Brother's Text Game

life_is_dumb · 2018-01-07T16:08:33+00:00

This is effective and he can get results from it because of who he is and what his SMV is. That's it. Ironically, that's what he's trying to hammer into your head yet you're here trying to dissect his texts. Talk about missing the point.

Here's the clue one more time: it's not the fucking texts that makes him successful.

waywardwinds · 2018-01-07T14:34:43+00:00

I see:

amused mastery (cocky air of lightness, superiority and composure which is essential for rock-solid frame)
zero need for external validation (and thus no compulsion to please or win approval or fear of “saying the wrong thing”)
very high self-esteem and respect stemming from a high estimation of in/extrinsic value
appreciation of the value of time
focus on mission and getting results

Take notes. Apply this to your life. Think and talk less. Do more. Lift. Work. Be a cocky bastard and game. And fuck what others think.

Luis_McLovin · 2018-01-07T15:39:04+00:00

He's successful not because of his text game but because he creates value. He's an athlete and works in high-end hospitality.

What value do you have?

binarynightmare · 2018-01-07T15:48:05+00:00

I appreciate the time you put into sharing this, but I am underwhelmed by it. Your brother has high social status in multiple arenas, has several channels to consistently meet attractive women, and is probably in good shape. Trust me when I say that a much lesser man could text in an identical fashion and it would get him nowhere.

nebder · 2018-01-07T15:42:03+00:00

Good analysis OP. I’m old school and would rather have a quick chat on the phone to build comfort compared to texting. Sometimes you gotta text a little bit. Your goal should be to continually drive to your objective if you do need to text. Close on the date as quickly as possible then GTFO.

Emoji: I use thumbs up/down as a single emoji response. I very rarely end with the smirk face to soften a particularly asshole thing I text.

Questions: Do you like dogs? -> I bet you’re a dog person.

This is cold reading 101. If you’re right, you’re perceptive. If you’re wrong, they’ll correct you by answering the question you reframed.

Asking out: Do you want to hang out? When are you free? -> Let’s go bowling Tuesday at 7 at <place>

She’ll agree, reschedule or avoid committing. Regardless of outcome, you have the information you need to determine next steps.

Exit first: achieve your objective and get out. “Gotta take care of <whatever>, see you next week” or whatever. Always control the exit, don’t continue to ramble on about stupid shit. You can only fuck it up at that point.

almostshredded · 2018-01-07T16:08:17+00:00

If you're not getting laid it's not cause you're using too many emojis lol...

KnowBrainer · 2018-01-07T15:15:00+00:00

Question marks are actually part of the language. Emojis are for japanese girls. If you're not a japanese girl, don't use emoji. I don't know how people get so confused so fast.

White_phone_voice · 2018-01-07T15:20:29+00:00

Have you seen his other texts conversations? Like a decent sample size to help you derive at these conclusions? I mean, I would not expect an athlete to be as verbose as a journalist.

I often wonder what kind of conversations athletes and their models or hoes or whatever have. On the reality shows, it basically seems like the women beg to be wives and the men ignore them lol. That's about it. They probably don't have to talk as their arrangement is already know.

Anyway, emojis are the worst.

2comment · 2018-01-07T18:18:27+00:00

Any thoughts on this? Starting today I plan to cut out emojis and question marks from my conversations

Not using emojis and question marks is simply the byproduct of the process, not the process itself. You need to understand the attitude and reasoning behind it. Otherwise it's like trying to become a chef only following step-by-step recipe instructions and not grokking the underlying thoughts behind each action.

If I'm conversing with a little kid or old people or someone I have absolutely no interest in for whatever day to day reasons, emojis or their irl equivalents are safe way to communicate and create quick sympatico and I have no trouble using them. Otoh, with my work colleagues, bros or with women, it would be the wrong attitude to project.

Anyway, your brother's much more important advice was time and focus management. That's the foundation.

Nawnomus · 2018-01-07T20:13:04+00:00

I dont think he texts his brother the same way he texts women.

martianartisan · 2018-01-08T03:21:59+00:00

You can use emojis, but it has to be less than her. I game girls on the 18-24 range and emojis can be effective to communicate banter since you don’t have your voice and facial expressions to imply it’s banter. I’ve had some situations where things went south because my banter text wasn’t interpreted as such.

Honestly, I think the whole question mark situation is overthinking. At the end of the day what really matters is what you’re saying.

threshold- · 2018-01-07T23:21:21+00:00

I text like this but more warm and friendly. Your bro is a bit of a dick haha. Two girls I'm close with text like this, very brief but in person again, warm, friendly, highly responsive

The main key is to not allow your brain to engage in trying to prove your value or look into anything over text. Trying say the right thing, trying to make people laugh, trying to say something clever etc. This is not the time, life's to short to waste thoughts on such. Focus mostly on building your life and building the relationships you have already, face to face

Second thing is to not text much at all. Stay a mystery. Show a glimpse of your personality. People need to earn this level of investment from you, cant be texting everyone with your whole heart. Draw the fuck out of it but try to establish a pattern from the start.

