, see where and why you got anxiety, why you didn't approach, then change the way you think, change the reasons for the approach, getting physical etc. So let's say …	/r/TheRedPill	20/12/17 10:41 AM
15	Cold approach for you PUA Sperg Dorks Cold approach is one of the most valuable skills you could ever learn, it puts you in direct control of your dating life. However like any skill worth learning you have to work for the skills, calibration and empathy required to do see any kind of results Reading through the way some of the guys on this sub think, they dont stand a chance. Women would destroy them. They lack self control, no way they can take control of a women if she gave it to him	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/17 10:23 PM
79	You are going to get old The duration of life is unpredictable. Our hearts can stop while we are still working to secure our final years. It's important to plan but life is right now, there is no future. The family member you are taking care of is living for right now	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/17 12:16 AM
-4	I will never be Chad. And that's ok. Man, sounds like a losers mentality. It just sounds like you don't believe you have what it takes. You haven't even started and you admit defeat.. does not cut it In life only you know your truth. If you say you can't, you won't If I were you I'd just give it a real shot, over and over again. Your brain aint on your side, call on your spirit. Humans have overcome worse odds than you have right now	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/17 11:56 PM
98	It's your eyes. Quality writing man, thanks for sharing I completely agree. I've been writing about the eye contact since I was 17, I'm 22 now. There's a test you can take, you can read peoples emotional state through their eyes alone. socialintelligence.labinthewild.org/. Female brain is wired for greater empathy, they can see how you feel about them, about yourself, about what you're doing. Pickup is a joke, community is still on simply holding eye contact - for the autistics, than communicating through your …	/r/TheRedPill	17/12/17 10:06 PM
1	Frame Control 101: How I showed extreme weakness and still got loyalty from my LTR Oh I see, yeah you're right	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/17 03:25 PM
2	Frame Control 101: How I showed extreme weakness and still got loyalty from my LTR You are mistaken, you didn't show extreme weakness. Extreme weakness is being corralled by fear, depression and so on. Show any of these and your girl is gone	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/17 04:04 PM
2	While you are talking to her, she is observing you You cannot fake frame and you cannot fake your confidence till you "make it". Women are wired for dominance signals and incongruence to this only. You can lie to women about many things but not about your own perceived status, ie. your level of dominance. The whole goal here is actually to make yourself comfortable in tense social situations, your body language is most important when you are not comfortable because the girl will always look to you for how she should feel about whatever is going …	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/17 03:36 PM