Invest in the quality of face to face interactions. She already has friends - guys and girls that are blowing up her phone, trust me she doesn't need this from you. Face to face, this is the only thing that will make someone want to see you again. Think of number for mainly logistics and sharing inside jokes. Though you can get people to qualify themselves and get sexual over text. You should never engage in it yourself. It is incredibly more potent in person. You need to learn how to deliver your qualifying and sex talk more than you do through texting

The only thing texting allows you to do is think. Then the most practical thing to do would be to text like a winner so that you are thinking like one, this is unlikely. Most will be trying to get the girl through her phone

hafskaa · 2018-01-07T19:17:18+00:00

As was already said in the comments, it’s not your brother’s text game, it is how he carries himself all the time. When your successful and have high self-confidence that is how you carry yourself in all areas of life including texting. When he says focus on business, he’s right. Do something that you are interested in, lift, become confident (which it doesn’t seem that you are) and smv will increase and you will attract more women.

Trpogre · 2018-01-08T08:45:02+00:00

Once I cut out ALL emoji's... my results shot up

BloodRedPillz · 2018-01-08T13:07:43+00:00

The fuck? You're focusing on the wrong thing.

He gets model tier girls cos he's got high SMV. All those things he does adds value, making him much more attractive.

It's not the emojis or the other stuff and he's essentially telling you how to do it. Focus on growing your business and creating value, the girlies will come as a bonus.

Kommanderdude · 2018-01-08T14:35:04+00:00

I see op got all the autistic genes in his family.

gELSK · 2018-01-08T20:07:30+00:00

// , Don't just pay attention to the content of his responses, note the timestamps, too

Search this forum for "Tinder" and find the highest rated results

Then you can see why his low-investment text game works for him

hodlsallthecrypt0 · 2018-01-08T14:27:15+00:00

I had a really charismatic friend who texted like this. Fat black dude, but people seemed to love him and sometimes I'd just try to watch and learn. Most of the time he was simply aloof, went about his work, and was really good at small talk and making jokes. Really calm and had a confident but not cocky walk. Very intelligent too.

But if you text him don't expect a response until maybe 6 hours later, and it's always lowercase, to the point, and no punctuation. He never cared to have texting conversations at all. It's just that IDGAF attitude with these people that carries over into all aspects of their life.

KerbalsFTW · 2018-01-07T16:56:32+00:00

Whenever I ask him for advice relating to girls and such he simply tells me to focus on my business as everything else will come

This is the "just be yourself" lie, combined with "when you're financially successful women will genuinely like you for yourself".

He doesn't use question marks. I've read about this before but never really seen it in application. He makes statements never using a question mark at all.

This is solid. Don't use question marks. Eg: "Tell me your age".

Any thoughts on this? Starting today I plan to cut out emojis and question marks from my conversations

I hope you noticed you failed at this in the very statement you said you'd try. (You'll observe I didn't phrase this as the obvious rhetorical question).

The problem is you said you'd try. This is allowing failure. Don't fucking do that. Don't plan to do anything, just fucking do it.

Say "No more fucking emojis from me". Then shorten it. "No emojis. Give me your thoughts". Same for question marks. Weak people ask questions, strong people demand answers.

AshyLarry27 · 2018-01-07T17:08:40+00:00

I always assumed emojis for a guy was a no-no, but that removal of the question mark angle is something I have to start doing.

oldslut · 2018-01-07T22:20:14+00:00

text for logistics and keep it short- busy people don't have time for text novels and emojis

Alpha_Jedi · 2018-01-08T07:38:32+00:00

I wrote a short post on that topic: https://alphajedi.com/2017/09/01/two-quick-text-game-tips/

TL;DR - Use texting for setting up logistics and make decisivestatements

casemodsalt · 2018-01-07T18:39:33+00:00

He seems like a boring text massager and probably too dumb to know where the emojis are in the first place

everyone else I showed my jacket to started a conversation with me. But he just said "haha cool" and ended it there.

Dismissive and disinterested as fuck. Sounds like a female that doesn't care at all but wants to keep you strung along for future use imo.

Nocryingok · 2018-01-08T12:00:17+00:00

It's a choice to become the Alpha Bro that calls younger brother a pussy. For sure it helps with the chicks, but I just hope that you guys are aware that everything comes with a price. Overdo it, and you'll lose your friends.

p3n1x · 2018-01-08T16:45:10+00:00

The dude does not use Emojis. None.

This is your first bullet point.

There is a point of being "stoic" and then simply having a stick up ones hyper tension ass. You can only be "so bad-ass and serious" for so long, then your heart fails. Forrest for the trees and all that shit.

Emoji's do not keep one from having sex with girls.

halfback910 · 2018-01-08T01:27:09+00:00

I don't think texting is why he does well. Sounds like he's sexy and good at what he does. That alone is generally enough.

That said, I get not using emojis. I don't use them. Nobody seems to care one way or the other.

What the fuck is wrong with question marks?

Title	Brother's Text Game
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Date	January 7, 2018 1:52 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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